When you listen to this story, see if you can apply not just to your life, but also to those who you love.

當你聽這個故事時，看看你是否能不僅適用於你的生活，而且適用於你所愛的人。

Sometimes you have the best intentions to help others through trying to eliminate their struggles when really all they need is to know that they can handle it on their own.

有時你有最好的意圖，通過試圖消除他人的掙扎來幫助他們，而實際上他們所需要的只是知道他們可以自己處理。

The story goes like this.

故事是這樣的。

There once was a man who came across a butterfly cocoon curious to see the butterfly emerged.

曾經有一個人遇到了一個蝴蝶繭，他好奇地想看看蝴蝶的出現。

The man sat and watched for many hours as the butterfly struggled to force its body through a small hole, then nothing.

這名男子坐在那裡，看著蝴蝶掙扎著將身體從一個小孔中擠出來，然後就什麼都不知道了，看了很多小時。

The butterfly appeared to stop making any progress.

蝴蝶似乎停止了任何進展。

It seemed to the man that the butterfly had gone as long and as far as it could and can struggle no more.

在這個人看來，蝴蝶已經走到了它能走的最遠的地方，再也無法掙扎了。

So with the best intentions, the man decided he had to help the butterfly.

是以，懷著美好的願望，該男子決定他必須幫助這隻蝴蝶。

He grabbed a pair of scissors and cut off the remaining bit of the cocoon with the cocoon cut open.

他抓起一把剪刀，將剩餘的一點蠶繭剪掉，蠶繭也被剪開了。

The butterfly no longer had to struggle and emerged easily.

蝴蝶不再需要掙扎，很容易就出現了。

However, as it emerged, the man noticed it had a swollen body and small shriveled wings.

然而，當它出現時，該男子注意到它有一個腫脹的身體和乾癟的小翅膀。

The man continued to watch, expecting the butterfly to grow its wings and fly away.

那人繼續看著，期待著蝴蝶長出翅膀飛走。

However, this did not happen.

然而，這並沒有發生。

The butterfly spent the rest of it's very short life crawling around the ground with a swollen body and small wings unable to fly.

這隻蝴蝶在它非常短暫的餘生中，帶著腫脹的身體和無法飛翔的小翅膀在地上爬行。

Although the man had the best intentions.

雖然這個人有最好的意圖。

What he failed to understand was that the cocoons job is to provide the struggle and resistance.

他沒有理解的是，蠶繭的工作是提供掙扎和抵抗。

The butterfly needs to grow.

蝴蝶需要成長。

The restriction from the tiny opening of the cocoon is exactly what it needed because it forces fluid from the body of the butterfly into its wings which enables the wings to grow and prepare it for freedom.

繭的微小開口的限制正是它所需要的，因為它迫使液體從蝴蝶的身體進入它的翅膀，使翅膀能夠成長，為它的自由做好準備。

Once it earns its way out of the cocoon, there's a powerful life lesson.

一旦它掙脫了繭子，就會有一個強大的人生教訓。

Here are struggles always give us strength.

這裡的掙扎總是給我們力量。

Sometimes the struggles we go through our exactly what we need to grow and develop.

有時我們所經歷的鬥爭正是我們成長和發展所需要的。

Although it is never fun in the moment, we can always look back on difficult moments as crucial times that changed us for the better.

雖然當下從來沒有樂趣，但我們總是可以回顧困難的時刻，將其視為改變我們的關鍵時刻。

In some way we all face struggle and sometimes we watch those.

在某種程度上，我們都面臨著掙扎，有時我們會看著這些。

We love struggle as well and although we don't wish upon anyone hard times, we all need them for growth and for strength.

我們也喜歡掙扎，雖然我們不希望任何人遇到困難，但我們都需要它們來成長和獲得力量。

Trying to avoid struggle.

試圖避免掙扎。

Taking the easy path will only lead to a harder life to greater struggles later on cursing the world and blaming struggles and circumstances for where you are will never help either.

走容易的路只會導致更艱難的生活，以後會有更大的掙扎，咒罵世界和指責掙扎和環境對你的處境也沒有幫助。

You must face your struggles and learn from them.

你必須面對你的掙扎，並從中學習。

Use the hard times of your past to your advantage.

利用你過去的困難時期為你帶來好處。

You must face your struggles and believe you have the strength to overcome them.

你必須面對你的掙扎，並相信你有力量克服它們。

If you can do that, you will overcome them.

如果你能做到這一點，你將戰勝它們。

There's no shame in struggle.

奮鬥並不可恥。

We all face our own battles in life.

我們在生活中都面臨著自己的戰鬥。

They are part of our journey, part of our story, pieces of our post.

他們是我們旅程的一部分，是我們故事的一部分，是我們帖子的碎片。

Next time you were going through a challenge or a struggle, remind yourself This struggle is strengthening me.

下次當你經歷挑戰或掙扎時，提醒自己這個掙扎正在強化我。

Mhm.

嗯。

This struggle is preparing me for something bigger and better.

這場鬥爭正在為我準備更大更好的東西。

This struggle was sent to make me stronger, wiser.

這場鬥爭被派來使我更強大、更明智。

Better.

更好。

It was sent to give me strength so I can fly.

它被派來給我力量，所以我可以飛。

Mhm.

嗯。