The obvious stuff.

這些最明顯的東西。

This includes stuff like grooming, having a decent hair cut working out not dressing like a little kid smiling and so on.

像是梳頭、剪個像樣的髮型，而不是穿得像傻笑的小孩一樣等等。

There are tons of videos and articles out there about this, someone will make a video like "3 tips on getting girls" and it's stuff like #1 get a haircut, #2 don't be fat.

關於這些的影片和文章到處都是，有些人會做些關於「 3 個吸引女孩的技巧」之類的影片，影片內容包括第一：去理髮、第二：不要變胖。

Well ... DUH!

呃... 這還用說嗎！

..... Gee, thanks, I had no idea that if I cut my hair like Justin Bieber's when he was 14, that girls wouldn't like it!

..... 哎，謝啦，我不知道如果我把頭髮剪得像 14 歲的小賈斯汀一樣，女孩們會不會喜歡！

I had no idea that if I was 200 pounds overweight girls wouldn't like it!

我不知道如果我重 200 磅，女孩們會不會喜歡！

Thanks for telling me!

謝謝你告訴我喔！

Great advice!

真是個好的建議！

So yeah, I'm not gonna waste time talking about stuff like that.

所以，我不會去浪費時間來討論這些東西。

I'm gonna assume you're smart enough to know that if you're 5000 percent body fat, you need to get in the gym, and if your hair is 2 feet long , you need to cut it.

我認為你們應該夠聰明，能夠知道如果你的體脂肪是 5000％，會知道要去運動； 如果你的頭髮長到 2 英尺長，知道要去剪短。

This video isn't gonna be any generic advice like that that anyone can come up with.

這個影片不會是關於那些任何人都想得到的普通建議。

This is gonna be SPECIFIC stuff that you can actually start doing right now, and that you may not have thought of before.

這影片會是關於一些你們之前應該都沒聽過的「明確」建議，而且都是可以現在立刻做的事。

#1 Grow a beard.

第一：留鬍子。

Something I've discovered is, if you have a face that is extremely good looking naturally,

我發現，如果你的臉是自然美，

then you usually look better without a beard, so people can see it.

通常沒有鬍子看起來會比較好看，因為大家才能清楚地看見你的臉。

But if you have a face that's average, or below average, then you usually look better WITH a beard, because what it does is helps to hide the imperfections.

但是，如果你長得很普通或是低於水平，「留」鬍子通常會讓你變得比較好看，因為鬍子會幫助你遮掉臉部的瑕疵。

You may have heard that people find symmetrical faces attractive.

你可能聽說過，有些人覺得對稱的臉看起來比較有吸引力。

Most faces aren't symmetrical, but when you have a beard, it basically covers half your face which means half of that asymmetry is now hidden!

但普遍上大家的臉都不是對稱的，但如果你有鬍子的話，它基本上覆蓋了你半張臉，這表示你一半不對稱的臉都被鬍子遮住了。

So you look twice as symmetrical as you did before!

所以，你的臉看起來會比之前還來得對稱兩倍。

It's called math.

這就叫做數學。

Also, it serves to hide your messed up jawline, or your acne, or anything else you may not like about your face.

此外，它還可以幫你遮掉不完美的下顎線條，或痘痘，又或者是其他你覺得不好看的地方。

Try it out!

試試看吧！

#2 Be confident Lucky for you, JUST LAST WEEK I actually posted a video that was basically called "how to be confident" and it had THIRTY tips you can immediately use to start boosting your confidence right off the bat.

第二. 要對自己有信心，「就在上週」，我發布了一個關於「如何變得更有自信」的影片，這影片有提到 30 個讓你馬上就可以開始建立自信心的訣竅。

Yeah, 30 things.

是的，30 個訣竅。

It's pretty much the best video on youtube.

這應該是 YouTube 上最好的影片。

Check it out.

去看看吧！

Do it.

做就對了。

Because as I'm sure you already know, girls like confidence.

因為我知道你們一定知道女孩們都喜歡有自信的人。

They don't want to be around someone who's insecure and desperate.

她們不會想和不牢靠和充滿絕望的人在一起。

If that's you, then watch the how to be confident video.

你果這是你的話，就去看那個「如何變得更有信心」的影片吧！

#3 Be positive In addition to confidence, something that's often overlooked is POSITIVITY.

第三：除了有自信外你還要樂觀，「正向思考」往往都被大家忽略。

People like to be around positive people.

大家都喜歡跟樂觀的人在一起。

Think about it.

你想想看。

You want to be around someone who's always complaining, always being negative about stuff, doing negative things, and all that?

你要跟一個整天抱怨、很悲觀的人，或是常常做一些負面事情等等的人在一起嗎？

---- no you don't!

當然不要啊！

The problem with guys is a lot of them act negative as ---- around girls!

很多男生的問題都出在常常在女生身邊做一些負面的事情！

They complain, they grill her about "why don't you like me? why don't you text me back faster?" and they act all emotional.

他們抱怨，而且他們喜歡拷問女生一些問題，像是「為什麼妳不喜歡我？為什麼不快一點回覆我的簡訊？」而且他們都會帶著情緒在講這些。

They tell a joke then they look to see if the girl is laughing and they feel bad if she isn't.

他們開玩笑的時候還會觀察那個女生是不是有笑，如我她沒有笑的話他們會感到難受。

Cut that out, girls hate it.

所以別做那些事，女生們不會喜歡的。

Even guys hate it.

男生們也不會喜歡的。

I hate it.

我也討厭。

Everyone hates it!

大家都會討厭的。

People like positive people.

大家都喜歡樂觀的人。

Because positivity just makes you feel better.

因為正能量會讓人感覺更好。

Duh!

這還用說嗎！

Think about it.

想想看。

Positive people are active, they enjoy doing things, they talk to people because it's fun,

樂觀的人都蠻積極的，他們享受他們在做的事，他們跟人們說話是因為他們會覺得愉快，

not because they want to impress them, they have goals and ambitions and dreams and passions,

而不是他們要給跟他們說話的人留下好印象，他們有目標、野心、夢想以及熱情，

they don't sweat the small stuff, they don't complain about little things because they don't CARE about little things.

他們不會糾結於小事情，也不會去抱怨這些事情，因為他們根本不會去在意這些小事。

They have their own lives and they enjoy living them, they don't latch on to the girl and try to live HER life or try to control HER life.

他們有自己的生活，並且樂在其中，他們不拘泥於女孩們，或過著她們的生活，也不會想去控制她們的生活。

If you're smiling and having fun, you will INSTANTLY be more attractive than you are when you're NOT smiling and having fun.

如果你在笑並且樂在其中，那麼你會「馬上」比在「不」笑和「不」樂在其中的時候更有吸引力。

........ Now keep in mind, this doesn't mean you should FAKE it.

........ 現在，記住，這不表示你應該戴面具。

People who fake having fun usually just look like tryhards.

通常如果人們試著裝作很開心，看起來都很假。

You should legitimately have fun.

你應該發自內心地表示開心。

Enjoy what you're doing.

享受你在做的事情。

If you don't enjoy it, why the ---- are you doing it?

如果你不享受的話，你爲什麼這樣做呢？

For example, don't just listen to what a girl says while being bored out of your mind and only listening because you hope to have --- with her later.

舉例來說，不要只是無聊地在聽女生說的話，或是聽他們話是為了要跟她發生親密的關係。

Be serious, that's usually what you do when you're out on dates, isn't it?

正經點，這不是你出去約會常做的事嗎？

Yeah.

是的。

---- that.

別！

Listen to what she says and take an interest in it, or at least see if there's anything interesting about it,

聽聽她們在說什麼，並表示你感到有興趣，或者至少看看有什麼是有趣的、

anything you can learn from, questions you can ask that you actually care about the answers to, cool personality traits she has that you can play off, and so on.

有什麼值得學習的，也可以問一些你有興趣的問題，或是探索她很酷的人格特質。

If you don't give too----- about what she's talking about and you know you never will, then steer the conversation to something you DO care about.

如果你對她講的話不感興趣的話，你可以把你們之間的對話導向你「有」興趣的內容。

#4 Have a pet. Honestly, everyone likes animals, and having a pet just makes you seem like a nicer, more well-rounded guy who isn't a --------- and who is responsible enough to take care of someone.

第四：養隻寵物。說實話，大家都喜歡動物，有寵物讓你看起來像個更好、更多才多藝的人，並不是個人渣，而是個有責任且能夠照顧別人的人。

Also, people are very protective of their pets, so if a girl has a dog, and you say you don't like dogs,

而且，大家都非常保護自己的寵物，所以如果一個女生有一隻狗，而你說你不喜歡狗，

it doesn't matter if you look like Ryan Reynolds that girl is gonna dock you AT LEAST 2 or 3 points,

即使你長像 Ryan Reynolds，她「最少」也會給你扣個兩三分。

If you like dogs, but you don't have one, she'll give you +1.

如果你喜歡狗，但沒有狗，她會給你加個一分。

If you like dogs, and you also have one, she'll give you +2.

如果你喜歡狗，也有狗，她會給你加個兩分。

So if you like animals, get one!

所以，如果你喜歡動物的話，養一隻吧！

Disclaimer.

免責聲明。

If you don't like animals, don't get one just to impress a girl if you know you're not gonna take care of it.

如果你不喜歡動物的話，而且你知道你沒有要去照顧牠們，不要因為要給女生留下好印象而養寵物。

That's just DUMB.

這是很愚蠢的。

Plus, being irresponsible is a very unattractive trait, so it'll just work against you anyway.

加上，不負責任是一個很沒有魅力的特質，這只會讓你變得更難看。

#5 Have ---- you care about. Attractive guys aren't just empty shells.

第五：找一些你嚮往的事做，有魅力的男生都不會只是個空殼。

They usually have at least one hobby that they're really passionate about.

他們至少會有個興趣是他們非常熱愛的。

Maybe a sibling or a parent or a pet that they really care about.

也許是他非常在意的兄弟姐妹、父母，又或者是他的寵物。

Dreams that they really want to achieve. And so on.

他們想完成的夢想等等。

If you're just a generic dude who doesn't care about anything, that's EXTREMELY unattractive,

如果你只是個普通人，且也不在乎任何事，這是「非常」不吸引人的。

because you're just gonna latch on to that girl and start to insert yourself in HER life, doing things SHE cares about, with HER friends, and it just makes you look stupid.

你就只是想要抓住那個女生，然後試著融入「她」的生活、做一些「她」喜歡的事、混進「她」的朋友圈，這些只會讓你看起來更蠢。

If you don't have any hobbies, get one.

如果你沒有任何興趣的話，去找一個。

If you don't have any dreams, get one.

如果你沒有任何夢想的話，去想一個。

Personally, there is nothing I find less attractive, in a girlfriend or even just in a friend, than someone who has no dreams and who doesn't give a ---- about anything.

我個人覺得，在女朋友或是甚至在朋友中，我發現沒有什麼人是比沒有夢想或是什麼都不在意的人還來得更沒魅力。

That's just DUMB.

這就太愚蠢了。

If a girl asks what you're into, and you're like "oooh I don't know, like, partying, and drinking, and, hanging out with friends, and stuff".

如果一個女孩問你喜歡什麼，你說：「喔，我不知道耶，我應該喜歡參加聚會，喝酒，跟朋友約，和其他東西」。

.... like, wow. Come on dude.

..... 哇！拜託。

Hell, you can be a huge Harry Potter fanboy if you want, just have SOMETHING.

你想的話，你可以作一個哈利波特的超級粉絲，「什麼」都可以。

#6 Get a cool car. This is an easy one!

第六：買台很酷的車。這很簡單的！

All you have to do, is drive down to the Lambo dealership, trade in whatever you already drive, and buy one!

你所要做的事，就是開車去藍寶堅尼的銷商處，用你現在的車來交易，然後買一台！

No big deal, haha.

沒什麼大不了的，哈哈。

No. But seriously, even an unattractive guy driving a cool car will get a couple free points just for that alone.

不。但認真的，一個沒有魅力的人開著很酷的車也會被加個幾分，就只是因為開個酷車而已。

Why?

為什麼？

Because it's cool.

因為很酷。

It's fun.

而且很好玩。

It makes a great first impression.

這讓你給其他人有好的第一印象。

And it allows her to think she looks cool when she's riding around with you.

這會讓她覺得坐你車的時候她看起來很威風。

And you don't even have to be rich.

你根本不需要有錢。

I'm not talking about Lambos and Ferraris and stuff like that.

我不是說藍寶堅尼或是法拉利這些東西。

Hell, for the price of a new Camry you can get a used BMW.

當然不是，一部全新冠美麗的價錢可以買一部二手 BMW。

Or for the price of a new BMW, you can get a used Hellcat or a Corvette, or anything in that range that you like and think would be fun to drive.

一部全新的 BMW 的價錢，你可以買一部二手地獄貓或雪佛蘭科爾維特，又或是類似這種開起來好玩的車款。

Plus, driving a cool car is FUN!

加上，開著一輛很酷的車是「很好玩」的！

You don't even have to care about getting girls!

你根本不用去在意把妹的問題！

#7 Talk less. Don't go on and on talking and talking.

第七：少說點話。不要嘮嘮叨叨的。

Let the girl talk.

讓女生說她們的。

Don't text her more than she texts you.

發給她的簡訊，不要比她發的簡訊還多。

Don't call her more than she calls you.

打給她的電話，不要比她打得還多。

Don't send her a long text if she's sending you short texts.

如果她回給你的簡訊很簡短，不要回她一大串。

If she asks you a question and you know your answer is gonna ----, don't sit there trying to defend yourself to her.

如果她問你個問題，你知道你會回答得很爛，不要就坐在那裡為自己辯護。

Less is more.

少即是多。

A lot of guys suffer from "over-talking" and it's really unattractive.

很多男生敗在太多話，這是很不吸引人的。

If she texts you and you're NOT SURE if you should reply or not, the answer is, you shouldn't.

如果她傳訊給你，然後你「不確定」該不該回，答案是，不要回。

When in doubt, just be quiet.

當你在猶豫這問題時候，安靜點還是比較好。

There's nothing worse than a guy who talks and talks but doesn't actually have anything worth saying.

沒有比一個嘮嘮叨叨，而且實際上沒有什麼可說的的男生還來得更糟糕。

So those are 7 ways to instantly become more attractive.

所以這些是 7 種讓你馬上可以變更有魅力的方法。

Try them out for a few days, leave a comment and let me know how they work for you!

去嘗試這些方法個幾天，並留言告訴我有沒有用！

Want to learn more dating tips and ways to make girls think you're more attractive than you actually are?

想不想知道更多方法可以讓你在女生面前變得比你實際上還來得更有魅力呢？

Then subscribe to my channel right now and check out my new videos every week!

現在訂閱我的頻道，並記得觀看我每個禮拜的新影片喔！