Hey guys from me and my forehead.

Yeah, my bangs were just not behaving themselves today,

so that's why I look like an anime version of Arthur the aardvark.

*cries internally*

Probably my most asked question on YouTube comments and on Instagram is:

How do you find your style...and also do your parents know about your youtube channel?

Today, we're answering ONE of those questions! :D

Basically, over the past ten years, I've taken myself from

this fashion disaster to

this fashionable disaster.

So I thought I'd share some tips from my fashion evolution from finding your style to feeling comfortable

and confident in the clothing that you wear

and how to turn fashion from something that you might kind of dread,

putting an outfit together every morning,

to something that you could take pride in and something that makes you really excited like it does for me!

So, let's jump into the video! Step number one,

and yes, I did break this down into steps because I am a hoe for lists. Your girl loves some good organization. ;)

So, step number one is to assess your current wardrobe.

Now I want you guys to start with your own wardrobe

because it can be so intimidating to, like, jump off the deep end into the Interwebs

and try to figure out like, from scratch what your style is,

so, I think the best place to start is looking at the clothes that you already wear and that you already love

because that's gonna give you a good hint to what you actually feel confident in.

I also feel like most of us have a couple pieces that we really love

that are kind of pointing us in a direction of style,

but we just haven't brought the rest of our wardrobe around to fit those, like, a few pieces that we love,

so I would suggest you guys do an experiment.

For two weeks, try tracking all the clothing that you actually wear.

There are a couple of ways to do this.

First of all, you could move the clothing that you've worn to a clothing rack if you have it.

You could move it to the front of your closet.

You can also turn around the hanger hook on all the clothing that you've worn

or if you don't do laundry that often like me, you can literally just put it in the laundry bin. :D

Once you have this sample of clothes that you actually wear,

you can start looking at what those clothes have in common.

Are they a certain fit? Do you really gravitate towards like, an a-line silhouette or a loose pair of jeans?

What about the color scheme?

Do you gravitate more towards pastels or do you tend to reach for your black and white clothing the most?

Is there a certain brand whose quality and fit of clothing you actually find yourself wearing a lot?

And lastly, something that a lot of people overlook is what is the comfort level of that clothing?

Some of us love to be comfortable and love to be able to run around,

so, that is something that you should be honest with yourself with

and take into consideration when you're forming your style.

I definitely grew up with the misconception that you just have to like... suffer

and be incredibly uncomfortable in order to be fashionable and that's not, like, the direct correlation.

I feel like that's where a lot of us have a bad relationship with fashion because

we'll buy the, like, stilettos or the bodycon dress that frankly, we're not comfortable in

and then, like, beat ourselves up for not wearing it,

when in reality, like you should be looking at your style from what fits your life.

You shouldn't, like, have to change to fit your clothing, y'know? *wink*

So after looking at your wardrobe,

you have a couple ideas of the things that you lean towards naturally

and the clothing that makes you feel the best.

Whether it's a color scheme, silhouette, fabric, brand, etc.

So you're ready to dive into the next step, which is finding inspiration.

This is the fun part where you can get out your phone and your laptop

and scroll through Instagram and Pinterest and old movies and old magazines and runway shows

and call it research because

*ZOOMS* technically it is.

Instagram and the Instagram explore page are a huge resource for trying to find your style,

but before we get any further into this section, I want to say that we are looking for style inspiration,

not a reason to hate ourselves

and those things are sometimes a fine line on Instagram.

Do I wish that I had Summer Mckeen's face and Avery's dog and Jesus' abs?

Abso-FUCKING-lutely. Don't we all?

But, me looking at a pretty girl's Instagram

and wanting my face to look like her face is not called fashion inspiration,

that's just called hating on myself for not being born with different features.

I know it can be hard sometimes but when you're looking for fashion inspiration,

try your best to separate this persona and like, the seemingly perfect life of

somebody online who's wearing it with the actual outfit and just seeing like, is that good fashion?

And would I feel confident in that outfit?

*shrug*

That's all that matters.

So obviously, Instagram is a huge source of inspiration,

both for fashion and just like, photography styles.

I really like to use my explore page,

but I know the explore page algorithm can be like, really weird for some people

you spend three hours scrolling through memes on Instagram ONE TIME

and that's your entire feed for the next like three years.

Also, just Emma Chamberlain is like, always on my explore page... I'm like: WHY?

So, if you have a screwed-up explore page, I would suggest creating a new Instagram account

that's just for fashion and inspiration and you don't look at memes on that account.

Then, on your explore page, you should just get more fashion inspiration from similar accounts

and then, you just have this endless resource for more fashion images that you might like.

I'm gonna on the screen now a bunch of my favorite Instagram accounts for inspiration

and I will also link them down below if you guys are looking for some people to follow.

You guys know I'm not a personal fan of Pinterest, but you can also look there and make your Pinterest board

or whatever the kids are doing these days. *talking as if she's a middle-aged woman*

I think Pinterest just skipped my generation, like, it's a 30 year old mom thing or a thing for 17 year olds,

and I'm just in the middle and Pinterest was not cool when I grew up.

I was a Tumblr gal personally. Tumblr is also a great resource!

Although tragically, you can no longer look at female presenting nipples,

which was really my main use for Tumblr so...

Old magazines and movies are also great resources

AND

would you believe it, physical bookstores?

If you go to the fashion section of a Barnes and Nobles,

they have the coolest coffee shop books with like, collections of fashion photography.

Recently, I found this book about all of the fashion designers that had been in movies

and like, talking about the costume design behind them and

I just like, oh, it broke my heart. It was like my two loves were colliding. It was too much for me.

So, whatever inspiration source you choose, think critically as you're looking at each of these photos.

If there's an outfit that you're not attracted to, before you scroll past it, think about, what do I like about that?

Is this neon color a little bit too loud for me, or are these barrettes a little bit too quirky and teenager-y for me?

And do I have a little bit of a mature-er style?

*questions use of english*

Do I not like this gingham in her outfit and what is wrong with me???

because gingham is the BEST print.

No, if you don't like, you know, that is fine by me (or is it).

Do as you please. *secretly judging*

Ask yourself: What about your style is different from that photo that you don't like?

And the same thing for the images that you do like.

Think about: Is this a really flattering fit on her? Do I like the color scheme in this photo?

Those are all things that can point you in the right direction towards what your style might be.

So, whatever inspiration source you choose, save up all of your photos on Instagram,

you can like, create a saved folder on Pinterest, you can do a board.

If you have magazines, you can cut out your victims and pin them to the wall

like the fashionable serial killer you are.

Point is, you want like a mood board/collection of all of your favorite outfits

so that you can zoom out beyond just one or two outfits

or one little trend and see what style are you generally drawn to.

At this point, It could go one of two ways. You have either found your perfect style.

You are perfectly drawn all to girly twirly dresses or you were perfectly drawn towards like edgy dark colors.

which might be some of you, which is incredibly lucky and then there you go. That's your style!

But for the rest of us, it's probably gonna be a mix of things, so from there,

I would suggest refining your mood board a little bit. Go through each Individual photo that you saved

or that you cut out and really ask yourself. Is this something that reflects my personality?

Is this something that I could see myself wearing? Is this something that fits into my lifestyle?

From there, you can zoom out again. See if it's a little bit more cohesive.

Like honestly though, you do not have to box yourself into one style. I've been doing this for so long,

I do not have one particular style,

but the mood board is more just to get an arrow pointing in a general direction.

Like, do you have a little bit more of a mature style? Do you have more of a trendy style?

Do you like some bold colors and patterns and silhouettes

or do you like something that's a little bit more minimalistic?

You can combine styles! Honestly, there's where you find your own style.

It's like combining all these elements from different styles that you like

and then it creates something entirely new. That's your own, and that's the whole point of this whole thing!

Now that you have your mood board and a sense of your style,

that brings me to step number three, which is buying clothes.

Ooo, this is our favorite part.

*H O N K*

Get in loser, we're going shopping.

Even though you're probably feeling real good about your new style and you want to buy a whole new wardrobe

I would recommend *p l e a s e* do not do that

Impulsively buying yourself a whole new wardrobe is how you end up with a whole wardrobe of clothes

you don't want to wear like a year down the line.

So I recommend choosing the five pieces on your mood board that appear the most often

and that you think are the most vital to your style. Before you go shopping, make sure you list out the five pieces,

attach inspo images if you want, just so when you go shopping, you don't get distracted by like

flashy, trendy, on sale items.

You are on a mission to buy the five things that you wanted from your mood board list.

Once you find those perfect five items, you can take them home,

wear them with your new wardrobe for a couple months, keep developing your mood board