Name: 對話技巧：5 個問題讓你成為房間裡最有趣的人 (Conversation Skills: 5 questions to make you the most interesting person in the room)
Uploaded: 2025-07-18T18:10:19.000Z
Duration: 14 min 24 s

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Five questions to make you the most interesting person in the room.

五個問題讓你成為房間裡最有趣的人。

Those of you who speak German probably thought, oh, his German is nicht gut, but it makes me interesting because I'm reading philosophy.

那些會說德語的人可能會想，哦，他的德語真爛，但這讓我覺得很有趣，因為我在讀哲學。

But you don't need to read philosophy to be interesting.

In today's lesson, I'm going to give you just five general questions you can throw into a conversation with someone that will make you a very interesting person.

在今天的課程中，我將給你五個一般性的問題，你可以在與人交談時拋出這些問題，這將使你成為一個非常有趣的人。

So instead of the usual, hi, my name's Dietrich.

所以，我沒有像往常那樣說，你好，我叫迪特里希。

The first question we ask, because what I want you to do when we do this exercise is

I want you to have fun and make an adventure out of it.

我希望你們能從中獲得樂趣和冒險精神。

Think of it as you're a super spy like James Bond, and you're going out there to get to know people.

把它想象成你是一個像詹姆斯-邦德一樣的超級間諜，你要走出去去了解別人。

But you can't ask questions directly like, are you the bad guy?

但你不能直接提問，比如你是壞人嗎？

You have to ask questions to get them to speak to you, to give you information, okay?

你必須問問題，讓他們跟你說話，給你資訊，好嗎？

And in doing that, our first question is this, what's your superpower?

為此，我們的第一個問題是：你的超能力是什麼？

Well, everybody has something that they do really well or they're proud of.

每個人都有自己擅長或引以為傲的事情。

I can't do it, but some people can take their tongue and stick it to their nose.

我做不到，但有些人可以把舌頭伸到鼻子上。

You know, it's a secret little superpower of theirs, or they're great at cooking or something.

你知道，這是他們的祕密小超能力，或者他們很擅長烹飪什麼的。

And once you ask them what their superpower is, they will usually get a smile and a little bit of excitement because you're showing genuine interest in them.

一旦你問他們的超能力是什麼，他們通常會露出笑容，並有一點興奮，因為你對他們表現出了真正的興趣。

Remember that you're on an adventure now, because now you're going to take a journey with them, because you can ask follow-up questions like, how did you discover it?

記住，你現在是在冒險，因為現在你要和他們一起踏上旅程，因為你可以問一些後續問題，比如：你是怎麼發現的？

Do you use it as a party trick, or is it something you use at work?

您是把它作為派對小把戲，還是在工作中使用？

And they get to show you a side of themselves that people don't usually ask.

他們還能向你展示自己的另一面，而這是人們通常不會問的。

So one of the best questions you're going to start off with, with someone, and of course, this is after you have gotten to know them, and I have done a video on getting respect when we talk about asking questions, and you should watch that video, and it'll give you some ideas on how to get to this part of the conversation.

當然，這是在你瞭解對方之後，我曾做過一個關於尊重的視頻，當我們談到提問時，你應該看看那個視頻，它會給你一些關於如何進入對話這一部分的想法。

But ask somebody, friend or family, what's your superpower?

但是，問問別人、朋友或家人，你的超能力是什麼？

So remember I told you we want to create secrets, create bonds.

記得我說過，我們要創造祕密，建立聯繫。

That's because secrets are filled with adventure.

There's something that makes people excited about them, so when they share them, they want to continue the conversation with someone that they have a secret with.

有一種東西讓人們為之興奮，所以當他們分享這些東西時，他們希望與他們擁有祕密的人繼續對話。

My first one to you is your superpower, but the second one is, what's your secret passion or obsession?

我給你的第一個問題是你的超能力，第二個問題是，你的祕密愛好或痴迷是什麼？

A superpower is something that you're proud of.

I can do this, I can do that, but your passion or obsession might not be something you're quite proud of.

我可以做這個，我可以做那個，但你的激情或痴迷可能並不是你引以為豪的東西。

Some people like watching, and there's nothing wrong with Mexican novellas or the drama shows, but some people, that's their secret passion.

有些人喜歡看，墨西哥小說或電視劇也沒什麼不好，但有些人，那是他們的祕密愛好。

They don't want to tell people that's what they do at night, but that's what they like watching.

他們不想告訴別人這就是他們晚上做的事情，但這就是他們喜歡看的東西。

They're like, oh, what's the doctor is now going to be marrying, da-da-da-da-da.

他們會說，哦，醫生要結婚了，噠噠噠。

And it's a passion of theirs, and a secret, they keep it to themselves.

這是他們的激情所在，也是他們的祕密，他們對此守口如瓶。

So as much as this one is a positive one, this could be something that you're a little embarrassed.

所以，雖然這是個積極的問題，但也可能是你有點尷尬的問題。

Yes, they have rocks, they name them Jeffrey, Thomas, Bobby, and Billy.

是的，他們有石頭，他們給石頭起名叫傑弗裡、托馬斯、鮑比和比利。

Maybe they draw little beards and mustaches and put hats on them, and they have fun with them, and they're 50 years old.

也許他們會畫上小鬍子和小鬍鬚，戴上帽子，玩得不亦樂乎，他們已經 50 歲了。

It's a secret passion, but you will watch their face light up when they tell you and you're interested.

這是一種祕密的激情，但當他們告訴你時，你會看到他們的臉在發光，而你也很感興趣。

You're like, so what's your secret passion?

你會問，你的祕密愛好是什麼？

And soon as some people find out, they ask me what my favorite one is, and I'll usually tell them some obscure, and that means strange or hard to find comic that people don't know.

有些人一知道，就會問我最喜歡的漫畫是什麼，我通常會告訴他們一些晦澀難懂的，也就是人們不知道的奇怪或難找的漫畫。

然後我說，哦，哦，你不知道嗎？

Disguised like Batman and Superman, and they watch me get like I'm five years old.

他們偽裝成蝙蝠俠和超人，看著我像個五歲小孩。

The kid comes out in me and I want to communicate.

我心中的孩子出來了，我想要交流。

Notice how I didn't say anything about language and you're learning English here?

注意到我沒有說任何關於語言的事情，而你正在這裡學習英語嗎？

This can work in any language in any situation, but it's especially good if you're learning languages because you want people to interact with you enthusiastically and be patient with you, and they're happy to do that when they're excited about the topic.

這種方法適用於任何語言、任何場合，但如果你正在學習語言，這種方法尤其適用，因為你希望別人熱情地與你互動，並對你有耐心，而當他們對話題感到興奮時，他們很樂意這樣做。

當你走進來時，你叫什麼名字？

Same old, same old, and your English isn't very good.

老樣子，老樣子，你的英語也不太好。

When you ask me what my secret superpower is, I go, I can put my tongue in my nose.

當你問我有什麼祕密超能力時，我會說，我能把舌頭伸進鼻子裡。

All of a sudden I'm five and you're like my best friend and we're having fun.

突然間，我變成了五歲小孩，而你就像我最好的朋友，我們玩得很開心。

When you ask me about my secret passion or obsession, I'm already filled with energy.

當你問起我的祕密愛好或痴迷時，我已經充滿了能量。

So you've just filled the conversation with energy.

所以，你剛剛的談話充滿了能量。

We get there by being interested in other people, and they'll share that energy with you and give you the time to learn the language and get a new friend.

我們對他人感興趣，他們就會與你分享這種能量，給你時間學習語言，結交新朋友。

When I gave you these, these are one questions, you'll see.

當我給你這些時，這些是一個個問題，你會明白的。

The next ones I'm going to give you are basically two-parters.

接下來我要給你們講的基本上都是兩段式的。

So I'm going to teach you how to take a question of interest and add on a second part to the question to continue the conversation.

是以，我將教你如何提出一個感興趣的問題，並在問題中加入第二部分，以繼續對話。

Next time you're out at a party or visiting some friends, you'll be surprised what the answers are.

下次參加聚會或拜訪朋友時，你會驚訝地發現答案是什麼。

甚至可以問問你媽媽或其他人。

So part two, I'm going to call it imagine if, okay?

所以第二部分，我把它叫做 "如果 "想象，好嗎？

So it's going to be two, because these are things people don't probably have in their mind right away, but you're going to take the time to get them to open up their imagination and think about what if, or imagine if, okay?

所以，這將會是兩件事情，因為這些事情人們可能不會馬上想到，但你要花時間讓他們展開想象，想想如果，或者想象如果，好嗎？

So let's come back for number C, which will be the third part of the questions to make you the most interesting person in the room.

讓我們回到 C 部分，這將是讓你成為房間裡最有趣的人的問題的第三部分。

So we've used secrets to create bonds, and now what I want to do is go and use people's imaginations, or that's what you want to do.

是以，我們已經利用祕密建立了紐帶，現在我想做的是去利用人們的想象力，或者這就是你想做的。

And in this way, we're going to do a two-part questions, and the next couple of questions will be that two-parts.

這樣，我們將分兩個部分提問，接下來的幾個問題就是這兩個部分。

So you can start with a question and continue the conversation with another question.

是以，你可以先提出一個問題，然後用另一個問題繼續對話。

What did you want to be as an adult when you were a child?

你小時候想成為什麼樣的大人？

If you're at a business meeting, you probably want to say child.

如果你在商務會議上，你可能想說 "孩子"。

If you're at a party or a bar, you probably want to say kid.

如果你在派對或酒吧，你可能想說 "孩子"。

So we can make it formal or informal just by changing one word, okay?

所以，我們只需改變一個詞，就能讓它變得正式或不正式，好嗎？

You might have said, I want to be a cowboy or an astronaut, or I wanted to be president or a YouTuber or something.

你可能會說，我想當牛仔或太空人，或者我想當總統、YouTuber 或其他什麼。

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