This loud and fast-paced world many introverts find themselves drowned out overwhelmed or stomped on by society

這個嘈雜且生活步調快速的世界，許多內向者感到難受無法專注或是不受到主流社會重視。

Here are eight reasons to look for an introvert as a life partner

以下是尋找內向者作為你/妳終生伴侶的 8 個原因：

Number one introverts are self-sufficient

第一：內向者很容易自給自足

The first thing you need to know is that introverts do not need you they do not need relationships

首先你要知道，內向者並不需要你，也不需要與人產生關係。

And they don't need others. No they don't need them

內向者不需要他人，完全不需要。

They want them so if an introvert chooses you they want you to want someone is so much more powerful than to need them

內向者只有想要的時候，換言之若內向者選擇了你，表示他想要你遠大於需要你。

needing someone means that once that need is met the person is no longer necessary to

需要某人意味著一旦需求被滿足了，那就不再需要這個人了。

Want someone however means that there's a conscious effort to keep that person in your life?

想要某人意味著有意識地希望和對方終生常伴。

Number two introverts are loyal

第二：內向者往往很忠誠

Once you're an introvert person you're their person period that's it end of story

如若你是位內向者，你會對伴侶忠貞不二。

They won't play games or flirt with others

內向者不會耍小手段或和其他人調情。

They won't cheat on you and won't treat you like you're nothing to them because truthfully you're worth it all to them

內向者惡意欺騙也不會忽視你，因為他們是發自內心喜歡你。

number three introverts are great listeners

第三：內向者是個好聽眾

Introverts know what it's like to be ignored and overlooked so when you talk to them you will have their full attention

內向者明白被人忽視或輕視的感覺，因此當你和內向者說話時，他們會全神貫注地聆聽。

For you to want to talk to them whether to know their opinions or not means the world

無論你談話的內容是想得到內向者意見或只是閒聊。

If they reply they will have given the response a lot of thought they won't take your discussion lightly and you may soon find that

內向者回應提供他們的意見時，會經過深思熟慮，不會隨便回答，你很容易就會發現這個特點。

They know much more about you than you do about them

內向者往往比你自己還瞭解你唷。

Number four introverts have a talent for empathy because most of their attention resides in their heads

第四：內向者天生就具有同理心，他們的注意力都放在自己的內心世界中。

Introverts find themselves able to connect at a deeper level quite easier than most

內向者往往會發覺自己比大多數的人更容易進行深度連結。

They can read others easily especially if they know you well and will feel your emotions as if they're their own without having to try

內向者善於讀取人心，尤其是很熟悉的人，甚至可以對於他們的情緒心情感同身受。

They won't respond with judgment. They'll respond with understanding because they know what it's like to be misunderstood

內向者的回應往往不會帶有批判。他們會站在你的角度來回應，因為他們瞭解被人誤解的感受。

Number five introverts are authentic in today's world introversion is usually seen as an act of rebellion by others

第五：內向者在當今的世界已是稀有，因為主流世界壓抑批判內向特質。

Introverts know who they are and aren't afraid to fight for it. They won't change to please others in their eyes

內向者知道自己的特性且害怕與主流意識相抗，不過他們也不會改變自己去討好他人

It would only be a lie and an insult to you and themselves

因為自欺欺人對自己和他人都是種侮辱。

Never try to give an introvert what you think they want to hear what they want to hear is the truth?

別嘗試說些你認為內向者想聽的話，因為內向者想聽的是真話。

Number six introverts understand self-love

第六：內向者懂得自愛

Introverts tend to spend a lot of time mingling with their own Souls which is why they'll encourage you to do the same

內向者傾向將大多數的時間與知己/靈魂伴侶相處，他們也會鼓勵你這麼做。

When they see your true self they'll treasure it more thoroughly than anyone before

當內向者發現你願意展現真正的自己，他們會更加珍惜你。

For they know what it's like to have to learn to love yourselves much less another

因為內向者知道學習愛自己的重要性。

Number seven introverts can be really creative

第七：內向者其實很有創意

introverts spend so much time in their own heads that they develop their own unique worldviews not all introverts will have the same worldview and

內向者大多數的時間都沉浸在自己的內心世界裡，因此各自發展出獨一無二的世界觀。

Usually they express them through art music literature or all of the above

他們通常會經由藝術、音樂、文學等方式表達。

They'd rather express themselves creatively and passionately than converse so prepare to be shocked at the things they can do

對內向者而言，以這些方式表達他們的創意與熱情的效果更勝於對談方式。

number eight introverts can be mysterious

最後第八：內向者有種神祕感

This will be the hardest to deal with and falling in love with an introvert

這個特質往往令人難以抗拒，讓人對內向者一見傾心。

More than likely you will always feel like they know you better than you know them

和內向者在一起時，你會有種他比你更懂你的感覺。

Introverts tend to keep parts of themselves hidden because emotional vulnerability is one of their greatest enemies

內向者傾向隱藏某部分的自己，因為情感脆弱是他們的一大弱點。

But for some reason you'll probably find this mystery to be alluring

不過無論如何，大部分的人都覺得這種神秘色彩是很迷人的。

Introverts are quite valuable quite unusual

內向者往往獨特且具備才華

And they rarely get the chance to shine

但是他們通常不太顯眼。

Maybe if you look around you'll see one lounging in the background watching quietly with a smile on their face

也許當你四處看看，會發現內向者倚靠在後方帶著微笑四處張望。

Don't go up and try to force yourself on them

不要直接向他們走近和他們攀談。

Just catch their eye across the room smile if they return it and linger on you come on over if they just continued glancing around

如果他們有回應、向你走近，你只需隔著一定距離向注視著他們的眼睛並微笑，若繼續四處張望

Don't worry. It's not personal

別擔心，他們不是針對你。

They've just got about fifty tabs open in their heads who knows if you put in the time you could become one that's frequently visited

內向者的腦中通常同時開啟了 50 個視窗在運作，很難說對你的印象是放在哪個運作視窗中。

so what do you think be sure to leave your thoughts in the comments below and be sure to like and

歡迎將你的評論留言在影片下方並按讚。

Subscribe to see more content like this from psyched to go. Thank you for watching

訂閱我們的 psyched to go 頻道，感謝您的觀看！