Name: 這就是你如何使一個關係工作!國際 // 異地戀情侶 ❤️ (This Is How You Make a Relationship WORK! International // Long-distance couple ❤️)
Uploaded: 2022-05-18T02:00:32.000Z
Duration: 17 min 30 s

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That's where we're meeting for lunch, We're gonna get eaten sushi and then we're going to go to the park.

我們要在那裡吃午飯，我們要去吃壽司，然後我們要去公園。

A lot of people in the beginning, I didn't believe in us.

很多人在開始時，我不相信我們。

The more you listen to other's opinions of yourself, the more you create resistance in your head, the more resistance you feed your mind, the more you hold yourself back from being happy.

你越是聽從別人對自己的意見，你就越是在腦子裡製造阻力，越是給你的頭腦提供阻力，你就越是阻礙自己獲得快樂。

Unless whoever the person you're dating is hurting you physically or emotionally, just don't listen Right now and we're deciding what we want to eat.

除非你約會的人在身體上或情感上傷害了你，否則就不要聽 現在，我們正在決定我們想吃什麼。

Today, we started out long distance, it was a test of emotions of ourselves.

今天，我們開始了長途旅行，這是對我們自己情感的考驗。

We didn't give up on each other and made every opportunity to connect on a daily basis.

我們沒有放棄對方，並利用一切機會，每天都在聯繫。

Lesson two, no communication equals no relationship catching up on each other, sending dumb memes of dogs and cats throughout the day to make each other smile and laugh was what kept that fire going.

第二課，沒有溝通就等於沒有關係，互相追問，整天發送狗和貓的愚蠢備忘錄，讓對方微笑和大笑，是保持這種火力的原因。

We said good morning and we said goodnight, we Skyped weekly because we missed each other.

我們說過早安，也說過晚安，我們每週進行Skyped，因為我們想念對方。

What's love if you don't miss each other's face.

如果你不想念對方的臉，那還算什麼愛情。

So in Japan, they have these little knickknacks that you can buy restaurant family restaurants for kids or something like that?

所以在日本，他們有這些小玩意，你可以在餐館的家庭餐廳買到孩子的小玩意，或者類似的東西？

嗯，它不一定是為孩子們準備的。

What the heck is this like a key chain back scratcher?

這到底是什麼東西，就像一個鑰匙鏈式的背刮器？

Anyway, we're going to go to the park, we just finished eating and now we're heading to, I can't even say it, kawa kawa kotaku and it's like the longest name ever.

總之，我們要去公園，我們剛吃完飯，現在我們要去，我都說不上來，卡瓦卡瓦卡塔庫，這好像是最長的名字了。

And we're with, I don't know if you can see them, it's so bright if you guys don't know that we should check out their channel because they have a lot of tips, n tricks on international relationships and long distance and all that stuff and they just came out with a book.

我們和，我不知道你是否能看到他們，如果你們不知道，我們應該看看他們的頻道，因為他們有很多提示，關於國際關係和長距離和所有這些東西的技巧，他們剛剛出了一本書。

是的，我可以把它鏈接到下面。

No, I know a lot of people on my channel, like especially like message me about our relationship and like how we got through long distance and how we got through uh being or how we're still getting through being an international couple.

不，我知道很多人在我的頻道上，比如特別喜歡給我留言，談論我們的關係，比如我們是如何度過長途跋涉的，以及我們是如何度過呃是或我們仍然在度過成為一對國際夫婦。

So I think that if you guys are interested, you guys can check that out.

所以我想，如果你們有興趣，你們可以去看看。

Congratulations to them, releasing that book.

這是我一個月來的第一個休息日。

I'm just like, I need to do something Kotomi thinks this looks like it does look like you Lesson three say I love you often.

我只是想，我需要做一些事情，Kotomi認為這看起來確實像你課三經常說我愛你。

We tend to hide from our true feelings keep from feeling vulnerable and avoid pain and the unknown, but what that does to our brains is feed us more resistance by holding back our true feelings and not expressing emotion.

我們傾向於躲避我們的真實感受，不讓自己感到脆弱，避免痛苦和未知，但這對我們的大腦的影響是通過抑制我們的真實感受和不表達情感來給我們提供更多的阻力。

We have a hard time committing, understanding and being honest with ourselves in order to live truly.

我們很難承諾、理解並對自己誠實，以便真正地生活。

We must feel I want you to make a very wonderful pose.

我們必須感到我希望你能做出一個非常美妙的姿勢。

Mhm Like like this will you tell me a good fact about Japan?

像這樣，你能告訴我一個關於日本的好消息嗎？

An interesting fact about Japan I had to use for a wow that is a good fight.

關於日本的一個有趣的事實，我不得不用哇，這是一場好的戰鬥。

Having alone time keeps the relationship fresh with all the time you make for someone.

有獨處的時間可以讓你為某人騰出的所有時間保持關係的新鮮。

You must give each other space to recharge, be with oneself and think or create alone by giving each other space.

你必須給對方空間充電，和自己在一起，通過給對方空間來獨自思考或創作。

We allow opportunities to give more to each other and the relationship.

我們允許有機會為對方和關係付出更多。

Oftentimes people think of needing space as a negative thing.

很多時候，人們認為需要空間是一件負面的事情。

It helps you maintain your individuality and immerse yourself spiritually.

它幫助你保持你的個性和沉浸在精神上。

Do you feel like a ninja all the way through the stone?

你覺得自己像個忍者一樣一路走來的石頭嗎？

Please please show me I need something better more far away.

請告訴我，我需要更好更遠的東西。

Actually, I'm moving slowly back to super fast.

實際上，我正在緩慢地恢復到超快的狀態。

哦，他有一個想法，這是什麼地方？

This would be a good photo like right here, but like what is it?

這將是一張好的照片，就在這裡，但像什麼呢？

它是一個房間還是一個我不確定。

We're thinking of going to the haunted house, so I think we're going to go check that out because it might be a little bit different this season.

我們正在考慮去鬼屋，所以我想我們要去看看，因為這一季可能有點不同。

Lesson five drop all expectations as an international couple.

第五課 作為一對國際夫婦，放棄所有的期望。

We realized that we have our differences and learn something new about each other and our habits every day, having patience with each other and becoming an open minded human being has killed a lot of stress and misunderstandings in the relationship.

我們意識到，我們有自己的差異，並且每天都能從對方和我們的習慣中瞭解到一些新的東西，對對方有耐心，成為一個思想開放的人，這在關係中殺死了很多壓力和誤解。

Alright, so we're going to go into a haunted house but I have to pee before because if I don't, I'm probably going to be my pants, I might scream really loud, let it all out.

好吧，我們要進入一個鬼屋，但我必須在之前撒尿，因為如果我不撒尿，我可能會尿褲子，我可能會大聲尖叫，讓它全部出來。

You feeling right now, Which one of you can handle haunted houses more.

你們現在的感覺是，你們中的哪一個更能夠處理鬼屋。

Even though I've done this already, check out my video in the link below.

儘管我已經做了這個，但請看下面鏈接中我的視頻。

沒有破壞者，為什麼我們能做到這一點。

If someone doesn't make you happy most of the time if you feel down on yourself unmotivated, never seeing any effort made to speak to you, be intimate with you get to know you even from a distance or in an international relationship.

如果一個人在大多數時候不能讓你快樂，如果你對自己感到失望，沒有動力，從來沒有看到任何努力與你說話，與你親密接觸，瞭解你，甚至從遠處或在國際關係中。

It's not worth the love you have for yourself.

Let's see if he's there waiting at the end of the night and we're heading home and I'm kind of drunk but it's like a comfortable like I know I know my limit now.

讓我們看看他是否在那裡等著晚上結束，我們要回家了，我有點醉了，但它就像一個舒適的像我知道我現在知道我的極限。

Like if I were to drink more than this I probably wouldn't make it.

就像如果我喝得比這更多，我可能就做不到了。

What are we doing here at the grocery store at almost 11 pm?

我們在將近晚上11點的時候在雜貨店裡做什麼呢？

This is drunk grocery shopping, this looks more green, this is what you want, you want the green bananas.

這是喝醉了的雜貨店，這個看起來更綠色，這是你想要的，你想要綠色的香蕉。

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