IN THE STUDIO AND I AM HERE, THIS FEELS VERY, VERY STRANGE TO

在工作室和我在這裡，這感覺非常，非常奇怪的。

ME.

我。

SO WHERE ARE YOU, ARE YOU UPSTAIRS OR DOWNSTAIRS OR ARE

那麼，你在哪裡，你是上樓還是下樓，或者是...

YOU OUT IN THE PARKING LOT?

你在停車場嗎？

WHERE ARE YOU?

你在哪裡？

>> HEY, PHIL, I'M EVERYWHERE.

>> 嘿，菲爾，我到處都是。

>> I'M GOING TO FIND YOU.

>> 我要去找你。

>> James: YEAH, I WOULD HAPPILY HAVE THE COMPANY NOW

>> 詹姆斯。是的，我很樂意現在就擁有這個公司

PHIL THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR BEING FO BEING THERE EVEN THOUGH I'M

菲爾非常感謝你能來這裡，即使我在這裡

NOT, IT MEANS A GREAT DEAL, FIRST WE HAVE TO CONGRATULATE

不，這意味著一個偉大的交易，首先我們必須祝賀。

YOU, WE'VE HAD A BUSY SUMMER AM YOU TURN 70 YEARS OLD,

你，我們已經度過了一個忙碌的夏天，你70歲了。

CONGRATULATIONS.

祝賀你。

>> MADE IT.

>> 做到了。

>> James: AND YOU CELEBRATED 44 YEARS OF MARRIAGE.

>> 詹姆斯。你們慶祝了44年的婚姻。

YOU'VE GOT TWO PUPPIES.

你有兩隻小狗。

YOU'VE GOT A GRAND BABY ON THE WAY.

你已經有了一個孫子在路上。

IS YOUR LIFE BUSIER NOW THAN IT EVER HAS?

你現在的生活是否比以前更忙碌？

THAT IS A LOT GOING ON.

這是一個很大的事情。

>> I'M NOT SURE.

>> 我不確定。

I CAN'T REMEMBER.

我不記得了。

I CAN REMEMBER SONG LYRICS FROM THE '80S BUT I CAN'T REMEMBER

我記得80年代的歌詞，但我不記得了

WHY I WENT IN THE KITCHEN THIS MORNING.

今天早上我為什麼要去廚房？

IT'S COMPLETELY DIFFERENT.

這完全不同。

BUT I DO HAVE TWO NEW RESCUE PUPPIES.

但我確實有兩隻新的救援小狗。

AND THEY'RE KEEPING ME REALLY BUSY.

他們讓我很忙。

WE GOT A GRAND BABY ON THE WAY, A LOT HAPPENING.

我們有一個盛大的寶寶在路上，很多事情發生。

SO VERY EXCITING SUMMER.

所以非常興奮的夏天。

>> James: I WANT TO TALK TO YOU ABOUT THIS BECAUSE I HAVE

>> 詹姆斯。我想和你談談這個問題，因為我有。

BEEN MARRIED FOR EIGHT YEARS NOW.

已經結婚八年了。

>> James: WE'RE JUST IN THE WARMUP RIGHT NOW.

>> 詹姆斯。我們現在只是在熱身。

>>EXACTLY.

>>正是如此。

>> James: 44 KREERS OF MARRIAGE IS INCREDIBLE.

>> 詹姆斯：44個婚姻的克雷爾是不可思議的。

WHAT IS YOUR TIP, WHAT IS THE SECRET FOR HAD 44 YEARS OF

你的建議是什麼，有44年的祕密是什麼？

MARRIAGE?

婚姻？

>> WELL, THERE ARE A FEW.

>> 好吧，有幾個。

FIRST UNDERSTAND WHEN YOUR WIFE SAYS WHAT?

首先要明白，當你的妻子說什麼？

IT ISN'T THAT SHE DIDN'T HEAR WHAT YOU SAID.

她並不是沒聽到你說的話。

SHE IS GIVING YOU A CHANCE TO CHANGE WHAT YOU SAID?

她給了你一個機會來改變你說的話？

YOU NEED TO UNDERSTAND THAT.

你要明白這一點。

AND SEIZE THAT MOMENT AND CHANGE WHAT YOU SAID.

抓住那一刻，改變你說的話。

THAT IS YOUR SECOND CHANCE.

這是你的第二次機會。

SHE'S NOT CLARIFYING, SHE'S GIVING YOU A SECOND RUN SO YOU

她不是在澄清，她是在給你第二次機會，讓你...

GOT TO TAKE IT.

必須採取它。

AND SERIOUSLY THOUGH I MARRIED WAY OVER MY HEAD.

說真的，我覺得我結婚的時候，我的腦袋都快炸了。

AND ROBIN WE'VE BEEN TOGETHER ALMOST 50 YEARS NOW.

和羅賓我們已經在一起50年了。

AND I HAVE NOT AGED WELL AND ROBIN, WELL, YOU KNOW ROBIN.

我沒有老得很好，羅賓，好了，你知道羅賓。

I MEAN THAT GIRL WOULD MAKE A DOG BREAK ITS CHAIN.

我是說那個女孩會讓一條狗斷了鏈子。

SHE IS REALLY GOOD LOOKING.

她真的很好看。

AND THEN THERE'S ME.

然後是我。

>> James: I DON'T KNOW ABOUT THAT, I THINK YOU ARE BEING HARD

>> 詹姆斯。我不知道，我想你是硬的。

ON YOURSELF, BEING A BIT TOUGH ON YOURSELF.

對自己，對自己有點苛刻。

LOOK AT YOU, IN GREAT SHAPE, YOU PLAY TENNIS EVERY DAY.

看看你，身材很好，你每天都在打網球。

>> I DO PLAY TENNIS EVERY DAY, I DO TRY AND STAY IN SHAPE.

>> 我每天都打網球，我一直在努力保持身材。

HAVE I BEEN BALD SINCE THEN, THAT IS THE ONE GOOD THING ABOUT

我從那時起就禿了嗎，這就是我的一個優點

BEING BALD, YOU LOOK THE SAME ALL THE TIME.

禿頭，你看起來總是一樣的。

YOU PUT A LITTLE COLOR, YOU LOOK THE SAME EVERY DAY.

稍微上點顏色，你每天都是一樣的。

>> James: I WANT TO TALK TO YOU ABOUT THIS, YOU RECENTLY SET

>> 詹姆斯。我想和你談談這個，你最近設置了一個新的項目。

TIKTOK ON FIRE WITH A VIDEO THAT YOU POSTED.

你發的視頻讓TIKTOK火了。

TAKE A LOOK.

看看吧

>> DON'T COMMENT DADDY ON ALL OF YOUR POSTS, I AIN'T YOUR DADDEE,

>> 不要評論爸爸對你所有的帖子，我不是你的爸爸。

I HATE TO BREAK IT TO YOU, I AIN'T YOUR DADDY.

我很抱歉，我不是你爸爸

AND YOUR REAL DADDY PROBABLY GETS HIS FEELINGS HURT, I

而你的親生父親可能也會感覺很受傷，我。

APPRECIATE THE SUPPORT BUT IT'S WEIRD.

欣賞支持，但它的怪異。

BUT I DO APPRECIATE THE SUPPORT.

但我很感謝你的支持。

>> James: IS THIS A REAL THING?

>> 詹姆斯。這是一個真實的事情嗎？

>> IT IS A REAL THING.

>> 它是一個真實的東西。

THIS IS A JOKE THAT MY FOLLOWERS AND I HAVE BETWEEN US.

這是一個笑話，我和我的追隨者之間有我們之間。

BUT THEY ALL CALL ME DADDY FOR SOME REASON.

但他們都叫我爸爸是有原因的。

THERE IS NOBODY THAT GETS TO CALL ME DADDY EXCEPT WELL ROBIN,

沒有人可以叫我爸爸，除了羅賓。

GETS TO CALL ME DADDY SOMETIMES.

有時可以叫我爸爸。

BUT THIS IS JUST A JOKE I HAVE WITH A LOT OF MY FOLLOWERS.

但這只是一個玩笑，我有很多我的追隨者。

WE TEASE BACK AND FORTH SO I POSTED THIS.

我們回過頭來，所以我發了這個。

THERE SAY TREND ON TIKTOK LIKE YOU GOT TO STOP THIS, AND YOU

在TIKTOK上有說的趨勢，就像你必須停止這一點，而你。

FILL IN THE SENTENCE.

填入句子。

30 MILLION PEOPLE HAVE SEEN THIS SIDIO.

三千萬人已經看到了這個SIDIO。

PEOPLE HAVE WAY TOO MUCH TIME ON THEIR HANDS.

人們有太多的時間在他們的手上。

>> James: THEY CERTAINLY HAVE.

>> 詹姆斯。他們肯定有。

I AM INTERESTED, WHEN DID DR. PHIL MAKE THE DECISION TO

我很想知道，Dr. PHIL是什麼時候做出決定的？菲爾做出決定，以

JUST JUMP WITH BOTH FEET STRAIGHT INTO TIKTOK?

直接用雙腳跳進帝都？

>> LOOK, MY SOCIAL MEDIA TEAM CAME IN AND SAID YOU SHOULD OPEN

>> 看，我的社交媒體團隊來了，說你應該打開

A TIKTOK AND SEE WHAT HAPPENS.

嘀嗒，看看會發生什麼。

I SAID WELL, WHAT EVER THAT IS, OKAY.

然後說，好吧，什麼都是，好吧。

>> James: NOW TODAY THE DOCTOR PHIL SHOW WILL CELEBRATE 19

>> 詹姆斯。今天，《醫生菲利普秀》將迎來19週年紀念日。

SEASONS.

季節：

WHEN YOU STARTED THE SHOW DID YOU EVER THINK I WILL BE DOING

當你開始這個節目的時候，你有沒有想過我會做。

THIS FOR 19 SEASONS?

這19個賽季？

>> YOU KNOW, I REALLY HADN'T THOUGHT THAT MUCH ABOUT IT.

>> 你知道嗎，我真的沒有想過那麼多。

I HAD REALLY NO CONCEPT OF THIS KIND OF LONGEVITY.

我真的沒有概念 這種類型的長壽。

BUT IT SEEMS LIKE IN SOME RESPECTS WE JUST STARTED

但似乎在某些方面，我們剛剛開始。

YESTERDAY AND IN SOME RESPECTS, IT SEEMS LIKE THE ONLY THING

今天，在某些方面，它似乎是唯一的事情。

I'VE EVER DONE.

我已經做了。

YOU KNOW WHAT IT IS LIKE.

你知道它是什麼樣子的。

WHEN ARE YOU DOING IT EVERY DAY AND DAYS TURN INTO WEEKS, WEEKS

什麼時候你每天都在做，一天就變成了幾周，幾周。

TURN INTO MONTHS.

轉為月。

AND I FEEL REALLY FORTUNATE TO HAVE BEEN DOING THIS FOR 19

我覺得自己很幸運，已經做了19年了。

YEARS, COMING INTO EVERYBODY'S HOME EVERY DAY, PARTICULARLY

年，每天都會走進每個人的家，尤其是

WHEN YOU KNOW WE DON'T DO A LOT OF CELEBRITIES AND STUFF.

當你知道我們不做很多的名人和事情。

WE JUST TALK TO REGULAR PEOPLE ABOUT COMMON SENSIC EL THINGS IN

我們只是和普通人談論一些常見的感官EL的事情。

THEIR LIVES BUT I JUST AM REALLY BLESSED, THAT I HAVE BEEN DOING

他們的生活，但我只是真的很幸運， 我一直在做... ...

IT FOR 19 YEARS.

它19年。

AND TO BE RATED NUMBER ONE IN THE CATEGORY, IS REALLY AMAZING.

而被評為類別中的第一，真的是太神奇了。

I FEEL REALLY FORTUNATE.

我覺得自己真的很幸運。

>> KNEW YOU MENTIONED THAT YOU ARE RATED NUMBER ONE.

>> 知道你提到你是排名第一的。

AND I WAS INTERESTED TO ASK YOU, WHAT DOES THAT FEEL LIKE?

我很想問你，那是什麼感覺？

>> WELL, I CAN TELL YOU EXACTLY.

>> 好吧，我可以告訴你確切的。

IT FEELS LIKE OPRAH QUIT.

感覺就像OPRAH退出了。

THAT'S WHAT IT FEELS LIKE BECAUSE I WAS NUMBER TWO FOR

這就是感覺，因為我是二號人物

LIKE 11 YEARS AND THEN SHE QUIT.

就像11年，然後她就辭職了。

>> SO THAT IS THE QUEE.

>> 所以，這就是quee。

>> YEAH, STICK AROUND, YOU WILL BE NUMBER TWO.

>> 是的，堅持下去，你會成為二號人物。

GOOD TO KNOW, GOOD TO KNOW.

好知道，好知道。

NOW I WANT TO TALK TO YOU ABOUT THIS.

現在我想跟你談談這個。

BACK IN APRIL THERE WAS LOTS OF COMMENTEDS, LOTS OF CHATTER I'M

4月的時候，有很多評論，很多哈拉，我...

SURE YOU ARE AWARE ABOUT WHAT YOU SAID ABOUT CORONAVIRUS WHILE

你確定你知道你對冠狀病毒的看法嗎？

WERE YOU ON THE FOX NEWS NETWORK.

你上過福克斯新聞網嗎？

WHAT DID YOU MAKE OF THE REACTION TO WHAT YOU SAID?

你怎麼看你說的話的反應？

>> YOU KNOW, IT'S NOT REALLY WHAT YOU SAY IN THIS DAY AND

>> 你知道，這並不是真正的你說什麼，在這個日子裡。

TIME, IT'S WHERE YOU SAY IT.

時間，是你說的地方。

BECAUSE I DIDN'T REALLY SAY ANYTHING I HADN'T SAID MANY

因為我沒有真正說過任何話，我已經說過很多次了。

TIMES BEFORE.

時代的前。

WE DID 30 OR 35 SHOWS ON CORONAVIRUS AND YOU KNOW I'M NOT

我們在冠狀病毒上做了30或35個節目，你知道我不是。

AN INFECTIOUS DISEASE EXPERT.

一個傳染病專家。

I'M NOT A CORONAVIRUS EXPERT.

我不是一個冠狀病毒專家。

I WORKED ON THE MENTAL HEALTH ASPECT OF IT.

我在心理健康方面的工作。

WE RELY ON EXPERTS THAT WE HAD ON FROM HARVARD AND DUKE AND ALL

我們依靠的專家，我們從哈弗大學和杜克大學和所有。

OF THESE TOP LEARNING CENTERS IN THE COUNTRY.

這些全國頂尖的學習中心中。

AND MY FOCUS IS ON THE MENTAL HEALTHAND MY POINT, MY CONCERN

我的重點是心理健康和我的觀點，我的關注點。

IS THAT THE FALLOUT FROM EXTENDED QUARANTINE PARTICULARLY

延長配額的後果是什麼？

ON CHILDREN WHO ARE MISSING OUT ON SCHOOL AND THE RISKS

錯過上學機會的兒童及其風險的報告

ASSOCIATED WITH LONELINESS, PROLONGED QUARANTINE, THESE

與長壽有關的，延長期限的，這些。

THINGS HAVE A COST OF THEIR OWN.

事情都有自己的成本。

THERE IS RISK FROM CORONAVIRUS OF COURSE.

有從冠狀病毒當然的風險。

BUT THERE IS ALSO RISK FROM BEING LOCKED AWAY FOR A LONG

但長期被鎖在外面也是有風險的。

PERIOD OF TIME IN ISOLATION.

隔離期：

AND OF COURSE NOW ALL OF THOSE THINGS HAVE COME TO THE

當然，現在所有的這些事情都已經到了。

FOREFRONT AND ARE COMING THROUGH.

前面，正在通過。

SO THOSE THINGS ARE NOT AT ALL TROARVETIONAL NOW BECAUSE

所以，這些東西現在根本不屬於TROARVETIONAL了，因為

EVERYBODY SEES THE EFFECT OF THAT.

每個人都看到了這種影響。

AND I'M VERY CONCERNED THAT WE GET OUR CHILDREN BACK TO SCHOOL

我很擔心我們的孩子能不能回到學校去。

AS SOON AS WE CAN DO SO SAFELY.

只要我們能安全地做到這一點。

BECAUSE THAT IS VERY IMPORTANT TO AVOID DEVELOPMENTAL DELAYS,

因為這是非常重要的，以避免發展延誤。

EDUCATIONAL DELAYS, SOCIAL DELAYS.

教育滯後，社會滯後。

IT VL IMPORTANT WE GET OUR CHILDREN BACK.

當務之急是讓我們的孩子回來。

>> I MEAN IN TERMS OF-- IN TERMS OF, YOU KNOW, PEOPLE PROTECTING

>> 我的意思是... ...以... ...以... ...以... ...以...

THEIR MENTAL HEALTH DURING THIS TIME, WHAT TIPS WOULD YOU GIVE

在這段時間裡，他們的心理健康，你有什麼建議？

TO PEOPLE TO BEST PRESERVE THEIR MENTAL HEALTH THROUGH WHAT I'M

通過我所做的事情，讓人們最好地保護他們的心理健康。

SEEING, A YEAR LIKE MANY PEOPLE HAVE NEVER REALLY LIVED THROUGH

看，一年的時間就像很多人從未真正經歷過的一樣。

BEFORE.

之前：

>> IN IS SOMETHING NEW FOR US.

>> 在是我們的新事物。

AND I THINK I CAN SUM IT UP REALLY WELL IN A PHRASE THAT HAS

我想我可以把它總結為很好的一個階段，有

BEEN AROUND A LOT WHICH IS ALONE TOGETHER.

已經走過了很多是孤獨的相干。

WE HAVE TO REACH OUT TO OTHER PEOPLE EVEN IF IT IS

我們必須接觸到其他人，即使它是

ELECTRONICALLY BY FACE TIME OR WHATEVER.

電子面時間或任何東西。

AND HERE IS THE KEY JAMES, THE WAY TO FILL A VOID WITHIN

這裡是關鍵的詹姆斯，如何填補其中的空虛

YOURSELF IF YOU ARE FEELING LONELY, IF YOU ARE FEELING

如果你感到孤獨，如果你感到孤獨，如果你感到孤獨，如果你感到孤獨。

EMPI-- EMPTY OR ISOLATED, GIVE AWAY THAT WHICH YOU NEED THE

MOST.

最。

IF YOU ARE FEELING LONELY, FIND SOMEBODY IN YOUR APARTMENT

如果你感到孤獨，就在你的公寓裡找個人吧。

BUILDING OR IN YOUR NEIGHBORHOOD, MAYBE AN ELDERLY

在您的建築物或您的鄰居中，可能是老年人

PERSON ON THE CORNER THAT YOU KNOW IS BY THEMSELVES.

角落裡的人，你知道是他們自己的。

GO KNOCK ON THEIR DOOR AND STEP BACK, YOU KNOW, WAY BACK FOR

去敲他們的門，然後退後，你知道的，遠遠地退後。

SOCIAL DISTANCING AND SAY HEY, I KNOW YOU LIVE HERE ALONE.

社會距離，並說嘿，我知道你住在這裡孤單。

IS THIS SOMETHING I CAN DO FOR YOU.

這是我能為你做的事嗎？

WOULD YOU JUST LIKE TO VITS.

你會不會想VITS。

YOU PROBABLY DON'T WANT TO GIVE YOUR PHONE NUMBER BUT HERE IS

你可能不想給你的電話號碼，但這裡是。

MINE.

我的。

WOULD YOU LIKE TO TALK, WOULD YOU LIKE TO GET ON FACE TIME,

你想說話，你想得到的面子時間。

CAN I RUN AN ERRAND FOR YOU, GIVE AWAY WHAT YOU NEED THE MOST

我可以幫你跑個腿嗎，把你最需要的東西送出去。

THAT FILLS YOU UP QUICKER THAN ANYTHING ELSE YOU CAN DO.

這比其他任何事情都來得快。

(APPLAUSE) >> I DO FEEL LIKE THAT'S ONE OF

(鼓掌)>>我覺得那是一種

THE FEW SORT OF POSITIVES THAT I FOUND, BECAUSE NORMALLY IF I

我發現的少數幾種積極性，因為通常情況下，如果我。

CALL A FRIEND OR I SPEAK TO MY FAMILY AT HOME OR WHATEVER, YOU

打電話給朋友，或者我在家裡跟家人說，或者其他什麼的，你都可以。

SAY HOW ARE YOU DOING, YOU GO I'M GREAT, EVERYTHING IS GREAT,

說你怎麼樣，你去我很好，一切都很好。

YEAH, I'M FANTASTIC.

是的，我很神奇。

AND NOW FOR THE FIRST TIME I'M SPEAKING TO LIKE BUDDIES OF MINE

而現在是我第一次和我的朋友們說話。

BACK HOME IN LONDON AND SAYING HOW ARE YOU DOING.

回到倫敦的家，說你怎麼樣。

FOR THE FIRST TIME SINCE I CAN REMEMBER THEY GO OH, I'M

自從我記事以來，他們第一次走了，哦，我...

STRUGGLING.

掙扎。

I'M NOT DOING GREAT.

我沒有做得很好。

AND I DO SEE THAT AS A POSITIVE, THE SHARING WITH PEOPLE HOW YOU

我認為這是一個積極的因素，與人們分享你的生活方式。

ACTUALLY FEELING.

實際上感覺。

>> YOU KNOW, IT IS THE PRINCIPAL OF PRESS ROSSITY-- RECIPROCITY,

>> 你知道，這是新聞界的原則 -- 互惠互利。

YOU PASS SOMEBODY AT THE MALL ON THE STREET, HOW ARE YOU DOING,

你在大街上的商場經過某人，你怎麼做。

FINE, YOU, FINE, YOU GET WHAT YOU GIVE.

罰款，你，罰款，你得到你給的東西。

I THINK NOW PEOPLE ARE WILLING TO BE MORE VULNERABLE AND SAY

我想現在人們願意更加脆弱，並說...

YOU KNOW WHAT, I'M ACTUALLY STRUGGLING HERE.

你知道嗎，我實際上在這裡掙扎。

I WAS SO PROUD TO SEE JACK PRESCOTT OF THE DALLAS COWBOYS,

我很榮幸看到傑克-普萊斯基特的達拉斯牛仔隊。

GO COWBOYS, ACTUALLY COME OUT AND SAY HE WAS REALLY FIGHTING

去牛仔隊，實際出來說他是真的在戰鬥。

SOME DEPRESSION DURING THIS PANDEMIC.

在這段時期，一些抑鬱症。

HE LOST HIS BROTHER SEVERAL YEARS AGO.

他在幾年前失去了他的兄弟。

HE HAD REALLY TIME TO DWELL ON THAT DURING THE PANDEMIC.

他有真正的時間來沉浸在這期間的PANDEMIC。

AND HE CAME OUT AND SPOKE ABOUT THAT.

然後他出來說了這些話。

AND FOR PEOPLE TO SAY HEY IF SOMEBODY LIKE THAT CAN

人們說，嘿，如果有人能像這樣做，

EXPERIENCE IT, IT IS OKAY FOR ME TO ACKNOWLEDGE IT.

體驗過了，我就可以認識它了。

AND THEN SOMEBODY IN THE PRESS CAME OUT AND CRITICIZED HIM FOR

然後有些人在媒體上出來責備他，因為

IT WHICH WAS INCREDIBLY TONE DEAF AND INSENSITIVE BUT I

它是令人難以置信的色調淡漠和麻木不仁，但我。

THOUGHT IT WAS GREAT HE CAME OUT AND SAID THAT, IT INVITES OTHER

我認為這是偉大的，他出來說，它邀請其他。

PEOPLE TO SAY IT'SQ O.

人們說它是SQ O。

BECAUSE WE NEED TO TALK ABOUT THIS, IF YOU GIVE YOUR FEELINGS

因為我們需要談論這個問題，如果你給你的感受。

A VOICE IT IS VERY CATH CATHARTIC T HELPS TO TALK

一個聲音，它是非常CATH CATHARTIC T幫助說話。

ABOUT IT.

關於它。

>> SO MUCH, CERTAINLY IN AMERICA IT FEELS LIKE SUCH A DIVIDED

>> 這麼多，肯定是在美國，感覺就像一個分裂的國家。

NATION.

國家：

I MEAN WHAT ARE YOUR THOUGHTS ON HOW I, HOW CAN WE REPAIR THAT.

我的意思是你對我的想法是什麼，我們如何能修復它。

>> WELL YOU KNOW, WE'VE GOT TO START LISTENING AND TRYING TO

>> 你知道，我們必須開始聽，並嘗試

FIND, ANY TIME I AM A'S IN A ASSOCIATION WITH SOMEBODY, THE

發現，任何時候，我都是A'S在與某人的關聯，該。

FIRST THING I TRY TO DO IS SAY WHAT CAN I DO TO GET THEM THE

我想做的第一件事就是問我該怎麼做才能讓他們知道。

MOST OF WHAT THEY WANT THAT I CAN POSSIBLY DO.

他們想要的大部分東西，我都可以做到。

BECAUSE YOUR NATURAL TENDENCY IS TO SAY HOW DO I GET WHAT I WANT.

因為你的本性是想問我怎麼才能得到我想要的東西。

BUT OFTENTIMES YOU WANT DIFFERENT THINGS.

但是很多時候，你想要的是不同的東西。

IF YOU CAN SAY HOW DO I GET THEM THE MOST OF WHAT THEY WANT, YOU

如果你能說，我怎麼才能讓他們得到他們想要的東西，你就

OFTEN FIND OUT HEY, WE WANTED DIFFERENT THINGS.

有時會發現，嘿，我們想要不同的東西。

THEY VALUE MONEY, I VALUE TIME, THEY VALUE THIS, I VALUE THAT.

他們重視金錢，我重視時間，他們重視這個，我重視那個。

WE WANTED DIFFERENT THINGS AND WE CAN GIVE AND TAKE.

我們想要不同的東西，我們可以給予和採取。

BUT RIGHT NOW PEOPLE ARE SO FRIGHTERNED THAT THEY ARE NOT

但現在人們非常驚恐，他們不是

LISTENING.

聽。

YOU KNOW, EVERYBODY IS REALLY RATCHETING UP THE RHETORIC AND

你知道，每個人都是真正的節奏了RHETORIC和

NOT LISTENING TO FIND SOME COMMON GROUND.

不聽找到一些共同點。

IF YOU CAN START BY SAYING OKAY, LET'S JUST BEGIN BY WHAT WE

如果你能從說 "好的 "開始，那我們就從 "我們 "開始吧。

AGREE ON.

同意：

WE CAN TALK ABOUT WHAT WE DISAGREE ON BUT FIRST LET'S MAKE

我們可以討論我們的分歧，但首先讓我們做的是

A LIST OF WHAT WE AGREE ON, AND START FROM THERE.

列出我們同意的東西，並從那裡開始。

SOMETIMES YOU ARE REALLY SURPRISED ABOUT HOW MUCH YOU

有時候，你真的很驚訝你有多少錢。

ACTUALLY AGREE ON.

實際同意：

>> James: TOM, THAT'S YOUR POINT TO RUN TO THE-- SORRY,

>> 詹姆斯。湯姆，這是你的要點，跑到... 對不起。

DR. PHIL, TOM, YOU ARE SUPPOSED TO RUN TO THE BUTTON AND HIT.