每日口說挑戰六個跡象教你認清虛假的朋友 (6 Signs Someone Is A Fake Friend)

Jenny's transcript!
Intro:
Hello VoiceTubers! How are you all doing? I have a question for you.
How would you define a good friend? Perhaps someone who is always there for you, no matter what? Someone who will encourage and support you when you are down? And how many friends like that would you say you have? According to studies, most people have four best friends on average. That is usually typical for young people, just out of college. And after that, out of every twelve friends they make, only one lasts. Another research found that not having friends at all is actually dangerous to your health. It is scientifically proven that the company of good friends reduces stress in life. So that’s why it’s important to know who your good friends are. And equally important to identify friends who are fake and unsupportive. Having an insincere friend like that might increase your stress level, and make you feel unworthy. Fake friends might use you for their personal needs, and once they're done they’ll just leave or ignore you. That’s why it’s important to know how to tell the difference between real and fake friends.
You can learn more about how to identify fake friends, and what to do about it, in this week’s video.
Let me take you through our sentence of the day:

Sentence:

Fake friends are destructive. They are also sometimes hard to recognize. You can have a friend for years before realizing they are not sincere.
但虛假的朋友是有破壞性的，它們有時也很難認清。你可能在多年之後才發現你的朋友一點都不真誠。
 
Pronunciation Tips:
hard to (linking)
recognize
realizing
they are (linking)
sincere
 
 
Vocabulary:
1. destructive (Adj.) 破壞、毀滅性的
KK[dɪˋstrʌktɪv] IPA /dɪˈstrʌk.tɪv/
causing, or able to cause, damage
 
Example:
Her new puppy is so destructive, he chewed up her favorite Chanel bag!
她的小狗破壞性很強，牠把她心愛的香奈兒包咬壞了。
 
2. recognize (v.) 認出、辨認
KK[ˋrɛkəg͵naɪz] IPA /ˈrek.əɡ.naɪz/
to know someone or something because you have seen or heard him or her or experienced it before
 
Example:
Anna and Lisa are identical twins and their teacher has trouble recognizing who is who.
安娜與麗莎是長得一模一樣的雙胞胎，她們的老師認不出誰是誰。
 
3. sincere (Adj.) 衷心、真誠的
KK[sɪnˋsɪr] IPA /sɪnˈsɪr/
(of a person, feelings, or behavior) not pretending or lying; honest
 
Example:
Please accept my sincere apology. I promise it won’t happen again.
請原諒我衷心的道歉，我發誓不會再發生了。
 
Outro:
So identifying and keeping a distance from fake friends is an important skill. Almost everyone has had a bad experience with a friend they initially thought was good. I have once unfriended someone who betrayed our friendship based on his own selfishness. It made me upset for a long time but I think sometimes you just need to draw the line. Life is too short to waste on people that don’t deserve your love. That being said, I feel super lucky because I do have many wonderful friends in my life. Good friends are so important. If you have any stories you would like to share with us, feel free to do so in the comment section. 
I hope to see you again next week. Until then, goodbye!

#Deepfake 的影像與聲音都可以假亂真了，我們還能相信誰！？
#我承認我也被很多人unfriend 過。I might have been unfriended by others when I was young.

Fake(/feɪk/虛情假意的) friends are destructive(/dɪˈstrʌk.tɪv/有害的). They are also sometimes hard(困難的) to recognize(/ˈrek.əɡ.naɪz/認清v.). You can have a friend for years before realizing(意識到) they are not sincere(/sɪnˈsɪr/真誠的).
虛假的朋友是有害的，而且他們有時很難被認清楚。你可能在多年之後才發現他們的不真誠。

Hello VoiceTubers! How are you all doing? I have a question for you. How would you define(定義v.) a good friend? Perhaps someone who is always there for you, no matter what? Someone who will encourage and support you when you are down(情緒低落的)? And how many friends like that would you say you have? According to studies, most people have four best friends *on average(平均). That is usually typical for young people, just out of college(剛離開學校). And after that, out of every twelve friends they make, only one lasts(每交12個朋友,只有一個能繼續維持). Another research found that not having friends at all is actually dangerous to your health. It is scientifically proven(被證實) that the company(陪伴n.) of good friends reduces stress in life. So that’s why it’s important to know who your good friends are. And equally(均等地) important to identify(/aɪˈden.t̬ə.faɪ/識別v.) friends who are fake and unsupportive. Having an insincere(/ˌɪn.sɪnˈsɪr/不誠懇的) friend like that might increase your stress level, and make you feel unworthy(不值得的). Fake friends might use(利用v.) you for their personal needs, and once they're done they’ll just leave or ignore(忽略v.) you. That’s why it’s important to know how to tell(辨別v.) the difference between real and fake friends. You can learn more about how to identify fake friends, and what to do about it, in this week’s video. Let me take you through our sentence of the day.

1. destructive /dɪˈstrʌk.tɪv/ (Adj.) 破壞、毀滅性的 ; 有害的 causing, or able to cause, damage:
Her new puppy is so destructive, he chewed up her favorite Chanel bag! 她的小狗破壞性很強，牠把她心愛的香奈兒包咬壞了。

◆ chew sth up : (phr.)（機器）絞壞，咬壞，損壞
The cash machine chewed up my card! 取款機咬壞了我的卡！
 
2. recognize /ˈrek.əɡ.naɪz/ (v.) 認出、辨認 to know someone or something because you have seen or heard him or her or experienced it before:
Anna and Lisa are identical(同卵的) twins and their teacher has trouble recognizing who is who. 安娜與麗莎是長得一模一樣的雙胞胎，她們的老師認不出誰是誰。
 
3. sincere /sɪnˈsɪr/ (Adj.) 衷心的；真誠的；誠實的 (of a person, feelings, or behavior) not pretending or lying; being honest:
Please accept my sincere apology(道歉n.). I promise it won’t happen again. 請原諒我衷心的道歉，我發誓不會再發生了。
 
So identifying and keeping a distance from fake friends is an important skill. Almost everyone has had a bad experience with a friend they initially(起初adv.) thought was good. I have once unfriended(解除朋友關係v.) someone who betrayed(背叛v.) our friendship based on his own selfishness(自私n.). It made me upset for a long time but I think sometimes you just need to *draw the line(劃清界線). Life is too short to waste on people that don’t deserve(值得v.) your love. That being said(即使如此), I feel super lucky because I do have many wonderful friends in my life. Good friends are so important. If you have any stories you would like to share with us, feel free to do so in the comment section. 

◆ That being said, … ＝ 儘管如此；即使如此，即便這樣
= However，Nevertheless，But (轉折連接詞)
The Internet has made our lives more convenient. That being said, it has also caused many problems in modern days. 網路讓我們的生活方便許多。儘管如此，它也帶來了許多的問題。

☺Fake friends are destructive. They are also sometimes hard to recognize. You can have a friend for years before realizing they are not sincere.
虛假的朋友是有破壞性的，有時候你很難認清誰才是假朋友。你有可能在跟這個假朋友來往多年之後，才會發現他一點都不真誠。
【心得】邊緣人朋友不多:p(今天終於排到打疫苗了，希望順順利利^^)
■destructive [dɪˋstrʌktɪv] (adj.) 破壞、毀滅性的[(+of/to)]；消極的、無幫助的
■recognize [ˋrɛkəg͵naɪz] (vt.)={英式拼法} recognise 認出、識別[(+as)]；認可、認定[(+as)]；承認(事實)、認清[(+as)][+(that)]；嘉獎、表揚；(會議主席)准許…發言；理睬
(vi&vt.){法律}(使)具結
■sincere [sɪnˋsɪr] (adj.) 衷心的、真誠的；誠實的、誠懇的、正直的

#No friends, then no fake friends. (誤）
#重點字的母音發聲時間也較長一些些，e.g. fake /feɪk/ （不一定是長母音）
Fake friends are destructive. They are also sometimes hard to recognize. You can have a friend for years before realizing they are not sincere.

Day100
破100大關~

虛假的朋友欺騙你的感情
虛假的廣告破壞你的儲蓄
有時候也很納悶…
到底為什麼在蝦皮買了又買(￣Д￣)ﾉ

I'm here. Day4^^

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