unhappiness
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B1 中級
n. (u.)不可數名詞不幸福 ； 不快樂
His unhappiness was caused by the loss of his job
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人生不是為了快樂！ (Life is Not About Being Happy)
- And judged on this basis, many of us have to admit, in the silence of our minds, that we're not really doing very well. There's so much that every year, and perhaps almost every day, comes along to spoil our ambitions. There's a power struggle at the office, there's a problem in our families, our friends feel superficial or disengaged, our anxieties don't abate and our relationships are scratchy or distant. Our difficulties generate a basic layer of misery, but then a secondary layer is swiftly added to it, caused by an underlying sense that our unhappiness represents a fundamental violation of life's true purpose. Not only are we unhappy, we are unhappy that we are unhappy, in the light of our tightly held belief in the possibility of a state of enduring satisfaction. We're both sad and crushed that we have failed at the single most important goal open to all sane and ambitious humans.
據此判斷，我們中的許多人不得不在沉默中承認，我們做得並不好。每年，也許幾乎每天，都會有很多事情來破壞我們的雄心壯志。辦公室裡的權力鬥爭，家庭中的問題，朋友們的膚淺或疏遠，我們的焦慮並沒有減輕，我們的人際關係也很微妙或疏遠。我們的困難產生了一層基本的痛苦，但隨後又迅速增加了第二層痛苦，這是由一種潛在的感覺造成的，即我們的不快樂從根本上違背了生活的真正目的。我們不僅不快樂，我們還因為自己不快樂而不快樂，因為我們堅信有可能獲得持久的滿足。我們既悲傷又崩潰，因為我們未能實現所有理智而有抱負的人所追求的最重要的目標
- But then a secondary layer is swiftly added to it, caused by an underlying sense that our unhappiness represents a fundamental violation of life's true purpose.
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- will generally suffer from poverty and unhappiness, The best
通常會遭受貧困和不快樂。最好的
- LESSON 20 Concentration Reviewed In bringing this book to a close I again want to impress you with the inestimable value of concentration, because those that lack this great power, or rather that fail to develop it, will generally suffer from poverty and unhappiness,
另一個想法進入你的腦海。然後，仍然保持
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- People always want to blame something outside themselves for the state of the world, or for their own unhappiness, whether it's a person, a particular group, or country, religion, or some kind of controlling Illuminati, like Descartes' evil demon, or the sentient machines in The Matrix.
或蓮花中的時間展開，與你永恆的存在。
- for their own unhappiness.
為自己的不幸福。
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- The true skill is to have determined the relative inevitability of their vexatiousness, to know how to distinguish hysterical misery from normal, unavoidable unhappiness.
真正的技巧在於確定其煩惱的相對必然性，知道如何將歇斯底里的痛苦與正常的、不可避免的不快區分開來。
- The true skill is to have determined the relative inevitability of their vexatiousness, to know how to distinguish hysterical misery from normal, unavoidable unhappiness.
對愛的憎恨
非洲如何發明心理治療！ (How Africa Invented Psychotherapy)
- We may feel that it is a uniquely Western neurosis, especially one afflicting people who have spent too long in psychotherapy, to go on and on about one's relatives and their contribution to one's unhappiness, to be twenty-five or sixty-two and still turning over in one's mind how mum or grandpa have been responsible for spoiling one's relationships or ruining one's life.
我們可能會覺得，這是西方人特有的神經症，尤其是那些長期接受心理治療的人，他們會喋喋不休地談論自己的親人以及他們對自己不快樂的影響，二十五歲或六十二歲的人仍然在腦海中翻來覆去地想媽媽或爺爺是如何破壞了自己的人際關係或毀掉了自己的生活。
- We may feel that it is a uniquely Western neurosis—especially one afflicting people who've spent too long in psychotherapy—to go on and on about one's relatives and their contribution to one's unhappiness, to be twenty-five or sixty-two and still turning over in one's mind how mum or grandpa have been responsible for spoiling one's relationships or ruining one's life.
我們可能會覺得，這是西方人特有的神經症，尤其是那些長期接受心理治療的人，他們會喋喋不休地談論自己的親人以及他們對自己不快樂的影響，二十五歲或六十二歲的人仍然在腦海中翻來覆去地想媽媽或爺爺是如何破壞了自己的人際關係或毀掉了自己的生活。
現代社群媒體把我們搞砸了！😱 (Modern Social Media Fked Us Up)
- Hey, Psych2Goers, we asked our followers, what do you believe is the primary factor contributing to unhappiness in our world today?
嘿，Psych2Goers，我們問我們的追隨者，你們認為當今世界導致不快樂的主要因素是什麼？
- We asked our followers, "What do you believe is the primary factor contributing to unhappiness in our world today?" and many of you answered, "Social media." We want to take a good look at why this is and maybe figure out what to do about it.
很多人的回答是社交媒體。
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- Frank answers can spare a couple decades of squabbling. Next, what trouble do I bring into the relationship? How am I difficult to live around? There should be no bristling here. Bearable people have a good handle on their unbearable dimensions. We don't need people to be perfect, we just need them to have a decent sense of how imperfect they are and how much their imperfections are going to cause the other pain. Then, what trouble do you bring into the relationship? How are you difficult to live around? We need agreement on the mutual complications that are being brought to the table. Both people should write their answers down, then show the other their analyses. Can both sides agree on what's most horrible in each person? The more alignment there can be, the less future criticism has to feel like nagging, and the more it can fit into a kinder project of helping someone to change as they would, at their saner moments, wish to change. Then, which bits of my anxiety and unhappiness did I discover were not, after all, your fault? What continued to be difficult even without you around? It's highly tempting when in a relationship to assume that all the misery we face is the fault of the lover. We attribute to the main person in our lives a commanding role in determining our state of mind. But when they're gone, we may be forced to realise a more complex truth – that our low moods and neuroses have their origins, in large part, in us rather than in them. It can, oddly, no longer all be their fault. How did life remain hard, even without them? What might they not be to blame for? Then, what I now appreciate more properly about you is… We're meant never to lose sight of what was great about them, but in reality, we sometimes need the perspective of time to get clearer about their virtues. In the long months since we were together, what sides of them did we realise we most deeply valued? Then, what did I learn from meeting other people? A truly tricky subject, but as we're realising, it's a capacity for eating humble pie that stands a restarted relationship in such good stead.
坦率的回答可以避免幾十年的爭吵。接下來，我給這段關係帶來了什麼麻煩？我是如何難以相處的？這裡不應該有毛刺。可以忍受的人都能很好地控制自己無法忍受的方面。我們不需要人們完美無缺，我們只需要他們對自己有多不完美以及自己的不完美會給對方帶來多大的痛苦有一個正確的認識。那麼，你給這段關係帶來了什麼麻煩？你是如何難以相處的？我們需要就彼此帶來的麻煩達成一致。兩個人都應該寫下自己的答案，然後給對方看自己的分析。雙方能否就每個人身上最可怕的地方達成一致？雙方的意見越一致，今後的責備就越不會讓人覺得是嘮叨，也就越能融入到
- Then, which bits of my anxiety and unhappiness did I discover were not, after all, your fault?
人生真正的快樂是什麼？大多數人都搞錯了… ► 哈佛教授的精闢見解！- Dr. Arthur Brooks 阿瑟·布魯克斯（中英字幕） (人生真正的快樂是什麼？大多數人都理解錯了... ► 聽聽哈佛教授怎麼說 - Dr. Arthur Brooks 阿瑟·布魯克斯（中英字幕）)
- It lowers unhappiness which are processed in different hemispheres of the brain Happiness and unhappiness are not opposites They're not they're different experiences and what happens is that low levels money will lower unhappiness So when I could finally go to the dentist, I felt better The trouble is I don't know how to do the sums inside my brain I just knew I felt better and we always mistake lower unhappiness for higher happiness And so early on you're like wow went from from you know, $15,000 to $20,000 a year.
幸福和不幸福並不是對立的，它們是不同的體驗，低水平的金錢會降低不幸福感，所以當我終於可以去看牙醫時，我感覺好多了、我感覺好多了 問題是我不知道怎麼計算我大腦裡的數字 我只知道我感覺好多了 我們總是把低度的不快樂誤認為高度的快樂 所以在早期你會覺得 哇哦 從15000美元漲到了20000美元
- it lowers unhappiness, which are processed in different hemispheres of the brain.
我很幸運能成為智囊團的主席，我相信這項工作，但這並不是我的本性，所以我有十年的時間沒有進入狀態。
20個暗中讓你不開心的微小事物！ (20 Little Things That Secretly Make You Unhappy)
- Here's a list of things that can cause you unhappiness, and some simple tricks you can use to subdue them, and put the smile back on your face.
以下將列出可能害你不快樂的原因，以及一些你可以用來遏止它們的技巧，重新找到你的笑容。
- Here's a list of things that can cause you unhappiness and some simple tricks you can use to subdue them and put the smile back on your face.
以下將列出可能害你不快樂的原因，以及一些你可以用來遏止它們的技巧，重新找到你的笑容。