Name: 一位 75 歲的白手起家百萬富翁分享她最好的人生建議 - Barbara Corcoran (A 75 Year Old Self-Made Millionaire Shares Her Best Life Advice - Barbara Corcoran)
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What is a failure that you've experienced that defined your life at the time?

你曾經歷過的哪次失敗決定了你當時的人生？

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I met my boyfriend at a diner and he gave me a thousand dollars to start my business so he became my business partner and then he married my secretary seven years later and I was out, she was in, she's younger and prettier than me.

我在一家餐館認識了我的男朋友，他給了我一千美元讓我開始創業，於是他成了我的生意夥伴，七年後他娶了我的祕書，我出局了，她入局了，她比我年輕漂亮。

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Always my whole life my forte was I just go for it but now I slow down and go wait can I really handle that?

我一生的強項都是勇往直前，但現在我放慢腳步，等等，我真的能承受得住嗎？

這並不意味著這是真正的愛情。

A few weeks ago I interviewed 75 year old Barbara Corcoran who for a ton of reasons has figured life out but surprisingly is also still trying to navigate it.

幾周前，我採訪了 75 歲的芭芭拉-科科倫（Barbara Corcoran），由於種種原因，她已經摸清了生活的脈絡，但令人驚訝的是，她仍在努力駕馭生活。

You probably know Barbara from Shark Tank.

你可能在《鯊魚坦克》中認識芭芭拉。

She's made billions of dollars in her life.

She has judged thousands of entrepreneurs and business people today with questions unlike any interview that she has done.

如今，她已為成千上萬的企業家和商界人士做過評判，她所提出的問題與以往任何一次採訪都不同。

I am sharing the extended conversation of Barbara's greatest life lessons and experiences that I guarantee will change the way you think about life.

我將與您分享芭芭拉人生最寶貴的經驗和教訓，我保證這些經驗和教訓將改變您對生活的看法。

However you put a pair of skis on my feet I'll beat any guy down the road.

無論你給我腳上穿上什麼滑雪板，我都能打敗路上的任何一個人。

Would you say you feel your age, feel younger, older?

你覺得自己的年齡是年輕還是年長？

有些時候，我覺得自己已經 100 歲了。

大多數時候，我覺得自己已經 50 歲了。

What have you done in your life to get to be 75 and feel the way you feel?

你一生中都做了些什麼，才會有現在的 75 歲，才會有現在的感受？

I've made some important choices actually.

事實上，我已經做出了一些重要的選擇。

It makes me feel younger because I look younger.

它讓我覺得自己更年輕，因為我看起來更年輕。

I think I surround myself with young people.

I have everything younger but my husband.

除了我的丈夫，我擁有一切年輕的東西。

順便說一句，我想要一個年輕的男人。

A lot of people when they speak to you, they always talk to you about your successes and everything that you've achieved.

很多人在與你交談時，總是談論你的成功和你所取得的一切。

But I want to flip that on you to start and ask you what is a failure that you've experienced that defined your life at the time?

但我想從你身上反過來問你，你經歷過的哪次失敗決定了你當時的人生？

I can only pick one because there's been a series of many, many, many.

我只能選一個，因為有很多很多的系列。

I met my boyfriend at a diner and he gave me $1,000 to start my business.

我在一家餐館認識了我的男朋友，他給了我 1000 美元，讓我開始創業。

And then he married my secretary seven years later.

What was the lesson that you learned from that if you're looking back on the situation?

如果回顧當時的情況，你從中吸取了什麼教訓？

That you'll always see it upside looking back and you can't see it at the moment.

回首往事，你總能看到它的顛倒，而此刻你卻看不到。

I mean, if he hadn't met her, I wouldn't have started the Corcoran group.

我是說，如果他沒有遇到她，我也不會成立科科倫小組。

I wish somebody was there to tell me at the time.

I learned that bad stuff happens that break your heart, but you can get up and get going again.

我明白了，壞事情的發生會讓你心碎，但你可以站起來，重新出發。

And there's always a plus to any bad side of a coin.

You know, you flip it over and you see something bright.

你知道，翻開它，你會看到一些明亮的東西。

I think everything that's happened to me in my business career certainly was a result of belly flops that I turned over and saw the bright side.

我認為，在我的商業生涯中，發生在我身上的一切肯定都是腹背受敵的結果，我翻過身來，看到了光明的一面。

Let's think about the person who's, let's say around my age, I'm 25.

讓我們想想一個人，比方說和我年齡相仿的人，我 25 歲。

You asked me how old I was and that's not a nice thing to do at my age.

你問我多大了，在我這個年紀問這種問題可不太好。

A lot of people who are around my age, older, younger, are very lost in life, looking for answers.

很多和我年齡相仿的人，無論是年長的還是年輕的，都在生活中非常迷茫，尋找答案。

If someone is starting their working life, how do you recommend that they navigate it?

如果有人剛剛開始職業生涯，您建議他們如何規劃？

What's the relationship that we should have with money?

I think you've got to question yourself on something like that.

我認為，在這樣的事情上，你必須質疑自己。

A lot of it's forced on you because of peer pressure, what you see around you.

很多東西都是迫於同伴的壓力和周圍的環境而產生的。

I think you've got to really sit down quietly and ask yourself what's important to you.

我認為你必須靜靜地坐下來，問問自己什麼對你最重要。

對大多數人來說，錢並不重要。

They think it is, but if you really ask yourself what are the values or what do you really want to be doing for a living or what do you really like to do or who do you want to be when you grow up, you get away from such a narrow definition of, I want to make more money.

他們認為是這樣的，但如果你真正問問自己的價值觀是什麼，或者你真正想做什麼謀生，或者你真正喜歡做什麼，或者你長大後想成為什麼樣的人，你就會擺脫 "我想賺更多錢 "這種狹隘的定義。

But believe me, when I didn't have it, because I had 23 jobs before I found real estate, so I was poor for a long time.

但請相信我，當我沒有錢的時候，因為在我找到房地產之前，我做過 23 份工作，所以我窮了很長時間。

And let me tell you something, I was as happy then as I was once I had my own business.

讓我告訴你吧，我當時和有了自己的事業後一樣快樂。

The money doesn't really make a big difference.

Yeah, because I know already a comment that I've received before interviewing people of similar success to you that they say, well, easy to say she has money, so easy for her to talk about it that way.

是的，因為我知道，在採訪和你有類似成就的人之前，我已經收到過這樣的評論，他們說，好吧，說她有錢很容易，所以她很容易這樣說。

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