Name: 用正確的方式道歉：如何做出真正的道歉 (Say Sorry the Right Way: How to Make a Real Apology)
Uploaded: 2025-09-12T18:12:32.000Z
Duration: 16 min 11 s

Doo-doo-doo, doo-doo-doo-doo, oop, oop, sorry about that.

嘟--嘟--嘟，嘟--嘟--嘟，哎呀，哎呀，對不起。

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我只是犯了個錯誤，撞到了 E。

Today's lesson is on saying sorry, or I apologize, or I...

今天的課程是 "說對不起"，或者 "我道歉"，或者 "我...

Today I'm going to teach you the difference between each of these words and when to use them and how to use them properly.

今天，我將教你這些詞之間的區別，以及何時使用它們和如何正確使用它們。

And as a bonus, I'll teach you a couple other ones.

作為獎勵，我還會教你其他幾招。

So let's go to the board and find out what the big deal about sorry is.

那麼，讓我們去董事會看看，"對不起 "到底有什麼大不了的。

As you can see, E is saying sorry, excuse me, and I apologize, but should we always say them?

如你所見，E 說的是對不起、對不起和我道歉，但我們是否應該總是說這些話呢？

這就是為什麼你總能聽到它的原因。

So, that means it can be used a lot of times in many different ways.

是以，這意味著它可以以多種不同的方式多次使用。

Inappropriate means the wrong way, because people say I'm sorry when they really should say excuse me.

不恰當的意思是指錯誤的方式，因為人們在說 "對不起 "時，其實應該說 "對不起"。

嗯，這是一個包羅萬象的問題。

But, for example, if I'm about to interrupt you, sorry is a bit strong.

但是，舉個例子，如果我要打斷你的話，"對不起 "這個詞就太重了。

But you can use it almost any time, and you'll be okay, okay?

但你幾乎可以在任何時候使用它，你會沒事的，好嗎？

That's why you hear Canadians always say I'm sorry, excuse me, thank you, we're so polite.

這就是為什麼加拿大人總是說 "對不起"、"請原諒"、"謝謝"，我們就是這麼有禮貌。

Now, the other good thing about sorry is because it's informal and it's general, it has a place where it can go from minor to major.

現在，"對不起 "的另一個好處是，因為它是非正式的，也是一般性的，它有一個可以從次要到主要的地方。

And you might say, what the heck does minor to major mean?

你可能會說，從次要到主要到底是什麼意思？

Well, you can say I'm sorry for something very small, like if I bump into you.

你可以為很小的事情說對不起，比如我撞到你了。

But at the same time, you can actually say something like, I'm sorry for hitting your car.

但同時，你也可以說 "很抱歉撞了你的車 "這樣的話。

And you might go, well, those are big things.

你可能會說，好吧，這些都是大事。

That's why you can use sorry from minor to major things, and that's what makes it general and makes it, you know, a very good word to use.

這就是為什麼從小事到大事都可以用 "抱歉"，這也是它的通用性，讓它成為一個非常好用的詞。

So, we talk about sorry being informal, general, and minor to major, but sometimes it's a little heavy, a little too much, right?

我們常說 "對不起 "是非正式的、籠統的、從次要到主要的，但有時也會有點沉重、有點過多，對嗎？

這就是我們使用 "對不起 "的時候。

Excuse me is for things like when you know you're about to do something, but you haven't done it.

Excuse me（借過）是指當你知道自己要做某件事情，但還沒做的時候。

Imagine with sorry, you bump into someone, okay?

想象一下，你和某人撞了個滿懷歉意，好嗎？

You say sorry because you've done something wrong, right?

你說對不起是因為你做錯了事，對嗎？

But excuse me is before you bump into them, you might say, excuse me, and we call that a polite interruption, right?

但是，"打擾一下 "是指在你撞到他們之前，你可能會說 "打擾一下"，我們稱之為禮貌性打斷，對嗎？

Because something is going on, and you are interrupting or breaking into it, right?

因為有些事情正在進行，而你正在打斷或闖入其中，對嗎？

You know, you go, excuse me, is anyone sitting here?

你知道，你去，對不起，有人坐在這裡嗎？

You're not going to say, sorry, is anyone sitting there?

你不會說，對不起，有人坐在那裡嗎？

You say, excuse me, if people are there, to interrupt them.

你說，對不起，如果有人在那裡，要打斷他們。

Another thing is, you can use excuse me to get someone's attention.

另外，你還可以用 "對不起 "來引起別人的注意。

Excuse me, is there anybody working here?

You're not going to say, sorry, can you help me?

你不會說，對不起，你能幫我嗎？

So, if you want to get my attention, or anyone's attention, okay, say, excuse me.

所以，如果你想引起我或任何人的注意，好吧，說 "對不起"。

Now, also, excuse me is for repeat, and you say, repeat, I don't understand.

還有，"對不起 "是重複的意思，你說 "重複"，我不明白。

Well, if someone's speaking to you and they're looking at you and you didn't hear it because maybe something you're like, excuse me, what did you say?

好吧，如果有人在跟你說話，他們看著你，而你沒有聽到，因為你可能會想，對不起，你說什麼？

I'm asking you to repeat it because I wasn't paying attention.

我讓你重複一遍是因為我沒注意聽。

So, it's a way of saying sorry, but I haven't done anything really wrong, so I don't want to say sorry.

所以，這是一種說抱歉的方式，但我並沒有做什麼真正的錯事，所以我不想說抱歉。

It's just, excuse me, can you repeat that again?

只是，不好意思，你能再說一遍嗎？

Maybe someone's giving you their phone number and they're saying, oh, it's 416-647-da-da-da-da.

也許有人會告訴你他的電話號碼，然後說，哦，是 416-647-噠噠噠。

You're like, oh, sorry, excuse me, can you say that again?

你會說，哦，對不起，不好意思，你能再說一遍嗎？

So, we use this, excuse me, to ask someone to repeat.

所以，我們用這個，不好意思，請某人重複一遍。

So, what happens if you've gone from this general to something that's a little less formal, but you want to be more formal, right?

那麼，如果你從一般的東西變成了不那麼正式的東西，但你又想更正式一些，會發生什麼情況呢？

And not just more formal, you want to take more responsibility.

不僅要更加正式，還要承擔更多的責任。

這就是我們使用 "我道歉 "這個詞的時候。

See, I apologize is like a black tie at a formal event.

你看，我道歉就像在正式場合打黑色領帶。

When someone says, I apologize, it's strong, alright?

當有人說 "我向你道歉 "時，那是一種強烈的道歉，好嗎？

So, we're going to say, I apologize, number one, it's formal.

所以，我們要說，我道歉，第一，這是正式的。

So, you're going to use it for more serious occasions.

所以，你要把它用在更嚴肅的場合。

Number two about this is it's very specific.

Sorry is just general, like, I'm sorry I'm late.

對不起只是一般性的，比如，對不起我遲到了。

So, when you say, I apologize, you'll say, I apologize for being late for our meeting.

所以，當你說 "我道歉 "時，你會說 "我為開會遲到道歉"。

You want to talk about a specific event or situation.

您想談論某個具體事件或情況。

And the last thing about it is you take responsibility.

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