Name: 如何在小組中介紹自己 (How to introduce yourself in a group)
Uploaded: 2025-01-06T04:00:03.000Z
Duration: 10 min 10 s

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This might surprise some people, but there's some things that I really hate doing, and one of them is introducing yourself.

這可能會出乎一些人的意料，但有些事情我真的很討厭做，其中之一就是自我介紹。

I don't know what it is, I hate being in a group.

我不知道是什麼原因，我討厭和一群人在一起。

I'm always making these videos, it's only me, there's no group around me, except for a little...

我總是在拍這些視頻，只有我一個人，我周圍沒有人，除了一個小...

So, one thing that I really, really, really hate is introducing myself in a group.

所以，我非常、非常、非常討厭的一件事就是在小組裡介紹自己。

This is cool, but when there's a group of people, I get really nervous, and I'm sure you do, too, especially if you are a shy person.

這很酷，但是當有一群人的時候，我就會非常緊張，我相信你也是，尤其是如果你是一個害羞的人。

So, how to interself, interself, interself.

那麼，如何自我內化、自我內化、自我內化呢？

The leader of the group will say, now, all happy about it, like it's a great thing, let's go around the circle and introduce ourselves.

組長會說，現在，大家都很高興，好像這是一件了不起的事情，讓我們圍成一圈，介紹一下自己。

Ronnie, oh, can I escape, can I run, can I kill someone, what if I just killed the person?

羅尼，哦，我能逃跑嗎，我能逃跑嗎，我能殺人嗎，如果我殺了那個人呢？

So, comes to my turn, I will always say something stupid, I'll say some stupid shit that has nothing to do, or it's very insulting, or...

所以，輪到我的時候，我總是會說一些蠢話，我會說一些無關緊要的蠢話，或者是非常侮辱性的，或者...

I was standing in a stupid circle, in a stupid group, and we had to talk about why we're interested in salsa.

我站在一個愚蠢的圈子裡，在一個愚蠢的小組裡，我們不得不談論為什麼我們對薩爾薩感興趣。

Not the food, okay, because I like salsa, but the music.

不是食物，好吧，因為我喜歡薩爾薩，而是音樂。

Came to my turn, and I said, I don't like salsa.

輪到我時，我說，我不喜歡薩爾薩。

I didn't know that that was what this is for.

And after I thought about it, I was like, oh, great, I've just really said something stupid, and it was just embarrassing for me, but I really didn't care anyways.

我想了想，覺得哦，太好了，我真的說了些蠢話，這讓我很尷尬，但我真的不在乎。

But saying stupid shit usually happens to me, because I just, hi, I'm Ronnie, ask me a question, okay, that's a good technique, yes, it's right down the board.

但說蠢話通常發生在我身上，因為我只是，嗨，我是羅尼，問我一個問題，好吧，這是個好技巧，是的，就在黑板下面。

You're in a group situation, you say, hey, I'm Ronnie, hey, you ask me a question, and I'll help you out.

你在一個小組裡，你說，嘿，我是羅尼，嘿，你問我一個問題，我會幫你解決。

But if you have to stick to the traditional techniques, I've got some dos and some don'ts.

但如果你必須堅持使用傳統技術，我也有一些注意事項。

So, first one, please, don't say I don't speak English, because obviously you do speak English because you're in a group and you're communicating in English.

所以，首先，請不要說我不會說英語，因為很明顯你會說英語，因為你在一個小組裡，你在用英語交流。

I know that you're learning English, that's fine, but if you say to the group, I don't speak English, the first impression, people are going to say, oh, well, I'm not going to talk to that person because they don't even speak English, so I wonder if they understand.

我知道你在學英語，這很好，但如果你對大家說，我不會說英語，第一印象，人們會說，哦，好吧，我不會和那個人說話，因為他們甚至不會說英語，所以我不知道他們是否聽得懂。

It makes you sound that you don't belong in the group, and it just brings your confidence level down.

這會讓人覺得你不屬於這個群體，也會降低你的自信心。

What you can say, please say, hi, I'm Ronnie, English isn't my first language.

你能說什麼，請說，你好，我是羅尼，英語不是我的母語。

This tells the people, like, hey, I'm going to make mistakes, I'm not perfect in English, but I'm trying, and I know at least one other language.

這就告訴人們，嘿，我會犯錯誤，我的英語並不完美，但我在努力，而且我至少還懂一門其他語言。

You could say, like, oh, English is my second language, I speak French and Portuguese.

你可以說，哦，英語是我的第二語言，我會說法語和葡萄牙語。

Or, English is my third language, or I'm learning English, but please just don't say, oh, I don't speak English, because you've just told a lie, because you can speak English.

或者，英語是我的第三語言，或者我正在學英語，但請不要說，哦，我不會說英語，因為你剛剛撒了一個謊，因為你會說英語。

Practice, practice, practice, practice what you're going to say.

練習，練習，練習，練習你要說的話。

If you have to go first, kind of move out of the group and be like, there you go, I'm just going to tie my shoe.

如果你必須先走，那就離開隊伍，就像這樣，你先走，我去繫鞋帶。

So, you know it's going to be your turn, you're getting nervous, you're a little shy, oh, hi, my name's Ronnie, and I like mushrooms, yes, okay, hi, my name's Ronnie, and I like mushrooms.

所以，你知道要輪到你了，你開始緊張，你有點害羞，哦，嗨，我叫羅尼，我喜歡蘑菇，是的，好的，嗨，我叫羅尼，我喜歡蘑菇。

And then, eyes are done, next person goes, okay?

然後，眼睛看完了，下一個人走，好嗎？

Don't go into conversations about yourself, oh, my name's Ronnie, and you know, like, I really like mushrooms, and like, yesterday I went to the park, and I saw, like, a squirrel, and then I gave him a nut, but he didn't want a nut, and you're like, I don't care.

不要談論自己，比如我叫羅尼，我很喜歡蘑菇，昨天我去公園，看到一隻松鼠，我給了它一個堅果，但它不想要，你就說，我不在乎。

It's just an introduction, it's not a life story.

這只是一個介紹，不是人生故事。

One or two sentences is perfect, we don't need 10 things about you, it's just a short introduction.

一兩句話就夠了，我們不需要關於你的十件事，這只是一個簡短的介紹。

Your name, something else, but don't be boring, okay?

你的名字，別的，但別太無聊，好嗎？

If you talk really quietly, people can't under...

如果你說話非常小聲，人們就無法聽到你的聲音。

If you talk really quietly, people can't understand you, and it makes you less confident.

如果你說話的聲音很小，別人就聽不懂你在說什麼，這會讓你更沒有自信。

I know maybe you don't have a lot of confidence in English, but it's okay, you can fake it.

我知道也許你對英語沒有信心，但沒關係，你可以假裝。

So, speak loudly, even if it's you're screaming at people, my name's Ronnie, I like mushrooms and fairies.

所以，要大聲說話，哪怕是對著別人大喊，我叫羅尼，我喜歡蘑菇和仙女。

There's lots of scientific studies that people who speak loudly, other people seem to think that they're more enthusiastic, or they have more power, so the louder you speak without yelling, people will seem to like you more, which is weird, but people are weird.

有很多科學研究表明，大聲說話的人，別人似乎會覺得他們更熱情，或者他們更有力量，所以你越大聲說話而不大喊大叫，別人似乎會更喜歡你，這很奇怪，但人就是很奇怪。

One, two, three, max, ask a question, great, thanks.

一、二、三，最多，提問，很好，謝謝。

Try and say something positive, something fun.

試著說一些積極的、有趣的事情。

Again, don't tell them what you can't do.

同樣，不要告訴他們你不能做什麼。

Hi, my name's Ronnie, and I don't like karaoke or groups.

嗨，我叫羅尼，我不喜歡卡拉 OK 或團體表演。

哦，很好，我們不在乎，好嗎？

Say things like, oh, my name's Ronnie, I really like hanging out with you guys, because you're so fun, I'm looking forward to this.

比如說：哦，我叫羅尼，我很喜歡和你們一起玩，因為你們很有趣，我很期待這次活動。

Try and keep it fun, try and keep it positive, don't be negative like Ronnie.

儘量保持有趣，儘量保持積極，不要像羅尼那樣消極。

Bad Ronnie, bad, bad, bad, bad, bad, bad.

壞蛋羅尼，壞蛋，壞蛋，壞蛋，壞蛋，壞蛋，壞蛋。

If you brag about yourself, or you boast, you're telling people how wonderful you think you are.

如果你自吹自擂或誇誇其談，你就是在告訴別人你認為自己有多棒。

A lot of conferences that I never go to, a lot of talks, people introduce themselves, hi, my name's Ronnie, I went to Ottawa University, I have a PhD in linguistic...

我從未參加過的許多會議、許多講座上，人們都會自我介紹：你好，我叫羅尼，我在渥太華大學上學，我是語言學博士..................

Nobody cares what university you went to, unless it's a university conference, don't say, I have a PhD, nobody cares.

沒人在乎你上的是什麼大學，除非是大學會議，不要說我有博士學位，沒人在乎。

You're here to play music, we don't care about your education level, so be careful what you say.

你們是來玩音樂的，我們不在乎你們的教育水準，所以說話小心點。

Don't brag about your accomplishments, they're like, mm, pfft, pfft, yeah, okay.

不要吹噓你的成就，他們會說，嗯，噗，噗，是的，好吧。

This is kind of a rule with, like, with everyone.

When you're having meaningful conversations with people, try and look bright in the people's eyes.

當你與人進行有意義的交談時，試著用明亮的眼神去看對方。

If you look at the floor, it means that you're shy and you lack confidence.

如果你看著地板，說明你害羞，缺乏自信。

If you're looking at the ceiling up there, or the sky if you're outside, people think you're not paying attention, you don't like them, you know, if you're distracted, like looking at the cat, you want to focus at the people.

如果你在上面看著天花板，或者在外面看著天空，人們就會認為你沒有專心，你不喜歡他們，你知道，如果你分心了，比如看著貓，你就會想把注意力集中在人身上。

It can be difficult, though, if you're in a group, like, which eyes do I look at?

不過，如果你在一個小組裡，這可能會很困難，比如，我該看哪隻眼睛？

Focus on the person you think's the cutest.

If it's hard for you to look people in the eyes, you could focus on something that's eye level.

如果你很難直視別人的眼睛，你可以把注意力集中在與眼睛平視的東西上。

So eye level means it's the same level to your eyes, so don't look up, don't look down, just kind of look straight ahead, stare out the window or something, you know, if it's too hard for you.

是以，眼睛的高度意味著與你的眼睛在同一水平線上，所以不要向上看，也不要向下看，只是直視前方，盯著窗外或其他地方，你知道，如果這對你來說太難的話。

If you can, great people skill, look at the people, kind of do a little...

如果可以的話，你要有很好的人際交往能力，多看看別人，做一點...

Hand gestures help, too, especially, I don't know...

手勢也有幫助，尤其是，我不知道......

People say Italians talk with their hands, but I'm not Italian, I talk with my hands.

人們說意大利人用手說話，但我不是意大利人，我用手說話。