Name: 不聽老人言，吃虧在眼前！聽聽 90 歲老人的人生建議吧！ (These 90 Year Olds' Life Advice Will Break Your Heart...)
Uploaded: 2025-01-31T21:01:10.000Z
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Knowing what you know today, what advice would you give to your younger self?

以您今天的知識水準，您會給年輕的自己什麼建議？

Should have spent more time with the children.

過去簡單式

I should have persevered more than God knows when I could have been.

我本該比天知道我什麼時候能堅持得更久。

What do you think that people in their 20s are missing?

Last year, we posted this video, which has over 600,000 views so far, but hundreds of comments on it are actually about this 90 year old couple.

去年，我們發佈了這段視頻，至今已有 60 多萬人次觀看，但其中數百條評論其實是關於這對 90 歲的老夫婦的。

This couple's words are something I think everybody needs to hear.

這對夫婦的話，我認為每個人都需要聽聽。

So today I am sharing an extended version of their best life advice with you.

是以，今天我將與大家分享他們的最佳人生建議的擴展版。

We have a lot of friends who have passed and a lot of friends who are sick.

我們有很多逝去的朋友，也有很多生病的朋友。

So we're lucky and we're lucky we're together.

所以我們很幸運，我們很幸運能在一起。

So we have a lovely family and lots to be thankful for.

是以，我們有一個可愛的家庭和許多值得感恩的東西。

You know, I just read in the local paper that there's two and a quarter percent of the people in Canada are over 85.

你知道嗎，我剛剛在當地報紙上讀到，加拿大有百分之二點四的人超過了 85 歲。

我今年 90 歲，很快就 91 歲了。

That's a pretty good group to be in right now.

If I'm doing well for my age, it's because I work at it.

如果以我的年齡來說我做得很好，那是因為我努力了。

If you do your proper diet and you're exercising for me, that's what extends your life.

如果你能做到合理膳食，並堅持鍛鍊，對我來說，這就是延年益壽的方法。

I have to tell you that I concentrate on balance because most seniors that we know have fallen down.

我必須告訴你們，我把注意力集中在平衡上，因為我們認識的大多數老人都曾摔倒過。

And if they fall down, they have very serious accidents.

如果他們摔倒了，就會發生非常嚴重的事故。

So that's what I do to try and prevent that.

所以，我就是這麼做的，儘量避免這種情況發生。

But now I make sure that I do it every day, every day.

但現在，我確保每天都這樣做，天天如此。

What are some things you could go back in time and tell your younger self to do more of that you would recommend they do?

你可以回到過去，告訴年輕時的自己多做哪些事情，你會建議他們做哪些事情？

Something that my wife and I have initiated going back, I would say maybe 15 years ago.

這是我和妻子在 15 年前就開始做的事情。

And as she told you, we're 67 years married.

正如她告訴你的，我們已經結婚 67 年了。

No matter if we do get in arguments, which happens at all times with all people, we try not to let it hang over till the next day.

不管我們是否會發生爭執，這在任何時候都會發生，但我們儘量不讓爭執持續到第二天。

We have it set in our lives that we embrace each other every morning, no matter what happens.

在我們的生活中，無論發生什麼，我們每天早上都會擁抱對方。

And it erases any problems that we might have had.

這也消除了我們可能遇到的任何問題。

That brings us back to a decent level relationship.

這又回到了一個體面的關係層面。

The most important decision you make in your life is your marriage and who you marry.

你一生中最重要的決定就是你的婚姻和你的結婚對象。

They can encourage you in whatever you're doing, discourage you.

無論你在做什麼，他們都能鼓勵你，也能打擊你。

The best thing that I ever did was I met Joan and that was the best decision I ever made.

我做過的最好的事情就是遇到了瓊，這是我做過的最好的決定。

Well, I think that a lot of younger people are very self-centered and selfish.

我認為很多年輕人都非常自我中心和自私。

By the time I was 30, I had four children, so I couldn't worry about going to restaurants, having fun.

到我 30 歲時，我已經有了四個孩子，所以我不能再為去餐館吃飯、找樂子而操心了。

We were paying for schools and kids and doctors and things that were, you know, more meaningful in life.

我們為學校、孩子、醫生和生活中更有意義的事情買單。

I think the kids today, they're all spoiled.

我覺得現在的孩子都被寵壞了。

What can we do besides maybe, let's say, having four kids by 30?

除了在 30 歲之前生四個孩子，我們還能做什麼？

What could we do to be less self-centered?

怎樣才能不那麼以自我為中心？

Maybe try to be more community minded, do some volunteer work, some social work, or just to be generous and give money to charity instead of your phones, your cars.

也許可以試著多關心社區，做一些志願者工作、社會工作，或者慷慨解囊，把錢捐給慈善機構，而不是你的手機、汽車。

I know it's hard for kids today, but it was hard in our day, too.

我知道這對現在的孩子來說很難，但在我們那個年代也很難。

I don't know if you're able to give advice, let's say, based on your own life, your own experiences on navigating your early years of adult life, your 20s.

比方說，我不知道你是否能根據自己的生活、自己的經歷，就如何渡過自己成年後的最初幾年，也就是 20 多歲，給出建議。

How can we do that to the best of our abilities?

It's very hard, very hard for kids today.

對現在的孩子來說，這很難很難。

And then, of course, find a profession that you like, something you enjoy doing.

當然，還要找到自己喜歡的職業，做自己喜歡做的事情。

But make sure that you you're the best that you can be.

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