每日口說挑戰做自己吧！如何不去在意他人眼光？ (How To Stop Caring What People Think Of You (Animated Story))

欸........問題是看起來真實的人很多都虛偽押 哈哈


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It's why we're all so attracted to people who come across as authentic or real, and we're so turned off by fake people.

這就是為什麼我們都被那些給人感覺可靠、真實的人所吸引，而不喜歡虛偽的人。

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1. _
* authentic [ɔˋθɛntɪk] (adj.) 真實的；可靠的；可信的
- She is an authentic person.
+ 她是一個真實的人。

2. _
* fake [fek] (adj.) (情感) 虛偽的；偽造的
- She puts a fake smile on when she's talking to people she doesn't like.
+ 當她和她不喜歡的人說話時，她露出假笑。
- Fake it unit you make it.
- During my college Years I felt like a fake I didn't think I deserve to be where I was until my professors helped me fit in and my confidence was boosted.
+ 在我大學期間，我感覺自己像個假的，我不認為我應該在我所在的地方，直到我的教授幫助我適應並且我的信心得到提升。
- imposter syndrome => 深有同感

3. _
* turn off [] (phr.) 使掃興、倒胃口
- I get so turned off by guys with long fingernails why don't they cut them.
+ 我被那些長指甲的傢伙拒之門外，他們為什麼不切斷它們。

4. _
* come across [] (phr.) 表現；給人 … 印象
- He comes across as a pretty nice person but in reality, he's irritable and arrogant.
+ 他是一個非常善良的人，但實際上他是一個煩躁和傲慢的人。

☺It's why we're all so attracted to people who come across as authentic or real, and we're so turned off by fake people.
這就是為什麼我們都被那些給人感覺很真、很實在的人所吸引，而不喜歡虛偽的人。
【心得】那又是為什麼有那麼多人被妙禪Seafood 所吸引呢?!
■authentic [ɔˋθɛntɪk] 真實的；可靠的；可信的；真正的、非假冒的
■fake[fek] 假裝、冒充；捏造、偽造
假裝的、冒充的；虛假的
冒牌貨、仿造品；冒充者、騙子
■turn (sb) off 使…失去興趣、倒胃口
■come across 表現得、讓人覺得…；給人 … 印象；(偶然)遇見；(想法、感受等)得以傳達

Haha~ Celeste 應該是施耐德高手歐。真有妳的！

今天挑選的特色句子我覺得與 Celeste 的 motto 有點相違背：
=> Fake it unit you make it.
都有個 "Fake" 在阿～
所以為了變成自己想要成為什麼樣子，而去假裝又是不是虛偽的人呢？大家怎麼看？
Celeste 提到以前曾經想要變成外向開朗的人，但最後沒有 "make it" 所以又變成最真的自己，是不是沒有堅持自己的 motto 呢？

我的看法是：這世界上沒有不變的真實虛偽。
時時刻刻傾聽自己的聲音，為了變成理想中的自己，而去 Fake it unit you make it.
當累了的時候，找回真實的自己。在虛偽與真實中找到平衡，找到自己最舒服快樂的狀態。

我是個非常在意別人看法的人，如果我留這麼多還沒人要按讚，我下次就不留了，哼！










才怪，我正在遵循 Fake it unit you make it. 呢！因為我想要變成樂於分享，樂觀外向的人啊 XDD。
Celeste 最後一句話我非常認同。「Being yourself and being rude is huge different. 」

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It's why we're all so attracted to people who come across as authentic or real, and we're so turned off by fake people.

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She is truly an authentic / a genuine (很真誠的）person and a great listener. I’m glad we became friends.

She puts a fake smile (假裝微笑）one when she’s talking to people to doesn’t like.

Fake it until you make it.

During my colleague year, I felt like a fake(覺得自己是冒牌貨）. I didn’t think I deserve to be where I was until my professors helped me fit in (幫我融入）and my confidence was boosted.

*Impostor syndrome (冒名頂替症狀）is psychological phenomenon in which people are unable to internalize their accomplishments and have a fear of being exposed as a "fraud"(騙子；詐欺).

I get so turned off (失去興趣)by guys with long fingernails. Why don’t they cut them.

He comes across(顯得) as a pretty nice guy but in reality, he’s irritable and arrogant(事實上他易怒又高傲).

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It's why we're all so attracted to people who come across as authentic or real, and we're so turned off by fake people.

這就是為什麼我們都被那些給人感覺可靠、真實的人所吸引，而不喜歡虛偽的人。

今天 Celeste 提到的冒名頂替症候群（英語：Impostor syndrome），讓我想到一拳超人裡的King…

我覺得或多或少都會在意別人的想法吧！如果只顧著迎合別人，的確感覺會失去自我，不過這也有可能是催促自己進步的動力，端看自己怎麼想了…

小提醒：fake 的發音為 "廢k"

It's why we're all so attracted to people who come across as authentic or real, and we're so turned off by fake people.

建議雜談可以擺後面唷~~~

決定了，那今天就帶狗去上班吧 ◖⚆ᴥ⚆◗

Day 245

從前被推舉當班長，如果當時有勇氣拒絕的話，表明自己真的不想當，也許會更快樂自在一點。但幾年後還是學不乖...

It's why we're all/ so attracted to people who/ come◡ across◡ as authentic or real, and we're so turned off(上揚)/ by fake(強) people.

這就是為什麼我們都被那些感覺很真、很真實的人所吸引，而不喜歡虛偽的人。

Authentic= real= actual
She is an authentic person.
=genuine 真誠的

Get/be turned off by sb 對誰失去興趣、不喜歡

Come across 表現；給人...印象
Who come across as real.
He comes across as a nice person.