That's your choice that you make every day.

這是你每天做出的選擇。

Is what happened to you when you was 8 years old going to define the person that you are today or are you this person who you choose?

是 8 歲時發生在你身上的事情決定了你今天的樣子，還是你選擇了自己？

Are you in control of your life?

你能掌控自己的生活嗎？

You're going to let pain that happened 6 years ago mess up your mood today in real life.

在現實生活中，你會讓 6 年前發生的痛苦擾亂你今天的心情。

The only thing that's real about your journey is the step that you take right now.

在你的旅程中，唯一真實的就是你現在邁出的這一步。

If you don't apply what you hear, you won't get what you want.

如果你不運用你所聽到的，你就不會得到你想要的。

Life doesn't get any easier.

生活不會變得更輕鬆。

It doesn't get more forgiving.

沒有比這更寬容的了。

We just get stronger and we get more resilient.

我們會變得更強大，更有韌性。

You are going to incur a lot of disappointment, a lot of failure, a lot of setbacks, a lot of defeats, but in the process of doing that, you will discover some things about yourself that you don't know right now.

你會遇到很多失望、很多失敗、很多挫折、很多挫敗，但在這個過程中，你會發現自己身上一些你現在還不知道的東西。

And when you figure that out, you'll learn like the world is off the chain.

當你明白了這一點，你就會覺得整個世界都不一樣了。

Opportunities are endless, but you can't get them looking in your rear view or your future going to look just like your past.

機會是無窮無盡的，但你不能只顧眼前，否則你的未來就會和過去一樣。

Yeah, so you're here because you're different, you're uncommon.

是啊，你在這裡是因為你與眾不同，你不尋常。

One man said, I choose not to be a common man.

一個人說，我選擇不做普通人。

It's my right to be uncommon if I can.

如果可以的話，我有權不常見。

You don't have the reality that you want, you create it.

現實不是你想要的，而是你創造出來的。

You in charge of your life.

你的生活你做主

Stop praying that the storm will pass over you and pray to grow through the storm.

不要再祈求暴風雨會過去，而要祈求在暴風雨中成長。

Stop going around it, go through it.

不要再繞道而行，要穿過它。

What you go through, you will grow.

經歷過什麼，就會成長什麼。

Some fights are not won in the first round.

有些比賽不是在第一回合就能獲勝的。

Don't get caught up in, well, I've tried it four or five times and things didn't work out.

不要糾結於 "我已經試過四五次了，但都沒有成功"。

If there's something that you want and you're hungry for, you've got to do whatever is necessary until.

如果有什麼是你想要的，你渴望得到的，你就必須不惜一切代價，直到得到為止。

And when you give the best you can and that's not enough, you must do what is required.

當你盡了最大努力，但這還不夠時，你就必須做你所需要做的。

It don't feel good, do it, right?

感覺不好，就這樣做，對嗎？

But if you keep going, you actually are set up for success.

但是，如果你堅持下去，其實你就已經為成功做好了準備。

You can't just be a spectator in life.

在生活中，你不能只是一個旁觀者。

If you want great things, you want opportunity, you got to go get them and you got to be open to step off your comfort zone.

如果你想做大事，你想獲得機會，你就得去爭取，你就得敞開心扉，走出你的舒適區。

And don't give up on yourself.

不要放棄自己。

Don't throw the towel in so quickly.

不要這麼快就放棄。

Many people give up on the one yard line.

很多人在一碼線就放棄了。

The race is not given to the strong nor the swift, but it is given to he that endureth until the end.

賽跑不是給強壯的，也不是給敏捷的，乃是給那忍耐到底的。

We might be through with our past, but our past is not through with us.

我們可能已經與過去劃清界限，但我們的過去並沒有與我們劃清界限。

We deal with so much stuff in our past.

我們要處理的過去的事情太多了。

We letting energy and things that happened in the past affect our emotions right now.

我們讓過去發生的能量和事情影響我們現在的情緒。

That's crazy.

太瘋狂了

Everybody is facing setbacks.

每個人都會遇到挫折。

Everybody's feeling pressure.

每個人都感受到了壓力。

Everybody is feeling like this anxiety, like, can they do it?

每個人都感到焦慮，他們能做到嗎？

Are they smart enough?

他們夠聰明嗎？

Will they make it?

他們會成功嗎？

So what you have to choose, right, you're going to go through this heat and pressure and come out the other side shining, or are you going to let it crush you?

所以，你必須做出選擇，是經歷高溫高壓，光鮮亮麗地從另一面走出來，還是任由高溫高壓將你壓垮？

And at a certain point, we all have to make that choice.

在某一時刻，我們都必須做出這樣的選擇。

We all have to make that decision.

我們都必須做出這樣的決定。

Otherwise, someone's going to make it for us.

否則，就會有人替我們做。

It's your reaction to adversity, not adversity itself, that determines how your life story will develop.

是你對逆境的反應，而不是逆境本身，決定了你的人生故事將如何發展。

Rock bottom is the solid foundation to build the future.

谷底是建設未來的堅實基礎。

And you've lost everything.

你失去了一切。

You have everything you need.

你擁有你所需要的一切。

You need endurance.

你需要耐力。

You need stamina to reach some goals.

要實現某些目標，你需要耐力。

You're not going to hit the million with the first investment.

你不可能在第一筆投資中就賺到一百萬。

You're not going to hit the home run always at first swing.

你不可能在第一次揮棒時就打出全壘打。

I will never accept defeat.

我永遠不會接受失敗。

It doesn't say I will never face defeat.

它並沒有說我永遠不會面對失敗。

It don't say I will never have defeat.

它並沒有說我永遠不會失敗。

It says I will never accept defeat.

它說我永遠不會接受失敗。

I will never quit don't mean, you know, that everything is easy.

我永遠不會放棄並不意味著，你知道，一切都很容易。

It means that even if I'm not, I don't think I'm good enough.

這意味著，即使我不是，我也認為自己不夠好。

I don't think I'm smart enough.

我覺得我不夠聰明。

I'm not going to quit on myself.

我不會放棄自己。

I'm going to see it through to the end.

我要堅持到底。

I don't care what the adversity has been.

我不在乎遇到什麼困難。

You have two choices.

您有兩個選擇。

You can be unforgiving, bitter, angry, upset, and be a carrier of grief.

你可以不寬容、痛苦、憤怒、不安，也可以成為悲傷的載體。

Or you can choose resilience.

或者，你也可以選擇復原力。

What you will realize is that you have greatness within you.

你會意識到，你的內心是偉大的。

What you'll realize is that you're more powerful than you can ever begin to imagine.

你會發現自己的力量超乎想象。

What you will realize is that you are greater than your circumstances, that you don't have to go through life being a victim.

你會意識到，你比你所處的環境更偉大，你不必在生活中成為受害者。

Alright, so when you're first learning how to ride a bike, your dad, your mom, sister, somebody's holding the seat, right?

好吧，當你第一次學騎自行車時，你的爸爸、媽媽、姐姐，總有人會扶著車座，對嗎？

They're holding the seat, you're pedaling, they let go.

他們扶著座椅，你踩踏板，他們放手。

What happens when they let go?

他們放手後會發生什麼？

Who said that?

誰說的？

Say it louder.

說大聲點。

What happens when they let go?

他們放手後會發生什麼？

You fall.

你摔倒了

Everybody understands that, right?

每個人都明白這一點，對嗎？

We all get that concept, okay?

我們都明白這個概念，好嗎？

So you get back up, you're crying, you scraped your knees.

所以你爬起來，你哭了，你的膝蓋擦傷了。

It doesn't feel good to fall, right?

摔倒的感覺不好，對嗎？

Falling on the concrete does not feel good, okay?

摔在水泥地上的感覺不好，知道嗎？

So you get up, but you get back on the bike.

所以你站起來，但你又騎上了自行車。

They hold the seat.

他們坐穩了位置。

You're pedaling.

你在踩踏板

They let go.

他們放手了。

You get a little further.

你再往前走一點。

And then what happens, sir?

然後呢，先生？

You're going to fall again.

你又要跌倒了。

It takes a few times, right?

需要幾次，對吧？

Everybody has been through that experience in some way, right?

每個人都有過這樣的經歷，對嗎？

You get what I'm saying?

你明白我的意思嗎？

Here's the lesson.

這就是教訓。

It's the falling off the bike that helped you find the balance.

正是從自行車上摔下來幫助你找到了平衡。

You already know what failure feels like.

你已經知道失敗的滋味。

You already know what it feels like to quit, to stop, to throw in the towel, to sit on the couch.

你已經知道退出、停止、放棄、坐在沙發上的感覺。

But do you know what it's like to give everything that you have and push and persevere and to upload the program of resiliency to your hard drive?

但是，你知道傾盡全力、奮力拼搏、堅持不懈，並將復原力程序上傳到硬盤中的感覺嗎？

You will fail your way to success.

失敗是成功之母。

See, 85% of people allow their fear of failure to outweigh their desire to succeed.

你看，85% 的人對失敗的恐懼超過了對成功的渴望。

You're going to make some mistakes, and it's okay.

你會犯一些錯誤，沒關係。

Anything that's worth doing is worth doing right if you know how to do it.

只要你知道如何去做，任何值得去做的事情都值得去做好。

But if you don't know how to do it, it's worth doing badly until you get it right.

但是，如果你不知道怎麼做，那就值得做得不好，直到你做對為止。

Falling off the bike actually helped you find the balance.

從自行車上摔下來其實有助於你找到平衡。

And I want you to use that logic when you think about your life.

我希望你們在思考自己的人生時，也能運用這一邏輯。

The failures we go through, the setbacks we have, they actually help us on our life journey.

我們經歷的失敗和挫折，實際上有助於我們的人生旅程。

But you can't see that opportunity if you keep looking at the setbacks, keep focusing on what didn't go right.

但是，如果你一直盯著挫折，一直盯著不順利的地方，你就看不到機會。

Stop waiting for the storm to pass and ask yourself the question, what can I accomplish in the rain?

不要再等待暴風雨過去，問問自己，我能在雨中完成什麼？

Give yourselves a round of applause for having an uncommon desire to reach your goals, to achieve something great with your life.

為你們自己鼓掌，因為你們有著非同尋常的願望，要實現自己的目標，成就自己的偉大人生。

Bring your level of energy up.

提升你的能量水準。

The wise man once said that whatever does not kill you only makes you stronger.

智者曾經說過，任何殺不死你的東西只會讓你變得更強大。