每日口說挑戰色誘之術！剖析「誘惑心理學」給你聽！ (Unpacking the psychology of seduction | BBC Ideas)

滿700天了，我自己都不敢相信我能堅持連續未曾停歇錄音，遇到出國或忙碌曾耽擱幾天也都會補齊。感謝VoiceTube提供這麼棒的口說練習頻道！謝謝所有教導的主持人們！也謝謝所有線上的朋友一起陪伴口說錄音挑戰！應線上Tony夥伴說滿700天要唱歌仔戲，我今天就獻唱一小段～看花燈（請準備耳塞）。

# Day 700 2020.11.09 Monday
Unpacking the psychology of seduction
The problem is we're always thinking about our own unmet needs, and that distracts us from focusing on the person in front of us.

# Day 700 2020.11.09 Monday
Unpacking the psychology of seduction
The problem is we're always thinking about our own unmet needs, and that distracts us from focusing on the person in front of us.

☺The problem is we're always thinking about our own unmet needs, and that distracts us from focusing on the person in front of us.
問題是，我們往往只顧著想自己未被滿足的需求，而這也分散了我們對面前那個人的注意力。
【心得】如果拿捏不好會引起不必要的誤會吧!不過，這個主題倒是讓我想到了一首歌:p
■unmet [ʌnˋmɛt] 未滿足的、未實現的
■unemployment [ʌnɪmˋplɔɪmənt] 失業率；失業；失業狀態；失業人數；失業救濟金、失業津貼(= unemployment benefit)
■uneasy [ʌnˋizɪ] 不安的、擔心的[(+about)]；(局勢或情況)不穩定的、緊張的、令人不安的；拘束的、不自在的；不舒服的
■untie [ʌnˋtaɪ] 解開；解除；使自由；解決
■distract [dɪˋstrækt] 使分心、使轉移注意力、干擾、使轉向[(+from)]
■distraction [dɪˋstrækʃən] 分心、注意力分散；心煩意亂、焦躁不安
分散注意的事物；娛樂，消遣
■focus [ˋfokəs] 焦點、焦距、重點；聚光點；(地震等的)震源；病灶
調焦；聚焦；成像清晰點；(圖像的)清晰；明確
使聚焦[(+on)]；調節焦距
(使)集中、(使)聚焦[(+on)]

*Scandalous: making people shocked and upset 令人反感的；令人震驚的; 可恥的

*scandalous stories 醜聞事件

*It's scandalous that we do so little to prevent homelessness. 我們無法有效解決無家可歸的問題，這真丟臉

*pluck up the courage鼓起勇氣

*Narrate 講述

*Consultant psychiatrist精神病醫學顧問

The mask supplier had trouble keeping up with the public unmet need(未被實現的需求）.

Unemployment （失業）soared(激增） to a record high.

Upon hearing the news, he appeared to be uneasy (不安的and worried.

He then untied (解開）the tie to breath more smoothly.

Please don’t distract (使分心）me from writing a script.

I have to make sure my workplace is distraction-free(沒有讓我分心的事）.

When you’re making a speech on a stage. Everyone focuses (聚焦）their eyes on you.

Don’t be frightened(嚇到）! Just focus on your presentation and you’re gonna be great.

【slack】蕭條的，不景氣的；冷清的；懈怠的
- showing little activity; not busy or happening in a positive way
■ The job is taking a long time because the workmen are so slack.
這項工作花費了很長時間，因爲工人很懶散。
■ I've been so slack and have failed to think about others' needs.
我自己就很懶散無法再去照應別人的需求。
The problem is we're always thinking about our own unmet needs, and that distracts us from focusing on the person in front of us.

Thank Selina and every friend who listens to my recordings

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The problem is we are always thinking about our own unmet needs, and that distract us from focusing on the person in front of us.

The problem is we're always thinking about our own unmet needs, and that distracts us from focusing on the person in front of us.

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The problem is we’re always thinking about our own unmet needs, and that distracts us from focusing on the person in front of us.

✿︎unmet (adj.) not satisfied, or achieved
✿︎distract (v.) to make someone stop giving their attention to something
✿︎focus (n.v.) the main or central point of something, especially of attention or interest
-✿︎be in/ out of focus --used to say that a photograph is clear/not clear