Name: 講得再有道理，他就是聽不進去！為什麼？ (Why Some People Can’t Hear You (Even When You’re Right))
Uploaded: 2025-10-20T21:01:30.000Z
Duration: 1 min 21 s
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Emotional intelligence is understanding that the relationship you have with someone

情緒智商就是了解你和對方的關係，

shapes the impact of your communication with them.

聽著，有些對話之所以沒辦法奏效，

not because your words are wrong or because your delivery is wrong.

不是因為你說錯話，也不是因為你表達方式不對。

Sometimes it's because you're just the wrong messenger.

有時候，是因為你根本就是錯的傳訊者。

It's that they're not willing to hear it from you.

好，那有時候這也不是你的錯。

It's their pain, their past, their perception, or their prejudice that makes it hard for them to hear you.

是他們的痛苦、他們的過去、他們的看法，或他們的偏見，讓他們難以聽進你的話。

And when that's the case, just keep being authentic and unbothered.

遇到這種情況，就繼續保持真誠和泰然自若。

That said, we can't be too proud to admit that sometimes it's on us.

雖然這麼說，我們也不能太過驕傲，而無法承認有時候問題出在我們身上。

Sometimes they're not receiving your content because they're still recovering from your conduct.

有時候他們沒辦法接收你的內容，是因為他們還在消化你之前的言行。

You were reckless, and now your character is speaking louder than your communication.

你太魯莽了，現在你的品格比你的溝通更有說服力。

And their ears are closed because your actions spoke louder than your words.

而他們聽不進去，是因為你的言行比你的話更有份量。

And you'll have to rebuild your reputation before you can have that conversation.

你得先重塑你的名譽，才能進行那場對話。

The truth is, words carry weight, but so does your reputation.

事實是，話語有份量，但你的名譽也是。

And when the messenger isn't trustworthy, their message is entrusted.

而當傳訊者不值得信賴時，他們傳達的內容也就難以被信任。

This is why we say it's not just what you say or how you say it.

這就是為什麼我們說，不只在於你說了什麼或怎麼說。

Because if you don't carry weight with them, your words won't either.

因為如果你在他們心中沒有份量，你的話語也不會有。