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  • Lust has a reputation for being the flame we jump into!

    「慾望」以讓我們飛蛾撲火而聞名。

  • Think of Fifty Shades of Grey or your classic bad boy or bad girl, who's all games in danger with no strings attached.

    想想電影「格雷的五十道陰影」或是經典的壞男孩壞女孩形象,享受沒有感情牽扯的危險關係。

  • But according to leading love expert Dr. Helen Fisher- lust is the essential first stage of love.

    根據愛情專家 Helen Fisher 博士,「慾望」是正式進入愛情的第一階段。

  • Without the desire of wanting someone first, we cannot experience intimacy.

    如果不渴望另一方,我們就沒辦法感受親密。

  • So, how do we know if we're still stuck in the initial stage of attraction or ready to transition into something more meaningful and long-lasting?

    所以,我們要如何知道我們是否還在第一階段的互相吸引,還是已經準備好進入更有意義且長久的感情了呢?

  • Here are 6 Key Differences Between Lust versus Love.

    這些是 6 種區別「慾望」和「愛情」的關鍵要點。

  • One, lust is driven by physical connection, but love comes from emotional connection.

    第一,「慾望」是由身體接觸而驅使的,但「愛情」是由情感連結產生的。

  • It all comes down to our brain.

    這全由頭腦掌控。

  • Which areas are being activated when you hang out with your partner?

    當你在和另一半互動時,腦內哪些地方會被啟動呢?

  • Research shows that lust lights up the regions associated with reward and motivation whereas love stimulates the areas that help you empathize.

    根據研究,「慾望」啟動的是腦內掌管誘因與獎勵相關的部分,而「愛情」則是刺激腦內幫助你與他人產生共鳴的部分。

  • Lust happens when you and your partner don't have much to talk about but have great sex.

    沒有很多話可以聊但性生活美滿時,就會產生慾望。

  • This is common for two people who haven't been dating for too long.

    剛在一起不久的情侶間很常發生。

  • But love on the other hand happens when you appreciate your partner for more than just their looks, and can spend meaningful time with them.

    當你不只欣賞另一半的外貌,並能花時間有更多有意義的交流時,愛情就會產生。

  • This is what ultimately forms the start of a deep and serious relationship.

    這就是開始一段深遠而認真的感情的根基。

  • Two, overtime love grows stronger, whereas lust becomes weaker.

    第二,在一起的時間越久,「愛情」會茁壯,而「慾望」會漸弱。

  • Psychologist and sex therapist Shannon Chavez states that as attachment and bonding grow over time, so does love.

    心理學家兼性治療師 Shannon Chavez 說明:依戀及親密關係會隨時間增強,愛也是如此。

  • But lust is more temporary and fades when sexual desire fades away.

    而「慾望」是暫時的,性需求減弱時它就會逐漸消逝。

  • If a relationship is based solely on lust, there is inevitably no foundation to fall in love with each other.

    如果一段感情完全建立於慾望,兩人就沒有墜入愛河的根基。

  • Lust feels like an exciting roller coaster, but can only be sustained by physical pleasure.

    慾望像是刺激的雲霄飛車,但是只能因身體上的滿足而持久。

  • When the real work kicks in, the dynamic either transitions into love or the relationship begins to fall apart.

    當認真起來時,兩人有可能發展成愛情或是感情開始慢慢消失。

  • Three, lust is based on fantasies.

    第三,「慾望」出自於幻想。

  • Love however operates on the ground of reality.

    「愛情」則由現實驅動。

  • Have you ever looked back on past relationships and wondered how on earth you two got together?

    你有沒有曾想起過去的感情,想說:「我們到底為什麼會在一起?」

  • I don't know about you, but I sure do.

    我是不知道你有沒有,但我曾有想過。

  • Imagination can come in handy when life gets mundane, but more often than not it's like a double-edged sword.

    當生活很單調時,想像力是很有用的,但它就像是一把雙刃劍。

  • When you like the idea of someone more than who's actually in front of you, it can cause you to miss a lot of red flags.

    當你只喜歡一個人的概念而不是真正的他的話,可能會讓你察覺不到許多錯誤的訊號。

  • Relationship experts state that there is only so much time before reality sets in, and it makes you realize that your partner has faults just like you.

    感情專家提到,你只需要一些時間回到現實,並發現你的另一半也有缺點,就跟你自己一樣。

  • And that your expectations were unfair.

    你的期望一點都不公平。

  • Four, in lust, you are romantic partners, but in love, you're lifelong friends.

    第四,「慾望」使你們成為親密對象,但「愛情」使你們變成一生的朋友。

  • Psychiatrist Judith Orloff discovered that people in lust are just lovers, but true love is built on the foundation of a strong friendship.

    心理醫生 Judith Orloff 發現,滿足慾望的對象只是愛人而已,但真愛是來自於堅固的友情。

  • Sure!

    當然!

  • Two people can agree to be in a relationship, go on fun dates, and even meet each other's family.

    兩個人可以同意開始一段感情,出去約會,甚至見見對方的家長。

  • But if they lack compromise, communicate poorly, and fail to understand each other.

    但如果他們沒有互相妥協,沒有適當溝通,他們不會了解彼此。

  • The prospect of having a future together is very low.

    有共同未來的展望機率很小。

  • Five, lust is all about thrill seeking whereas love is the pursuit of stability.

    第五,「慾望」是為了尋求刺激,但「愛情」是為了追求穩定。

  • Researchers have looked at MRI scans of people in lust, and found that their brains look similar when an addict gets a fix of cocaine.

    研究家透過核磁共振攝影發現,當人充滿慾望時,腦部的活動與古柯鹼成癮者吸毒時的反應相似。

  • Sounds intense, right?

    聽起來很激烈,對吧?

  • But that's why infatuation is not likely to last as long as love.

    這就是為什麼熱戀沒辦法像愛情一般持久。

  • The drug effects wear off when you can no longer satiate your sexual desires.

    當你的性需求得到滿足時,這種類似毒品的效應將會消退。

  • Whereas lust is about instant gratification, love is the relentless search for stability.

    相對來說,「慾望」只是暫時的快樂,「愛情」則是不斷尋找穩定。

  • Six, lust is selfish but love comes from a selfless place.

    第六,「慾望」是自私的,而「愛情」是無私的。

  • When you love someone, you focus more on helping them reach their goals and care about their health and well-being.

    當你愛一個人時,你會著重在幫助他們達成他們的目標,並關心他們的健康和幸福。

  • Lust, on the other hand, is all about your own wants, like boosting your ego when you're next to your attractive partner or simply fulfilling your sexual desires.

    慾望,則是跟自己想要的東西有關,比如藉由擁有充滿吸引力的另一半來增加自尊心,或是單純想要滿足自己的性需求。

  • In order to move from the initial stage of lust to love, you must determine whether you could see yourself doing favors or making sacrifices for your partner.

    從「慾望」轉型成為「愛情」之前,你必須判斷你是否能給予另一半幫助或是為另一半做犧牲。

  • Do you think you're in lust or in love?

    你覺得你的感情是「慾望」還是「愛情」呢?

  • We hope that this video helped you differentiate between the two.

    我們希望這支影片能幫入你分辨兩者。

  • Remember that just because you might only be experiencing lust, doesn't mean that your feelings can't develop into love.

    記得,就算你可能只感受到「慾望」,不代表它不會發展成為「愛情」。

  • Please share your thoughts with us below.

    請在下面留言你的想法。

  • Also, be sure to subscribe to our channel for more helpful content and thank you for watching!

    還有,別忘了訂閱我們的頻道,看更多有幫助的影片內容,謝謝收看!

Lust has a reputation for being the flame we jump into!

「慾望」以讓我們飛蛾撲火而聞名。

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