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  • But little bit related to what I'm going to talk today,

  • even when you do the translation, you need to

  • see the subject matter which you are going to translate.

  • In many ways, for example, first

  • if you're going to translate the book you need to read carefully

  • the title of the book and the contents and index

  • of the book before reading anything and get some idea what

  • may be there in the rest of the book

  • and then if it is not so clear, you will develop a curiosty

  • which will help you go much more, you know,

  • smoothly when you actually read the different chapters.

  • It's really like if you want to see

  • the panoramic view of this beautiful land,

  • one way of seeing it is, seeing from the top of the mountain

  • or from the aeroplane, which I did,

  • then you are able to get a very panoramic like view,

  • but that panoramic view is very beautiful,

  • but if you

  • want to know the details that would not work.

  • You have to get down, go to specific places,

  • houses, ask questions and know all the details. So a translator first has to

  • have an idea about this,

  • how, what this whole book is about, what this whole chapter is about.

  • then you need to know about the specific chapters,

  • the specific, you know, paragraphs and so forth.

  • So that is more or less the art of translation and the beauty of doing

  • translation is that you are able to

  • go into the minds, some so many great thinkers

  • and you try to express those

  • beautiful thoughts in a different language

  • where people will also be able to understand those talks

  • exactly what that author

  • talked about and you are not supposed to be in between.

  • You should go away, you know, you do the job and go away from the scene.

  • And that is not easy, that is not easy because many translators, interpreters

  • they get in between and then, you know, put their thoughts in between

  • so that is doing a little bit of damage,

  • so therefore, the system, one has to be careful.

  • So similarly in life we need to have a panoramic view,

  • a view about the whole universe, the whole world

  • the whole cosmos and then it is not enough that you talk about

  • universal values, cosmic values and then fight with your neighbours.

  • You also need to be in harmony with your neighbour,

  • the members of your family and so forth, so that is why

  • you know, the process of translation is very much related to the topic that I am

  • going to speak -

  • inner disarmament for external disarmament.

  • I'm speaking on this topic, or trying to speak on this topic, not because

  • I want to do an intellect, you know academic talk

  • or something like that but I'm really sometimes concerned

  • if I think about what is happening in today's world,

  • despite so much material progress and development

  • still the leaders

  • and many people, their bent of mind is how to stop by arms.

  • Each country

  • is making more and more dangerous, complicated, sophisticated wars,

  • you know, weapons, with the thinking and idea if my neighbour does something nasty I

  • will be the one

  • who should destroy everything. Yes,

  • we have now the capacity to destroy everything.

  • We have all heard about biological warfare,

  • chemical warfare, smart bombs, what not.

  • Smart bombs, you throw a bomb, destroy all people,

  • but the building will be intact. Smart bomb, chemical warfare, you know,

  • biological warfare. So mean.

  • That you bring sacks and sacks and throw them into the field of your enemy -

  • unthinkable, you know.

  • We have have such destructive, nasty,

  • mind and we cannot

  • afford to do this continuously if we are

  • in the true sense of the term generally

  • intelligent human beings. We call ourselves

  • intelligent human beings. We will proudly call this

  • age, the age of information. Yes

  • you get lots of information, but

  • think carefully. Much of this information that you get today

  • is junk information,

  • junk mail

  • and in one of the Buddha's teaching he says, 'Don't make your mind

  • a garbage bin.'

  • We cannot afford to do this.

  • One of the Buddhist teachers says 'life is short',

  • there are too many things to do

  • and it is not possible for you to pay attention to everything,

  • it is not possible for you to learn everything and it is also not necessary

  • that you learn everything.

  • You should take those things which are good for you,

  • which are good for you family, which are good for your society,

  • which are good for the whole world.

  • After all, if you think about the meaning of human life -

  • this is a very, very important question to ask

  • before you ask any question. What is the meaning of human life

  • before you explore the stars, the planets.

  • And today we a very good at talking about the stars, the planets, how they

  • function.

  • We have all the details you see, but when there is a tragedy there is a difficulty.

  • We are dumbfounded, we are not able to solve it.

  • We have all the ways and means to keep in touch with

  • external things but we are not in touch with oneself.

  • There are many people who say I have everything but something is missing.

  • I feel something is missing from me. I feel some,

  • you know, emptiness, hollowness inside.

  • This is true because you never keep in touch with your self,

  • because you never replenished your internal resources, you have

  • never strengthened your internal resources.

  • That is why despite having everything,

  • you feel empty, you feel lonely

  • you feel dependent on others all the time.

  • The problem of modern society is that we neither know

  • how to live with others nor we know how to live alone.

  • That is the problem.

  • On almost each and every occasion when I speak to the people

  • I ask a very simple, direct question.

  • 'Do you all want happiness?'

  • I'm asking the same question to you. Do you all want happiness?

  • Everybody says yes, except one

  • or two maybe bit different reasons or maybe extremely clever or whatever.

  • But everybody says yes, we all want happiness.

  • For how many day? I ask the next question.

  • You want happiness but for how many days?

  • They all laugh. They all laugh

  • because

  • as far as the question of getting happiness and peace is concerned

  • it is not a question of experiencing it just for a few months, a few days.

  • At least for this whole life you want that reliable peace and happiness

  • and if you are a believer in the future lives like the Buddhist

  • and other

  • spiritual traditions, then you need to plan in such a way

  • that you have that peace and happiness for many lives to come.

  • You need to have this master plan.

  • Should this wish to have happiness,

  • rather reliable long lasting happiness

  • and the wish not to have any suffering and any problem at all

  • this is something, this is not something that we learn from our religious

  • traditions.

  • This is our inborn art.

  • This is something that we all, no matter from which country you come from,

  • which religion you belong to, man and woman, doesn't really matter, whatever is

  • your affiliation,

  • we are all the same in that. First of all

  • understand this message, this basic reality.

  • Another question that I repeatedly ask people is,

  • After the birth, what is the first job that the child does after the

  • birth?

  • The first job that the child does after the birth is not laughing,

  • crying against him.

  • The first thing that the child does is crying - American child, Tibetan child, Chinese child.

  • Whoever, same, interesting. Isn't that interesting?

  • Crying, believe me that

  • when the child cries I am

  • hundred percent sure that the child is not asking for a lengthy discourse on Buddhism

  • or on any religion.

  • The child is simply asking for mother's milk which means

  • somebody's unconditional love and affection.

  • When I talk about internal disarmament

  • it's the only dimension. We have so many threats,

  • stockpiling of arms, external

  • weapons, arms, nuclear bombs so forth.

  • How can we reduce this stockpiling of arms and do away with them?

  • We can do that only if we become a good human being

  • with unconditional love for others.

  • Understanding that basic reality.

  • This is how we all came into this world

  • and on the day

  • when we leave this world

  • at that time also your main concern is, I am sure, in the case of the majority of the

  • people,

  • your main concern is not money, not wealth,

  • not name, not fame. There is so much in between,

  • we do so much, we

  • in between, but at the time of

  • our death or passing away,

  • or when we are sick, when we are dying,

  • when we are lonely, the one thing that you really,

  • really need is again somebody's genuine love and

  • affection.

  • This being the case, His Holiness the Dalai Lama repeatedly says this being the case,

  • how come you forget these qualities

  • in between when you are able to take care of yourself,

  • when you are a little bit energetic, when you have some money,

  • some friends, and so forth. You should not forget this.

  • Of course related to this,

  • all this sounds good, but he will say oh this is true but you know,

  • if we are without arms then the country on the other side who is nasty, who is addicted,

  • they will do all the things, they will destroy all of us,

  • the good people. You know all these questions will be there, but if we had time we can

  • discuss more about those things.

  • But then all I'm saying is, that is not the solution.

  • Killing each other is not the solution.

  • Tibetan Masters teach their students by saying you don't have to kill people,

  • they will die.

  • So, you can see how intelligent we are.

  • We harass people,

  • we create more suffering on other people as if

  • these people are looking for suffering. They are in need of suffering,

  • so you create suffering.

  • They already have a lot of suffering, a lot of problems

  • so you don't have to create more additional suffering

  • when they are already suffering, when they already have problems.

  • You don't have to kill people because they will die.

  • And then look at this reality. How long are you going to live?

  • and bring this short span of life of your visit on this planet.

  • Which one is good to be constructive,

  • to be kind, to be helpful

  • or to be destructive, negative?

  • As as a result others will suffer, you will suffer

  • and we know this.

  • Someone with the wisdom said that when you came,

  • as I said earlier, when you came into this world,

  • you came crying, other people received you

  • laughing and smiling. Happy birthday or whatever.

  • So therefore you should live your life in such a way that when you leave this

  • world

  • you will leave others crying, you will go smiling and laughing

  • because you did your job. You lived beautifully.

  • And it's in our nature. You know, I had this privilege of,

  • you know, meeting so many people from all over the world, people basically

  • ordinary people. Most of the people their hearts are so kind.

  • On any small occasion or big ocassion when there is really a need

  • it's the ordinary people who come for you. There's no need for

  • you to know each other or introduce each other, you know.

  • And that is beautiful and that is what it should be

  • because at the time of tragedy and difficulty the only thing that will help

  • all of us

  • is to show our love, to show our compassion.

  • And I have seen this many times. I am sure you have seen this many times.

  • For example when you take a flight,

  • the weather is clear, the flight is smooth

  • and everybody pretends that I am also somebody.

  • Yeah, you're also somebody.

  • At the most you'll say hi. Not much.

  • Okay you take your seat, I'll take my seat.

  • Everybody sits dignified, looks well.

  • Now I'm saying this is the situation when the

  • flight is smooth. After some time there is turbulence,

  • or rather big turbulence. Everybody looks at each other and starts smiling.

  • That is the thing when you first experience difficulties,

  • then what helps you in you're strength, your happiness, your

  • harmony is other people's smile.

  • Genuine friendship, not pretension,

  • not arrogance, not pride.

  • I see this reality on so many occassions.

  • Unfortunately people forget all these things when they are slightly

  • better off.

  • They forget all these inner values, spiritual values.

  • I'm not even talking so much about religion, I'm talking about in the

  • religious and spiritual values

  • which are necessary for all of us, believer

  • or not-believer, even those who are against religion,

  • all of us, universal values fundamental good human values,

  • without which we cannot survive, we cannot survive.

  • So nurturing, preserving and protecting

  • these inner values is a necessity,

  • not a luxury, not a luxury, necessary, without which

  • you cannot survive, or you cannot have a happy harmonious life.

  • Look at this world, almost everybody's

  • expecting their peace and happiness from outside

  • through sensual gratification.

  • You satisfy your senses. Eye, ear,

  • so on, forget about yourself, you just go out

  • be dependent on your husband, you wife, your children,

  • the car, the house, the money, just go after this.

  • The government also just thinks about this,

  • forget about all the ethical values, norms,

  • you just do your business with the dictatorial country,

  • whatever, so long as the money's coming,

  • you don't worry about these ethical values.

  • The end result will be sooner or later -

  • your people, including yourself

  • will start suffering.

  • I'm a Tibetan refuge.

  • I thank the Australian government and the Australians

  • hosting some of our Tibetan brothers and sisters, although not a big number but

  • still in Australia I really thank all of you.

  • So the first thing when they landed in Sydney

  • was visiting a homeless

  • area. So many people

  • homeless, drug addiction

  • now if this, the homeless situation and

  • situation of drug addiction is there

  • among the refuges,

  • little bit understandable

  • but when so many people are suffering from homelessness or drug addiction or what not

  • suffering in a so-called independent,

  • not only independently developed country,

  • what is the cause of this problem?

  • Can you just solve this by just giving somebody some many?

  • Is this the way to solve the problem?

  • Lots, lots to think about this problem

  • and I for one would say that such,

  • such kinds of problems mostly to do

  • with forgetting

  • loving kindness to others, forgetting

  • the basic human values.

  • Each and everyone thinks, oh I can manage

  • so long as you're not sick,

  • I can manage. I don't care what is happening there.

  • You don't come with an education system where these values are taught.

  • In all the education, most of the education systems, they talk about how to earn money.

  • There's the problem. And the good news is

  • that we have today all agreed that we all want happiness.

  • I mean you expressed that that was there with you long time, but you

  • expressed publicly

  • that you all want happiness, long-lasting reliable happiness.

  • Now if that is generally the case,

  • not then from today onwards, I'm sure many of you are also doing,

  • and in fact when I give such a talk, I sometimes say to people

  • that I feel embarrassed to say anything in front of you because those people who

  • come to

  • such talks are already good people,

  • so it's almost like preaching to the converts. You're already good people, but

  • it's good

  • that the good people come together. It's not that I'm saying something and you for first time

  • are learning. No, no that's not the case.

  • You already know and know much more than I know,

  • but what is important is that we discuss,

  • listen and talk about these things so that we don't forget these things

  • in our daily life. In our daily life we forget these values

  • then we land into problems, land into difficulties.

  • And sometimes I even have to go to the extent of saying that even if your

  • concern is money

  • and health, you will get lots of money

  • and lot of health, if you observe these ethical values.

  • You save a lot of money. If you don't follow these

  • ethical values, become a drug addict

  • or whatever and you have a little bit of money, you throw everything like that and you

  • ruin your health, everything, because you don't have that system

  • of ethical values. If you have ethical values

  • you sleep at the right time, for sleep, you do the right thing at the right time,

  • you smile, you do your exercises, you're peaceful.

  • Even in terms of your health and wealth,

  • as we say, if wealth is lost, then nothing is lost, if health is lost, everything is lost.

  • And the health means not physical exercise only, unfortunately again,

  • in more developed countries people are suppose to be very health conscious

  • and for that matter they do a lot of exercise, running every day, in the

  • morning or jogging and exercising and stretching and pulling their muscles and

  • whatever,

  • but they don't do any exercise of the mind.

  • There's the tragedy. You feed it with only those things that you can see.

  • but you completely ignore the real power, the real energy,

  • which is controlling your whole life - the mind is your boss.

  • It is important that you elect you president, you elect your prime minister

  • a good president, a good prime minister, very good.

  • At the time be very careful about that, but what is even more

  • important is

  • first you elect your own leader, a good leader

  • and electing that leader you don't have to depend on others

  • you judge yourself whether your mind is predominantly controlled by greed

  • or contentment or anger or patience,

  • you just do total research, is your mind predominantly controlled by loving kindness,

  • compassion,

  • wisdom,forgiveness, then you've chosen a good leader.

  • Wherever you go you will be fine and that is not to say that you will not

  • encounter problems and difficulties

  • but what I'm saying is when your mental outlook and attitude is fine,

  • even when there is a tragedy, even when there is suffering,

  • there will be no suffering even when there is suffering, there is no suffering.

  • It looks like paradoxical but what I'm trying to say is

  • suffering and happiness is very much related to your mental outlook

  • and much of the so-called sufferings that we are experiencing today are

  • our own creations.

  • Sixty, seventy percent of the so-called sufferings are not even sufferings.

  • It is your mental creation and you thought that this is wrong, this is problem

  • and unnecessarily you are suffering and so you can change your attitude,

  • sixty-seventy percent of your suffering will be gone like this.

  • Isn't that good news?

  • Having removed sixty - seventy percent of suffering, there may be another

  • twenty,

  • let us say, twenty percent suffering still there but if you look closely

  • on those sufferings, you will again find, yes, these are really sufferings,

  • but they are changeable sufferings.

  • So instead of sitting there and complaining

  • you get up and do things you can change it.

  • You can remove those twenty percent of sufferings also, so what is left is

  • around ten percent of sufferings also and those ten percent sufferings and those kind

  • of sufferings

  • which are deep rooted sufferings or unchangable suffering,

  • so why should you care about it, go hell with you. I'll do something else.

  • That is how you can make your life happy,

  • by changing your mental outlook because the problem we are facing today

  • is that we have this tendency to focus on small problems,

  • and difficulties and completely get bogged down with that.

  • Oh my goodness, I have this problem, I have this difficulty.

  • Out of all the people in the world, I am the most unfortunate.

  • Your mind is making it up.

  • So then whenever you encounter some problems, some difficulty, just don't

  • sit

  • and think about it alone, but think about other people.

  • There are millions of people who are much much

  • less privileged than you, less fortunate than you and sometimes

  • I ask people, you know you are really fortunate people

  • you have many things you must be happy, appreciate that

  • and people immediately measure that in terms of money,

  • what do I have to be proud, to be,

  • you know, happy. I tell them do you have both

  • eyes intact? Yes. Do you have both hands intact?

  • Yes. Both the legs intact? Yes. So

  • here you are. Have you appreciated that you have all these things intact?

  • There are millions of people who have

  • lost their arms, lost their legs, lost their eyes.

  • Still they wish if I had both eyes intact

  • I can do this, I can do that. I have both hands intact.

  • I can do this, I can do that. You have these and you're not appreciating,

  • therefore you're not doing

  • what you should be doing. So all I'm saying

  • to make this a long story short, without wasting your time, all I'm saying is

  • if we are to make this world harmonious and peaceful

  • there is no other method, no international treaty,

  • UN agreement can solve this problem as we've seen

  • over the last many centuries, the solution is to come

  • from each one of us, each one of us

  • must make our small contribution to make a difference, to make everything

  • beautiful. So therefore what you need to do is

  • know this is a Buddhist kind of meaning of

  • ethics, morality or observance of

  • ethics or discipline on morality or whatever term you want to use, you

  • can use it, but basically

  • proper ethics according to Buddhism means

  • three things, do not harm others,

  • extremely important

  • ethical value. So also having discipline doesn't mean that

  • you always have some set of rules and regulations

  • imposed upon you by some external force. Ethical discipline from this viewpoint

  • is number one don't harm others. If you do that, you're wonderful.

  • Imagine if nobody harms each other.

  • This world is almost already

  • like a heaven. Imagine

  • that everybody is peaceful and happy and you do not have to have any fear.

  • Nobody harms each other and this is important.

  • Many people ask me how, to make a long story short, how

  • should I practice it?

  • Then the Buddhist teaching is that you should practice in such a way that you

  • should

  • always yourself be the example and do onto others what you want others

  • to do to you and don't do to others

  • what you don't want others to do to you. Very simple.

  • You want others to harm you. No.

  • So don't harm others.

  • So don't harm others. Second not harming others is

  • very very important, but

  • that's not enough. You should also do many good things.

  • Not harming others is also one good thing,

  • but in addition to that issue do many good things, helping others.

  • The second ethics,

  • in order to do all this

  • why are you not harming others, why are you helping others?

  • Because you want to serve to make others happy, peaceful, so therefore serving others.

  • There's the third, not harming

  • and collecting good qualities

  • and then helping others. These said are basically

  • the meaning of the fundamental

  • ethical values. So you can try to observe these values.

  • That is called inner disarmament

  • because normally when somebody

  • harasses you or does something wrong you immediately get angry,

  • you armour yourself with anger, thinking that anger is the response,

  • violence is the response for that

  • but in the long run, that is not the solution

  • and its also against human nature

  • because this and nobody

  • who is in senses

  • will choose getting angry as a good thing.

  • There's nobody who right in the morning makes a motivation

  • and thinks that today I will really get angry.

  • There is nobody. That means people don't like it.

  • And then somehow in the day because of the situation, because of the coworkers

  • you might get upset, you might fight, you might get angry,

  • but in the close of the day, the end of the day, there's nobody who again will see

  • that I got very angry today therefore I really enjoyed the day.

  • There's nobody. So this clearly shows

  • that anger is not good. And anger makes you ugly.

  • This nobody wants to become ugly,

  • whether you are man or women, we make sure that we dress properly,

  • use some cosmetics, you know, whatever,

  • put on some golden rings, things like that to make oneself presentable.

  • But having done all this,

  • ostentatious decorations you get angry and see

  • how beautiful you are and then you get angry, your eyes almost become like snake eyes.

  • Wrinkles appear on your forehead,

  • eyes become blood shot, your breathing becomes difficult,

  • your blood pressure increases, one hundred thousand things,

  • destructive things arise. It's not just Buddhist has a saying,

  • scientists have tested and proved this is true.

  • And you all know, you are all experienced in that, easy.

  • What a mess we create when we are angry so this is just one example

  • of this,

  • the destructiveness of negative emotions -

  • anger, jealousy, negative competition,

  • judgement,

  • greed. Mahatma Gandhi said

  • there is enough for everybody's need, but not enough for everybody's greed.

  • Today we are destroying the whole planet

  • in the name of progress and development and we don't,

  • sometimes I am dumbfounded, I'm stupid because of that maybe I'm not

  • knowing the meaning of development and progress.

  • We are destroying the whole planet and its equilibrium

  • and we are saying, we are a very developed country.

  • If there is many high rise buildings and in between some shiny roads,

  • we say, wow, a big city, highly developed country, not knowing

  • that many people in those high rise building are suffering from loneliness,

  • have lost interest, depression. Loneliness, can you imagine?

  • Somebody living in a place where there are twenty, thirty millions of people living

  • together

  • and there is somebody suffering from loneliness. Imagine.

  • Very often some of my western friends have asked me

  • some of these meditators who

  • stay high in the mountains, don't they feel loneliness?

  • I told them no, no, no, they don't feel loneliness because

  • physically they are in the mountains

  • but mentally they are with all sentient beings.

  • Their full of friends and relatives down in the plane, you know,

  • but in our case physically we live with millions of people,

  • mentally, individualism, egoism,

  • selfishness, therefore we suffer.

  • So what I'm saying may not be completely true but there is an element

  • of truth there so give some thought to this.

  • So therefore the real road to happiness,

  • satisfaction, peace is within oneself,

  • not outside. This is a bitter truth that we all need to learn

  • and at end of the day,

  • it will be you who has to look after oneself,

  • not your leaders, not even your husband and wife however nice they may be.

  • It is not possible, that is the rule of the game. That is the truth, that is the law

  • of nature.

  • Even your best friends' relatives, husbands, wives,

  • however loving, however good they are they cannot

  • enter into the head quarters of your mind and think for you

  • and make you happy. They can only from outside give you some consolation, some support,

  • things like that.

  • But if your mind is disturbed the whole world is disturbed, so no-one can help you.

  • Very difficult. So therefore

  • that's why I like this exploration, you know when you meet somebody

  • and you depart and they say bye, take care.

  • Nobody says bye I will take care of you.

  • You see even on a very ordinary level, we do have some inkling or understanding of

  • this,

  • but we don't, you know,

  • give deep thought to this important thing

  • and take care of oneself and the Buddha has very clearly said

  • self is the protector of the self, no one else is your protector.

  • Self is the enemy of the self, no one else is the enemy.

  • Self is the enemy when somebody harms you,

  • harasses you, or cheats you. You feel miserable.

  • Oh my beloved friend has cheated me, left me alone.

  • When somebody cheats you, you feel miserable, lonely and complain.

  • but when you cheat yourself, it's okay. How many times?

  • A hundred times you did yourself by not doing the right thing,

  • by going in the wrong direction, that is cheating.

  • So if you really want others to not cheat you, first stop cheating yourself.

  • One of the Buddhist teaching says there is nobody who will catch hold of your hand and

  • throw it into heaven.

  • God also can't do this, Buddha also can't do this

  • and there is nobody who will get hold of your leg and drag you into

  • hell.

  • Your peace, your happiness is in your hand.

  • Do not me cheat yourself. Do not deceive yourself.

  • So in this way, if you start reflecting on this, beautiful,

  • wonderful inner potential and start strengthening

  • this inner potential. Wisdom, compassion, loving kindness -

  • these in Buddhism, these are said to be the most

  • costly, precious wealth, not the external material accumulations.

  • The external material accumulations can be destroyed by water, destroyed by

  • fire,

  • stolen by thieves, burglars and so on, but these internal qualities

  • of love, of strength, of patience of compassion,

  • wherever you go, they are with you.

  • You'll be able to solve your problems, problems of the society, of the community,

  • of the world and so forth.

  • This is how we should make our country rich, our society rich.

  • Where everybody's able to ... Look at the small kids. If you know that the small

  • kids who are so pure, so innocent.

  • They don't need much, just throw some simple toys,

  • they can spend the whole day

  • full of laughter, greatest laughter.

  • And if there is a misunderstanding between the the two small kids they will fight over

  • it,

  • after two minutes again

  • playing together. Now look at

  • the grown ups like us.

  • We are very calculating, the innocence is not there, the purity is not there.

  • If somebody

  • says something you keep it deep down in your heart, okay wait,

  • I'll see you in the corner, kind of thing, you see.

  • So therefore we should ... of course we are ordinary human beings we are not enlightened beings,

  • we make mistakes.

  • That's okay, but we call the mistakes as mistakes.

  • If there is some argument, so fight, okay, it happens.

  • The next time after that fight, after the disagreement,

  • go, have the courage to go touch the hand

  • and shake their hand and say I'm sorry. We have been such wonderful friends for so many years

  • but today

  • unfortunately this thing happened, you know, that is the end of the story.

  • Your friendship becomes stronger.

  • Now how many of us can do that? If we do that we say oh,

  • they went there and

  • asked for forgiveness so he must have done something wrong

  • and you also think or other people think he's the loser.

  • This is our attitude, you see.

  • So the inner disarmament in a way

  • is to understand this inner disturbing negative emotions as the

  • real enemy.

  • Deal with it for your own peace and happiness and for the peace of the world

  • and if our society, our community of people

  • are able to embrace these qualities, cultivate these qualities

  • we will be able to improve our vibration,

  • through which we will be able to elect leaders who also have

  • similar qualities.

  • But if we just completely forget all this and give the

  • idea or impression that all we want is money,

  • the leaders are very good at manipulating it. Okay, all you want is money.

  • Okay build a casino, build big Malls, that's all you want.

  • Get distracted, just like

  • an educated or small child.

  • Create all these gadgets so that you get completely distracted.

  • So therefore,

  • I will stop here and

  • I'm giving a lot hints.

  • What is important is to really think about it and

  • make our journey on this planet meaningful.

  • Each and every day bring happiness in the mind of others.

  • If you do that it is a natural law, it is in

  • our blood. You have given a

  • helping hand, given a gentle smile.

  • You didn't get anything from that person, you get a gentle smile,

  • they give you deep deep satisfaction.

  • On the other hand if you cheat and exploit others you

  • might get a lot of money, but deep down you feel unstable.

  • Oh, I've cheated this, he might have known it

  • and at least your conscience knows it. Easy.

  • Happiness means deep down satisfaction

  • and that deep down satisfaction will come from a life

  • which is free from duplicity.

  • Therefore I think it is extremely important for all of us to

  • take our baby steps and make the effort

  • to dismantle, reduce all this

  • awful destructive weapons

  • each and every country is doing. That is not an easy thing,

  • but I think there is no other way if we are to

  • survive and remain happy and healthy.

  • Thank you.

  • ...

  • We have two microphones at the top there. We have time for questions

  • so please put up your hands if you would like to ask a question and

  • a mike will come to you very quickly. Thank you very much for that.

  • My question, I'm up here.

  • My question is actually about

  • How do you deal with passive aggression?

  • ...

  • That the problem is that you can appear to be really compassionate and loving

  • and kind

  • but really it gets, it can come from a place of

  • hiding the aggression and resentment and fear even.

  • You can live you whole life like that.

  • So it becomes a tricky problem then. I know.

  • There's the problem you see.

  • If you don't nurture these qualities

  • on a large-scale right from the beginning then when

  • these kinds of aggressive limits come up, number one

  • this aggressive limit come up because you have not prepared the

  • people right from the beginning. Easy, so there is no

  • quick-fix solution for this kind of thing. Education, through mass

  • education should nurture,

  • cultivate our children in such as way that number one

  • such elements do not pop up. It can be done

  • or at least it can definitely be minimized because the young children

  • can be led into any direction. It is the responsibility of us the

  • grown ups.

  • They are like ..., you know, you shape them in any way.

  • They are very intelligent and insensitive so it depends what kind of

  • environment are we giving to them, what kind of education are we giving to them so

  • the first,

  • the most important thing is try to give that

  • education right from the beginning so that we don't see such elements.

  • That's why like many of these

  • difficult situation between Iraq and

  • Afghanistan, in so many places. Sometimes

  • people come to His Holiness the Dalai Lama and ask him

  • His Holiness what role you want to play. This is the problem.

  • What can you do? He only says, nothing I can do. All these things should have been

  • thought much

  • earlier before the conflict took place and once there is a conflict and

  • fire

  • and hundreds have been killed on each side then it is not easy.

  • Then it is not easy. His Holiness the Dalai Lama also sometimes gives

  • more practical advice also.

  • He says if a mad dog is chasing you to bite you

  • it is sensible to run away

  • rather than sitting there saying, 'oh I'm practicing patience and compassion.'

  • If you do that, the dog will bite you.

  • So the sensible thing is you run. Okay.

  • And then if you're somebody who

  • is really trained well, even if it is not a dog, but somebody with a gun

  • and then of course you cannot say, 'don't shoot I'm practicing love and kindness.'

  • It may work in some cases, it did work in some cases, in American

  • in some places there are stories of people who really stood

  • firm and look at my eyes, I did nothing wrong to you,

  • you know, then they stop. That happens but in many cases,

  • the crazy people with gun, they just shoot, you know.

  • So if you also have a gun, there is a possibility you snitch the gun

  • and shoot back, probably

  • in the leg or something, not to kill that person.

  • This needs a lot of training, but what I'm saying is

  • the most important thing is

  • general education and then

  • through the practice of love and compassion because many people think

  • loving kindness and compassion are signs of weakness.

  • No, they are

  • signs of strength. If you use a gun,

  • you don't need any strength, a bullet will do the job.

  • So that is actually weakness.

  • So whatever be the case,

  • several ways of thinking in that line

  • and then on a higher level there are people who even say,

  • okay, even if they kill me, I will not fight back.

  • Let them kill me. There is death to my body,

  • but not to my mind. The Tibetans, you can't believe it, the Tibetans are doing this

  • right now in China.

  • One hundred and thirty killed themselves

  • by dousing themselves with fire

  • things like that.

  • without doing any damage

  • to the torturers. Can you imagine? This is

  • happening today.

  • So it is possible, it is possible.

  • So what all I'm saying is that at the end of the day, violence is not the solution.

  • So what is the matter? How to stop it? There are so many

  • things to discuss about, but violence is not the solution.

  • So the main question is by which human rights

  • value to the increasing one population

  • would be better to support compassionate and considered awareness

  • to help and better understand His Holiness the Dalai

  • Lama's ongoing purpose for continuous religious

  • autonomy and to provide the city for the Tibetan people. His Holiness is

  • not just asking for religious autonomy he is just

  • asking for general autonomy, not religious or anything, general

  • autonomy for the Tibetan people

  • because his Holiness had foresight and wisdom

  • despite all the unfortunate happenings with the Chinese

  • government, His holiness has always

  • asked the Tibetans that violence is not the solution.

  • Let us have negotiation, let us have dialogue.

  • And he thinks that is the human way, there is a problem then we should

  • solve the problem through discussion and dialogue,

  • not through using force. This is the

  • basic fundamental belief. So therefore he

  • has said let us not talk about the history.

  • Leave the history to the historians. Whether Tibet is an independent country or

  • not,

  • leave that historical part to the historians.

  • What is important is the future,

  • to the people are talking about globalization.

  • Look at the whole Eastern European countries,

  • they have changed to become democratically free.

  • Look at the relation between France and Germany,

  • which used to be sworn enemies. Now today

  • the European Union, things are changing, so therefore what is important is

  • the future

  • and Tibetans and Chinese live side by side.

  • That geographical border

  • cannot be shifted to another planet.

  • We need to live side by side. This being the case, if we solved the problem through

  • negotiation and dialogue, then we can live side by side peacefully.

  • If you tried to solve these problems through guns, through power,

  • which unfortunately the Chinese government is doing today, then you may be able to

  • solve the problem today,

  • but not tomorrow, not next year.

  • That's not the solution because violence breeds

  • counter-violence, so therefore His Holiness the Dalai Lama

  • said for the last more than fifty years

  • continuously sticking onto this

  • path of non-violence and compassion, so many people had died and sacrifice

  • their lives

  • without resorting to violence,

  • so therefore the

  • path of non-violence is what is needed.

  • not only in the case of Tibet but throughout the whole world.

  • Non-violence is not just the absence of violence.

  • Non-violence is not pessimism,

  • it is dynamic, it is a dynamic force.

  • Non-violence is best, an active practice and compassion,

  • feeling for others' well being, so that is what is needed

  • in solving the Tibetan situation and also solving the problems

  • that have been everywhere on any level.

  • I was just a little bit curious

  • if you were born into being a monk or it was something you

  • sought out yourself.

  • Nobody is born as a monk. No, no, no.

  • Everybody choose but in my case, it is difficult for me to say

  • I have chosen it because in Tibet

  • materially not developed,

  • spiritually highly developed, especially more than ninety-eight percent

  • follow Buddhism. So therefore Buddhism was the only thing that everybody

  • admired and appreciated and the parents encouraged.

  • You know you should become a monk, little sons and

  • daughters, oh you become a monk, you become a nun, and you see.

  • So some western writers they say ten percent of the Tibetan

  • population are monks and nuns.

  • That may not be true but there are many monks and nuns.

  • There is this encouragement. There is this environment so people prefer to

  • become,

  • you know, so that is primarily because of the situation you

  • cannot see that

  • you've chosen it because you aren't you, you are too young. I also become a monk when

  • I was very young,

  • but believe me, I'm not regretting it.

  • Thank you. Thank you so much Geshe Lhakdo.

  • Your talk today is a real timely reminder

  • to us all here that piecework is personal.

  • I come from the perspective of an international lawyer by training

  • and as we know international law deals with the united nations

  • and for too long now we have left the idea of peace work

  • to countries and look at what has become

  • of the world today and I think increasingly

  • we now need to realise achieving peace, keeping peace,

  • maintaining peace is actually a personal

  • endeavor. And Geshe you mentioned too

  • that we are now in an age of information where

  • everybody is connected. Unfortunately

  • we all know too well that there's a lot of connectivity,

  • but very little connectedness amongst human beings.

  • Those of us with teenage children would know

  • their euphoria when they say I have one thousand friends on Facebook,

  • but come Saturday, they are locked up in their room. They can't find someone to go

  • out

  • for a meal with. So that is the state of loneliness

  • that I think I Geshe has alerted us to.

  • His Holiness the Dalai Lama has often said that people

  • in our lives who push our buttons are the ones we need to be grateful for.

  • They are our greatest teaches. They should be our treasure.

  • And on that note indeed, it reflects precisely

  • what Geshe has been talking to us today and that is the idea of

  • inner disarmament for external disarmament.

  • Human beings for too long now have focused

  • on the conquest of outer space when in fact

  • it should be inner space that we turn to. So thank you very much once again

  • for your most enlightening talk and on behalf of the Center for Peace and

  • Social Justice

  • and the University we would like to show appreciation

  • with Baden presenting our small token

  • to Geshe.

  • I would also like to

  • give my thanks very much for Geshe Lhakdo

  • and his speech today. Through this semester

  • my students have been struggling with the question of how to think for ourselves

  • as we face the very complexities of

  • the world and the problems that are

  • thrown at us. The definition of the word problem in fact means to have something

  • thrown at you and you have to

  • catch it and deal with it and I think that

  • it's so true from

  • what we heard today that the most important thing is

  • with education and educating ourselves

  • to understand how to meet those complexities

  • in the world, how to become culturally sensitive,

  • culturally intelligent from a humanities point of view.

  • I would like to formally thank

  • Geshe Lhakdo for coming today to Lismore, to Southern Cross

  • University.

  • The vice-chancellor unfortunately couldn't be here. He was very

  • happy to host this event

  • and it's with his support that we've been able to have his marvelous

  • gathering today. It's wonderful to actually have students from various

  • high schools from the region. So I acknowledge and respect the fact that

  • you've come here

  • to partake and listen to

  • a very distinguished visitor to the region and thank you for those of you

  • who have come from

  • far and wide to Lismore today.

  • Thank you very much for coming from the Centre for Peace and Social Justice at Southern

  • Cross University.

  • I we wish you well. Thank you.

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內在裁軍,外在裁軍----南十字星大學格西-拉格多法師 (Inner Disarmament for External Disarmament - Venerable Geshe Lhakdor - Southern Cross University)

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