每日口說挑戰是「慾望」還是「愛情」？ 6 招教你如何辨別！ (6 Differences Between Love vs Lust)

Happy Friday!!
放假前別忘了要錄音練習呦！
Question of the day: Have you ever been in love?
有沒有戀愛過呢？
**真是害羞的一題ww

18歲就被綁了終身約了( ̀⌄ ́)
[[?]]是不確定的部分，麻煩前輩們幫幫忙
****中英版****
⋯We have an interesting topic for you today , we’re talking about relationships , which to be honest, I don’t have a lot of experience in. But I’ll try my best to talk about what I know. Have you ever been in a relationship for a while and feel like something was different? You started to have deeper conversations and depended on each other more. You didn’t necessarily have to do everything together. You could do separate things and still be emotionally connected to the other person. That is when love is greater than lust. According to today’s video, lust is the initial feeling you have when you’re attracted to somebody, love happens after sometime. If you don’t have the same kind of affection for each other, then the relationship will end. For a long distance relationship, it will definitely be a rocky road if you only have lust and not love for your partner, this is from my own experience.
rocky road 障礙重重的路，困難重重的過程
To maintain a relationship, you need to communicate to know where is your relationships going end and if your parent and you are on the same page.(見解看法一致) If you want to know more about lust and love, you can watch today’s video. But first, let’s practice today’s sentence.

So, how do we know if we’re still stuck in the initial stage of attraction or ready to transition into something more meaningful and long-lasting?

stage 階段，發展時期。舞台。
Cara is still on the first stage of grief and loss which is denial. She believes her brother is still alive somewhere.
Marlie’s legs trembled as she stepped onto the stage to begin her audition for the musical.

attraction(n.) 吸引力，有吸引力的事物
I felt an immediate attraction to my husband when I first met him 20 years ago. According to him, the attraction was mutual.

attract(v.) 吸引，引起
Tom, the cat, put some cheese on the floor and hid behind the wall, he hoped that the cheese would attract Jerry, the mouse, to come over.

attracive(adj) 漂亮的，悅耳的，有魅力的，誘人的
Collin’s sister Katie, is really attractive. We should invite him to the party and see if he can bring her too.

transition(n.)轉變，過渡
The transition from being prince to a king was very stressful. His hair turned gray as he learnt how to rule a kingdom.

long-lasting 持續很久的
last(v.)延續，持續，繼續
He moved a lot because of his job which was the reason why he never had a long-lasting relationship.
The silent treatment(冷戰) I gave him lasted for 3 days. I started talking to him again after he apologized for what he did.

⋯but before you go and enjoy your weekend, please leave a comment and recording, and be sure, to share this with someone who is curious about the difference between love and lust.


****英英版****
⋯We have an interesting topic for you today , we’re talking about relationships , which to be honest, I don’t have a lot of experience in. But I’ll try my best to talk about what I know. Have you ever been in a relationship for a while and feel like something was different? You started to have deeper conversations and depended on each other more. You didn’t necessarily have to do everything together. You could do separate things and still be emotionally connected to the other person. That is when love is greater than lust. According to today’s video, lust is the initial feeling you have when you’re attracted to somebody, love happens after sometime. If you don’t have the same kind of affection for each other, then the relationship will end. For a long distance relationship, it will definitely be a rocky road if you only have lust and not love for your partner, this is from my own experience.

To maintain a relationship, you need to communicate to know where is your relationships going end and if your parent and you are on the same page. If you want to know more about lust and love, you can watch today’s video. But first, let’s practice today’s sentence.

So, how do we know if we’re still stuck in the initial stage of attraction or ready to transition into something more meaningful and long-lasting?

stage is a part of an activity or a period of development, or it can mean the area in a theater that is often raise above the ground level and on which actors or entertainment perform.

Cara is still on the first stage of grief and loss which is denial. She believes her brother is still alive somewhere.
Marlie’s legs trembled as she stepped onto the stage to begin her audition for the musical.

attraction(n.) means something that makes people want to go to a place or do a particular thing, or it can mean the feeling of liking someone, especially sexually, because of the way they look or behave.

I felt an immediate attraction to my husband when I first met him 20 years ago. According to him, the attraction was mutual.

The verb form of attraction is attract. Attract means to pull or draw someone or something towards them, by the qualities they have, especially good ones.

Tom, the cat, put some cheese on the floor and hid behind the wall, he hoped that the cheese would attract Jerry, the mouse, to come over.

attracive(adj.) means very pleasing and appearance or sound.
Collin’s sister Katie, is really attractive. We should invite him to the party and see if he can bring her too.

transition(n.) means a change from one form or type to another, or the process by which this happens.

The transition from being prince to a king was very stressful. His hair turned gray as he learnt how to rule a kingdom.

long-lasting (phrase) means continuing for a long period of time.
last(v.) means to continue to exist.

He moved a lot because of his job which was the reason why he never had a long-lasting relationship.
The silent treatment I gave him lasted for 3 days. I started talking to him again after he apologized for what he did.

⋯but before you go and enjoy your weekend, please leave a comment and recording, and be sure, to share this with someone who is curious about the difference between love and lust.

☺So, how do we know if we're still stuck in the initial stage of attraction or ready to transition into something more meaningful and long-lasting?
所以，我們要如何知道我們的關係究竟是還停留在第一階段的互相吸引，還是已經準備好進入更有意義、更長久的狀態了呢？
【心得】「愛」是心靈上的交流、「慾」是肉體上的交流，兩者結合就是一種...食物(好久沒吃愛玉了:p)
■lust [lʌst] 性慾、淫慾；強烈的慾望
貪慾[(+for)]
貪求、渴望[(+after/for)]
■stage [stedʒ] 階段；(發展)時期；舞臺；戲劇(藝術)；演戲；活動舞台、場所；(驛)站；(驛)站間的距離或路程；(顯微鏡)鏡臺；公共馬車
the stage戲劇界
把…搬上舞台、上演；籌劃；舉行、發動
(劇本)適於上演；乘公共馬車旅行
■attraction 吸引(力)；有吸引力的事物
attractions(旅遊)景點
(尤指兩性間的)誘惑；迷戀；喜愛
(萬有)引力(作用)；重力
■transition [trænˋzɪʃən] 轉變、變遷；過渡(時期)；變革(+from/to)]
■long-lasting 持續很久的、持久的

我也沒有太多經驗…就被綁定了

So, how do we know if we're still stuck in the initial stage of attraction or ready to transition into something more meaningful and long-lasting?

*Lust is a strong desire. E.g. A lust for power and fame.對權力和名聲的欲望。

Rocky road障礙重重的路或過程

Be on the same page 見解相同

Carol is still on the first stage of grief and lost(還在悲傷和失去的第一階段）, which is denial. She believes her brother is still alive somewhere.

Marley‘s legs trembled(雙腳在顫抖的）as he stepped onto the stage to begin her audition of the musical(準備為音樂劇試鏡時).

I felt an immediate attraction to my husband when I first met him 20 years ago. According to him, feeling attraction was mutual(互相吸引的）.

Tom, the cat, puts some cheese on the floor and hid behind the wall. He hopes that the cheese would attract Jerry, the mouse, to come over(靠近）.

Collin’s sister, Kelly, is really attractive(很漂亮；很有吸引力). We should invite him into the party and see if he can bring her too.

The transition(過渡) from being Prince to a King was very stressful. His hair turned to grey as he learnt how to rule the kingdom.

He moved a lot (很常辦家）because of his job, which was the reason why he never had a long-lasting relationship（從未有長久的感情）.

The silent treatment(冷戰）I gave him lasted for 3 days. I started talking to him again after he apologized for what he did.

#於我如浮雲吶
So, how do we know if we're still stuck in the initial stage of attraction or ready to transition into something more meaningful and long-lasting?

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So, how do we know if we're still stuck in the initial stage of attraction or ready to transition into something more meaningful and long-lasting?

所以，我們要如何知道我們是否還在第一階段的互相吸引，還是已經準備好進入更有意義且長久的感情了呢？

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1. _
* stage [stedʒ] (n.) 1. 階段；發展時期 2. 舞臺
- Cara is still on the first stage of grief and loss which is the denial, she believes her brother is still alive somewhere.
+ Cara仍處於悲傷和失落的第一階段，仍然否認，她相信她的兄弟仍在某處活著。
- Miley's legs trembled as she stepped onto the stage to begin her audition for The Musical.
+ 當她踏上舞台開始為音樂劇試鏡時，Miley的雙腿顫抖著。

2. _
* attraction [əˋtrækʃən] (n.) 吸引（力）；有吸引力的事物
- I felt an immediate attraction to my husband when I first met him 20 years ago according to him the attraction was mutual.
+ 20年前，當我第一次見到他時，我立刻感受到了我丈夫的吸引力。據他說，吸引力是相互的。
- Tom the cat put some cheese on the floor and head behind the wall he hoped that the cheese would attract Jerry the mouse to come over.
+ 湯姆貓把一些奶酪放在地板上，然後在牆後面，他希望奶酪會吸引傑瑞鼠過來。

- Collins sister Katie is really attractive we should invite him to the party and see if he can bring her too.
+ Collins的姊姊Katie非常有吸引力我們應該邀請他參加派對，看看他是否也可以帶她去。

3. _
* transition [trænˋzɪʃən] (n.) 轉變；過渡
- The transition from being a prince to a King was very stressful his hair turned gray as you learned how to roll a kingdom.
+ 從王子到國王的過渡非常緊張，當你學會如何推動一個王國時，他的頭髮變成灰色。

4. _
* long-lasting [] (ph.) 持續很久的；持久的
- He moved a lot because of his job which was the reason why he never had a long-lasting relationship.
+ 由於他的工作，他很長移動，這也是他從未有過長久關係的原因。
- The silent treatment I gave him lasted for three days I started talking to him again after he apologized for what he did.
+ 我跟他的冷戰持續了三天，他為他所做的事道歉後再次與他交談。

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So, how do we know if we're still stuck in the initial stage of attraction or ready to transition into something more meaningful and long-lasting?

也不知道怎麼的就走到這了~哈

So, how do we know if we're still stuck in the initial stage of attraction or ready to transition into something more meaningful and long-lasting?

不知道是單身太久了還怎樣，現在反而覺得一個人很好了呢！