每日口說挑戰【TED】增進溝通效率的10種方法 (Celeste Headlee - 10 ways to have a better conversation (Condensed Talk))

Number 9: Listen. And look, I know, it takes effort and energy to actually pay attention to someone. But, if you can't do that, you're not in a conversation. Stephen Covey said it very beautifully, he said: "Most of us don't listen with the intent to understand, we listen with the intent to reply." 第九，聆聽 。注意!我知道要真正專心去聆聽別人在說什麼並不容易。不過，如果你做不到的話，你就不是在溝通。Stephen Covey 就說得很好。他說：「大多數的人不是因為想理解而聽，而是為了想回答才聽。」

練習筆記 歡迎指正,謝謝~
1-1. Climbing Mt. Everest takes a lot of effort.
1-2. Lionel Messi makes playing football look effortless.
2-1. The teacher shouted at the students "Pay attention! I'm talking".
2-2. The students were watching their teacher very carefully. They were very attentive.
3-1. I want to improve my conversation skills so I watched this video.
3-2. Every time I converse with my best friend, he always makes me laugh.
3-3. My friend is a great conversationalist, he always has lots of interesting stories.
4-1. Lionel Messi plays the game of football very beautifully.
4-2. Many people said that Scarlett Johansson is a very beautiful woman.
4-3. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.
4-4. Many people said that David Beckham is a very handsome man.
5-1. I do Pronunciation Challenge everyday, my intent is to improve my English pronunciation.
5-2. I apologize for not including your name on the guest list, it was not intentional.
5-3. Sorry I accidentally hit you with the ball, it was completely unintentional.

I'm so agree with her ! I hate the person who likes to give his personal opinion or sight about things during a talk .

各位朋友早安，今天的主題我滿喜歡的，希望大家有時間的話也可以回去看原影片。最近身邊不同掛的朋友都紛紛介紹推薦一些美劇給我，都快不知道要先看哪個了，有點忙碌XD
最後也謝謝Dan 今日的講解。

Really like when people say "can't" with an British accent! Thanks Daniel!

發現口說挑戰的大家都起的好早！
1.1 Climbing Mt. Everest takes a lot of effort.
1.2 Lionel Messi makes playing football look effortless.
2.1 The teacher shouted at the students “Pay attention! I'm talking.”
2.2 The students were watching that teacher very carefully, they were very attentive.
3.1 I want to improve my conversation skills, so I watch this video.
3.2 Every time I converse with my best friend, he always makes me laugh.
3.3 My friend is a great conversationalist, he always has lots of interesting stories.
4.1 Lionel Messi plays the game of football very beautifully.
4.2 Many people say that Scarlett Johansson is a very beautiful woman.
4.3 Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.
4.4 Many people say that David Beckham is a very handsome man.
5.1 I do pronunciation challenge everyday. My intent is to improve my English pronunciation.
5.2 I apologized for not including your name on the guest list, it was not intentional.
5.3 Sorry I accidentally hit you with the ball, it was completely unintentional.

剛開始口說挑戰的時候，常會想要錄到最好才發佈，所以第一次發佈一直到兩個月後才出現，現在感覺這樣子真的很犯傻。

其實自己永遠只要能保持當下的那一次是最好的，也就足夠了；如果一定要都不犯錯才發佈，一定要最完美才發佈，那要浪費多少時間。是的，浪費時間，除非您耳朵的聽力已經非常好。

反過來想，如果自己的口說真的有自己認為的那麼厲害了，我還在這裡浪費時間幹嗎呢？

Making mistakes in the very record of your pronunciation challenge could also be seen as a lesson of communication. It tells us something we made unintentionally from the replay or other listeners.

犯錯的錄音有時也是一種溝通，可以告訴自己一些沒注意到的事，經由自己事後重聽比較或者其它善意的傾聽者。

好了又完成了一次造句(也許錯誤不少), 可以開始今天的錄音了，希望不要犯錯！
（結果：把Stephen Covey的 "he said:" 說成 "she said:" 這怎麼回事？真的不是故意的！ ~ XD）

謝謝Daniel~~
今天的句子很棒 趕在出門前錄音 大家一起加油！