每日口說挑戰與他人建立融洽的關係 - 6分鐘英語 (Building rapport with others - 6 Minute English)

與他人建立融洽的關係 - 6分鐘英語 (Building rapport with others - 6 Minute English)

Intro
Hello VoiceTubers! I am Mia. In our life, we play different roles. Therefore, how to rapport with others becomes a quite important thing to learn. “Rapport” means having a good relationship with others and can understand each other's ideas or feelings very well. Today’s video is about rapport, while now, let’s see the sentence first.

Sentence
or you approach that in a negative way by being attacking, judgmental, argumentative, sarcastic, and that actually breeds the same behaviour back.

Pronunciation Tips
1. judgmental: (1) Two parts: judg-mental /dʒʌdʒˈmen.t̬əl/ (2) /dʒ/ appears in the begging and the ending of the first part (3) /dʒ/: teeth closed (4) t̬: flap t
2. argumentative: (1) Five parts: ar-gu-men-ta-tive /ˌɑːrɡ.jəˈmen.t̬ə.t̬ɪv/ (2) Slight /y/ sound
3. sarcastic: (1) Three parts: sar-ca-stic /sɑːrˈkæs.tɪk/ (2) Notice: /æ/ sound. The tongue is closed to the bottom of the mouth and the tip of the tongue is at the front of the mouth.

Vocabulary
1. judgmental (a) 動不動就批評人的 KK[dʒʌdʒˋmɛnt!] IPA /dʒʌdʒˈmen.təl/
Def: too quick to criticize people
She is judgmental about everyone except for herself.
她只會批評別人。

2. argumentative (a) 好爭辯的 KK[͵ɑrgjəˋmɛntətɪv] IPA /ˌɑːrɡ.jəˈmen.t̬ə.t̬ɪv/
Def: often arguing or wanting to argue
The discussion can never come to an end if you continue being so argumentative.
如果你繼續這樣爭論下去，討論永遠不可能有結果。

3. sarcastic (a) 諷刺的 KK [sɑrˋkæstɪk] IPA /sɑːrˈkæs.tɪk/
Def: using sarcasm
He used a sarcastic tone to raise the question to the manager.
他用諷刺的口吻向經理提出了這個問題。
Outro
I think nowadays either socially or at work, it is essential to build rapport with others, while sometimes there are also some tricks in it. We are social animals, so we inevitably have to interact, cooperate, or even rely on others. But we all know that sometimes it is also hard to be that nice to everyone. We are not saints! While still, except for some impossible people, getting along with others well is important. The video provides you with some tips about this. This is today’s video. See you next time!

"A little argumentive, don't you think?"
"Oh hardly, I find that to be purely logical."

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or you approach that in a negative way by being attacking, judgmental, argumentative, sarcastic, and that actually breeds the same behaviour back.

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or you approach that in a negative way by being attacking, judgmental, argumentative, sarcastic, and that actually breeds the same behaviour back.
或是以攻擊性、武斷、爭論、諷刺等的負面角度切入，都會得到同樣的行為作為反應。

or you approach that in a negative way by being attacking, judgmental, argumentative, sarcastic, and that actually breeds the same behaviour back.

Or you approach that in a negative way by being attacking, judgmental, argumentative, sarcastic, and that actually breeds the same behaviour back.

以牙還牙的概念
or you approach that in a negative way by being attacking, judgmental, argumentative, sarcastic, and that actually breeds the same behaviour back.

Building rapport with others 與他人建立融洽的關係
◆ rapport [ræˋpor] (n.)融洽,和諧,和睦的關係

Or you approach that in a negative way by being attacking, judgmental, argumentative, sarcastic, and that actually breeds the same behaviour back. (暴龍型溝通風格)或是以攻擊性、武斷、爭論、諷刺等的負面角度切入，都會得到同樣的行為反應(正面衝突)。
◆ breed [brid]
(vt.)引起,惹起,產生;(動物)產(子),孵(卵);使繁殖,飼養;養育,培育,教養;[核]增殖,再生
(vi.)(動物)生產,孕育;繁殖,育種;滋生,產生
(n.)(尤指經人工培育的動植物)品種;種類,類型
◆ judgmental [dʒʌdʒˋmɛnt!] (adj.) 動輒就品頭論足的,動不動就批評人的;(不一定客觀,帶衝動地)判定的
◆ argumentative [͵ɑrgjəˋmɛntətɪv] (adj.) 爭辯的,辯論的;爭論激烈的,愛追根究底的;好爭論的
◆ sarcastic [sɑrˋkæstɪk] (adj.)諷刺的,嘲笑的,挖苦的

Thank you, Mia. Have a good day, everyone.
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or you approach that in a negative way by being attacking, judgmental, argumentative, sarcastic, and that actually breeds the same behaviour back.
或是以攻擊性、武斷、爭論、諷刺等的負面角度切入，都會得到同樣的行為作為反應。