Name: 什麼時候結束對話。四個標誌 (When to END a conversation: 4 signs)
Uploaded: 2020-10-08T19:11:22.000Z
Duration: 20 min

過去進行式

So then, I was blah blah blah blah blah blah blah... where are you going?

於是乎，我就巴拉巴拉的，你要去哪裡？

過去簡單式

Hi, James from www.engvid.com . I don't know why they just walked away.

嗨，詹姆斯從www.engvid.com 。我不知道為什麼他們就這麼走了。

Let's go to the board and talk to E. Stop boring people?

我們去董事會和E聊聊吧，別再讓人覺得無聊了?

Four signs it's time to end a conversation.

四個跡象表明，是時候結束對話了。

This video is to help you to be aware of when you should let a conversation go.

這段視頻是為了幫助你意識到什麼時候你應該讓一個談話去。

I've done many videos on how to continue a conversation, make conversations interesting,

我做過很多視頻，如何繼續對話，讓對話變得有趣。

how to start one, because we know that you need practice to get good at learning languages,

如何開始一個，因為我們知道，你需要練習才能學好語文。

Whether it be English, Spanish, Arabic, Russian.

無論是英語、西班牙語、阿拉伯語、俄語。

But in order to get that practice, you want people to willingly talk to you.

但為了得到這種練習，你要讓人們心甘情願地和你說話。

And if you continue a conversation past the point that they want to talk to you, they

如果你繼續對話過去的點，他們想和你談談，他們。

will eventually start avoiding you when they see you, because you don't know when to end

最終會在看到你的時候開始躲避你，因為你不知道什麼時候結束。

You don't want to be the one person that people are like, "Oh god, here comes E and James.

你不想成為一個人，人們都喜歡，"哦，上帝，來了E和詹姆斯。

So, this specific lesson is how to spot when somebody wants to end a conversation with

所以，這節課的具體內容就是如何發現有人想用以下方式結束對話的時候

Because if you can end that conversation before they get there, they will want to talk to

因為如果你能在他們到達之前結束談話，他們就會想和你談談。

Well, I'm going to introduce to you body language you should look for.

好了，小編給大家介紹一下你應該注意的肢體語言。

I will show you some phrases or words - key words they may use.

我將向你展示一些短語或單詞--他們可能使用的關鍵詞。

Once you have these things in your head, you'll be able to find that you'll know just before

一旦你把這些東西記在腦子裡，你就能發現，你會知道就在之前

a conversation's about to go - we call it sideways, or go in a bad direction.

談話要走了--我們稱它為 "橫著走"，或者說往壞的方向走。

You'll be able to end that conversation and have that person feeling comfortable enough

你就可以結束這場談話，讓他感覺到足夠的舒適。

So, I've got numbers for you, 1, 2, 3, 4, because the lesson is about the four signs

所以，我給你們準備了數字，1、2、3、4，因為這節課講的是四種符號的問題

I did tell you how we're going to do this, and one of the ways we're going to look at

我告訴過你我們要怎麼做，其中一個方法是，我們要看一看

Because when you see people using these signs, they're telling you it's time to end the conversation.

因為當你看到人們使用這些標誌時，他們在告訴你是時候結束對話了。

The first one is shoulder and foot position.

我還沒有剪，沒有馬尼-佩德斯。

But you'll notice the person's foot will go towards an exit.

但你會發現，這個人的腳會往出口走。

So, if you're talking to somebody and you just casually look down and one foot is pointing

所以，如果你在和別人說話的時候，你只是隨意地低頭看了一眼，一隻腳指著的是...

towards you and the other foot is pointing towards a door, probably they want to leave.

對著你，另一隻腳指著一扇門，可能他們想離開。

It might be just at that moment, they're thinking to themselves, "Oh, I've got go home and cook

可能就在那一刻，他們在想，"哦，我得回家做飯了

dinner", or "I've got to do...", and you notice what's happening with my body?

晚餐"，或者 "我得做......"，你注意到我的身體發生了什麼嗎？

It doesn't mean I really need to get out, but my brain is starting to go there.

這並不意味著我真的需要出去，但我的大腦開始去那裡。

You'll see also that shoulders will move.

Their shoulder might start going, "Oh, that's really nice.

他們的肩膀可能會開始說："哦，那真是太好了。

You and the kids are going on vacation next week.

Cool, I'd like to hear more about..." going towards an exit.

酷，我想多聽聽...... "走向一個出口。

So, look at the rotation of their body or the position of their body.

所以，要看他們身體的旋轉或身體的位置。

If someone's really exited to talk to you, you'll notice that the foot might shift back

如果有人真的很想跟你說話，你會發現腳可能會往後移

towards you, indicating they want to continue the conversation.

朝著你，表示他們想繼續對話。

So, the first sign you should look for, which is the beginning of they want to end the conversation

所以，你應該尋找的第一個跡象，這是他們想要結束對話的開始。

Look at their shoulder, does it start to move towards the exit?

看看他們的肩膀，是否開始向出口移動？

Because it means the body's getting ready to run.

因為這意味著身體已經做好了奔跑的準備。

Well, not really run, but you know what I'm saying.

嗯，不是真的跑，但你知道我在說什麼。

After I've moved my body this way, you might start noticing that my eyes aren't on you

當我把身體移到這邊來之後 你可能會發現我的眼睛並不在你身上。

They're down, if I'm holding at drink, at my drink.

他們下來了，如果我拿著飲料，在我的飲料。

They might be looking at other people, looking at the clock around you.

他們可能在看別人，看你身邊的時鐘。

This is when it's becoming - from unconscious - that is my body turning towards an exit

這時，它就變成了--從無意識的--那是我的身體轉向了一個出口

- to conscious, that I feel I've got to get going and I don't want to be rude.

- 到意識到，我覺得我得走了，我不想無禮。

So, these signs are - you're moving closer to somebody wants to end the conversation.

所以，這些跡象是--你正在接近有人想結束對話。

They're aware that maybe the conversation isn't exciting anymore, or stimulating.

他們意識到，也許談話已經不刺激了，或者說刺激了。

Making them interested, or that they have to leave and time is happening.

讓他們感興趣，或者說他們必須離開，時間正在發生。

You've been talking and they're like "Oh wow.

你一直在說，他們就像 "哦，哇"。

They're just trying to think of anything else.

And looking at objects is to try to keep our attention.

而看物體是為了儘量保持我們的注意力。

Because when people want to talk to you, they will keep close attention or keep their eyes

因為當人們想和你說話的時候，他們會保持密切的關注，或者說保持他們的目光

所以，第二個信號，注意他們的眼睛。

There's a difference between moving their eyes and thinking about things and then looking

動動眼珠子，想一想，再看一看，有什麼不同？

over for a second or two over here and over there.

It's almost a very obvious sign, but sometimes we miss it because we're so excited about

這幾乎是一個非常明顯的跡象，但有時我們錯過了它，因為我們太興奮了。

getting to practice that we're not really paying attention to the other person.

得到練習，我們並沒有真正注意到對方。

Number three - I've got musical notes here, but what I'm really talking about is tone.

第三條--我這裡有樂譜，但我真正要講的是音調。

When I'm really happy to see you, I'm going to go, "So, what have you been up to?"

當我看到你真的很高興的時候，我就會說："那麼，你最近在幹什麼？"

My voice goes up, and you go, "Well, I'm going to be going to the store and then I'm going

我的聲音上去了，你就說："好吧，我要去商店，然後我要去

to be doing..." as my tone goes up, it's about excitement in English.

to be doing...... "隨著我的語調升高，是關於英語的興奮。

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什麼時候結束對話。四個標誌 (When to END a conversation: 4 signs)

awkward

conscious

decent

opportunity