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  • - Have you seen the movie "The Secret"

  • or have you read the book "The Secret"?

  • Now maybe you have heard of the Law of Attraction

  • and you wonder exactly what it is

  • and you wonder, does this actually work?

  • Does the Law of Attraction work?

  • You see, believe it or not,

  • Law of Attraction's not some complicated, magical ritual

  • or some mysterious, ancient secret,

  • it's actually very, very simple.

  • I want you to think of like gravity

  • is an unchanging law of the universe, gravity.

  • When I throw something in the air,

  • it will drop to the ground.

  • When you jump off a building, you will hit the ground.

  • That's the law of gravity.

  • You see, Law of Attraction is no different.

  • It is simply the ability to attract into our lives

  • whatever we are focusing on.

  • In basic terms, all thoughts turn into things eventually

  • and what you focus on expands, just like gravity.

  • To understand Law of Attraction,

  • first you have to understand this,

  • that you always attract into your life the people,

  • the things, the resources,

  • the ideas in harmony with your dominant thoughts.

  • It means that you always attract people into your life

  • in harmony with your current experience,

  • knowledge and wisdom.

  • It means that your life only gets better

  • when you get better.

  • It means that as a salesperson,

  • if you wanna increase more sales,

  • you want to close more deals

  • or you wanna increase your income,

  • you will only do that if you become better.

  • You want to become a better manager,

  • you will only become a better manager if you become better.

  • You'll only become a better father

  • only if you become better.

  • So today I wanna share with you four strategies

  • on how to actually apply Law of Attraction in your life.

  • Not touchy-feely, not theory, not woo-woo,

  • foo-foo, tree hugging theories,

  • I'm talking about how it actually works.

  • How to use the Law of Attraction

  • to create the life that you desire.

  • Strategy number one and that is confirmation bias.

  • You see, as a human being we seek information

  • that confirms what we already believe.

  • What does that mean?

  • It's very simple.

  • Have you ever had this experience?

  • I remember back then, my first dream car was the Mazda RX8,

  • the red RX8.

  • I remember that that was my dream car,

  • that I had it on my vision board.

  • I look at that every single day.

  • You see, what's very interesting

  • is the minute I put the car on my vision board

  • suddenly I notice Mazda everywhere I go.

  • Everywhere, I see the Mazda 3, I see the hatchback,

  • I see the RX8, I see different colors.

  • I'm like, "Wow, everyone drives a Mazda."

  • But is it true, or is it simply confirmation bias

  • that because that's what I focus on,

  • suddenly I could see more?

  • Or were they always there, but I just didn't notice them?

  • That's how our mind works.

  • Let me give you another example.

  • You're watching my video

  • and if you've been following my work for any length of time,

  • you could see that we have a lot of subscribers,

  • a lot of fans from around the world.

  • Now you'll notice, I want you to look at a comment,

  • I want you to look at a comment for this particular video,

  • any video that I have.

  • It's very, very interesting that the same video,

  • the same video that I create, the same lesson

  • someone would say, "This is phenomenal,

  • "this is the best lesson I've ever seen."

  • Someone would say, "Oh, this sucks.

  • "This is horrible, this is BS."

  • It is the same video, why is that?

  • Because we seek information

  • that confirms what we already believe.

  • When you watch any one of my videos

  • you don't actually hear what I say,

  • you don't hear a damn thing that I say,

  • you hear what you want to hear.

  • You see, we all have a filter, we all have this filter.

  • Every piece of information that goes through,

  • that comes through our mind, we have this filter,

  • this is your confirmation bias.

  • If it confirms, if it reaffirms what you already believe,

  • you will take that in.

  • If it doesn't, you will ignore it

  • or you will fight, you would argue.

  • And that's why the same piece of content, the same video,

  • would provoke such different reactions from people.

  • I know that.

  • It has nothing to do with what I say,

  • it has nothing to do with what I teach,

  • it has nothing to do with what I'm teaching,

  • it has everything to do with your belief,

  • how you see the world, your world view.

  • That's it.

  • Some people can take the information that I teach

  • and go out there, start a new business,

  • take their business to the next level,

  • make a six-figure income, make a seven-figure income.

  • Some people could take my information

  • and not do a damn thing with it,

  • not do anything with it and say, "This is bullshit."

  • It's the same piece of information.

  • That's why.

  • Strategy two, how I make Law of Attraction works in my life

  • and that is I notice things,

  • but I don't pay attention to it.

  • Now one time we were at a penthouse

  • and it was raining outside, heavy, heavy rain

  • and I was looking over the windows

  • and I was looking out there.

  • I'm like, "Oh my goodness."

  • I'm like, "Look at the dark cloud.

  • "Look at the pouring rain."

  • It was so depressing.

  • And then Jenny walks by and she's looking at the windows

  • and she's like, "Oh, it's so romantic."

  • I'm like, "Romantic?"

  • Like, "What are you talking about?

  • "This is bad!

  • "We can't go out, this is pouring rain."

  • Damn Vancouver, right?

  • She's like, "No, look at the mountains,

  • "look at that, look at the light.

  • "This is so romantic."

  • I'm like, "Are you and I looking at the same thing?

  • "What is going on here?"

  • Well we are looking at the same thing.

  • The difference is that she saw beauty and I saw dark cloud.

  • It is the same scenario.

  • See, what you focus on expands.

  • It's like the filter I was talking about.

  • Most people tend to change their lives with more information

  • without upgrading your filter.

  • Jenny and I, we have a different filter.

  • You see, you have to realize this,

  • that it is not what happens to you,

  • but how you think about what happens to you

  • that determines how you react and how you feel.

  • It is not the world outside of you

  • that dictates your circumstances or your conditions,

  • it is the world inside of you

  • that creates the conditions of your life.

  • So you could choose, do you wanna give it attention

  • or do you not wanna give it attention?

  • When you go home and you complain about your work,

  • when you complain about your business, guess what.

  • You go home, you complain to your spouse.

  • "Oh my God, today, the work, the job was so bad,

  • "it was horrible."

  • You are reliving that experience, you're giving it energy.

  • Your brother-in-law, your brother, your sister calls you

  • and you're, "Aw man, let me tell you

  • "about how horrible work is today."

  • You're reliving that again, you are giving it energy.

  • Yes, it has already happened,

  • but you can choose if you want to give energy to it

  • and that's how you activate the Law of Attraction.

  • The more you give energy to something,

  • the more you'