每日口說挑戰人生的難題！面對一段感情，該留下還是分手呢？ (Stay in - or Leave - a Relationship?)

1.The only thing determining whether to stay or leave is how we feel- which can be a pretty hard matter indeed to work out for ourselves- our feelings having a dispiriting habit of shifting and evading any efforts of rational qualification. （在婚姻中，）唯一能左右我們去留的便是我們自己的情感了，而這可能連我們自己都很難弄得清楚，我們的情感本身就令人無奈地變幻莫測，而且總是不受我們的理智所控制。2.今天小唱一段陶大偉的朋友歌

早安。今天也來錄一次看看能不能順利的表達自己的想法。但中間還是卡住，說了中文，名單真的太多了啦。但我怕欣慈又要哭哭拉我衣角，所以我還是有記得妳拉^^ 今天的歌我選是 ［親愛的 你怎麼不在身邊］ 希望你們還喜歡，歌詞裡有兩個英文單字XD 週末愉快

為了不破壞益廷唱的,我錄了很多遍（比口語挑戰還多次）很想唱好，但高音真的蠻ㄍ一ㄣ的。（我知道有人提說手機可以再次錄音，可是我手機路出來的聲音實在太小聲，所以只好再申請一個帳號:P）

Thank Kristi for interpretation.
This theme is too sad. Now, we don't have been influenced by religion and traditional society. We can choose to leave, but if you have children, you will hurt them. So, we must communicate with your partner. If you or I can't ensure these situations, maybe leave is a good choice.
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1-1. determine
He is determined that he is going to conquer Mount Jade in this summer.
1-2. determination
He has strong determination in terms up the decision he made.
2-1. whether
1. whether (or not)
a. Please let me know whether or not you're coming.
2-2. weather 天氣-->一天當中的天氣變化，如: 溫度、濕度、有沒有下雨等。
climate 氣候-->一個地點長時間累積的天氣變化
3-1. dispirit
1. dispirited (adj.)
a. He was dispirited by the loss of his team.
3-2. spirit
She has a mature spirit. (形容小孩)
3-3. spirited
3-4. spiritual
a. I think there is spiritual(心靈上的) connection between you and me.
b. It is said that dogs and horses are the most spiritual(靈性的) animals of all.
4-1. evade
He is evading her because they just recently broke up and he has no idea how to face her.
4-2. invade
The United States is planning to invade Russia.
5-1. effort
I will devote evey effort(盡力而為) to it.
5-2. afford
a. I can't afford a car right now.
b. I can't afford what she wanted.
6-1. rational
When we break up, we should all talk it to rationally.
6-2. irrational
It is said that we should never make the decision when we are mad or irrational.
7-1. qualification
7-2. qualify
What do you think she is qualified for this position?
7-3. disqualify
One of the athletes was found using drugs before the competition. Was therefore disqualified from Olympics.

多麼令人傷感的主題 > <

今天也來一首悲歌 徐佳瑩的歌

　The only thing determining whether to stay or leave is how we feel- which can be a pretty hard matter indeed to work out for ourselves- our feelings having a dispirited habit of shifting and evading any efforts of rational qualification.
感覺左右著我們在一段感情中是否去留，而我們的情感其實甚至連自己都難以捉摸，因為我們總是試圖逃避理性限制、且因此變幻莫測。

The only thing determining whether to stay or leave is how we feel ,which can be a pretty hard matter indeed to work out for ourselves,our feelings having a dispirited habit of shifting and evading any efforts of rational qualification.

就如同天上的雲，世事皆因緣聚散，詭譎多變，無一常存。在這自然法則之下，執著感情海枯石爛，無異陷己於痛苦深淵。男女情執非人生全部， 情逝則散強求無益，若有子女，則轉情於子女或其他事務，還是可以活得很快樂自在。