Name: The 10 Habits That Will Make You More Attractive and Get People to Like You
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The 10 Habits that will Make You More Attractive and Get People to Like You

10個習慣，會讓你更有吸引力，讓人們喜歡你。

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Most people think that being attractive is all about being good looking. Indeed, some

大多數人認為，有魅力就是要長得好看。的確，有些

people are blessed with natural good looks. They go through most of their lives benefitting

人都有天生的美貌。他們一生中的大部分時間都在受益於

from their pleasing physical appearance. But, attraction has to do with much more than

從他們賞心悅目的外表。但是，吸引力有做更多的事情比

your face, body, hair or clothes. Here are 10 habits that you can start implementing

你的臉、身體、頭髮或衣服。這裡有10個習慣，你可以開始實施。

into your daily life that will make you instantly more attractive - regardless of your physical

到你的日常生活中，讓你瞬間變得更有魅力--無論你的身體狀況如何。

You can complain all you want about things, people or circumstances. But at the end of

你可以盡情地抱怨事情、人或環境。但到了最後

the day, you're not helping yourself grow. And you certainly don't make others like

的日子，你沒有幫助自己成長。而且你肯定不會讓別人喜歡

you any better! You see, people like to be around others who

你更好！你看，人們喜歡和別人在一起，他們...

make them feel good. But, how do you do just that? Well, you can start by using positive

讓他們感覺良好。但是，你如何做到這一點呢？那麼，你可以從使用積極的

words, and offering a lot of praise. Receiving that kind of energy makes others feel good,

話，並提供大量的讚美。接受這種能量，讓別人感覺良好。

The only way to make other people curious about you is by being curious yourself. Learn

要想讓別人對你產生好奇，唯一的辦法就是自己好奇。學習

how things work. Analyze why people behave the way they do, and try to figure out what

事情是如何運作的。分析人們為什麼會有這樣的行為，並試著弄清楚什麼是

makes them tick. Read some interesting books, and find out what's happening in the world

讓他們心動。閱讀一些有趣的書籍，瞭解世界上發生的事情。

around you. When you have a lot more to say, people instinctively

在你身邊。當你有很多話想說時，人們會本能地

There's a reason why happy and charming people tend to have more friends and admirers. Happiness

幸福而有魅力的人往往擁有更多的朋友和崇拜者，這是有原因的。幸福

is considered the most attractive expression! People are drawn to positive emotions, and

被認為是最吸引人的表情!人們被積極的情緒所吸引，而

a smile conveys friendliness and openness. So, remember to smile often!

微笑傳遞的是友好和坦誠。所以，記得經常微笑吧!

to do for them, they automatically expect you to deliver. Instead, surprise them from

為他們做的事，他們會自動地期望你能做到。相反，要給他們一個驚喜"■▄▄■▓。

time to time! It's much more memorable and impactful than doing what you've already

時光荏苒!這比做你已經做的事情更難忘，更有影響力。

promised. It's not the gift alone that will brighten

承諾的。不僅僅是禮物會讓人眼前一亮

their day, but the thought you put into the nice gesture!

他們的日子，但你的思想投入到漂亮的姿態！

These two simple words - though overused at times - can make a world of a difference in

這兩個簡單的詞--雖然有時用得過多，但卻能讓你的生活發生翻天覆地的變化。

someone's day. All it takes is a couple of seconds to think about and appreciate what

某個人的一天。所有這一切都只需要幾秒鐘的時間去思考和欣賞。

you are given. Even if it's something small - like someone

你得到的。即使是一些小事--比如說有人

holding the door open for you, always remember to say thanks!

We can all agree that it's an unpleasant sight to see someone screaming or lashing

我們都同意，這是一個不愉快的景象 看到有人尖叫或鞭打

out in a destructive way. And sometimes we just can't help but lash back! Well, don't

以一種破壞性的方式。有時候我們就是忍不住要回擊!那麼，不要

do that. Before you snap, take a minute and think about the whole situation. It's best

這樣做。在你抓緊之前，花一分鐘時間考慮一下整個情況。最好是

to stay calm and just talk it out. By doing this, you'll be able to understand

要保持冷靜，只是把它說出來。通過這樣做，你將能夠理解

others much better, and as a result, you will establish closer connections to them.

別人更好，是以，你會和他們建立更緊密的聯繫。

We all have been hurt and disappointed at some point in our lives. And while letting

我們都曾在生活中的某個階段受到過傷害和失望。而當讓

go is a difficult thing to do, it is extremely important. Anger, jealousy, and holding grudges

去是一件很困難的事情，但它是極其重要的。憤怒、嫉妒、記恨。

are ugly habits. They only cultivate negativity and bring you down.

是醜陋的習慣。它們只會培養負面情緒，讓你失望。

Forgiving someone for having wronged you will not only make you a better person in their

原諒一個人對你的錯誤，不僅會讓你在他們的心目中成為一個更好的人。

eyes, but you will come across as a mature and sensible person.

眼，但你會表現出一個成熟理智的人。

Most of us feel uncomfortable when we're out of our comfort zone, and away from familiar

當我們離開自己的舒適區，遠離熟悉的環境時，我們大多數人都會感到不舒服。

groups of people. But, people who take the initiative and introduce themselves to others

群體的人。但是，主動向別人介紹自己的人。

are the types who are completely comfortable in their own skin – a trait that's highly

屬於那種對自己的皮膚完全滿意的類型--這種特質是高度的

attractive! So, break out of your comfort zone and strike

吸引人!所以，打破你的舒適區，並打出

up a conversation with someone you don't know! You'll instantly surprise them, and

與你不認識的人交談!你會立即給他們帶來驚喜，並且

you might just walk away with greater confidence!

你可能只是帶著更大的信心離開!

Number Nine: Do Something Nice for a Stranger

Take opportunities to be kind to others every day. You'll be amazed how good it feels!

每天抓住機會善待他人。你會驚訝於這種感覺有多好!

Pick up a dropped wallet for someone, or simply smile at a passerby. These are little gestures

為別人撿起掉落的錢包，或者只是對路人微笑。這些都是小小的舉動

most people won't take the effort to do, but will give respect - if YOU do!

大多數人不會花力氣去做，但會給人尊重--如果你做了!

Not only will you feel better, but your gracious act will be much appreciated.

不僅會讓你感覺更好，而且你的親切舉動也會讓人非常感激。

People who take care of themselves are more attractive because they emanate self-discipline.

照顧好自己的人更有魅力，因為他們散發著自律的氣息。

Being in control of yourself means that you are able to meet your basic needs, and others

掌控自己意味著你能夠滿足自己的基本需求，也能夠滿足別人的需求。

don't perceive you as being a burden. Eating nutritiously, exercising regularly,

不要認為你是一個負擔。營養飲食，規律運動。

and attending to your physical, mental and emotional health should be an important part

照顧你的身體、心理和情緒健康應該是一個重要的部分。

Can you think of any other simple habits to add to this list? If so, let us know in the

你能想到其他簡單的習慣添加到這個列表中嗎？如果有，請在