How? 3 00:00:03.863 --> 00:00:06.610 line:15% Yes, I had already been going through enough. 4 00:00:06.610 --> 00:00:07.890 line:15% Things had taken place prior 5 00:00:07.890 --> 00:00:09.890 line:15% to the night prior to the wedding. 6 00:00:09.890 --> 00:00:12.810 line:15% First of all, my mother made me late for my wedding day. 7

We had a lot going on in that morning. 8

My mother decides to go get hair done 9

right before I had to be at the church. 10

My father was the one that had to drive me 11

to go get her. 12

So he's holding my hand while driving my vehicle 13

to go pick her up. 14

I paid for both her and my sister 15

to have their hair done. 16

She decides, even on top that, 17

to be selfish to get her hair done 18

and not my sister. 19

She takes flowers out of the bouquet 20

that I made and places it in my sister's hair 21

and calls it a hairdo. 22

Then she comes to the wedding, 23

and she decides she wants to catch 24

the Holy Ghost-- What do you mean 25

she waits 'til right before the wedding 26

to go get her hair done? 27

Like day of the wedding. 28

She was supposed to be scheduled 29

to have her hair done the day prior to the wedding. 30

I had already paid for everything. 31

The only person that should've been going 32

to see their hairdresser was me, 33

and to have my makeup and all the other touch-ups done. 34

She decides the day of that she was 35

gonna go get her hair done. That's the first 36

I'm hearing that. 37

That's the first I'm hearing this stuff here. 38

So well, is that true? 39

That's the first, no, it's not true. 40

It's not true. 41

You didn't have your hair-- No it's not true. 42

Done the day of the wedding. 43

I had my hair done the day of the wedding. 44

Me and Tiffany went together. 45

And I said-- We went together? 46

We were in there together. 47

The day before-- 48

We were in 49

the hair dresser's-- Because I got my hair done 50

for my bachelorette party. No, I remember this. 51

So I had a bachelorette party on my wedding day? 52

Tiffany, yeah, not in your wedding day. 53

You had the night before your wedding day. 54

Exactly. All right. 55

And you was supposed to have your hair done then. 56

So you were three hours late for this? 57

Yes. No she wasn't. 58

Yes, I was. No, she wasn't. 59

People were leaving the church. 60

Oh, my God, no, she wasn't. 61

We weren't that late. 62

Wow. It wasn't three hour 63

long, you. 64

Did you wear a white dress 65

to your daughter's wedding? She saw it 66

'cause I talked to her in Ross' 67

when I was picking out dresses 68

and I was sending 69

her pictures of it. Wow, wow. 70

Of that white dress. 71

So I was okay my mother wearing a white dress 72

when I'm supposed to be the only one 73

that should be wearing white? 74

I wasn't trying to upstage you. 75

I was so happy 76

and proud of you. So catching the Holy Ghost, 77

catching the Holy Ghost and shouting and falling out 78

in front of the-- Because I was singing, 79

you know what? 80

You know we raised in church. 81

So as, when I say-- You were not raised 82

in church. 83

Yes, I was. 84

Yes, I was. There's no way possible. 85

From a child up. 86

You were raised in church. 87

Okay, you-- I sure was. 88

Well, what were you doing? 89

You said she got the Holy Ghost 90

and started dancing around. 91

'Cause I'm thinking about. 92

And what were you doing at the time? 93

I was holding my husband's hand. 94

We were supposed to be starting our ceremony, 95

and I'm squeezing his hand like, 96

Lord Jesus, help me. 97

Was this during your vows? 98

Yes, this was in the middle of us, 99

we were to exchange vows. 100

So you're exchanging your vows, 101

and your mother did what? 102

She decided she wanna get up there, 103

have good things to say about me. 104

So they passed the mic around 105

right before we're about to exchange vows. 106

And she somehow, somebody thought it was a good idea 107

to pass her the mic. 108

Oh no, oh no. 109

Tiffany, the pastor said-- And what did she do 110

once she the mic? Oh my goodness. 111

She decided the first thing that I knew 112

where it was about to go left 113

was when I, she was standing behind me 114

with my bridesmaids, and she says, 115

"And this isn't gonna be a love song." 116

Well, what is it supposed to be on my wedding day? 117

So she starts singing, 118

and she gets about two words-- I sang 119

a gospel song. Into the lyrics. 120

His eyes on the sparrow. And I touched 121

everybody's heart. 122

And she starts, and then she just drops the mic. 123

"Woo, thank you, Jesus." 124

And then my dad as always comes in 125

and just takes her away, like, oh, poor Wanda. 126

Like, no, you just took 127

the light off of me. It's not poor Wanda. 128

And you deal with the mother? 129

It's because what you went through the day before. 130

That's what made me get excited. 131

This is the one that's married 132

to a man that don't deserve her. 133

You're gonna tell me what I deserve? 134

But you don't deserve him. 135

I told him that a many a time! 136

Then why didn't you leave? 137

He knows everything, sister! 138

he knows everything! He don't know. 139

Nothing has happened for a long time. 140

Okay, hold on, hold on. 141

So I'm trying to get the picture right here, and. 142

Don't do this to me! 143

Oh, I am. 144

Okay, hold on. 145

I'm sorry, I get animated. 146

I get animated, I'm sorry, Dr. Phil. 147 00:03:47.210 --> 00:03:48.560 line:15% I've noticed that.