put up with
US /pʊt ʌp wɪð/
・UK /put ʌp wið/
A1 初級多益
phr. v.片語動詞忍受
I have put up with terrible headaches for years
phr. v.片語動詞容忍
I won't put up with that kind of behavior.
影片字幕
必學！三個單字組成的動詞片語 (English Expressions: three-word phrasal verbs)
- E, "How could you put up with that awful smell of James'?" Mr. E asked Mr. Smith if he could
「你怎麼能忍受 James 那難聞的氣味？」E 先生問 Smith 先生是否能
- Mr Smith asked Mr E, "How could you put up with that awful smell of James's?" Mr E asked Mr Smith if he could team up with Mr Jones and come up with a solution for the smell.
「你怎麼能忍受 James 那難聞的氣味？」E 先生問 Smith 先生是否能
受傷的人如何尋求更進一步的懲罰？ (How Wounded People Seek Out further Punishment)
- It's just that for us, home was a place of grief and persecution. It's easy enough to see why children put up with poor treatment. They're born radically powerless. They can't run away. They are utterly at the mercy of others. They can't even think especially straight. What they must do, above all else, is adapt. Which in practice means learning to put up with poor treatment. They have to develop an advanced skill at not noticing quite how awful things are, an expertise at being unfazed by cruelty and neglect. Children in deprived circumstances tend to be geniuses at looking away, disassociating and making light of things. Of course, it might not be perfect that their father screams at them constantly, but there are some interesting shows on television and there's a really fascinating bit of the garden to explore in the morning. You can climb up the big tree and imagine it's a little house. And of course, ideally their mother wouldn't be so mocking and disloyal. But that's just the way things are, neither more or less sad than the fact it's often raining and there's a lot of homework to do. In any case, the bad treatment almost certainly has to do with something that they, the child, have done wrong. Badly treated children tend to take a compulsively generous view of those who injure them. Obviously, they aren't nasty on purpose. That would make no sense. Clearly, their ostensible brutality has sound explanations. It must be because they, the child, is in the wrong. That's why they're being neglected. That's why they've been declared fools. That's why they're being bullied. It's a great deal easier to believe that the parent is tough, yet fundamentally right, rather than gratuitously callous and unjustifiably hostile. In other words, what a bad childhood trains us to do, above all else, is to indulge meanness. The muscle that normally functions to repel attacks has had to be starved and has atrophied. In order to survive, we had to lose the ability to work out what was good and bad for us, lest we discover that we spent 18 years in the company of fiends. What this means for our futures is that we will be extremely poor at discerning when the partners we let into our lives cross the border into selfishness and malevolence. We'll continue under a narcoleptic command not to notice that we're being robbed and deceived. We'll be as blind to the blows now as we were then. For a long time, it simply won't occur to us to wonder why we've ended up paying for everything for the partner, or why they're unreliable in their promises, or constantly prioritise their friends over us, or are angrily defensive whenever we raise a complaint. We will simply, as we had to early on, fall into line and invent elaborate explanations for their behaviour. They're good, but they're tired. They're durable, but under pressure at work. They're fierce, but compensating for their childhood traumas, for which we have a lot of sympathy. Anything other than the more straightforward conclusion, we've fallen in with unconcerned egoists. We shouldn't compound our disloyalty towards ourselves by feeling, on top of everything else, ashamed for our tolerance. It isn't weakness, it's a survival strategy from childhood that served a very sensible purpose then but is liable to be ruining our lives now. To wake ourselves up, we need to consider our choices as if someone else had made them. We might wonder what we would advise a friend to do if they were in our situation. And through such a lens, we might start to perceive that the treatment we're facing isn't, as we've long thought, a sign of our partner's depth or complexity, but in the end, something much more humble, evidence that we need to get away. But this will be only a momentary liberation until we can understand the more fundamental issue, that the muscle most people use to eject poison has withered because of a distinctive history. We need to reverse the direction of our psychological fate. Our early suffering should not condemn us to yet more pain. It is what gives us an especially powerful claim on original sources of kindness, tenderness and calm.
只是對我們來說，家是一個充滿悲傷和迫害的地方。很容易理解為什麼孩子們要忍受惡劣的待遇。他們生來就毫無力量他們無法逃避。他們完全任由他人擺佈。他們甚至連思考的能力都沒有他們必須做的，最重要的，就是適應。在實踐中，這意味著要學會忍受惡劣的待遇。他們必須發展出一種高級技能，即不去注意事情有多糟糕，擅長對殘忍和忽視不為所動。生活在貧困環境中的孩子往往是睜一隻眼閉一隻眼、脫離現實和輕描淡寫的天才。當然，他們的父親經常對他們大吼大叫，這可能並不完美，但電視上有一些有趣的節目，而且早上可以去花園裡探索一個非常迷人的地方
- It's easy enough to see why children put up with poor treatment.
川普警告投資人！ 🚨 示警內容曝光！ (Trump’s Warning for Investors)
- Man, dude, what you guys have been through, Donald, Eric, Ivanka, the whole family, Barron, Kaya, the whole family, your in-laws, what you guys have put up with for the last, what is it, eight years and still stuck together.
夥計，你們經歷了什麼，唐納德、埃裡克、伊萬卡，整個家庭，巴倫、卡亞，整個家庭，你的姻親們，你們在過去的八年裡忍受了什麼，仍然堅持在一起。
- Man, dude, what you guys have been through, Donald, Eric, Ivanka, the whole family, Barron, um, uh, Kaya, the whole family, your, your in-laws, what you guys have put up with for the last, what is it, eight years and still stuck together.
成功靠的不是熱情，而是耐得住枯燥.. ► 羅伯特·格林 (Robert Greene) (中英字幕) (成功靠的不是熱情，而是耐得住枯燥.. ► Robert Greene 羅伯特·格林（中英字幕）)
- He had the patience to put up with all of the boring stuff.
他有耐心忍受所有無聊的事情。
- He had the patience to put up with all of the boring stuff.
當你和文字打交道時，就像我一樣，當我八歲的時候，我就覺得這是對的，是天經地義的，我必須沿著這條路走下去。
是什麼讓紐約比倫敦更貴？！🗽💰 (What Makes New York City More Expensive Than London?)
- Whereas people are so obsessed with living here that they will put, put up with how gross it is and how hard it is and how expensive it is anyway.
而人們對住在這裡如此著迷，所以他們會忍受它的髒亂、艱辛和昂貴。
- I think something about New York whereas, like, people are so obsessed with living here that they will put up with how gross it is and how hard it is and how expensive it is anyway.
性學研究者來了！關於「戀愛」你有什麼問題嗎？ | Tech Support | WIRED Japan (セクシュアリティの研究者だけど「恋愛」について質問ある？| Tech Support | WIRED Japan)
- A Reddit user asks, are situationships really changing the dating game and why do people put up with them?
一位 Reddit 用戶問：情侶關係真的會改變約會遊戲嗎？
- and why do people put up with them?
但另一方面，每個人都有責任。
塔克·卡爾森引爆美國！「沒有客戶名單」爭議爆料：艾普斯坦竟是以色列間諜？| 川普| 邦迪 ('Jeffrey Epstein Was Israeli Spy': Tucker Carlson Stuns US Amid 'No Client List' Row| Trump| Bondi)
- Shut up racist And I won't put up with that because I'm not a slave or an animal.
閉嘴，種族主義者，我不會容忍的，因為我不是奴隸，也不是動物。
- I'm not gonna put up with that answer I don't care who gives that answer that is not acceptable and I think the real answer is Jeffrey Epstein was working on behalf of Intel services, probably not American and We have every right to ask on whose behalf was he working?
我不會容忍這樣的答案，我不管是誰給出的答案，這都是不可接受的，我認為真正的答案是傑弗裡-愛潑斯坦是代表英特爾公司工作的，可能不是美國人，我們完全有權利問他是代表誰工作的？
