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Hi Bob the Canadian here.
嗨，我是加拿大人 Bob。
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There will be times when you are having an English conversation when you will need to disagree with somebody.
有時候當你在進行英文的對話時，你需要反對某些人的意見。
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But you will want to do it in a way where you still show respect for the other person, even if you don't agree with their point of view.
但即使你不同意其他人的觀點，你仍會希望以較尊重別人的方式表達。
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So you'll want to do a few things to make the conversation be more like a discussion and less like an argument.
所以你可以做幾件事讓這個對話更像是一場討論，而不是爭吵。
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First of all, relax.
首先，放輕鬆。
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Calm down.
冷靜下來。
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Be reasonable in your approach.
說話的方式要理性。
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Getting upset and raising your voice never helps with a conversation.
生氣或大小聲對溝通沒有任何的幫助。
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If you can, find a spot where the two of you can sit down.
如果可以，找一個你們雙方都可以坐下的地點。
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Sitting down is a less aggressive approach to having a conversation with someone.
坐下是一個和其他人溝通較不激進的方法。
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Take your time.
慢慢來。
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Make sure you listen to their point of view.
好好地傾聽他們的觀點。
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And don't interrupt them when they are talking.
對方在講話的時候不要打斷他們。
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Here are a few things that you can say during this conversation that are extremely polite but still allow you to express your point of view.
以下是一些可以在這類對話中使用的句子，這些話非常有禮貌，但依舊可以讓你表達自己的觀點。
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You could say.
你可以說。
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I see Dave, but in my opinion we shouldn't have to pay for water.
我知道了 Dave，但是就我的觀點來說我們不應該要花錢買水。
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It should be free.
它應該要是免費的。
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Or, you could say.
或者你可以這麼說。
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I understand where you are coming from Dave, but I think dogs in the park should always be on a leash.
我理解你的意思 Dave，但我認為公園裡的狗應該要一直被牽著。
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You could also say.
你也可以說。
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Dave, I see your point of view, but I think it would be better if we spent the money on new clothing.
Dave，我懂你的觀點，但我認為如果我們把錢花在新衣服上會更好。
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And if you're looking for a few other options, you could also say things like...
如果你還想要幾個不一樣的選項，你可以說...
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Hmmm.
嗯。
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That's interesting, but the way I see it, it would be better if we went to the mall before we went out to eat.
有意思，但是在我看來如果我們先去購物中心再出去吃飯會比較好。
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And finally you could also say: Dave, I'm not sure I agree with that.
最後，你可以說：Dave，我不太同意你的想法。
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I think we would be better off buying a new car instead of driving the old car for another year.
我覺得我們最好買一輛新車，而不要再開一年舊車。
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There are also a few things that you shouldn't say when you are having a discussion with someone.
當你在跟別人對話時，有些句子千萬不能說。
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You shouldn't outright say...
你千萬不能馬上說...
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You are wrong!
你錯了！
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This is very impolite in English.
這在英文裡非常不禮貌。
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You should never say to someone outright...
你絕對不能馬上對某個人說...
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I disagree with you!
我不同意你說的！
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This is also somewhat impolite in English.
這個在英文裡也是不太禮貌的。
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And you should certainly never say...
而你絕對不可以說...
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Only an idiot would say that!
只有白癡才這麼講！
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Because that is an outright insult.
因為那是公然的侮辱。
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Bob the Canadian here.
我是加拿大人 Bob。
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That's a few ways that you can have a disagreement with someone in English and have a resolution at the end of a discussion instead of having an argument.
以上是一些你可以表達不贊同的方法，以及如何在討論的最後解決問題，而不是引發爭執。
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Bob the Canadian here.
我是加拿大人 Bob。
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Learn English with Bob the Canadian.
跟加拿大人 Bob 一起學英文。
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Have a great day.
祝你有個美好的一天。
