字幕列表 影片播放 列印英文字幕 - Have you seen the movie "The Secret" or have you read the book "The Secret"? Now maybe you have heard of the Law of Attraction and you wonder exactly what it is and you wonder, does this actually work? Does the Law of Attraction work? You see, believe it or not, Law of Attraction's not some complicated, magical ritual or some mysterious, ancient secret, it's actually very, very simple. I want you to think of like gravity is an unchanging law of the universe, gravity. When I throw something in the air, it will drop to the ground. When you jump off a building, you will hit the ground. That's the law of gravity. You see, Law of Attraction is no different. It is simply the ability to attract into our lives whatever we are focusing on. In basic terms, all thoughts turn into things eventually and what you focus on expands, just like gravity. To understand Law of Attraction, first you have to understand this, that you always attract into your life the people, the things, the resources, the ideas in harmony with your dominant thoughts. It means that you always attract people into your life in harmony with your current experience, knowledge and wisdom. It means that your life only gets better when you get better. It means that as a salesperson, if you wanna increase more sales, you want to close more deals or you wanna increase your income, you will only do that if you become better. You want to become a better manager, you will only become a better manager if you become better. You'll only become a better father only if you become better. So today I wanna share with you four strategies on how to actually apply Law of Attraction in your life. Not touchy-feely, not theory, not woo-woo, foo-foo, tree hugging theories, I'm talking about how it actually works. How to use the Law of Attraction to create the life that you desire. Strategy number one and that is confirmation bias. You see, as a human being we seek information that confirms what we already believe. What does that mean? It's very simple. Have you ever had this experience? I remember back then, my first dream car was the Mazda RX8, the red RX8. I remember that that was my dream car, that I had it on my vision board. I look at that every single day. You see, what's very interesting is the minute I put the car on my vision board suddenly I notice Mazda everywhere I go. Everywhere, I see the Mazda 3, I see the hatchback, I see the RX8, I see different colors. I'm like, "Wow, everyone drives a Mazda." But is it true, or is it simply confirmation bias that because that's what I focus on, suddenly I could see more? Or were they always there, but I just didn't notice them? That's how our mind works. Let me give you another example. You're watching my video and if you've been following my work for any length of time, you could see that we have a lot of subscribers, a lot of fans from around the world. Now you'll notice, I want you to look at a comment, I want you to look at a comment for this particular video, any video that I have. It's very, very interesting that the same video, the same video that I create, the same lesson someone would say, "This is phenomenal, "this is the best lesson I've ever seen." Someone would say, "Oh, this sucks. "This is horrible, this is BS." It is the same video, why is that? Because we seek information that confirms what we already believe. When you watch any one of my videos you don't actually hear what I say, you don't hear a damn thing that I say, you hear what you want to hear. You see, we all have a filter, we all have this filter. Every piece of information that goes through, that comes through our mind, we have this filter, this is your confirmation bias. If it confirms, if it reaffirms what you already believe, you will take that in. If it doesn't, you will ignore it or you will fight, you would argue. And that's why the same piece of content, the same video, would provoke such different reactions from people. I know that. It has nothing to do with what I say, it has nothing to do with what I teach, it has nothing to do with what I'm teaching, it has everything to do with your belief, how you see the world, your world view. That's it. Some people can take the information that I teach and go out there, start a new business, take their business to the next level, make a six-figure income, make a seven-figure income. Some people could take my information and not do a damn thing with it, not do anything with it and say, "This is bullshit." It's the same piece of information. That's why. Strategy two, how I make Law of Attraction works in my life and that is I notice things, but I don't pay attention to it. Now one time we were at a penthouse and it was raining outside, heavy, heavy rain and I was looking over the windows and I was looking out there. I'm like, "Oh my goodness." I'm like, "Look at the dark cloud. "Look at the pouring rain." It was so depressing. And then Jenny walks by and she's looking at the windows and she's like, "Oh, it's so romantic." I'm like, "Romantic?" Like, "What are you talking about? "This is bad! "We can't go out, this is pouring rain." Damn Vancouver, right? She's like, "No, look at the mountains, "look at that, look at the light. "This is so romantic." I'm like, "Are you and I looking at the same thing? "What is going on here?" Well we are looking at the same thing. The difference is that she saw beauty and I saw dark cloud. It is the same scenario. See, what you focus on expands. It's like the filter I was talking about. Most people tend to change their lives with more information without upgrading your filter. Jenny and I, we have a different filter. You see, you have to realize this, that it is not what happens to you, but how you think about what happens to you that determines how you react and how you feel. It is not the world outside of you that dictates your circumstances or your conditions, it is the world inside of you that creates the conditions of your life. So you could choose, do you wanna give it attention or do you not wanna give it attention? When you go home and you complain about your work, when you complain about your business, guess what. You go home, you complain to your spouse. "Oh my God, today, the work, the job was so bad, "it was horrible." You are reliving that experience, you're giving it energy. Your brother-in-law, your brother, your sister calls you and you're, "Aw man, let me tell you "about how horrible work is today." You're reliving that again, you are giving it energy. Yes, it has already happened, but you can choose if you want to give energy to it and that's how you activate the Law of Attraction. The more you give energy to something, the more you'