Name: 還在被撩嗎？五大技巧教你如何反撩男生！ (5 Irresistible Ways to Flirt With Men (Matthew Hussey, Get The Guy))
Uploaded: 2020-01-08T21:01:10.000Z
Duration: 3 min 49 s

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I just mean touch him somewhere, even innocently on the arm.

我只是說碰他的某個身體部位，很純潔地碰一下手臂也可以。

That actually looks good, what that guy has over there.

那邊那男生戴的那個其實蠻好看的。

Because on a date when two people haven't even touched - made physical contact for the entire date - and then all of a sudden, one of them has got to think about leaning in and kissing the other one...

因為當兩個人在約會的時候，如果連碰都沒碰到就突然之間要想接吻的事情...

That feels like going from zero to sixty miles an hour, but if you've been introducing light, and carefree touch through-out the date... kissing is a much more natural progression.

就好像從停滯不前突然衝到六十英里的時速，但如果你有先做一些微小的、不經意地碰觸的話... 接吻就變成一個約會中很正常的走向。

When you take a sip of your drink, it engages your lips so it draws attention to them, but at the same time, if you look away it has the added benefit of giving him a moment to look at you, and take you in without you staring right back at him.

當你在喝飲料的時候，這個動作包含了你的嘴唇，這會吸引他的注意力，同時如果你在這時候看向其他地方，這就正好給了他一個看你的機會，也避免了四目交接的尷尬。

That is something that we actually don't get to do that frequently on a date, and when someone is looking at us, that's when they get a chance to really get attracted.

這其實是我們在約會中很少有機會做的事，但當你被注視的時候，那其實是最能讓他陷入愛情的瞬間。

Now, the more slowly you do this the more seductive it's gonna be, but if you take a moment to look into his eyes, and then look down at his lips, and then back up at his eyes...

你瞄得越慢，這個誘惑力就越大，而如果你能先看一下他的眼睛，再看一下他的嘴唇，再看回他的眼睛...

That moment becomes a very seductive moment even if it's unconscious, even if he doesn't know that you're actually looking at his lips.

這個瞬間會非常具誘惑力，即使那是無意識的行為。就算他不知道你在看他的嘴唇。

He registers that you're taking him in, in a different way.

他接收到的訊息會是，你讓你們之間的氛圍不一樣了。

So like, what part of the jungle were you in when that happened?

所以，事情發生的時候你是在叢林的哪裡？

Number four: when he looks at you in a certain sexy way, maybe he smiles with it, I want you to say to him, "You Can't Look At Me Like That."

第四，當他以性感的眼神看向你的時候，也許他笑了，我要你在這時候說：「你不可以這樣看我。」

The words, 'You can't' followed by looking away creates this real tension in the moment.

在「你不可以」這些字之後馬上避開視線，會讓這個瞬間更加心跳加速。

You're telling him something he can't do.

你跟他說了一件他不能做的事...

Always very sexy when done playfully, and in that moment when you look away, there's that vulnerability to it too.

這做好的話都會是很性感的，而在這個時候你又躲開視線，這就展示了你脆弱的一面。

It's like he's doing something to you that he shouldn't be.

就像你在告訴他你做了一件不該做的事。

Ah, Monkey... you can't look at me like that.

噢...猴子，你不可以那樣看我。

Choose a moment when he's teasing you to give him a serious face when he thinks you should be laughing, and say, "don't be mean to me."

當他捉弄你之後，選一個他以為你會笑的時機，然後突然擺一張認真臉，然後說：「不要欺負我。」

And when someone's being cute and adorable, you just wanna grab them and kiss them.

而當一個人又可愛又令人憐愛的時候，你就會想要把他們抱過來親一下。

Look these five things I've just given you are essentially just practical ways to flirt.

我剛剛介紹的五大技巧都是很實際的曖昧方法。

I have a program called, "How To Talk To Men," and one of the chapters in that program is specifically about giving you lines, and things you can do to flirt.

我有一個叫 How To Talk To Men 的計畫，它的其中一個章節就是在介紹一些曖昧階段實用的句子和技巧。

Well I am gifting you that chapter absolutely free today.

而我今天要把這個章節免費送給你。

All you need to get that is go to GetTheFreeChapter dot com, I will link it up here, click that link, download the free chapter, and you can be using these techniques today.

你要做的就是到 GetTheFreeChapter.com，我會把連結放在這裡，下載免費的章節，之後你就可以開始使用裡面的技巧了。