Maybe you've been with your partner for a few weeks now and seem excited about the future, but how do you know your butterflies are because of them and not from fear of things not working out?

你或許和伴侶已經在一起幾週，並對未來感到興奮，但是要怎麼知道你是因為喜歡而緊張，而不是因為懼怕戀情無法開花結果？

Here are 10 signs a relationship is moving too fast.

以下是戀情進展太快的 10 個跡象。

One: Your partner still talks about their ex.

第一：你的伴侶依然會提到前任。

Knowing that you're someone's rebound hurts.

知道自己是某人的備胎是很受傷的。

If your partner still checks up on their ex's social media, it's a dead giveaway that they're not fully invested in you.

如果你的伴侶仍會查看前任的社交網頁，這行為便暗示他們並沒有全心全意花時間在你身上。

Two: You question your happiness when you're with them.

第二：跟他在一起時，你會質疑自己是否開心。

All your actions say you want to be with them; you go on dates often and you mesh well with their friends, but something still doesn't feel quite right.

你的舉動顯示想跟他在一起的心意，你們常約會，你也跟他的朋友相處融洽，但還是有不對勁的感覺。

Three: You're making big decisions before even meeting the fam.

第三：你們在見家人前就開始做重大決定。

Or maybe you don't even know your partner's favorite color, and yet, you're already talking about moving in together.

或者你在連對方最喜歡的顏色都不知道時，就已經在計畫同居了。

Better run—that's like asking for a train wreck.

如果是這樣，快逃吧！這根本是自找災難。

Four: Everyone around you is in a relationship, so you want to make it official.

第四：周遭的人都找到了固定的另一半，所以你也想公開戀情。

Who doesn't appreciate Instagram likes and sharing good news on Facebook?

誰不喜歡在 Instagram 上被點讚以及在臉書上分享好消息？

But if the idea excites you more than the person in front of you, you might be more concerned about fulfilling social expectations.

但是如果這個想法比眼前的人更讓你興奮，那麼你可能還比較想滿足社會期望。

Five: You trust them before getting to really know them.

第五：你在真正了解對方前就完全信任他。

Playing hard-to-get is definitely not a healthy way to someone's heart, but neither is being vulnerable too soon.

故作矜持絕對不是擄獲人心的好方法，但是太快陷進去也同樣不好。

There are some things you should know about your partner first, like how well they can compromise and what they're like on bad days.

有些關於伴侶的事是必須先瞭解的，例如他是否懂得讓步以及不如意時是怎麼樣的人。

Six: You think they're perfect.

第六：你認為他是完美的。

Putting your partner on a pedestal doesn't mean they're actually "the one".

把伴侶奉為完人不代表他一定就是「對的人」。

When you're overly infatuated, you fail to see your partner's flaws, which plays a huge role in compatibility.

當你過度迷戀，你就無法看清伴侶的缺點，但這點對於匹配度至關重要。

Seven: You mistake fighting for passion.

第七：你錯把爭執當成激情。

Make-up sex is great after a big fight, but if the two of you are doing that a lot, you might want to ask yourself if this is healthy and where the relationship is going.

大吵後的和解性愛固然好，但若次數太頻繁，你可能需要自問這對你是否有益以及感情到底是往哪兒發展。

Eight: You get impatient to hear back from them.

第八：你對於等候伴侶回應感到不耐。

Do you get mad when they respond to your text too slow or over analyze every single emoji, exclamation point, and word?

你會因為對方訊息回覆太慢或是過度詮釋每一個表情符號、標點符號和字詞而發怒嗎？

You want to make sure you're allowing your partner space.

你得確保自己有給對方適當的個人空間。

Nine: You're ignoring the red flags.

第九：你忽略了警訊。

Does your partner want kids, but being a parent was never on your radar? Or maybe you see yourself moving into a city. but they prefer the countryside?

你的伴侶想要小孩，但你是否卻從未想過要為人父母？或者你預想自己未來會搬進城裡，但你的伴侶偏好鄉下生活？

You can only escape reality for so long until it catches up with you.

你可以逃避現實，但它總有一天會追趕上你的。

Ten: You've said "I love you" after a few dates.

第十：約會幾次後你就說了「我愛你」。

There's a difference between loving someone and being in love with them, and people often realize it too late when they've already made future plans.

愛一個人和與某人相愛是不同的，而許多人卻通常在規劃好未來之後才意識到這點。

Do any of these signs sound familiar?

有沒有哪些跡象是似曾相識的呢？

What are some troubles you're facing in your relationship?

你的感情中面臨了哪些問題呢？

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請在下方跟我們分享你的想法。

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有了你的幫忙，我們就可以接觸更多人並給予幫助。

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