It is created by negative beliefs and a negative mindset.

它是由消極的信念和消極的心態造成的。

It is created by conditioning by repeated habits, conscious or unconscious.

它是通過有意識或無意識的反覆習慣調節而產生的。

If you wanna live free from negativity, it is your own mind that needs correcting, not other people or the circumstances that arrive in your life.

如果你想從負面情緒中解脫出來，需要糾正的是你自己的心態，而不是其他人或到達你生活中的環境。

Here are five toxic habits and believes you should let go of if you want to live.

以下是五種有毒的習慣，相信你想活下去就應該放下。

Ah, high quality happy life number one, blaming believing that it is always someone else's fault number to the belief that successful people are greedy, selfish, Fill in the blank number three.

啊，高質量的幸福生活第一，責怪相信總是別人的錯號到相信成功的人都是貪婪的，自私的，填空號第三。

Believing everything you hear not having a mind of your own.

相信你聽到的一切，沒有自己的思想。

Number four.

四號

The belief that you need other people to complete you.

相信你需要別人來完成你。

Number five.

第五個。

Allowing money to control your decisions.

讓金錢控制你的決定。

Let's dive into these toxic habits and beliefs and correct them so you can improve your quality of life Number one, blaming believing that it is always someone else's fault.

讓我們深入研究這些有毒的習慣和信念，並糾正它們，這樣你就可以提高你的生活質量第一，責備相信總是別人的錯。

Many people blame just about everyone and everything as a reason they aren't where they want to be in life.

很多人都會責怪只是每個人和所有的事情，因為他們不是自己想要的生活的原因。

Everyone, that is, except themselves.

每個人，都是如此，除了他們自己。

It is always someone else's fault.

總是別人的錯。

They aren't where they want to be.

他們不是他們想去的地方。

It's the president's fault.

都是總統的錯。

It's my boss's fault.

都是我老闆的錯。

It's my partner's fault.

都是我搭檔的錯。

It's everyone else's fault.

都是別人的錯。

They aren't where they want to be.

他們不是他們想去的地方。

People do you wrong, I get it.

人家做錯了你，我懂。

But do you know the difference between a successful or happy mindset and an unsuccessful or unhappy life?

但你知道成功或快樂的心態與不成功或不快樂的人生之間的區別嗎？

I'll tell you, it is the power of letting go and moving on.

我告訴你，這就是放手和前進的力量。

Everyone shares the same president.

每個人都分享同一個總統。

Some focus on all the negative.

有的人把注意力放在所有負面的東西上。

Some just focus on their own path.

有的只是專注於自己的道路。

They might not like the president or their boss or certain circumstances, but they don't allow any of it to invade their energy.

他們可能不喜歡總統、老闆或某些環境，但他們不允許任何東西侵入他們的精力。

If I want to result in my life, it's up to me if I want to feel a certain way.

如果我想在我的生活中得到結果，那就看我想不想有某種感覺。

The Onley person that controls, if I do or do not feel that way, is me.

掌控的Onley人，如果我有或沒有這種感覺，就是我。

If someone screws me over, I choose how I react and what I learned from the situation.

如果有人搞我，我選擇我的反應和我從這種情況中學到的東西。

Ask yourself, What did I do to allow that to happen?

捫心自問，我做了什麼讓這種情況發生？

How can I avoid that pattern recurring in the future?

如何避免今後再出現這種模式？

What good can come of it if I am going to get out of this situation?

如果我要擺脫這種情況，能有什麼好結果？

it is not goingto happen by holding on or by blaming if I want to be free.

如果我想獲得自由，就不能通過堅持或責備來實現。

I have tow, let go except where I am and take responsibility for what needs to be done to get where I want to be.

我有拖，除了我所在的地方之外，其他的都放手，對需要做的事情負責，以達到我想要的目的。

That's the Onley way.

這就是安利的方式。

Things will get better.

事情會變得更好。

You will never get better by blaming others.

你永遠不會因為責備別人而變得更好。

Regardless of who was right or wrong.

不管誰對誰錯。

You will never win in life.

你的人生永遠不會贏。

That way you can Onley win by letting go and focusing all your energy on where you want to be.

這樣你就可以通過放手，把所有的精力都集中在你想去的地方，從而昂利獲勝。

Number two successful people are greedy or selfish or fill in the blank.

二號成功人士都是貪婪或自私或填空。

First of all, let's define success.

首先，我們來定義一下成功。

Earl Nightingale said.

南丁格爾伯爵說。

It best, he said.

他說，這是最好的。

Successes simply when you achieve a quality of life that you want for yourself, it doesn't have to be money, but money can be part of it.

成功簡單的說就是當你實現了自己想要的生活品質，不一定非要錢，但錢可以是其中的一部分。

It doesn't have to be material things, but material things could be part of it.

不一定是物質的東西，但物質的東西可以是其中的一部分。

That eliminates the greed argument because you define your own success.

這就消除了貪婪的說法，因為你自己定義了自己的成功。

Added to that most of the time, wealth and success or a direct reflection of the value people create for others.

補充一點，大多數時候，財富和成功還是人們為他人創造價值的直接體現。

After all, customers and fans are not going to pay unless you are adding value to their lives.

畢竟，客戶和粉絲是不會付費的，除非你為他們的生活增加價值。

So think of anyone self made, successful or wealthy.

所以，想一想，凡是自力更生、成功或富有的人。

They can only be so by adding value to their audience.

他們只有通過為閱聽人增加價值才能做到這一點。

So when you judge rich people or successful people as greedy, they are actually in almost all cases, doing more for others than those without because those who do nothing and add no value get no reward.

所以，當你評價有錢人或成功人士是貪婪的時候，其實他們幾乎在所有的情況下，都是在為別人做更多的事情，而不是沒有做的事情，因為那些什麼都不做、不增加價值的人是得不到回報的。

Those who refuse to work on themselves or not on Lee doing themselves a disservice, they are doing the world a disservice.

那些不肯在自己身上下功夫或不在李上下功夫的人，對自己不利，對世界也不利。

Those who say money is evil or believe it is a sin would be the first to snap up a pay raise or buy a lottery ticket.

那些說錢是邪惡的，或者認為錢是罪惡的人，會第一時間搶著加薪或者買彩票。

Yet they claim rich people are greedy.

但他們卻說有錢人都是貪婪的。

It's a fascinating dynamic.

這是一個迷人的動態。

What's really happened is that they have been conditioned with these thoughts and beliefs from generations before them, so they look and find every example they can of greed and point to that as fact.

真正發生的情況是，他們已經被前輩們的這些思想和信念所制約，所以他們會尋找並找到每一個他們能找到的貪婪的例子，並指出這是事實。

But the factual reality is far different.

但事實真相卻大相徑庭。

You can only be successful by living the quality of life you determine as successful.

你只有活出你認定的成功的生活品質，才能獲得成功。

You can only earn great income by adding great value to the lives of others.

只有為他人的生活增加巨大的價值，才能獲得巨大的收入。

Other people could only benefit Mawr by you, generating more money and being able to give more of yourself both your time and your money.

別人只有通過你才能讓毛爾受益，產生更多的金錢，能夠讓自己付出更多的時間和金錢。

Number three.

第三個。

The toxic habits of gossiping Believing everything you here and not having a mind of your own, This really comes down to common sense and common decency.

流言蜚語的毒害習慣 相信你這裡的一切，沒有自己的思想，這其實就是常識和常識性的問題。

Have you ever noticed how people who gossip a lot aren't the happiest of people?

你有沒有發現，經常八卦的人不是最幸福的人？

How could they be?

他們怎麼會這樣？

They are more focused on spreading rumors or talking negatively about other people than their own quality of life.

比起自己的生活品質，他們更注重傳播謠言或談論他人的負面資訊。

Have you noticed how happy and successful people have a mind of their own?

你有沒有注意到，幸福的成功人士都有自己的想法？

And they rarely speak in a negative way about anyone or any subject.

而且他們很少以負面的方式談論任何人或任何主題。

They don't believe everything they hear, and they never act on gossip or opinions of others.

他們不會相信他們所聽到的一切，他們也從不根據別人的流言蜚語或意見行事。

Live a life free from gossip and speaking or believing negatively of others.

生活中不說閒話，不說或不相信別人的負面言論。

Form your own opinions based off your interactions with others.

根據你與他人的互動，形成自己的觀點。

Your feelings.

你的感覺。

Your intuition.

你的直覺

Number four.

四號

I need other people to complete me.

我需要別人來完成我。

Thistles.

蒺藜。

One of the biggest problems of humanity that need to be loved and liked by other people.

人類最大的問題之一，需要得到別人的愛和喜歡。

Theater attachment, toe Other people.

戲院附，趾他人。

Many people simply can't function unless they are in a relationship with another.

很多人根本無法正常工作，除非他們與另一個人有關係。

The second they aren't Their life is an immediate emergency mode.

他們的生命是一個立即的緊急模式。

They feel less than they feel incomplete.

他們覺得不如自己覺得不完整。

No other person can or will ever complete you on Lee.

其他任何人都不能也不會完成你對李。

You can make yourself feel whole, and you could only do that by understanding that you are in control of that.

你可以讓自己感覺到完整，你只有明白你能控制這一點，才能做到這一點。

No one else.

沒有其他人。

Putting your quality of life in the hands of someone whose feelings are completely out of your control is insanity you can still love.

把自己的生活品質交給一個感情完全不受自己控制的人，是瘋子你還能愛嗎。

You can still enjoy and appreciate others, but don't get attached to them.

你仍然可以享受和欣賞別人，但不要對他們產生感情。

Allow them to be free and allow yourself to be free as well.

讓他們自由，也讓自己自由。

You are that important.

你是那麼重要。

Number five.

第五個。

It's all about money.

都是為了錢。

Now.

現在就去

This may get confusing with the point above being about creating wealth.

這可能會與上面關於創造財富的觀點產生混淆。

So listen closely.

所以仔細聽好了。

There is nothing wrong with making money, and if you are adding value in whatever you do, you won't have to worry about money coming in.

賺錢是沒有錯的，如果你無論做什麼事情都在增值，你就不用擔心錢的問題了。

It will come in abundance.

它將會大量出現。

This is for all of you who live your life with money as your motivation.

這是給所有以金錢為生活動力的人的。

You're driven by money.

你是被金錢驅使的。

Think about why you want the money.

想一想你為什麼想要這筆錢。

If you say you want it to make a better life for your family.

如果你說你想讓你的家人過上更好的生活。

Why do you want a better life for your family?

你為什麼要讓家人過上更好的生活？

So they don't struggle like you did, so they could be happy.

所以他們不會像你一樣掙扎，所以他們可以快樂。

Why do you need that?

你為什麼要這樣做？

All of your answers come back toe.

你所有的答案都回到了腳趾。

One main answer.

一個主要答案。

You really want it so you could be happy and have mawr love.

你真的很想得到它，這樣你就可以快樂，擁有愛情。

Think about it.

仔細想想吧

You want to be successful and wealthy because you believe in a deep level you will get more love, respect, attention if you have it.

你想成功、想發財，是因為你在深層次上相信，如果你擁有了這些，你會得到更多的愛、尊重、關注。

Or you might avoid making money or striving.

或者你可能會逃避賺錢或奮鬥。

Fort.

堡。

If you have a strong negative belief that money is equal to greed and evil and therefore will get you less love and happiness.

如果你有強烈的負面信念，認為金錢等於貪婪和邪惡，是以會讓你得到更少的愛和幸福。

Point is, you don't need it to be happy.

關鍵是，你不需要它就能快樂。

You don't need it to have love in your life.

你不需要它，你的生活中就有愛。

Ask any rich person.

問任何一個有錢人。

They will tell you.

他們會告訴你。

It's not the money that makes you successful.

不是錢讓你成功。

It's the journey and your purpose that makes you successful.

旅程和你的目的才是你成功的關鍵。

You see so many parents who fight so hard for money saying they want to give their kids a better life.

你看那麼多父母為了錢拼命，說要給孩子更好的生活。

But while they are obsessed with money, they miss their kids growing up, they aren't there for their kids all Children want is attention and love.

但他們在迷戀金錢的同時，也在懷念孩子的成長，他們沒有陪在孩子身邊，所有孩子想要的是關注和愛。

They don't care about money and material things.

他們不在乎金錢和物質。

They want to be seen and hurt.

他們希望被人看到，被人傷害。

That's what everyone wants.

這就是大家想要的。

That's what you want.

這就是你想要的。

And you don't need money for that.

而且你不需要錢。

So maybe you should throw away those crappy plans You had to make a billion dollars and instead focus on doing something you would love to do something that will add value to others.

所以，也許你應該扔掉那些蹩腳的計劃，你必須賺取10億美元，而不是專注於做一些你會喜歡的事情，做一些能給別人增加價值的事情。

It might not make you billions, but at least you will have what everyone is seeking love and happiness.

也許不能讓你賺到幾十億，但至少你會擁有大家所追求的愛情和幸福。

If you noticed toxic beliefs or habits within you, be one of the few to acknowledge them and change something.

如果你注意到你內心的有毒信念或習慣，成為少數幾個承認它們並改變一些東西的人之一。

You are that important.

你是那麼重要。

You do deserve it all.

你確實應該得到這一切。