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unavailable
US /ˌʌnəˈveləbəl/
・UK /ˌʌnəˈveɪləbl/
B1 中級
adj.形容詞得不到的：不近便的：不能利用的：無用的
I’m sorry but the doctor is unavailable right now
adj.形容詞未婚
I am unavailable this afternoon because I have a dentist appointment
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土耳其爆逾十年來最大示威 反對派市長被捕激發衝突- BBC News 中文 (土耳其爆逾十年來最大示威 反對派市長被捕激發衝突－ BBC News 中文)
- In recent days, multiple X accounts have become unavailable in Turkey.
最近幾天，土耳其有多個 X 賬戶無法使用。
我們為逃避愛情所做的一切 (The Lengths We Go To Avoid Love)
- Or perhaps our parental figure was constantly at the office or unavailable behind a locked study door. They might have had a violent, unpredictable temper or left us somehow feeling that we were just never good enough for them. As a result, to an extent we may not even have realised, we became experts at independence. We came to associate safety with a high degree of self-protective isolation. We might have become big readers or fascinated by the animal world or obsessed with music or computer games. Without quite knowing we had done so, we learnt never to trust a flesh-and-blood, three-dimensional human again. Our experiences may not have affected the strength of our longing for love, but they have heavily impacted our capacity to endure mutually satisfying relationships. We may now, as adults, tell ourselves that we want closeness and surrender. We will sob sincerely when we lose love, but we are continually taking steps to ensure we will never be at any sustained risk of finding it. The true terror for us is not that love should fail, but that it should, by some oversight on our part, succeed. For this would ask of us a level of defencelessness and exposure to another person and to a chance of happiness that has no precedent in our lives and poses immense, ego-shattering challenges to the armoured way our personalities have been structured.
又或者，我們的父母常年在辦公室，或者在緊鎖的書房門後無暇顧及我們。他們可能脾氣暴躁、難以捉摸，或者讓我們莫名其妙地覺得自己永遠配不上他們。是以，在某種程度上，我們甚至沒有意識到，我們成了獨立專家。我們開始將安全與高度的自我保護隔離聯繫在一起。我們可能變得喜歡閱讀，對動物世界著迷，對音樂或電腦遊戲著迷。在不知不覺中，我們學會了不再信任有血有肉、立體的人類。我們的經歷也許並沒有影響我們對愛的渴望，但卻嚴重影響了我們維持相互滿意的關係的能力。作為成年人，我們現在可能會告訴自己，我們想要親近和屈服。當我們失去愛情
如何克服心理障礙 (How To Overcome Psychological Barriers)
- Falling in love with unavailable people, ensuring our relationships always fail, underperforming at work, being very independent, addiction to alcohol, porn, exercise, feeling numb, hypervigilance, continuous anxiety, constant sadness, depression.
愛上無法得到的人，確保我們的關係總是失敗，工作表現不佳，非常獨立，沉迷於酒精、色情、運動，感覺麻木，過度警覺，持續焦慮，持續悲傷，抑鬱。
- So, common defence mechanisms, falling in love with unavailable people.
所以，常見的防禦機制，愛上得不到的人。
《經濟學家》全球糧食危機 (The global food crisis, explained)
- ...because it’s too expensive, or unavailable...
（以前那些會買五、六個麵包的客人現在只會買三、四個。沒有銷售，而男人們也沒辦法養的起家人。）
焦慮正在破壞你的人際關係 (Signs Your Anxiety Is Ruining Your Relationship)
- Someone who is avoidance of close relationships may seem cold, lacking empathy and emotionally unavailable.
一個逃避親密關係的人可能看起來很冷漠、缺乏同理心、在情感上無法得到滿足。
說話的時候總是想「動手動腳」到底是為什麼！？人在說話時會不自覺做動作的原因（Why Do We Move Our Hands When We Talk?）
- Gestures are important to communication, and so important that if our hands and arms are unavailable, we will use our head, our eyes, our other limbs to compensate.
手勢動作對交流來說相當重要，重要到當我們說話時如果手掌和手臂沒空的話，我們則用上頭部、眼睛，還有其他肢體來替代。
如果大學主修是真人... (If College Majors Were People)
- Because your father was demanding and your mother was emotionally unavailable?
因為你的父親要求苛刻，而你的母親在感情上無法得到滿足？
為什麼我們會破壞良好的人際關係 (Why We Sabotage Good Relationships)
- Not coincidentally, he might previously have gone out with a number of women who were unavailable or offhand, it was horrible, but it felt like home.
無獨有偶，他之前可能也和不少女人交往過，這些女人都是可遇不可求的，或者說是隨手可得的，雖然很可怕，但卻有一種家的感覺。
