But it definitely is a thing that people have or they don't have.

但這絕對是一個人有或沒有的事情。

I wouldn't say I'm good at flirting.

我不會說我擅長調情。

I am excellent at flirting.

我在調情方面很出色。

"Smiling, leaning forward and touching someone, and making eye contact can suggest romantic interest."

"微笑、前傾和觸摸某人，以及眼神接觸都可以暗示浪漫的興趣。"

Eye contact is big.

目光接觸是大。

It's the first intention of like, "Oh, I'm kind of into you."

這是第一個意向的喜歡， "哦，我有點喜歡你。"

When someone starts to turn their head away, but their eyes stay looking at you.

當有人開始把頭轉過去，但他們的眼睛卻一直看著你。

You don't want to look like you're just staring at them, and then they're going to be like, "Do I have something on my face?"

你不想看起來像 你只是盯著他們， 然後他們會像， "我有什麼在我的臉上？"

Smiling a lot, "smizing," if you will.

經常微笑，可以說是 "微笑"。

The key to flirting is to making the person feel like they're the only person in the room.

調情的關鍵是讓對方覺得自己是房間裡唯一的人。

The movies have taught you that you do a little wink and you flip your hair, but I would never do that.

電影裡教過你，你做個小眼神，你就甩甩頭髮，但我絕不會這麼做。

You saw how awkward that was... like what is this?

你也看到了那是多麼的尷尬... 就像這是什麼？

Does that do anything for you?

這對你有什麼好處嗎？

And then, I'm like, "Okay, maybe I should stand more straight."

然後，我想，"好吧，也許我應該站得更直。"

"No, they're going to think I'm too tall."

"不，他們會認為我太高了。"

"No, okay."

"嗯，好吧。"

When I'm flirting with someone, my posture is the best it's ever been.

當我和別人調情的時候，我的姿勢是最好的。

My ballet teacher would be so proud.

我的芭蕾舞老師會很驕傲的。

Because I'm supposed to have my chest out, and I'm supposed to, like, "hi."

因為我應該有我的胸部了， 我應該，像，"嗨"。

Oh, this is what's so funny about having small boobs is they'll still do it, but I'll feel dumb doing it because it's sort of like, "And here is my necklace!"

哦，這就是有小胸的有趣之處 她們還是會做，但我會覺得自己很笨，因為這有點像，"這是我的項鍊！"

Touch is a really great easy flirt, and you just kind of put your hand on their shoulder.

觸摸是一個真正偉大的容易調情，你只是那種把你的手放在他們的肩膀上。

I do a lot of hand on the small of the back, which is typically a guy move.

我在小背上做了很多手，這是典型的男人動作。

But I feel like usually it comes off as like I'm trying to grab their ass, so I'm like, "Eh," and they're just like, "Whoa, girl."

但我覺得通常情況下，它脫落 像我試圖抓住他們的屁股， 所以我想，"誒，"他們只是喜歡，"哇，女孩。"

"A survey by Jdate and Christian Mingle found that 33% of women find it easier to ask someone on a date via text than by calling them."

"Jdate和Christian Mingle的一項調查發現，33%的女性認為通過簡訊約人比打電話更容易。"

Texting is definitely a large part of flirting.

發短信絕對是調情的一大環節。

So less is more, though, when you're first texting with someone.

所以少即是多，不過，當你第一次和別人發短信的時候。

Aloof is key.

冷漠是關鍵。

I think emojis are really flirty.

我覺得表情符號真的很騷。

Where she's blowing you a heart kiss.

她在哪裡給你吹了一個心吻。

Poop emoji, boom, thinking of you.

大便表情，轟，想你了。

The smiling poop.

那個微笑的大便。

The little smirk face where you're like, "Yeah, I just said something dirty."

小笑臉，你就像， "是啊，我只是說了一些骯髒的東西。"

"What are you going to do about it?"

"你打算怎麼做？"

The ghost keeps him guessing, and, also, how cute.

鬼讓他猜不透，還有，多可愛。

The peach emoji is the sexiest one for sure.

桃子的表情肯定是最性感的一個。

Social media was invented to flirt, in my opinion.

在我看來，社交媒體的發明就是為了調侃。

That's all I use it for.

這就是我使用它的全部目的。

Casually liking one or two photos.

隨便點贊一兩張照片。

He's going to post one that he thinks everyone's going to like.

他要發一個他認為大家都會喜歡的。

Don't like that one, but two weeks later, you'll come in with a "like" when he only has 10, push it to 11.

不喜歡這個，但是兩個星期後，你會在他只有10個的時候來一個 "喜歡"，推到11個。

You'll get married.

你會結婚的。

If I were to give advice to someone who is totally clueless about flirting, I would say, "Welcome to the club."

如果我要給一個完全不懂調情的人建議，我會說："歡迎加入俱樂部。"

If you're awkward and weird, be awkward and weird, and it will be flirty in exactly the right way.

如果你笨拙怪異，那就笨拙怪異吧，這樣的方式恰恰會很嫵媚。

Just like, go for it and just be direct.

就像，去了就直接。

There such a stigma for girls that you shouldn't make the first move in that way or go up to the guy, but the worst that could happen is they turn you down, and that's not the end of the world.

對於女生來說，有這樣的成見，你不應該用這種方式先下手為強，也不應該上前搭訕，但最壞的情況是他們拒絕了你，這不是世界末日。

Make your flirts have some sort of end game.

讓你的調情有某種結局。

Otherwise, why are we on this bleak earth?

否則，我們為什麼會在這淒涼的人間？

I'd rather regret something I did do than something I didn't do, so just go do it.

我寧可後悔做了的事，也不願後悔沒做的事，所以就去做吧。