flirt with
US /flɚt wɪð/
・UK /flə:t wið/
A1 初級
phr. v.片語動詞調情
She was flirting with him all night, but he didn't seem interested.
phr. v.片語動詞略微考慮
I've been flirting with the idea of starting my own business.
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讓妳抓狂的迴避型伴侶！ (The Avoidant Partner with the Power to Drive You Mad)
- Or it's been a while since you made love. You hint that it might be a nice idea, but once again there seems to be a problem. It's not the right moment apparently. It's too hot or too cold. They're tired. They have indigestion or a bad back or stress about the next day. You try to be understanding, but turn over on your side with, once more, a little pain in your heart. Eventually, after an accumulation of these sort of rebuffs, you lose your patience. Despite having been a good boy or girl for a while and trying to believe what you needed to believe, something that the lover does acts as the proverbial straw on the camel's back. Once again they're aggressive on the phone. Once again they flirt with someone else. Once again they shut you out of their social life. You're not sure you want this forever. They're a lovely person in parts, but there's something off here. And so, with tact and gentleness, or a build-up of irritation, you declare that you've had enough. The partner doesn't respond very well. You're imagining things they say.
或者你們已經有一段時間沒有做愛了。你暗示這可能是個好主意，但似乎又出了問題。顯然時機不對。太熱或太冷。他們累了。他們消化不良，背不好，或者第二天有壓力。你試著去理解他們，卻又一次心痛地翻過身去。最終，在積累了無數次這樣的拒絕之後，你失去了耐心。儘管你已經做了一段時間的好孩子或好女孩，並努力去相信你需要相信的東西，但戀人所做的一些事情卻成了壓在駱駝背上的稻草。他們又一次在電話裡咄咄逼人。他們再一次和別人調情。他們又一次把你拒之於社交生活之外。你不確定自己是否想永遠這樣下去。他們有的地方很可愛，但有些地方不對
- So, of course, why not go back? The couple reunite. You go out for dinner. The old intimacy returns. Affection resumes. Until, a few hours or days or weeks after, the problems rear their head again. Once more, the partner goes distant. Once more, they flirt with a stranger.
當然，為什麼不回去呢？夫妻重逢。你們出去吃飯。昔日的親密又回來了。感情恢復直到幾小時、幾天或幾周後，問題再次出現。伴侶再一次變得疏遠。再一次，他們和陌生人調情。
為了逃避愛，我們能有多拼命？！ (The Lengths We Go To Avoid Love)
- If we find ourselves in a relationship, we will assiduously practice the arts of what psychologists call distance management. When the chance of reaching a truly happy state appears, we'll subtly discover ways to introduce a chasm. We'll have an argument, spoil a birthday, ruin a holiday. We'll find we have to do a lot of work for an upcoming exam or presentation, that our gang of friends needs us to be somewhere else, that we forgot to return the credit card or tax bill, that our appearance requires a lot of our attention or that we like to flirt with a stranger at a party who suddenly seems very attractive indeed. In both tiny and large ways, we'll know just how to lower the mood, scupper a bond and destroy trust. Perhaps not enough to end a relationship completely, but certainly enough to worry our partner sufficiently as to our solidity that we can be privately sure things will never truly fly. Friends may commiserate with us on our so-called bad luck. Psychologists will note our superlative skill at romantic sabotage. With this to sound a bit like us, compassion is required. We should reflect back on our pasts and wonder at the connection between our fractured bonds with parental figures and our disrupted adult attachments. We aren't like this because we're wicked, we've just been very badly hurt. Once we understand how our skill at independence was acquired, we'll be in a better position to see that it has in reality outlived its rationale. We may still feel immensely apprehensive at the prospect of contentment, but we may finally be able to admit that we are, first and foremost, acting out of fear. Rather than dismissing our partners, we may stick closer to a much more awkward truth – that we're tempted to draw away from them because we're immensely scared that they might finally be in a position to make us very happy – and that simply nothing so unutterably and boundlessly frightening has ever happened to us before.
如果我們發現自己處於一段關係中，我們就會孜孜不倦地練習心理學家所說的距離管理藝術。當達到真正幸福狀態的機會出現時，我們會巧妙地發現引入鴻溝的方法。我們會發生爭執，破壞生日，毀掉節日。我們會發現我們必須為即將到來的考試或演講做大量的工作，我們的一幫朋友需要我們去別的地方，我們忘了歸還信用卡或稅單，我們的外表需要我們大量的關注，或者我們喜歡在聚會上與一個陌生人調情，而這個陌生人突然看起來確實非常有吸引力。不管是小事還是大事，我們都知道如何降低情緒、破壞關係、摧毀信任。也許還不足以徹底結束一段關係，但肯定足以讓
- We will find we have to do a lot of work for an upcoming exam or presentation, that our gang of friends needs us to be somewhere else, that we forgot to return the credit card or tax bill, that our appearance requires a lot of our attention, or that we like to flirt with a stranger at a party who suddenly seems very attractive indeed.
柯南·歐布萊恩評測《俠盜獵車手 V》 | 笨蛋玩家 | TBS CONAN (Conan O'Brien Reviews "Grand Theft Auto V" | Clueless Gamer | CONAN on TBS)
- We can touch her and flirt with her.
我們可以撫摸她，與她調情。
- And then you can press this button to flirt with her.
然後你就可以按這個按鈕和她調情了。
前 BuzzFeed 員工養眼狗狗回答問題！ (Ex-BuzzFeeders Answer Questions With Puppies)
- And I still flirt with the cutie sister.
每天我宣佈午餐時間，你都不知道。
- And I still flirt with the cuties to this day.
到現在我還是會跟可愛的女生調情。
辦公室 vs. 六人行：誰才是情境喜劇的效率王者？！ (Efficiency in Comedy: The Office vs. Friends)
- But rather than confront them, they try to mess with them by having Phoebe flirt with Chandler.
嗯，該劇首播已近25年了。這不是真的過時了
- But rather than confront them they try to mess with them by having Phoebe flirt with Chandler
但他們並沒有和他們對抗，而是想通過讓菲比和錢德勒調情來搞垮他們。
娜塔莎無可撼動的魅力！(凱莉夢寐以求的) (The Untouchable Power of Natasha (What Carrie Never Had))
- They might flirt with drama, but they invest in discipline.
他們可能會被戲劇性吸引，但他們會投資在紀律上。
- They might flirt with drama, but they invest in discipline.
因為一旦一個女人展現出她不需要被選擇，她就會變得令人難忘。
超撩人的調情技巧！這樣做，讓他/她心動不已！ (Ways To Flirt Subtly)
- So if you wanna flirt with someone but fear rejection, just steal a few glances at them from time to time until they notice.
所以，如果你想和某人調情，但又害怕被拒絕，那就時不時偷瞄他幾眼，直到他注意到為止。
- So if you want to flirt with someone but fear rejection, just steal a few glances at them from time to time until they notice.
有一些調情方式是通過微妙的觸碰來實現的，比如輕輕拂過對方的肩膀或前臂，在對方的腰間停留一下，或者隨意地摸摸對方的頭髮。
別愛上這幾種人：請收藏這份清單！✅ (People not to fall in love with: a checklist)
- It may sound ungenerous to throw the emphasis on the negative, but we can fairly say that people who are good at love know, first and foremost, who not to fall in love with. While they may have all sorts of friends and a wide sympathy for the vagaries of being human, when it comes to who they opt to tie themselves to, this is some of what they will avoid with determination. People who have no sense of how difficult they are to live with. People with a heightened belief in their infallibility. People who will, when something is pointed out to them, quickly choose the occasion to simultaneously inform you that it's not as though you're perfect either. People who will label any criticism of them, however sensitively delivered, as rude or offensive and contrary to the rules of true love as they define these. People who deliberately drive you to the edge of frustration, then turn and say, why are you getting cross so suddenly? People who smile and say, I get it completely now, I'm going to change, and then go and do whatever it was all over again a few days later. People who combine an exquisite talent for upset with an even greater talent for sentimental apology. People who will flirt with others, then call it only a bit of fun and label you a prude for minding. People who will mess up your house and call you anal. People who will prioritise time with their friends over time with you and then call you controlling. People who tell you you're imagining things a lot. People who harbour a background grudge against your gender. People who are furious with a parent and don't realise they are. People who can't forgive anyone who thinks better of them than they think of themselves. People who claim desperately to want a relationship but are inwardly so committed to distrust, isolation and self-hatred that they aren't in any position really to have one and yet don't know this of themselves. People who principally associate love with the pleasant feelings they register when you are nice to them. People who don't take your love as a substantial gift you choose to bestow every day and could take elsewhere.
把重點放在消極方面聽起來可能不近人情，但我們可以公平地說，善於戀愛的人首先知道不應該愛上誰。雖然他們可能會有各種各樣的朋友，也會對變幻莫測的人性抱有廣泛的同情，但在選擇與誰相愛時，他們會堅決避免與這樣的人相愛。不知道自己有多難相處的人。堅信自己無懈可擊的人。當有人指出他們的缺點時，他們會迅速選擇時機，同時告訴你，你也並非完美無缺。他們會把任何對他們的責備，無論多麼敏感，都說成是粗魯或冒犯，違背了他們定義的真愛規則。他們故意把你逼到沮喪的邊緣，然後轉過身說，你怎麼突然生氣了？他們會微笑著說，我現在完全明白了
- People who will flirt with others, then call it only a bit of fun and label you a prude for minding.
為什麼你總是被發好人卡！8大原因揭曉！ (8 Reasons Why You’re Always in The Friendzone)
- For example, you'd never compliment or flirt with them.
這邊有八個你總是待在 friend zone 的原因。
- For example, you'd never compliment or flirt with them.
像是，你絕對不會 compliment 或 flirt 他們。