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I'm Dr. Ari Brown. I'm here to help you figure out when to start disciplining your child
and how to approach discipline for babies, toddlers and preschoolers. Discipline is about
teaching your child, so you have to be realistic about what he understands. For example, when
you say "be nice", your 15-month-old may have no idea what nice means. You have to show
what you mean by be nice, like showing her how to pet the cat instead of grabbing its
tail. And setting up rules and limits are different depending on the age of the child.
One and 2-year olds need physical limits like putting the potted plant out of reach. But
3 and 4-year olds, a verbal limit should be enough, such as "Don't touch that plant, honey."
So, when is the right time to start disciplining your child? Kids can respond to discipline
as young as 9 months of age. That's about the time they start testing the waters to
see if they can get away with things that you've already said no to. You know the drill:
your child cruises over to the dog food bowl to grab a snack, but before he does, he looks
at you with a little grin on his face. That's because you have already told him 10 times
that that's not okay. If your child is smart enough to figure out this human behavior,
he is more than ready to be disciplined for it. For babies, the best response is redirection.
Just removing the temptation, like taking away the dog food, will reduce the number
of times you need to say no. It's also pretty easy to redirect the baby to another more
appropriate activity like banging on some pots and pans with a wooden spoon. For toddlers,
give choices and teach consequences. Toddlers are all about control, so giving them a chance
to make decisions makes for fewer power struggles and discipline moments. Of course, you only
want to give two choices, both of which are things you want them to do anyway, and if
a toddler misbehaves, make his time fit the crime. For instance, if your toddler enjoys
running away from you when he's outside, say, "You can't play outside if you run in the
street." Your child learns that his poor choice has consequences. For preschoolers, catch
them being good and ignore undesirable behavior. Three and four-year olds aim to please and
they thrive on their parent's attention. So, noticing good behavior will minimize those
ugly attention-seeking behaviors. And when your preschooler starts calling you a poo
poo head or some other preschooler cursing, ignore it and she will quit. Yes, it's funny
the first time but if you respond to it, you'll hear it a hundred more times. Being a parent
of a 1 to 4-year-old can be a real challenge but you will be a pro when your child becomes
a teenager, and with teenagers in my own house, I can tell you, teenagers are much easier.
Keep your chin up.


當爸媽好難...?告訴你小孩不同成長階段的黃金教育法! (Parenting Tips - How to Discipline Children at Different Ages | Parents)

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Annie Chien 發佈於 2020 年 1 月 16 日
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