I finditkindofhumorous, withneverendingselfhelpbooksthatexiststhatstilltriestoanswerthisquestiontoday.
Whenitwasansweredover 2000 yearsagobytheancientGreekwordYouDieMoughniyah, I wastalkingabouthappinessandwhatthebreastpracticetoachieveitwas.
Theironyofmystatementisthat a lotofselfhelpbooktodayarebasedoffstoicpractices, but I havebeenrebrandedtofitthemodernworld.
Soevenifyou'renotfamiliarwithstoicism, there's still a goodchancethatyoupracticeitevenwithoutknowingin, forexample, thingslikejournaling, meditating, practiceofselfrestraintareallin a waste a weekexercises.
Whenyouwakeupinthemorning, tellyourselfthatpeople I dealwithtodaywillbemeddling, ungrateful, arrogant, dishonest, jealousandcertainlytheyarelikethisbecausetheycan't tellgoodfromevil.
But I haveseenthebeautyofgoodandtheuglinessofevilandhaverecognizedthatthewrongdoerhas a naturerelatedtomyown, notofthesamebloodandbirth, butthesamemindandprocessing a shareofthedivine.
Andsononeofthemcanhurtme.
Noonecanimplicatemeinugliness.
Norcan I feelangryatmyrelativeorhatehim.
Wewereborntoworktogetherlikethehandsandice, likethetworowsofteeth, upperandlowertoobstructeachotheris a naturaltofeelangeratsomeonetoturnyourbackonhim.
However, it's anemotionthatisoftentodaydisplayedinmediawhen a characterin a film, forexample, axingrevenge, isoftenseencarryingoutthesamebadlythatwasoriginallydonetohim.
Butwhen I'velived a noblelifethatwillliveoninthememoriesoftheirlovedonesjustlikenaturesaidhewas a whitetoliveforcanbearalmostanyhowifyouhave a purpose, youcanlivethroughanypainandsuffering.