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  • If you get this message, your child is in danger.


  • As any parent knows, we can't totally safeguard our teenage kids from ending up in a difficult situation they can't resolve on their own.


  • So, it's crucial for adults to be able to come to their aid as soon as possible.


  • Today, we're going to tell you about a unique, helpful method of keeping your child out of harm's way.


  • Don't forget to show this video to your little one and teach them this quick way to escape from any dangerous situation.


  • Here's an example: Your teenage kid is hanging out with bad company.


  • One day, they decide to try alcohol, or even drugs.


  • Such a situation might prove too unpredictable for your son or daughter to handle.


  • Moreover, your child most likely won't phone you for advice, for fear of looking a coward in the eyes of his or her friends.


  • And even if you call your kid to ask whether everything's alright, you'll probably get a standard reply, along the lines of, "Yeah, I'm absolutely fine!"


  • Bert Fulks, a pastor from West Virginia, has studied this teenage psychological trait to better communicate with his son, Danny.

    來自西維吉尼亞州的牧師, Bert Fulks 為了跟自己的兒子 Danny 有更好的溝通,研究了這個青少年的心理特徵。

  • As a result, Fulks invented a kind of secret code that allows his son to send his dad SOS signals without the risk of losing face with his peers.

    最後, Fulks 發明了一種密碼讓他的兒子可以在緊急狀況送出,而不會有在同儕面前丟臉的風險。

  • Fulks got this brilliant idea after talking to teens in addiction clinics across the country.

    Fulks 跟國內的勒戒診所中的青少年說話後有了這個好主意。

  • He asked each of those kids a simple question: "Have you ever found yourself in a situation where things started happening that you weren't comfortable with, but you stuck around, mainly because you felt like you didn't have a way out?"


  • All teenagers admitted having experienced such moments on many occasions, so, the pastor decided that something needed to be done to help kids, and specifically, his own son, overcome the problem.


  • Here's how Fulks himself describes his invention: "Let's say that my youngest, Danny, gets dropped off at a party."

    Fulks 是這麼介紹他的發明的:假如我最小的兒子, Danny ,被帶去了一個派對。

  • "If anything about the situation makes him uncomfortable, all he has to do is text the letter X to any of us- his mother, me, his older brother, or sister."

    如果他對這個狀況感到不舒服,他只要傳字母 X 給家中的任何一個人,媽媽,我,哥哥或姊姊。

  • The one who receives the text has a very basic script to follow.


  • Within a few minutes, they'll call Danny's phone.

    接下來的幾分鐘,他們會打給 Danny 。

  • When he answers, the conversation goes like this: "Hello?"


  • "Danny, something's come up, and I have to come get you right now."

    「 Danny ,有些事情發生了,我們現在必須去接你。」

  • "What happened?"


  • "I'll tell you when I get there. Be ready to leave in five minutes. I'm on my way."


  • At that point, Danny tells his friends that something's happened at home.

    這個時候, Danny 告訴朋友們家裡出事情了。

  • Somebody's coming to get him, and he has to leave.


  • That's it! Danny is home safe and sound.

    就這樣! Danny 平安地回家了。

  • From his friends' point of view, he didn't run away, but merely had to leave on important business.


  • This know-how not only protects your child from harm, but also helps to build trust.


  • The most important thing is to make kids realize that even if they get in trouble due to disobedience, their parents' chief priority would be not to punish, but to help.


  • Don't forget to share this video with those who have children.


  • Hit the like button below the video and click subscribe to join us on the bright side of life.

    按下影片下方的讚並訂閱我們的頻道,一起加入 bright side 。

If you get this message, your child is in danger.


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