And if you're unsure whether something only concerns you, it's probably because you're committing the fourth mistake — not soliciting feedback. You don't want to go on for minutes on end lecturing. There should be opportunities for people to ask questions if they're truly engaged.
謝謝Kristi&大家~~ #慢速~中速~快速 ~~~~~~~~~~~~ And if you're unsure whether something only concerns you, it's probably because you're committing the fourth mistake — not soliciting feedback. You don't want to go on for minutes on end lecturing. There should be opportunities for people to ask questions if they're truly engaged.
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unickname8 年前
■concern[kənˋsɝn] 使擔憂;涉及;關心; 對(某人)很重要、關係到(某人) 關心/掛念的事;關切;公司 ■commit [kəˋmɪt] (v.) 犯(罪、錯等); 把…交託給;表態; 把…押交/送入(監獄 、醫院等);承諾;投入(時間或金錢) ■solicit[səˋlɪsɪt] 索求; 請求; 徵求; (通常指在公共場合)拉客賣淫 ■engage[ɪnˋgedʒ] 吸引住; 聘用;使訂婚; 從事，參加; [軍事]交戰，交手; 使(機器)接合 ☺And if you're unsure whether something only concerns you, it's probably because you're committing the fourth mistake — not soliciting feedback. You don't want to go on for minutes on end lecturing. There should be opportunities for people to ask questions if they're truly engaged. 而如果你不確定什麼事是只有你才會在乎(，別人不太會有興趣)，那麼應該是因為你正犯下了第四個錯誤：不求取回應。你不會想要連續幾分鐘下來，一直不停地說教。如果對方真的感興趣，他們應該要有機會可以發問。 【心得】中了好多個，我沒力Orz。我還蠻怕聊天會聊得沒完沒了，聊太久我會很想要靈魂出竅~
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Huahua8 年前
模考 Part1 倒數55天
And if you're unsure whether something only concerns you, it's probably because you're committing the fourth mistake — not soliciting feedback. You don't want to go on for minutes on end lecturing. There should be opportunities for people to ask questions if they're truly engaged. ────────────────────────── ■solicit (v.) 懇求、請求 We solicit your specific inquiry (=enquiry). May I solicit your advice?
■solicitation (n.) 懇請
------------------------------------------- ■charisma (n.) 超凡的個人魅力；吸引力；超凡氣質 So in this video, we're going to cover nine of the most common mistakes you may be making that can kill your charisma and some quick fixes. ■charismatic (adj.) 充滿個人魅力的 It's the people who have convictions and live by them that generate the most respect and are the most charismatic.
■proactive (adj.) 先發制人的；積極的 First — not proactively introducing yourself.
■keep a low profile (保持低調) Many people feel uncomfortable when they enter into a new group so in order to keep a low profile; they often offer a small hand wave or just stand there quietly.
●tune … out (不理睬，對…置之不理) ❤mid-story是什麼意思？ (影片1:32開始聽) You might want to try pausing mid-story to ask the other person a question just to see if they ask you how that story ended or to find out that they were tuning you out the whole time.
●trail off = trail away (說話聲或類似聲響) 逐漸減弱到停止、逐漸消失 Fifth is trailing off or mumbling.
■whine (v.) 發牢騷 ■flat-out (adv.) 以最高速；坦白地；直率地 Seventh — whining. Complaining is just flat-out a bad habit. And when you whine to people around you without seeking their advice or looking to improve the situation, you just drive them away from you.
❤not a name person的name是什麼意思？(影片2:45開始聽) Everyone has a hard time with names so saying that you're not good with names or not a name person is no excuse to not make an effort.
●shove … down one’s throat (強迫某人接受…) It doesn't mean that you have to shove your beliefs down other people's throats but don't be afraid to get clear on your principles and stand up for them even when it's not the popular thing to do.
■be over the moon (非常高興，非常快活) I know that if he does hit that 5,000 number, he will be over the moon. ────────────────────────── 【9 Mistakes That Kill Your Charisma】
1. Not proactively introducing yourself. 不主動介紹自己 2. Not introducing your friends when you're in a new group isn't cool. 在新團體中不介紹你的朋友，這很不OK 3. Talking about things that no one cares about 滔滔不絕地講著沒人在意的事 4. Not soliciting feedback. 不讓對方有回應的機會 5. Trailing off or mumbling. 越講越小聲或低咕 6. Answering questions with single words. 用一個字回答問題(我怎麼馬上想到一字經XD) 7. Whining. 發牢騷 8. Not remembering names. 第八：不記對方名字 9. Lacking principles. 沒有原則 ────────────────────────── 覺得第四點要看遇到誰欸…好像是頻率的問題？ 像我就很喜歡聽別人說話XDD
兩個愛心的地方有帥哥美女可以為我解惑一下嗎 感恩大德> <
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ShakesBeer8 年前
And if you're unsure whether something only concerns you, it's probably because you're committing the fourth mistake — not soliciting feedback. You don't want to go on for minutes on end lecturing. There should be opportunities for people to ask questions if they're truly engaged.
And if you're unsure whether something only concerns you, it's probably because you're committing the fourth mistake — not soliciting feedback. You don't want to go on for minutes on end lecturing. There should be opportunities for people to ask questions if they're truly engaged.
作筆記~(有錯跟我說哦~) 1. unsure [ʌnˋʃʊr] (adj.) 缺乏信心的 unsure of something 對某件事感到沒有信心或不確定 She's quite unsure if she couldn't make it on time. 她並不是很確定，她到底能不能準時到達
sure [ʃʊr] (adj.) 一定的 sure of something 對於某件事情感到確定 Would you like to go for a walk later? Sure, why not? 你等一下要去散步嗎? 當然，沒有問題
2. concern [kənˋsɝn] (v.) 關於、關心 She's quite concern about the condition of a cat. 她非常關心那隻貓的狀況
What's happening? Nothing that concerns you. 發生甚麼事啊? 不關你的事啦
好聽的講法 not your business
concerning [kənˋsɝnɪŋ] (n.) 關於 This is a law you to concerning sexual harassment.(很不確定) 這著法律案件，攸關於性騷擾
卡卡8 年前
謝謝Kristi&大家~~
#慢速~中速~快速
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And if you're unsure whether something only concerns you, it's probably because you're committing the fourth mistake — not soliciting feedback. You don't want to go on for minutes on end lecturing. There should be opportunities for people to ask questions if they're truly engaged.
unickname8 年前
■concern[kənˋsɝn]使擔憂;涉及;關心; 對(某人)很重要、關係到(某人)
關心/掛念的事;關切;公司 索求; 請求; 徵求; (通常指在公共場合)拉客賣淫吸引住; 聘用;使訂婚;
從事，參加; [軍事]交戰，交手; 使(機器)接合
■commit [kəˋmɪt] (v.) 犯(罪、錯等); 把…交託給;表態;
把…押交/送入(監獄 、醫院等);承諾;投入(時間或金錢)
■solicit[səˋlɪsɪt]
■engage[ɪnˋgedʒ]
☺And if you're unsure whether something only concerns you, it's probably because you're committing the fourth mistake — not soliciting feedback. You don't want to go on for minutes on end lecturing. There should be opportunities for people to ask questions if they're truly engaged.
而如果你不確定什麼事是只有你才會在乎(，別人不太會有興趣)，那麼應該是因為你正犯下了第四個錯誤：不求取回應。你不會想要連續幾分鐘下來，一直不停地說教。如果對方真的感興趣，他們應該要有機會可以發問。
【心得】中了好多個，我沒力Orz。我還蠻怕聊天會聊得沒完沒了，聊太久我會很想要靈魂出竅~
Huahua8 年前
模考 Part1 倒數55天
And if you're unsure whether something only concerns you, it's probably because you're committing the fourth mistake — not soliciting feedback. You don't want to go on for minutes on end lecturing. There should be opportunities for people to ask questions if they're truly engaged.
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■solicit (v.) 懇求、請求
We solicit your specific inquiry (=enquiry).
May I solicit your advice?
■solicitation (n.) 懇請
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■charisma (n.) 超凡的個人魅力；吸引力；超凡氣質
So in this video, we're going to cover nine of the most common mistakes you may be making that can kill your charisma and some quick fixes.
■charismatic (adj.) 充滿個人魅力的
It's the people who have convictions and live by them that generate the most respect and are the most charismatic.
■proactive (adj.) 先發制人的；積極的
First — not proactively introducing yourself.
■keep a low profile (保持低調)
Many people feel uncomfortable when they enter into a new group so in order to keep a low profile; they often offer a small hand wave or just stand there quietly.
●tune … out (不理睬，對…置之不理)
❤mid-story是什麼意思？ (影片1:32開始聽)
You might want to try pausing mid-story to ask the other person a question just to see if they ask you how that story ended or to find out that they were tuning you out the whole time.
●trail off = trail away (說話聲或類似聲響) 逐漸減弱到停止、逐漸消失
Fifth is trailing off or mumbling.
■whine (v.) 發牢騷
■flat-out (adv.) 以最高速；坦白地；直率地
Seventh — whining. Complaining is just flat-out a bad habit. And when you whine to people around you without seeking their advice or looking to improve the situation, you just drive them away from you.
❤not a name person的name是什麼意思？(影片2:45開始聽)
Everyone has a hard time with names so saying that you're not good with names or not a name person is no excuse to not make an effort.
●shove … down one’s throat (強迫某人接受…)
It doesn't mean that you have to shove your beliefs down other people's throats but don't be afraid to get clear on your principles and stand up for them even when it's not the popular thing to do.
■be over the moon (非常高興，非常快活)
I know that if he does hit that 5,000 number, he will be over the moon.
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【9 Mistakes That Kill Your Charisma】
1. Not proactively introducing yourself.
不主動介紹自己
2. Not introducing your friends when you're in a new group isn't cool.
在新團體中不介紹你的朋友，這很不OK
3. Talking about things that no one cares about
滔滔不絕地講著沒人在意的事
4. Not soliciting feedback.
不讓對方有回應的機會
5. Trailing off or mumbling.
越講越小聲或低咕
6. Answering questions with single words.
用一個字回答問題(我怎麼馬上想到一字經XD)
7. Whining.
發牢騷
8. Not remembering names.
第八：不記對方名字
9. Lacking principles.
沒有原則
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覺得第四點要看遇到誰欸…好像是頻率的問題？
像我就很喜歡聽別人說話XDD
兩個愛心的地方有帥哥美女可以為我解惑一下嗎 感恩大德> <
ShakesBeer8 年前
And if you're unsure whether something only concerns you, it's probably because you're committing the fourth mistake — not soliciting feedback. You don't want to go on for minutes on end lecturing. There should be opportunities for people to ask questions if they're truly engaged.
Nina8 年前
Marling8 年前
DAY194 今天要搬東班西 所以晚上先錄好 不然就會一直拖拖拖.
有時真的會這樣,自己一直講,不給別人問問題.也不管別人有沒有在聽,就是想講～～
孫吉慶8 年前
第五十四天
And if you're unsure whether something only concerns you, it's probably because you're committing the fourth mistake — not soliciting feedback. You don't want to go on for minutes on end lecturing. There should be opportunities for people to ask questions if they're truly engaged.
而如果你不確定什麼事是只有你在乎的，可能是因為你正犯下第四個錯誤：不要求回應。你不會想要不停的說教。如果對方真的感興趣，他們應該要有發問的機會。
作筆記~(有錯跟我說哦~)
1. unsure [ʌnˋʃʊr] (adj.) 缺乏信心的
unsure of something
對某件事感到沒有信心或不確定
She's quite unsure if she couldn't make it on time.
她並不是很確定，她到底能不能準時到達
sure [ʃʊr] (adj.) 一定的
sure of something
對於某件事情感到確定
Would you like to go for a walk later? Sure, why not?
你等一下要去散步嗎? 當然，沒有問題
2. concern [kənˋsɝn] (v.) 關於、關心
She's quite concern about the condition of a cat.
她非常關心那隻貓的狀況
What's happening? Nothing that concerns you.
發生甚麼事啊? 不關你的事啦
好聽的講法
not your business
concerning [kənˋsɝnɪŋ] (n.) 關於
This is a law you to concerning sexual harassment.(很不確定)
這著法律案件，攸關於性騷擾
3. commit [kəˋmɪt] (v.) 犯
commit a crime
犯罪
commited suicide
自殺
commitment [kəˋmɪtmənt] (n.) 託付
Marriage is a huge commitment.
婚姻是一個很大的承諾
4. solicit [səˋlɪsɪt] (v.) 懇求、請求
We solicit your specific inquiry.(很不確定)
我希望收到你的具體詢問
May I solicit your advice?
可不可以請教你的意見呢?
solicitation [sə͵lɪsəˋteʃən] (n.) 懇請
Thank you guys for reading and listening. Have a nice day.
ninini555558 年前
挺喜歡這影片～(((o(*ﾟ▽ﾟ*)o)))
大慶8 年前
Day 61 :) Morning~~
Tino8 年前
<2.0-181>Thanks Kristi and every friend~
One Republic on this weekend
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