Name: 如何判斷你是否墜入愛河？ (How To Know If You Are In Love)
Uploaded: 2026-03-10T17:07:47.000Z
Duration: 3 min 36 s

過去簡單式

Have you ever wondered if you were really in love?

你有沒有想過，你真的有在談戀愛嗎？

情態助動詞 A2

Well, this is the test that can prove it.

嗯，這個測試可以證明這一點。

祈使句型

Once and for all, do this thought experiment.

一勞永逸，來做這個思想實驗。

Imagine you come home from work, you walk in the front door, you go to your bedroom expecting to see your partner, but

想像一下，你下班回家，走進家門，走到臥室，期待看到你的伴侶，但

這張紙條寫著，寶貝，我很抱歉。

I have run off with someone else and we are deeply in love and very happy together.

我跟別人跑了，我們深深地相愛，而且非常快樂。

I'm sorry I couldn't tell you this in person, but

I'm very, very happy and fulfilled with this person.

我跟這個人在一起，感到非常非常快樂和滿足。

I hope that you and I one day can be friends and I wish you the very best in life.

我希望有一天我們能成為朋友，我祝你一生幸福。

Now, if your response isn't, oh my God, that is so good, she done found somebody that she really loves and is fulfilled, that is great.

現在，如果你的反應不是「天啊，太好了，她找到真正愛她、讓她滿足的人了，這真是太棒了。」

If your response isn', that, then you had a little possessive attachment in your relationship and that ain't love.

如果你的反應不是這樣，那表示你們的關係裡有點佔有欲的依戀，那不是愛。

Now before some of you guys get butt hurt, let me explain why.

現在，在你們有些人要生氣之前，讓我解釋一下原因。

It is the acceptance of who that person is and all the new versions of that person that you never expected to see.

它是接受那個人真實的樣子，以及你從未預料到會看到的那個人所有的新版本。

Now some people say, oh, you just showed me your true colors.

現在有些人會說，「喔，你只是讓我看到你的真面目。」

But the truth is, ladies and gentlemen, we are rainbows.

但事實是，各位，我們都是彩虹。

And you have to take off your rose colored glasses to see that we live in a world where people literally say, if my partner doesn't get jealous, then they don't love me for real.

你必須摘下你的玫瑰色眼鏡才能看到，我們活在一個人們會說：「如果我的伴侶不吃醋，那他們就不愛我。」的世界。

Now look, I'm not saying I'm perfect or that I could even do that experiment and have that reaction, right?

好了，我不是說我很完美，或者我能做那個思想實驗並有那樣的反應，對吧？

I probably would feel a little salty and a lot of sad.

我大概會有點酸酸的，然後非常難過。

But this is why this thought experiment is so good to do from time to time.

但這就是為什麼這個思想實驗時不時做一下會這麼好。

Because for a healthy relationship we have to constantly evaluate am I being possessive or am I truly loving this person, allowing them to have freedom.

因為要維持一段健康的關係，我們必須不斷評估，我是在佔有欲的依戀，還是我真的在愛這個人，允許他們自由。

We have to constantly ask the question, if this person were to leave me because of a reason that would make their soul truly happy and fulfilled, would I be okay with that?

我們必須不斷問自己這個問題：如果這個人因為某個能讓他們靈魂真正快樂和滿足的原因離開我，我會沒事嗎？

Would I have peace and understanding if that happened?

如果那樣發生，我會有平靜和理解嗎？

Now I told a couple friends of mine this experiment and I ain't gonna say no names, but

現在，我跟我幾個朋友說了這個實驗，我不會說出名字，但是

some of their responses were like, I'm gonna get my and we gon burn that motherf cker's house down.

他們有些人的回應是，我要去把那混蛋的房子燒了。

To which I said, thank you for your answer, I will stay on your good side.

我對他們說，謝謝你的回答，我會乖乖待在你這邊的。

But the truth is, ladies and gentlemen, there are three types of love.

但事實是，各位，愛有三種類型。

Love, if, love, because of and love period.

愛「如果」、愛「因為」和單純的愛。

Hey guys, thank you so much for watching that video.

哈囉各位，非常感謝你們看完這支影片。

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如果你們還沒加入我們這個大家庭，記得訂閱這個頻道，然後點一下那個小鈴鐺，這樣才不會錯過任何精彩內容。

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想知道更多內部資訊、挑戰和優惠，請到 princea.com 註冊我的個人電子郵件清單，最後，別忘了讓每一個呼吸都算數。