Hey there, Adam LoDolce from SexyConfidence dot com where I help the 21st century woman create a love life that she absolutely loves.
And in this super short video I'm going to be sharing with you the 5 signs that a dude you might have just started dating is seeing other women.
The first sign is that you're not in a committed relationship with him.
If he hasn't said the words that, I'm not seeing anyone else, then don't assume he isn't.
Chances are, nowadays, if a guy is not in a committed relationship with you then he's probably dating and talking to lots of other women.
Just like you should be talking to other guys as well.
It doesn't mean you have to be sleeping with a ton of other guys. It means that you should be talking to other guys and keeping your options open.
Then of course, once you both declare that you are in a committed relationship, then it becomes exclusive.
The second sign is that he won't hang out with you on the weekend.
Let me tell you sexy confidence ladies something right now.
You do not want to be the Tuesday night rotational girl.
I repeat, you do not want to be the Tuesday night rotational girl.
If he's only hanging out with you during the week and then he disappears on the weekends, then chances are, he's going out and meeting new girls to fill his dating pipeline.
And you are the Tuesday night girl.
Don't be that Tuesday night girl.
Number three, is he freaks out even if you go near his phone.
Let me look it up on Yelp.
Sketchy dudes are sketchy about their phones because that's where sketchy shit takes place.
But, ladies, please, don't be the NSA hacking into his phone to see what he's doing.
If you're not in a relationship with the guy, you don't have a right to know what he does with his phone.
And if you are in a relationship with a guy, and you can't trust him enough not to go ahead and snoop and go through all his text messages, then it's time to reconsider the relationship.
Number four is his answer is always "maybe," and he never really wants to commit to any plans.
If he's only saying maybe to you, then he's actively searching for some other girl to say yes to him.
And then when she says no to him, he says yes to you.
And finally, number five, is that you're always accusing him of seeing other girls.
Listen, relationships require trust, and if you constantly don't trust him and keep nagging about him seeing other women, then he's not going to put up with that shit.
So the moral of the story is, if you're just talking to the guy in a casual situation...
Then you know what?
Assume he's seeing other women.
If you're not happy with that situation, sit him down, have a conversation that he needs to be committed or you move on.
Finally, if you are in a committed relationship, it's going well, and he hasn't given you any reasons not to trust him, then you've got to trust him.
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