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  • Dating can be fun, refreshing, and fulfilling, but it can also be straight-up confusing and a pain in the butt.

    約會可以很有趣、令人神清氣爽且心滿意足,但也可能讓人感到困惑又痛苦。

  • Maybe you've been with your partner for a few weeks now and seem excited about the future, but how do you know your butterflies are because of them and not from fear of things not working out?

    你或許和伴侶已經在一起幾週,並對未來感到興奮,但是要怎麼知道你是因為喜歡而緊張,而不是因為懼怕戀情無法開花結果?

  • Here are 10 signs a relationship is moving too fast.

    以下是戀情進展太快的 10 個跡象。

  • One: Your partner still talks about their ex.

    第一:你的伴侶依然會提到前任。

  • Knowing that you're someone's rebound hurts.

    知道自己是某人的備胎是很受傷的。

  • If your partner still checks up on their ex's social media, it's a dead giveaway that they're not fully invested in you.

    如果你的伴侶仍會查看前任的社交網頁,這行為便暗示他們並沒有全心全意花時間在你身上。

  • Two: You question your happiness when you're with them.

    第二:跟他在一起時,你會質疑自己是否開心。

  • All your actions say you want to be with them; you go on dates often and you mesh well with their friends, but something still doesn't feel quite right.

    你的舉動顯示想跟他在一起的心意,你們常約會,你也跟他的朋友相處融洽,但還是有不對勁的感覺。

  • Three: You're making big decisions before even meeting the fam.

    第三:你們在見家人前就開始做重大決定。

  • Or maybe you don't even know your partner's favorite color, and yet, you're already talking about moving in together.

    或者你在連對方最喜歡的顏色都不知道時,就已經在計畫同居了。

  • Better runthat's like asking for a train wreck.

    如果是這樣,快逃吧!這根本是自找災難。

  • Four: Everyone around you is in a relationship, so you want to make it official.

    第四:周遭的人都找到了固定的另一半,所以你也想公開戀情。

  • Who doesn't appreciate Instagram likes and sharing good news on Facebook?

    誰不喜歡在 Instagram 上被點讚以及在臉書上分享好消息?

  • But if the idea excites you more than the person in front of you, you might be more concerned about fulfilling social expectations.

    但是如果這個想法比眼前的人更讓你興奮,那麼你可能還比較想滿足社會期望。

  • Five: You trust them before getting to really know them.

    第五:你在真正了解對方前就完全信任他。

  • Playing hard-to-get is definitely not a healthy way to someone's heart, but neither is being vulnerable too soon.

    故作矜持絕對不是擄獲人心的好方法,但是太快陷進去也同樣不好。

  • There are some things you should know about your partner first, like how well they can compromise and what they're like on bad days.

    有些關於伴侶的事是必須先瞭解的,例如他是否懂得讓步以及不如意時是怎麼樣的人。

  • Six: You think they're perfect.

    第六:你認為他是完美的。

  • Putting your partner on a pedestal doesn't mean they're actually "the one".

    把伴侶奉為完人不代表他一定就是「對的人」。

  • When you're overly infatuated, you fail to see your partner's flaws, which plays a huge role in compatibility.

    當你過度迷戀,你就無法看清伴侶的缺點,但這點對於匹配度至關重要。

  • Seven: You mistake fighting for passion.

    第七:你錯把爭執當成激情。

  • Make-up sex is great after a big fight, but if the two of you are doing that a lot, you might want to ask yourself if this is healthy and where the relationship is going.

    大吵後的和解性愛固然好,但若次數太頻繁,你可能需要自問這對你是否有益以及感情到底是往哪兒發展。

  • Eight: You get impatient to hear back from them.

    第八:你對於等候伴侶回應感到不耐。

  • Do you get mad when they respond to your text too slow or over analyze every single emoji, exclamation point, and word?

    你會因為對方訊息回覆太慢或是過度詮釋每一個表情符號、標點符號和字詞而發怒嗎?

  • You want to make sure you're allowing your partner space.

    你得確保自己有給對方適當的個人空間。

  • Nine: You're ignoring the red flags.

    第九:你忽略了警訊。

  • Does your partner want kids, but being a parent was never on your radar? Or maybe you see yourself moving into a city. but they prefer the countryside?

    你的伴侶想要小孩,但你是否卻從未想過要為人父母?或者你預想自己未來會搬進城裡,但你的伴侶偏好鄉下生活?

  • You can only escape reality for so long until it catches up with you.

    你可以逃避現實,但它總有一天會追趕上你的。

  • Ten: You've said "I love you" after a few dates.

    第十:約會幾次後你就說了「我愛你」。

  • There's a difference between loving someone and being in love with them, and people often realize it too late when they've already made future plans.

    愛一個人和與某人相愛是不同的,而許多人卻通常在規劃好未來之後才意識到這點。

  • Do any of these signs sound familiar?

    有沒有哪些跡象是似曾相識的呢?

  • What are some troubles you're facing in your relationship?

    你的感情中面臨了哪些問題呢?

  • Please share your thoughts with us below.

    請在下方跟我們分享你的想法。

  • Also, be sure to subscribe to our channel for more helpful tips and share this video with others.

    另外,也記得訂閱頻道以獲取更多實用訣竅,也請多多分享影片。

  • With your help, we can reach more people and provide our support.

    有了你的幫忙,我們就可以接觸更多人並給予幫助。

  • Thanks for watching!

    謝謝觀賞!

Dating can be fun, refreshing, and fulfilling, but it can also be straight-up confusing and a pain in the butt.

約會可以很有趣、令人神清氣爽且心滿意足,但也可能讓人感到困惑又痛苦。

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