字幕列表 影片播放 列印英文字幕 - Public speaking secret number four. You want to get clear about the outcome. Say it with me. Get clear about the outcome. I am shocked how many times I see speakers, they go on stage without a clear purpose. I don't know why they're there and I'm not even sure they know why they're there. What's the outcome that you want? Why are you taking up the time? Because as a speaker you have to think about this. You don't want to waste people's time. - [Desmond] No. I don't want to waste people's time. You don't want to waste people's time. So when you have a hundred people in the audience, that's a hundred people's time. So it's not just, you speaking for one minute. So let's say you're speaking for one minute, a hundred people, that's a hundred minutes of people's lives. So then you wouldn't half ass it. That's the way I see it. Right. You take responsibility and say you wanna be good. So what's the outcome that you want to create? So are you there to sell? Are you there to actually get a sale to close some kind of deal? Are you there to sell? Well don't lose sight of that. You're not there to get applause. You're not there to show the world how smart you are. You're there to get a sale, to get a contract to get an agreement. Right? Then you sell. Are you there to entertain? If you're there to entertain then just entertain, have a good time. Make sure the people have a good time. You have a good time. Right? Are you there to inform? Maybe it's in a corporate setting that you want to inform your prospect or your client about certain things or certain issues or a trend is coming up. By the end of the presentation do they understand what that thing is and what do they need to do? Right? Or there's some kind of steps you need to take. So are you there to inform? Or are you there to motivate and inspire? Meaning that how do you want them to feel after your presentation? Do they feel inspired and can't wait to take action? Kind of like Tony Robbins. Or do they feel well... kind of same? That, it's cool. It's interesting story but it just doesn't do anything for me. Right? So what is the outcome that you want? Does this make sense? Get clear about your outcome And also means, another way you look at it is, in order to get clear about your outcome doing your homework ahead of time. Who are you speaking to? Do you know who you're speaking to? Who is in the audience? Are you speaking to a group of... entrepreneurs? Are you speaking to a group of just friends? Right? Are you speaking to a group of kids? You need to know like who is your audience and again, what's the outcome you want to create? Very, very critical. Sometimes like I see speakers where. I've seen this before, this is like the worst. Let's say there are a number of speakers. The first speaker present. He told some kind of jokes. Second speaker came up. - [Male In Blue Suit] He told the same joke? - Same joke. - [Male In Blue Suit] Oh man that's so bad. - That is the worst and then the second speaker wonder how come nobody laughed? It usually works but how come nobody laughed? Because of that. Now if you're smart you should be kind of paying attention to the first speaker, just whoever is speaking before you, what is going on and you know. Like okay maybe then you can still change and not use that joke and use something else. Right? Can you sell and inspire at the same time? Okay some will sell before. You will not be able to sell without inspiring them. In fact when it comes to closing you are inspiring your audience to take a new action. So you will not be very effective at selling from stage if you're not inspiring others. Right? So a little bit of both. A little bit of both and when you're presenting, depends on the time you get, less is more. Less is more. So if you've got a eight minute, 10 minute time frame. Right? So make sure you don't try to cram too much in. If you've only got like 10 minutes just focus on 1 point. If you've got like 30 minutes maybe 2-3 points. Don't try to jam like 30 points or 10 points in like a 30 minute time-frame. Less is more. Right? It's not just say hey, you say this, you say this, you say this and then the audience gets overwhelmed. - [Male In Blue Suit] Yes. - Guess what? When they're overwhelmed they don't take action, they are confused and they tune out. - [Male In Blue Suit] Yep. - So just give them enough but not too too much. The reason you want to give them too much. Again it's focusing on what? Yourself. Because you want to sound intelligent, you want to sound like you know what you're talking about, you want to sound like you've done your homework. So let me overwhelm you. A perfect example. Think back, the professor you had when you were in college. He doesn't give a fuck. Right? He was just-- - [Male In Blue Suit] He was just spouting out numbers. - Just overwhelm you. He doesn't care if you understand, he doesn't care. He just wants to get through all that stuff. - [Male In Blue Suit] Yep. - Go through all that chapter because that's what he's supposed to do. But that's not a good teacher. A good teacher would be like hey slow down I wanna make sure that you get what I'm talking about. That's the difference right? Remember that college professor? Yeah. That's a perfect example. Try to cram too much in one session. In one speech. - [Male In Blue Suit] So Harvey was asking what's the difference between selling 1:1 versus selling one to many or selling on stage? I think that's a very advanced topic to go into. - It's such an advanced. I'll give you a short answer okay? It's first of all it's a completely different skill. Selling 1:1 you're doing only maybe 20. You're doing 20% of the talking. Your prospect on the phone or 1:1 is doing 80%. You're asking questions to lead them to a sale. On stage you don't have that luxury because you cannot get feedback from the people one on one. Thank you. From one on one like this. You just can't. So completely different skill set. It's like you ask me about riding a bike versus running a marathon. Like they're like, both kind of get you somewhere but they're two completely different skill set. Same thing with copyrighting. Copyrighting, closing, selling from stage, totally different skill sets. All communication but they're all very very different. Very different.
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