Instead of worrying about how to make yourself feel comfortable,

但與其擔心怎麼讓自己更自在，

shift your attitude to focus on making the people around you feel comfortable.

你應該把重點放在如何讓身旁的人更自在。

How To Impress Everyone You Meet

如何留下好印象

Approaching People

主動接近人群

If you're on your own at a party, join groups of three or more that typically more open to a new person.

如果你在派對上落單，加入三人以上的小團體，因為小團體通常比較不介意其他人加入。

Good job!

做得好！

When it's just two people, an unexpected third can feel like a crowd.

若只有兩個人，突然出現的人會顯得多餘。

Don't wait for people to approach you. Approach them!

別等別人來找你，主動出擊吧！

Smile warmly, stand up straight, and make eye contact.

微笑、挺胸，並記得眼神交流。

Good things come to those who initiate.

好事總是會找上主動出擊的人。

Here! Have a beer!

來吧！喝杯啤酒！

Remember these words.

記住這句話。

"So, how about you?"

「那你呢？」

Invite them to tell you about themselves.

讓他們聊有關自己的事情。

And to go in the direction they're most excited to go into.

順著他們的話，聊他們喜歡的話題。

Well, this is awkward.

好尷尬。

One easy remedy for an awkward silence is food.

化解尷尬場面的簡單方法就是食物。

Recipes, diets, restaurants - everyone has something to say about food.

食譜、減肥餐、餐廳 - 每個人對食物都有一番見解。

On The Phone

電話面試

Stand and smile on phone interviews.

電話面試時，站起來並保持微笑。

This improves the quality of your voice and will make you sound more confident.

這會改善你聲音的質感，讓你聽起來更有自信。

Hello!

你好！

Wait three seconds before answering questions.

回答問題前先停頓三秒。

It helps you process the question and you won't seem rushed or nervous.

這有助於你思考問題，而且不會顯得太著急或緊張。

In A Circle

群聊

When standing in a circle of people, open it up to allow a new person in.

和一群人一起聊天時，主動讓新成員加入。

You'll make a great impression on that person and on the other people in the circle.

那個人和其他人會對你有好印象。

Make A Graceful Exit

優雅離場

My mom plays ice hockey.

我媽會玩冰上曲棍球。

Wow!

哇！

When exiting a conversation, interrupt yourself, not them.

當你想退出談話時，打斷自己而不是別人。

Make it clear that you enjoyed the conversation, and that you have a reason for leaving.

向大家表明你聊得很愉快，但有事得先走。

... but I have to go to work, but it was great to meet you.

… 可惜我得去工作了，很高興認識你們。

Great meeting you.

很開心認識你。

See ya!

下次見！

Nice guy!

他人不錯！

What a gentleman!

是個紳士！

If I had a daughter, I would let her date him.

如果我有女兒的話，我會同意他們交往。

Oh, my god! I was like "What are we gonna talk about?"

老天！我剛才心想：「我們該聊什麼好？」

Sandwiches come flying out of nowhere.

結果突然冒出一個三明治。

Yeah!

對呀！