Name: 如果你想擁有幸福的生活，你必須消除5個有毒的信念。 (5 Toxic Beliefs You Must Eliminate If You Want A Happy Life)
Uploaded: 2020-11-19T20:10:32.000Z
Duration: 10 min 6 s

Ah, life filled with negativity is not created by bad luck or circumstance.

啊，充滿負面情緒的生活並不是運氣不好或環境造成的。

It is created by negative beliefs and a negative mindset.

它是由消極的信念和消極的心態造成的。

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It is created by conditioning by repeated habits, conscious or unconscious.

它是通過有意識或無意識的反覆習慣調節而產生的。

If you wanna live free from negativity, it is your own mind that needs correcting, not other people or the circumstances that arrive in your life.

如果你想從負面情緒中解脫出來，需要糾正的是你自己的心態，而不是其他人或到達你生活中的環境。

Here are five toxic habits and believes you should let go of if you want to live.

以下是五種有毒的習慣，相信你想活下去就應該放下。

Ah, high quality happy life number one, blaming believing that it is always someone else's fault number to the belief that successful people are greedy, selfish, Fill in the blank number three.

啊，高質量的幸福生活第一，責怪相信總是別人的錯號到相信成功的人都是貪婪的，自私的，填空號第三。

Believing everything you hear not having a mind of your own.

相信你聽到的一切，沒有自己的思想。

The belief that you need other people to complete you.

Allowing money to control your decisions.

Let's dive into these toxic habits and beliefs and correct them so you can improve your quality of life Number one, blaming believing that it is always someone else's fault.

讓我們深入研究這些有毒的習慣和信念，並糾正它們，這樣你就可以提高你的生活質量第一，責備相信總是別人的錯。

Many people blame just about everyone and everything as a reason they aren't where they want to be in life.

很多人都會責怪只是每個人和所有的事情，因為他們不是自己想要的生活的原因。

每個人，都是如此，除了他們自己。

But do you know the difference between a successful or happy mindset and an unsuccessful or unhappy life?

但你知道成功或快樂的心態與不成功或不快樂的人生之間的區別嗎？

I'll tell you, it is the power of letting go and moving on.

我告訴你，這就是放手和前進的力量。

有的人把注意力放在所有負面的東西上。

They might not like the president or their boss or certain circumstances, but they don't allow any of it to invade their energy.

他們可能不喜歡總統、老闆或某些環境，但他們不允許任何東西侵入他們的精力。

If I want to result in my life, it's up to me if I want to feel a certain way.

如果我想在我的生活中得到結果，那就看我想不想有某種感覺。

The Onley person that controls, if I do or do not feel that way, is me.

掌控的Onley人，如果我有或沒有這種感覺，就是我。

If someone screws me over, I choose how I react and what I learned from the situation.

如果有人搞我，我選擇我的反應和我從這種情況中學到的東西。

Ask yourself, What did I do to allow that to happen?

捫心自問，我做了什麼讓這種情況發生？

How can I avoid that pattern recurring in the future?

如何避免今後再出現這種模式？

What good can come of it if I am going to get out of this situation?

如果我要擺脫這種情況，能有什麼好結果？

it is not goingto happen by holding on or by blaming if I want to be free.

如果我想獲得自由，就不能通過堅持或責備來實現。

I have tow, let go except where I am and take responsibility for what needs to be done to get where I want to be.

我有拖，除了我所在的地方之外，其他的都放手，對需要做的事情負責，以達到我想要的目的。

You will never get better by blaming others.

你永遠不會因為責備別人而變得更好。

That way you can Onley win by letting go and focusing all your energy on where you want to be.

這樣你就可以通過放手，把所有的精力都集中在你想去的地方，從而昂利獲勝。

Number two successful people are greedy or selfish or fill in the blank.

二號成功人士都是貪婪或自私或填空。

Successes simply when you achieve a quality of life that you want for yourself, it doesn't have to be money, but money can be part of it.

成功簡單的說就是當你實現了自己想要的生活品質，不一定非要錢，但錢可以是其中的一部分。

It doesn't have to be material things, but material things could be part of it.

不一定是物質的東西，但物質的東西可以是其中的一部分。

That eliminates the greed argument because you define your own success.

這就消除了貪婪的說法，因為你自己定義了自己的成功。

Added to that most of the time, wealth and success or a direct reflection of the value people create for others.

補充一點，大多數時候，財富和成功還是人們為他人創造價值的直接體現。

After all, customers and fans are not going to pay unless you are adding value to their lives.

畢竟，客戶和粉絲是不會付費的，除非你為他們的生活增加價值。

So think of anyone self made, successful or wealthy.

所以，想一想，凡是自力更生、成功或富有的人。

They can only be so by adding value to their audience.

他們只有通過為閱聽人增加價值才能做到這一點。

So when you judge rich people or successful people as greedy, they are actually in almost all cases, doing more for others than those without because those who do nothing and add no value get no reward.

所以，當你評價有錢人或成功人士是貪婪的時候，其實他們幾乎在所有的情況下，都是在為別人做更多的事情，而不是沒有做的事情，因為那些什麼都不做、不增加價值的人是得不到回報的。

Those who refuse to work on themselves or not on Lee doing themselves a disservice, they are doing the world a disservice.

那些不肯在自己身上下功夫或不在李上下功夫的人，對自己不利，對世界也不利。

Those who say money is evil or believe it is a sin would be the first to snap up a pay raise or buy a lottery ticket.

那些說錢是邪惡的，或者認為錢是罪惡的人，會第一時間搶著加薪或者買彩票。

但他們卻說有錢人都是貪婪的。

What's really happened is that they have been conditioned with these thoughts and beliefs from generations before them, so they look and find every example they can of greed and point to that as fact.

真正發生的情況是，他們已經被前輩們的這些思想和信念所制約，所以他們會尋找並找到每一個他們能找到的貪婪的例子，並指出這是事實。

But the factual reality is far different.

You can only be successful by living the quality of life you determine as successful.

你只有活出你認定的成功的生活品質，才能獲得成功。

You can only earn great income by adding great value to the lives of others.

只有為他人的生活增加巨大的價值，才能獲得巨大的收入。

Other people could only benefit Mawr by you, generating more money and being able to give more of yourself both your time and your money.

別人只有通過你才能讓毛爾受益，產生更多的金錢，能夠讓自己付出更多的時間和金錢。

The toxic habits of gossiping Believing everything you here and not having a mind of your own, This really comes down to common sense and common decency.

流言蜚語的毒害習慣 相信你這裡的一切，沒有自己的思想，這其實就是常識和常識性的問題。

Have you ever noticed how people who gossip a lot aren't the happiest of people?

你有沒有發現，經常八卦的人不是最幸福的人？

They are more focused on spreading rumors or talking negatively about other people than their own quality of life.

比起自己的生活品質，他們更注重傳播謠言或談論他人的負面資訊。

Have you noticed how happy and successful people have a mind of their own?

你有沒有注意到，幸福的成功人士都有自己的想法？

And they rarely speak in a negative way about anyone or any subject.

而且他們很少以負面的方式談論任何人或任何主題。

They don't believe everything they hear, and they never act on gossip or opinions of others.

他們不會相信他們所聽到的一切，他們也從不根據別人的流言蜚語或意見行事。

Live a life free from gossip and speaking or believing negatively of others.

生活中不說閒話，不說或不相信別人的負面言論。

Form your own opinions based off your interactions with others.

根據你與他人的互動，形成自己的觀點。

One of the biggest problems of humanity that need to be loved and liked by other people.

人類最大的問題之一，需要得到別人的愛和喜歡。

Many people simply can't function unless they are in a relationship with another.

很多人根本無法正常工作，除非他們與另一個人有關係。

The second they aren't Their life is an immediate emergency mode.

他們的生命是一個立即的緊急模式。

They feel less than they feel incomplete.

他們覺得不如自己覺得不完整。

No other person can or will ever complete you on Lee.

其他任何人都不能也不會完成你對李。

You can make yourself feel whole, and you could only do that by understanding that you are in control of that.

你可以讓自己感覺到完整，你只有明白你能控制這一點，才能做到這一點。

Putting your quality of life in the hands of someone whose feelings are completely out of your control is insanity you can still love.

把自己的生活品質交給一個感情完全不受自己控制的人，是瘋子你還能愛嗎。

You can still enjoy and appreciate others, but don't get attached to them.

你仍然可以享受和欣賞別人，但不要對他們產生感情。

Allow them to be free and allow yourself to be free as well.

This may get confusing with the point above being about creating wealth.

這可能會與上面關於創造財富的觀點產生混淆。

There is nothing wrong with making money, and if you are adding value in whatever you do, you won't have to worry about money coming in.

賺錢是沒有錯的，如果你無論做什麼事情都在增值，你就不用擔心錢的問題了。

This is for all of you who live your life with money as your motivation.

這是給所有以金錢為生活動力的人的。