Name: 如何培養和女生的聊天技巧 (How to Start a Conversation With a Girl You Find Sexy)
Uploaded: 2014-03-07T15:45:29.000Z
Duration: 3 min 35 s

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Do you want to know how to start a conversation with a girl? How about start a conversation

你想不想知道怎麼和女生聊天？我們可以先從

未來簡單式

with a girl you're actually attracted to. Today, I'm going to share my best tips on

看起來是你的菜的開始。我今天要跟你分享

how to start a conversation with any girl. Stay tuned. Hey, Tripp here from TrippAdvice.com

我跟所有妹子都能聊上天的訣竅。準備好了嗎  嗨我是來自TrippAdvice的Tripp

teaching you steps on how to get the girl while still being your genuine self and today,

現在要來教你如何和女孩們聊天卻又不會顯得太假。

we're talking about how to start a conversation with a girl. Is it hard for you to think of

首先，我們要來談論如何開啟話題。你是不是常常覺得

things off the top of your head? Are you not sure exactly where to begin or how to get

常常想不到要說什麼呢？你是不是常常覺得不知道怎麼開始

things going? Starting a conversation off on the right foot is crucial in getting her

或是怎麼繼續？開啟正確的話題是決定女孩

attracted to you. You need to know how to start a conversation so she actually wants

想不想理你的關鍵。你必須知道要說什麼

to continue talking to you. What I'll be talking about is opening up conversations indirectly.

她才會想繼續和你聊下去。我常做的就是間接地問女孩們問題。

This is great for off the cuff conversations. Let me show you three great techniques on

也就是即興的對話。讓我來示範一下

how to do it. Technique number one, comment on something she's holding or wearing. That

一：對她穿著或拿著的東西發表意見。這很簡單

simple. Ask a question about it. She's holding an iPad at the coffee shop, ask her how she

就問一個有關那東西的問題。如果她拿著iPad在等咖啡，問她

likes it. She's wearing really unique shoes, ask her where she got them. What about the

覺得iPad好不好用。如果她穿著一雙特別的鞋子，就問她哪裡得到的。那如果

backpack that she's wearing. You want one just like that. Find out where she got it.

她背著背包呢？就說你也想要一個，問她哪裡買得到。

Where did she get those earrings? You're looking for a similar one for your sister. The list

甚至連她戴的耳環你也可以問，你可以說你想幫你的妹妹買一個

goes on and on. What can you comment on to start a conversation? Start paying attention

例子不勝枚舉。不知道哪些可以問嗎？可以仔細看女孩身上有的

to the little details so you can be ready to start a conversation at any time. Comment

東西，便可以自然地開啟話題。

on something that's happening in the moment. This might be talking to a girl at some sort

二：對當下的環境發表看法。你可能在例如

of event like a festival, outside of class, a bar, a club, a concert. Say something about

慶典、教室外面、酒吧、俱樂部或演唱會等地方遇到你的真命天女。說一些有關

the music playing or the people around you. Ask her what kind of drink she's holding.

附近發生的事情或是談論正在播的音樂也行，更可以問她手上拿的是什麼飲料

Again, it's the little details that you need to notice so you can pick up a conversation

就像我說的，仔細觀察便能找到開啟話題的材料

on the go. Technique number three, one of my favorites, the compliment. Now a compliment

第三點，也是我最喜歡的一點之一，讚美。

is a little more of a direct way of opening a conversation but it works like a charm.

讚美就算是直接進攻的一種囉，而且效果驚人

Complimenting a girl is a great way to start a conversation with a girl that you're interested

讚美喜歡的女生能讓你很快地和她開啟話題

in but be careful. I want you to stay away from the obvious compliments that most guys

不過要注意：不要總是說一些別的男生也會說的話

are saying. Don't start off a conversation complimenting her on tattoos or her hair or

稱讚女生的刺青、頭髮或是一些超級明顯的事情。

piercings or any super obvious things. Why? Because every other guy is and you have to

為什麼呢？因為如果大家都這麼做了，那你做了就沒意義了嘛！

be the exception. Don't start complimenting her on those things until at least mid conversation.

所以先和她聊聊，等到差不多的時候再開始讚美，她就會覺得你跟別人不同了。

So why do these three techniques work so well? It's because you're starting up conversation

為什麼這三個辦法這麼有用呢？因為你開啟的

with something personal and it's easier to connect with her. If you don't start connecting

都是跟她有關的話題，她便會有興趣跟你聊下去。如果你一直拖拖拉拉，

with her right away, then conversation is going to die and you'll lose her. Now you're

你們就會聊不下去，然後正妹就跟你說掰掰了。

going to have to know what to say to make that strong connection and I'll show you in

接下來你要學的就是如何把話題延續下去。我將會在

the free "10-Minute Magnetic Video Conversation Course" and I'm going to send this to you

這個『十分鐘把到妹』的課程裡講到，好消息是你可以免費得到

absolutely free. All you have to do is click on the link in the description box below or

完全免費 你要做的只有點擊下面或者是右邊的框框

click the box here and you'll receive it instantly at no cost. It's going to show you not only

你就可以拿到了。我將會教你如何延續話題、

how to keep a conversation going but the certain questions you can ask a girl to make her attracted

藉由問問題讓女孩們對你有好感、

to you, what to say to start a conversation and how to get her interested and attracted to you within 10 minutes.

另外還有一些開啟話題的竅門，讓她們在十分鐘內愛上你。

So go ahead, click the link in the description box below or click

所以快快按下這邊或是旁邊的框框吧

the box here and I'll send it to you immediately. I'll see you on the next video.

我會馬上寄給你。我們下次見！