pre-emptively
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A1 初級
adv.副詞先發地
The government acted pre-emptively to prevent the spread of the disease.
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吻的重要性 (The Importance of Kissing)
04:46
- because they cautiously and pre-emptively assume that the other person no longer wants them.
因為他們小心翼翼又先發制人地假設對方不再需要自己。
與前男友複合之前--看這個 (Before You Get Back With Your Ex — Watch THIS)
13:48
- But for those who are thinking of getting back together, there is no alternative but to focus with immense intent on one aspect only of the relationship, what was properly awful about it. And there would have been a lot that was, given that people don't ever sever a tight bond lightly. The priority is to identify and then submit to rigorous analysis all that was most nightmarish, all that it remains extremely painful and eerie to summon. A couple's right to resume is to be measured against their courage in exploring why they failed. Then, what can't I change? But also, what coping mechanisms might we arrive at to deal with these unchangeable aspects? We need to acknowledge that almost certainly we won't be able to alter all of our personalities and this is the moment to get clear with our ex about what is and isn't possible. Broken promises always exact a worse toll than pre-emptively lowered expectations. What do we feel that we aren't, despite a lot of goodwill, going to be able to overcome? And how, if at all, can these stubborn bits of our personalities be handled? Then, how much can we each bear of what won't change?
但是，對於那些打算複合的人來說，別無他法，只能一門心思地專注於這段關係的一個方面，那就是這段關係中最糟糕的地方。鑑於人們不會輕易割斷緊密的紐帶，是以會有很多糟糕的地方。當務之急是找出最可怕的東西，然後進行嚴格的分析，所有這些都讓人感到極其痛苦和陰森恐怖。衡量一對夫婦重新開始的權利，要看他們是否有勇氣探索失敗的原因。那麼，我有什麼不能改變的呢？同時，我們又該採取怎樣的應對機制來處理這些無法改變的方面呢？我們需要承認，幾乎可以肯定的是，我們無法改變自己的所有性格，這時候就需要與前男友說清楚什麼是可能的，什麼是
