Name: TOKYO VLOG 🌸 在日本養育我們的寶寶、國際婚姻生活以及適應為人父母的生活 (TOKYO VLOG 🌸 Raising Our Baby in Japan, International Married Life, & Adjusting to Parenting)
Uploaded: 2025-09-26T18:00:16.000Z
Duration: 17 min 7 s

情態助動詞 A2

I cannot believe we have a baby. We have a kid. I have a child out in the world.

真不敢相信我們有孩子了我們有孩子了我有了一個孩子

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I can't even like fix my camera angle right now.

Because trying to film everything is so hard.

因為想把所有東西都拍下來太難了。

She was in the shower room with me and it went okay.

她和我一起在浴室裡，一切都很順利。

She didn't cry, but I made sure that she saw me at all times.

她沒有哭，但我確保她隨時都能看到我。

哦，不，我把這個卡在耳環裡了。

She liked the sound of the hair dryer, which was very interesting.

她喜歡吹風機的聲音，這非常有趣。

Yeah, just trying to get things done with a baby can be really hard.

是啊，帶著孩子做事情真的很難。

But you know, you can't put aside your entire life or your whole health.

但你知道，你不能把你的整個生活或整個健康放在一邊。

You have to put yourself first sometimes and then pick her up and soothe her.

有時你必須把自己放在第一位，然後抱起她，安撫她。

I was not getting dressed. I was not eating.

I was not doing anything. I was not taking baths.

So I realized that waking up a little bit earlier than she does is probably better to get showered and everything.

所以我意識到，比她起得早一點，也許更有利於洗澡和做其他事情。

I've done that before. It works the best.

我以前也這麼幹過。效果最好。

But sometimes I'm so tired that I just want to sleep more.

但有時我太累了，只想多睡一會兒。

So I end up just sleeping in and then, you know, this happens.

所以我就睡到自然醒，然後，你知道，就發生了這樣的事。

So it's almost like 1 o'clock and I still haven't gotten anything done yet.

現在都快一點了，我還什麼都沒做完。

She usually falls asleep to my voice, so today is a very different day.

她通常是聽著我的聲音入睡的，所以今天很不一樣。

And I'm trying to accept that every day is going to be very different and to let go of control, because that's something that I struggled with all my life.

我正試著接受每天都會有很大不同的事實，並放下控制，因為這是我一生都在掙扎的事情。

Trying to control everything and that can be, you know, like an inner wound from in the past of just trying to be perfect and just make sure everything goes as planned.

試圖控制一切，這可能是你知道的，就像過去的內心創傷，只是試圖做到完美，只是確保一切按計劃進行。

But when it comes to living the ikigai lifestyle, which is what I like to call it, it's about being your honest self, but it's also about letting go and just living in the moment, moving with the flow, moving with the changes.

但說到 "ikigai "生活方式，也就是我喜歡的說法，就是要做誠實的自己，但也要放手，活在當下，隨波逐流，隨變而動。

Because that's how we as humans are supposed to be, you know?

因為我們人類就應該這樣，你知道嗎？

The lack of control can cause a lot of stress when you're trying to control everything.

當你試圖控制一切時，缺乏控制會給你帶來很大的壓力。

And when it comes to manifesting anything in your life, to let go is probably one of the most important ingredients to manifest something in your life.

說到在你的生活中實現任何事情，放手可能是在你的生活中實現某些事情的最重要因素之一。

It's just to kind of go with the flow, become an innovator, try to figure out, okay, well, this is happening now, accept what's happening now, and then move forward by trying to do something a different way.

就是要順勢而為，成為一個創新者，試著去想，好吧，現在就是這樣，接受現在發生的一切，然後嘗試用不同的方式去做一些事情，繼續前進。

That's just kind of how, you know, we're supposed to live, instead of, oh, it has to be this way or nothing, if that makes sense.

你知道，我們就應該這樣生活，而不是 "要麼這樣，要麼什麼都不做"，如果你覺得有道理的話。

I don't know what I'm saying. Like, my brain is pretty much dead.

我不知道我在說什麼。就像我的大腦已經死機了

But she is taking a little nap next to me, so while she is taking a nap,

但她正在我身邊小睡，所以在她小睡的時候、

I'm going to attempt to do my makeup and start the day.

A reminder, if you guys want to experience the Ikigai Lifestyle course that I had created a couple years ago that made so many, so much impact on other people's lives, just by taking that course.

提醒一下，如果你們想體驗我幾年前創建的 "池蓋生活方式 "課程，只需參加該課程，就能對其他人的生活產生如此巨大的影響。

It's about discovering your purpose and activating, you know, that inner confidence and taking charge of, you know, what you want and what you want to do and who you want to be in your life and things like that.

這是關於發現你的目標，激活你內心的自信，掌控你想要什麼，你想做什麼，你想成為什麼樣的人，諸如此類的事情。

It should only take you a couple months to complete and then you can downgrade and cancel whenever, but it's on an extremely low discount.

只需幾個月就能完成，然後可以隨時降級和取消，但折扣極低。

And if you want to experience that, or if you want to stay in the community, in the Facebook community, you can continue on that tier on my Patreon.

如果你想體驗一下，或者你想留在社區裡，留在 Facebook 社區裡，你可以在我的 Patreon 上繼續這個層次。

And I'm also going to be doing some live YouTube shows and sharing some exclusive content there.

我還會在 YouTube 上做一些直播節目，分享一些獨家內容。

We accidentally gave her too much screen time, and we didn't think she was looking at the TV.

我們不小心給了她太多的螢幕時間，我們以為她沒在看電視。

Sometimes when we're feeding her, we have the TV on because we're just...

有時我們在喂她的時候會打開電視，因為我們只是...

And she got so used to the TV, and I think we gave her too much screen time without realizing it.

她太習慣電視了，我想我們不知不覺中給了她太多的螢幕時間。

And now whenever we take her away from the TV, she cries.

現在，只要我們把她從電視機前抱走，她就會哭。

She was crying before this, and then I put her down to watch the TV, and now she's fine.

在這之前她一直在哭，後來我把她放下來看電視，現在她就沒事了。