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  • Gary: Not everybody's work ethic is the same.

  • So if you don't feel like you're up to that place right now, to run a marathon, how do

  • you start training for a marathon?

  • By running.

  • By running more, and running more.

  • Baby steps.

  • Take it as you can take it to grow, and to work those muscles, develop those muscles.

  • And if you're willing to go through the pains and the ebbs and the flows, and the new shoes

  • and the blisters and the whatever you've got to go through to get to that goal, you will

  • run that marathon.

  • Tom: Hey, [00:00:30] everybody.

  • Welcome to Impact Theory.

  • You are here, my friends, because you believe that human potential is nearly limitless,

  • but you know that having potential is not the same as actually doing something with

  • it, so our goal with this show and company is to introduce you to the people and ideas

  • that will help you actually execute on your dreams.

  • Today's guest is an award-winning rapper, actor, author, entrepreneur, and political

  • figure who's made a career out of not letting people put him in a box.

  • When everyone told him that his dream of becoming [00:01:00] the first ever Native American

  • rapper was ridiculous, instead of bowing his head and slinking away, he founded his own

  • record label and signed himself.

  • This is pre-internet, boys and girls.

  • He did not complain about not having money or connections.

  • He just got to work.

  • Over his career, he's recorded 11 albums, toured around the world, performed hundreds

  • and hundreds and hundreds of concerts, and launched a thriving clothing line along the

  • way.

  • He's also starred in feature films such as The Indian in the Cupboard, Mortal Kombat,

  • Kull the Conqueror, as well [00:01:30] as monster TV shows like House of Cards and CSI:

  • Miami.

  • An enrolled member of the Cherokee Nation and a vocal proponent and lobbyist for Native

  • American issues, he has leveraged his celebrity and talents to draw attention to the issues

  • faced by indigenous people.

  • He's testified before Congress multiple times on Native issues and proven that he's just

  • as comfortable lobbying on Capitol Hill in a business suit as he is rocking at a rap

  • video in a fitted cap and baggy pants.

  • His diverse and seemingly endless stream of accomplishments [00:02:00] is due to a relentless

  • mind set that refuses to back down from any challenge, and a deep drive to give back.

  • Those aren't just words for him, and his evidence of that; in a single year, he clocked 54,000

  • miles.

  • That's the equivalent of driving around the earth twice, criss-crossing North America,

  • to inspire people living on reservations and show them it does not matter where you start.

  • It only matters where you're willing to go.

  • So please, help me in welcoming the CEO [00:02:30] of Davis Strategy Group and the host of the

  • Litefoot show, the executive director of the Native American Financial Services Association,

  • Gary Litefoot Davis.

  • Gary: Wow.

  • Tom: How you doing?

  • Gary: Very good.

  • Good to be here.

  • Tom: It's a pleasure.

  • Gary: Awesome.

  • Tom: Thanks for coming on.

  • Gary: Absolutely.

  • Absolutely.

  • Glad to be here.

  • Tom: Dude, it's awesome to have you.

  • Hearing your story, obviously it's a very unconventional tale of success.

  • Gary: Right.

  • Tom: And it started from something pretty powerful.

  • Walk me through what happened [00:03:00] with the financial collapse for your family, what

  • that led to, and what your parents taught you through that hard times is pretty amazing.

  • Gary: Yeah, I had grown up with a father that had shown me, a grandfather that had also

  • shown me hard work; and that through hard work, we can accomplish providing for our

  • family, if nothing else.

  • That we can show them that maybe we didn't have these things when we grew up, but we

  • [00:03:30] can give back if we just get a very clear-cut idea of what we can do, however

  • small that it might be to make an impact.

  • For my grandfather, it was way tougher.

  • He had a way tougher start in school, had run away from a very well-known Indian boarding

  • school in Oklahoma and hitchhiked back all the way with his little brother to Claremore,

  • Oklahoma.

  • Right outside of Claremore, Oklahoma.

  • [00:04:00] He, his whole life, taught himself resiliency and showed us resiliency; that

  • you can do things that will help motivate other people, and my father was the beneficiary

  • of that.

  • He saw that it was possible to be an entrepreneur, and then myself, I would see both of these

  • guys.

  • My grandfather at that point, very well along in his years, getting up every morning and

  • going to work at 4:00 in the morning- Tom: Wow.

  • Gary: ... in very hot Oklahoma weather in the summer, then coming home and working [00:04:30]

  • all evening in the garden, and I couldn't get enough of that.

  • I wanted to be around him as much as I possibly could.

  • Then my father, seeing him do everything that he needed to do, even if it meant taking it

  • into his own hands to get it done, and just me through osmosis absorbing all of this and

  • seeing these two men do very, very great things for our family.

  • And then in a turn of events, we lost everything.

  • It [00:05:00] was pretty devastating.

  • We went from having a decent sort of middle-class life to really having to lose our home and

  • end up living with my grandparents, and the burden that that put on them, and then I had

  • to sort of forgo school for a year to get out of that and go work.

  • Not that they forced me to do that; I just feel like, look, these guys have a load on

  • them, and what can I do to help?

  • So I went and got a job, and tried [00:05:30] to contribute the best that I could with my

  • paycheck to provide groceries and food.

  • I just probably didn't realize it then, but I was building this feeling that I need to

  • do as much as I possibly can so that we never have to go through this situation again, so

  • that as an adult, things will be different for me.

  • I was fighting, and I was fighting to try to make sure that I kept moving forward.

  • And I realized that if it was going to happen for me, [00:06:00] I probably was going to

  • have to make it happen.

  • That there was going to be no way that somebody's going to swoop in and just put it in my lap,

  • and that it was just all going to be there for me.

  • Tom: When did you start thinking that?

  • 'Cause that's a pretty incredible moment of awakening that shuts most people down.

  • Gary: Right.

  • Tom: But it definitely didn't shut you down, so at what age do you start actually thinking

  • in that way?

  • Gary: Around that time that things started to fall apart with my parents' marriage.

  • Even in high school, there was this sort of guy [00:06:30] that was the it guy on the

  • team, and one other guy that his father had built the stadium, so he was going to play,

  • regardless of what happened and regardless of how good he was, so I started to learn

  • these lessons; that it's not always about how good you are or how talented you are.

  • You have to work 10 times as hard to cut through some of this.

  • And as I was going through this, I lost my grandparents.

  • Both of them, within a very short period of time.

  • So here I am, I think sort of being forged in the flames [00:07:00] to realize that you

  • really can depend on yourself.

  • You of course have to have many great people around you, but I knew that if it was going

  • to happen for me, I had to keep moving forward.

  • And maybe that was a stumble.

  • Maybe it was a crawl.

  • Maybe it was just barely trying to put one thing in front of the other during that time,

  • but I kept pushing forward.

  • I kept moving forward, and I think that's one of the lessons I still carry forward with

  • me to this day.

  • When I see things getting tough, or when I see things that seem insurmountable to other

  • people, [00:07:30] I know we just have to stay the course.

  • We have to stay focused, and we keep putting one foot in front of the other.

  • The key is to keep moving.

  • That's something that I think really was that turning point for me.

  • Tom: But there were people that had that same belief, but they didn't make it.

  • So what is it that people can cultivate, like right now, the kid that's listening to you

  • that for whatever reason, whether he's Native American or not, he's being told the same

  • thing.

  • Whatever you want to do, it's ridiculous.

  • What can they do to make sure they've got the fortitude to last through the whole [00:08:00]

  • Rez tour ... How do you build that in yourself?

  • Gary: Every experience that comes your way is a tool.

  • When we lost our home, and we had to go live with my grandparents, I understand that these

  • are just material things.

  • That that doesn't define you.

  • It doesn't make you.

  • So when you get these challenges, when you have these things that come up in your life,

  • continue to move forward.

  • Now, how do you get to that place where you come back and move forward, and that you [00:08:30]

  • become very intentional about it?

  • I just did one of our footnotes that's sort of a daily motivational inspirational thing

  • about baby steps.

  • Baby steps.

  • Become intentional about what it is that you're going to do.

  • Nobody in your family may have done that.

  • Nobody in your community, your city, your country may have done that.

  • But if that's what's been put here for you, take it in baby steps.

  • Begin to see how that you're going to move forward.

  • It's exactly what I did once I came and understood my purpose, and I understood what it is that

  • I was supposed to be doing.

  • I sat down and created [00:09:00] a plan as to how I was going to go about deploying that.

  • And I think that's what you really have to do, and take it in baby steps.

  • Don't try to do the whole thing at once.

  • Sit it down, look at it, break it down, rebuild it, put it back together, and then assign

  • timeframes to everything that you want to accomplish, and break it down in phases.

  • And then focus everything you have on that phase.

  • Tom: How do you do that, by the way?

  • I heard you say this in probably the footnote you're talking about, where you said, "Okay,

  • I start with where I'm trying to get.

  • This is my goal.

  • And then I work backwards to where I am today."

  • Gary: Right.

  • Tom: "And [00:09:30] I identify each of those baby steps that I have to take."

  • How do you do that process?

  • This is a question I get asked a lot, because I'm totally with you; that's exactly what

  • I do.

  • But I'm not sure how to explain that in between.

  • How do you get good at identifying the real, tangible steps?

  • Gary: We only know what we know right now about what we want to do, right?

  • There could be things out there that will be so much more awesome, but we just don't

  • know what we don't know.

  • Tom: Right.

  • Gary: And to the best of our ability, what we can say is, [00:10:00] here's where I am

  • right now.

  • I can put a weight point right there.

  • I can mark that.

  • And I know that I want to do X.

  • And this is that thing.

  • So if I'm going to step back, now what I've got to do is go to work.

  • I've got to study every single bit of that, and understand every iteration.

  • If it's to make an album, what are all the steps in making an album?

  • From content creation to music production to mastering to editing to recording the record,

  • what are all the [00:10:30] business aspects of things that go into that?

  • Who do I need to sing on all these 10 songs?

  • How many are going to have a chorus that somebody sings?

  • How many ... So I start to understand what I have to do, and what I'm going to need other

  • people to do.

  • And then I start to think, okay, well, what's the money going to be?

  • How much do I have to put from a money point of view into each phase?

  • Each phase has a capital raise that I have to ascertain all of these other things, but

  • what am I going to do to have to put into this to make it become a reality?

  • And so that's where I'm focused on.

  • Once I hone in on all of these things, yes, it's to [00:11:00] be on tour with somebody,

  • right?

  • But first, I have to have a record.

  • I have to have an album.

  • Tom: And do you model after somebody?

  • If you're trying to do an album, do you find somebody that you can feta lot of information

  • from and then copy that as a starting point, or how do you do that process?

  • Gary: I think every successful person always looks at other successful people, especially

  • in their field or a field they're endeavoring to get into.

  • Why fix it if it's not broke?

  • You just have to find your piece of it that you bring [00:11:30] to make it you.

  • But if they're doing it and they're doing it incredibly well, sit back and look at it

  • and find all the ways that you can take that great model, fix it where you feel like it

  • needs to be fixed, make it you, and then can you add to it?

  • Can you put something on top of it?

  • And then you take that and really, that's when you start to really do the work and sit

  • down and study each piece of it, and then you assign the time frames.

  • I think the time frames, the timelines are the critical piece to it.

  • Because [00:12:00] that's where so many people go from just having a hobby or a dream, and

  • I'm sure many people understand that dreams are tough.

  • Because without a timeframe, a timeline, they may just stay dreams.

  • When you assign a timeframe and a plan of action to it, it can become a goal, and then

  • it can become attainable.

  • And I think that's what you have to do, and it makes it very present then.

  • You have your work cut out for you.

  • You know what you need to do, and [00:12:30] now it's just about doing it.

  • So you execute- Tom: Do you set really aggressive timelines,

  • or how do you decide your timeline?

  • Gary: Very aggressive.

  • Very aggressive.

  • I guess it would be that old adage, shoot for the stars and if you fail, at least you're

  • in the clouds, right?

  • Tom: Right.

  • Gary: I remember somebody telling me when we were choreographing some of my first songs,

  • just whatever you do, don't stop.

  • Because more than 99% assuredness, nobody's going to know it was a screw- [00:13:00] up

  • unless you stop.

  • If you keep moving, everybody's going to think that's just ... You know, own it.

  • If you were supposed to go right and you go left, then the minute that you realize, oh

  • my god, I just went left, what am I going to do?

  • Go to the crowd and start dancing to the crowd or ... They're never going to know that it

  • was a mess-up.

  • So yes, you have to improvise.

  • You have to adapt.

  • You have to overcome.

  • You have to be like water, the great Bruce Lee saying that you have to be able to [00:13:30]

  • conform yourself to those situations so that you ever don't do yourself a disservice by

  • not growing and not becoming better.

  • You have to be able to be malleable.

  • And I think that's the greatest thing about being shaped and having been to that place.

  • You know it may cause you to go through some growing pains, but that's awesome.

  • First when you go through that, you're just, oh my god, this hurts, I don't want to be

  • here, oh, it hurts.

  • And complain, complain, complain.

  • But if you start to look at it once you've got through it a couple times, you're like,

  • well, here we go.

  • This is probably [00:14:00] going to be pretty good.

  • Ow, but this is going to be awesome.

  • Ow, man, this really hurts.

  • So if it's really hurting, I know it's really going to be good on the other side of it.

  • And you just see yourself grow, and you grow, and you grow, and you grow.

  • And I think that's how you get from rapping to a small group of people and then speaking

  • to larger audiences, and testifying to Congress.

  • Tom: Wow.

  • Yeah, it is pretty unbelievable, the chasm that you've crossed.

  • In fact, walk us through a little bit of that.

  • Who are some of the performers that you modeled yourself after, [00:14:30] you feel like you've

  • learned a lot from, and what have you learned?

  • Gary: I would be remiss if I don't first go right to Michael Jackson.

  • He's the man, and he was a master.

  • There will be never another Michael Jackson.

  • He just was all it.

  • When you get into hip-hop, so many folks influence me, from very early on.

  • [00:15:00] And then I remember all the way forward into folks that really started taking

  • it into the mainstream; folks that were really ridiculed.

  • That were berated for their commercial success.

  • MC Hammer- Tom: Yes.

  • Gary: ... was just ostracized, because he got a British Knights shoe deal and he was

  • a sellout.

  • Now, you can't find a rapper that doesn't want a shoe deal.

  • Tom: Yeah, they're rushing to it.

  • Gary: No, and you can't find a record label that's not factored in a shoe deal, a clothing

  • deal, a movie deal, a commercial [00:15:30] deal, a Sprite deal, something deal to promote

  • a product or a brand, and it's just part of what it is.

  • So it's very accepted today.

  • But I also looked at the people that hung onto these people and milked them dry of all

  • their money, and coming from the hood or coming from your struggle, and everybody that ... And

  • I, to my degree, experienced some of that, too, so it helped me as I was watching other

  • people and again, modeling.

  • Some of the mistakes, some of the things that they did do, didn't do.

  • Getting into the problems with your money, in general.

  • [00:16:00] And so, long story short, just looking at the things that Public Enemy was

  • saying.

  • Things that- Tom: From a political activist standpoint?

  • 'Cause your lyrics are very political.

  • Gary: Very much so.

  • Tom: In fact, people were calling you militant, if I'm not mistaken.

  • Gary: Early.

  • Tom: When you first came out.

  • Gary: Early.

  • Now they're just like, "Wow, that's so awesome."

  • And grandmas are like, "This is so awesome."

  • Like, man, I wish you would have said something when people were calling me militant and an

  • activist and all of this stuff.

  • I didn't feel like it was militant.

  • And I say that ... [00:16:30] My stuff was at least even with some of the concepts and

  • things that Public Enemy was talking about, or X Clan, or some of these old-school groups

  • that Professor X and all these guys and S1Ws and everybody that was down with Public Enemy.

  • So, you know, it was trying to really, with my music, give folks [00:17:00] some pride,

  • some understanding, to remove some of the oppression.

  • I think still to this day, we suffer from an intense amount of fear that I think is

  • just genetically, and through years of oppression, built into our community.

  • So people are very hesitant to do anything outside of the box, because every time we've

  • done that, we've felt the wrath and the power of the government.

  • It's very tough.

  • Again, you only know what you know, right?

  • So some of my lyrics were very, very cut to the point, and [00:17:30] get right to it.

  • Because at the same time I was writing these things, I was having grandmas crying.

  • I was out in their community, seeing how people were living.

  • Not just in my community, and not just the struggles that my family was having, but I

  • was everywhere, constantly, in the community for years and years and years.

  • Just from one reservation to the next reservation.

  • It would be nothing to be in three or four reservations within 10 days.

  • And we're doing this every year for years.

  • So you can't help but absorb the struggle of [00:18:00] everyone.

  • Tom: What does it mean to you ... You've got a really powerful saying, "We are the people

  • we've been waiting for."

  • Gary: Right.

  • Tom: What does that mean, what do you hope people do with that?

  • Gary: There's a prophecy that our ancestors will return one day, and so you kind of take

  • that at face value, and you sort of think, okay, what does that mean?

  • We're going to see a bunch of spirits rolling up?

  • They're all, "Oh, hey, I haven't seen you in forever."

  • I don't think it means that.

  • I think that [00:18:30] everything that has been done before us is a part of us, and so

  • it's equally as important that we do everything that we possibly can with our life for everything

  • that they did for us before we were even born.

  • And I think that makes it even more powerful when you think of ... We can't depend on other

  • people.

  • That's been my through line, is I've never understood how you can be independently co-dependent.

  • You either can be independent and stand on your own two feet and know who you are and

  • [00:19:00] what you're here for, and in the tough times, when everything is pulling you

  • to do something that maybe just go with the flow, that's the moment you have to be the

  • flow.

  • And it may run in the opposite direction of the current that's asking you to jump in.

  • Tom: You talked about that with your dad.

  • You said, "One thing that I learned from my dad was never be afraid to stand alone."

  • Or maybe even be the lone wolf, I don't know, I might be painting that on it, but that was

  • the image that I had.

  • Gary: I think you could assign both of those things to him.

  • Tom: Yeah?

  • What [00:19:30] does that mean?

  • How have you manifest that in your own life?

  • You seem the absolute embodiment of that, right?

  • Being the first Native American rapper when everybody not only is just going to obviously

  • tell you that it can't be done, 'cause that's where people always start, but this is also

  • at a time where you would be the only person who isn't African-American being taken seriously,

  • with minor exceptions.

  • So how have you, in your life, been not afraid to stand alone?

  • [00:20:00] How has it served you?

  • Looking at you self-published your book, you created your own record label to sign yourself

  • ... How has it worked for you, what are lessons that you hope people will take from that?

  • Gary: It can be a very lonely journey, so you absolutely have to know where you get

  • your strength.

  • I remember walking on the set of Indian in the Cupboard, has never had a acting class

  • in my life.

  • It started to dawn on me, and it becomes pretty big.

  • [00:20:30] You're like, I'm the Indian in the Indian in the Cupboard, and this is already

  • a classic book.

  • This is a huge production.

  • Frank Oz, Industrial Light and Magic, Paramount Pictures, Sony Studios, and I'm like, does

  • anybody know I don't know what the hell I'm doing, man?

  • And I went in the sound stage, and I was ... First day of filming.

  • And I found this quiet place over off of the set, and I just went down on one knee and

  • I just asked the [00:21:00] creator to give me everything that I needed to do what's in

  • front of me.

  • Not everybody's work ethic is the same.

  • So if you don't feel like you're up to that place right now, to run a marathon, how do

  • you start training for a marathon?

  • By running.

  • By running more, and running more.

  • Baby steps.

  • Take it as you can take it to grow, and to work those muscles, develop those muscles.

  • And if you're willing to go through the pains and the ebbs and the flows, and the new shoes

  • and the blisters and the whatever you've got to go through to get to that goal, you will

  • run that marathon.

  • [00:21:30] You speak about the people on the tour that couldn't make it through.

  • Here, we are very focused of all the people that we left to go on that journey with.

  • Only my wife, my son, myself, our documentary film director, and one person made it from

  • beginning to end.

  • There was literally a time where there was somebody complaining on the tour, and I'll

  • never forget this in my whole life.

  • [00:22:00] We were almost through I think probably midway, and this really big guy,

  • and he was hungry, right?

  • And we hadn't had a chance to really eat well that day, but we were on our way to it.

  • And he was complaining about not wanting to go anymore, because he wanted to eat now.

  • Tom: Right.

  • Gary: So my wife went over ... Now, you've got to imagine.

  • This is a F-550, really large Ford pickup truck, and a big, huge, long 48 foot trailer.

  • So [00:22:30] it's pretty big tandem.

  • And she walks over and she says, "Can I have your car keys?"

  • And he says, "For what?"

  • She's like, "Why don't you go get in and sit down and I'll drive?"

  • And he just shut up.

  • That was it.

  • He said, "All right, so ..." And he just turned around and went and got in, started the car,

  • and we were ready to go.

  • But I think you have to lead.

  • You have to be willing to lead.

  • If you're not, nobody will follow that.

  • And in the moments where it's [00:23:00] most stressful, if you don't know where you're

  • headed, if you don't know what you're supposed to be doing, nobody else will either.

  • And you have to be able to stay that course and be willing to do what you need to do.

  • There were times where the bus driver that we had ... We're thinking, okay, this is already

  • hard enough on everything else we got to do.

  • He didn't make it probably ... I would say he didn't make it 5,000, 3,000 miles of that

  • 54.

  • So I learned how to drive a tour bus.

  • Tom: Just to paint the picture for people, the reason [00:23:30] that people are dropping

  • off is because you're having to drive through the night, you're doing multiple shows in

  • one day.

  • There's just no rest for guys to do the 211 shows, meetings ...

  • Gary: Speeches.

  • Tom: In the single year, with as much driving as you guys have to do.

  • Gary: Right.

  • Tom: When you said that it was the equivalent of twice around the earth, you really get

  • a sense of how far you guys are going in such a short period of time.

  • It was really quite inhuman, frankly, [00:24:00] and what I loved is I heard you guys talking

  • in another interview where your wife said, "I wasn't trying to check the guy," when she

  • took his keys.

  • "I wasn't trying to check him or get in his face about it."

  • And the interviewer said, "Sometimes that's the best way to check somebody."

  • It's your point about leadership.

  • You lead by example.

  • It's not like you're trying to make some big statement.

  • It's just, well, in my world view, we are getting there.

  • It's not even an option to not go.

  • So once you take that off the table, we'll eat when we eat.

  • No judgment, right?

  • But I am going to take the [00:24:30] keys and I'm going to drive.

  • And that's one of the things that I find so fascinating about your story.

  • And one thing, reading your book, that really hit me was when you were talking about your

  • mom.

  • And she goes from the nice middle class existence to being the peer of everybody.

  • You guys lose everything.

  • She doesn't miss a beat, and she starts working as a maid for some of, essentially, her former

  • peers.

  • And she told you, "Never be afraid to start over."

  • Gary: Right.

  • Tom: I don't even know [00:25:00] your mom, and that hit me.

  • I can only imagine what you took from that.

  • How has that echoed through your life?

  • Gary: She led by example.

  • I really believe what they did in their lives.

  • My father, his work ethic, my mother's resiliency ... I'm the beneficiary of all those things.

  • I stand on their shoulders.

  • Therefore, I can't be anything less than that.

  • You talk about [00:25:30] the inhumane nature of this tour, this effort.

  • The situation out on the reservation is that crazy.

  • It's that unknown to people, how horrible the conditions are.

  • Here in America.

  • And how under the radar it is, almost for everybody.

  • The anomaly that it is for almost everybody.

  • How hard ... Maybe it's almost akin to standing on a [00:26:00]

  • island where you're the only inhabitant wanting to be rescued, or wanting somebody to come

  • down and provide some assistance, and you keep seeing ... It's an island next to an

  • airport.

  • You know?

  • Everybody sees you, must be.

  • But nobody's going to come down and do anything about it.

  • And yet, at the same time, you see all of this going out to all of these other countries,

  • and we're doing everything for everybody else.

  • Is it intentional?

  • This must be intentional.

  • People must intentionally not be looking down to see that, because it's right here.

  • So [00:26:30] the tour was an effort to draw over and above and beyond the attention, not

  • just from outside of Indian country, but for Indian country, again, leading through example.

  • I'm going to make this an example of if some folks ... I'm not a tribe.

  • I don't have all that funding, I don't have all of these things.

  • But if a couple, their family can go out and garner enough support to be able to execute

  • and deploy and logistically [00:27:00] do this whole effort, what is our bigger excuse

  • to not do this?

  • If a few people can make this happen, collectively, what could we do?

  • And it was to really say that as well.

  • And in order to say that, you had to be willing to do more.

  • You had to be willing to take a stand and make a difference almost on an epic scale,

  • just sometimes to get people's attention.

  • And I think that's really what it was about.

  • But going back, again, to do something like that, to have the [00:27:30] resiliency to

  • believe in yourself.

  • Going to see my mom at a home where she was cleaning a toilet, to know that when I was

  • going to school, she was cleaning those toilets to help pay the tuition for me to be able

  • to go, and a lot of the kids there's parents were doctors or ... Because she wanted me

  • to have a better education.

  • She wanted me to have a better chance.

  • And also, the things that I would have to [00:28:00] do every Saturday to go work at

  • this lady's house that helped pay the other part of my tuition.

  • I learned nothing's free.

  • Everything has a price, one way or the other, that you have to pay for it.

  • Understanding that early on, and coming to terms with that helped me, I think, navigate

  • my journey.

  • Tom: You talk a lot about self-belief.

  • How can people cultivate that?

  • Gary: [00:28:30] You know, it's interesting you say that because literally, one of the

  • issues that I think that we're dealing with more in Indian country right now than ever

  • before is knowing our value.

  • Knowing our worth.

  • If you don't love you, you can't love anybody else.

  • If you don't appreciate you, it's impossible to appreciate anybody.

  • If you don't respect yourself, it's impossible to respect somebody else.

  • And if you are absorbed [00:29:00] with that, really what it is is hatred of self.

  • And however you got there, through trauma or oppression or genetic historical trauma,

  • it becomes a situation that can be so devastating.

  • Not just in the lives of individuals, but in communities.

  • We have that trauma, absolutely.

  • One of the biggest challenges right [00:29:30] now for us to really stand up and come together

  • as a community, I believe, is the need for our people to realize their purpose and their

  • value, and to come to terms with who we are, and the beauty of our culture, and the beauty

  • of the life that we have.

  • That self-worth manifests and grows, and I think it's very contagious.

  • And that's one of the things that sometimes people say, "These are just words," or, "These

  • are just things that you're saying," and don't put a very high price [00:30:00] on motivation

  • or inspiration.

  • But if you don't have hope, if you don't believe that there's possibility for you, then you

  • do start to understand why we have the highest rates of suicide.

  • Why we have the highest high school dropout rates, the lowest college attendance ... I

  • think right now, we have less than 1,000 tribally enrolled attorneys.

  • Right now, in 2017, in the United States.

  • I think we have [00:30:30] less than 250 certified public accountants that are enrolled tribal

  • members.

  • Look at the doctors.

  • The whole scope begins to be almost unattainable.

  • Tom: I know you and your wife have started talking about actually getting into filmmaking,

  • being on the other side to tell stories.

  • When I put that in conjunction with helping anybody, but Native Americans specifically,

  • see a sense of self-worth, get a picture of what's possible; one, why [00:31:00] do you

  • think that filmmaking will be effective, which is something my entire life is built around?

  • Gary: Right.

  • Tom: And then, two, what are the kinds of stories ... I know some of it is, we just

  • want them to see people playing normal roles.

  • A dad, regardless of that fact that he's a Native American.

  • Gary: Absolutely.

  • Tom: But what's that other thing?

  • You talk a lot about the warrior spirit.

  • Are there stories that you want to tell people that impart a certain life code that you want

  • people to internalize?

  • Gary: I think [00:31:30] sharing stories of course in our culture is how things were passed

  • down, how historical events were passed down, how we learned from each other.

  • My grandfather talking to me every day in the garden when I was working with him is

  • how I learned a lot about who I am today, and who he was, and who he is.

  • I think when we look at these mediums that are more accessible and more viable than they've

  • ever been before, with access to reaching people, we have to be out there telling our

  • story.

  • We can't let other people tell [00:32:00] our story for us, and continue to not have

  • the ownership of who we are.

  • I think we just have to do that.

  • Again, hopefully that's leading my example, because we don't have all the access in the

  • world to doing these things, but I know that it's meaningful.

  • So at the end of the day, we start with is it meaningful?

  • Absolutely that's meaningful.

  • The power of our people seeing somebody on TV, on film, playing [00:32:30] a role that

  • is just a person.

  • That's just a story that they see that's there, the power of that can impact and change folks'

  • whole idea of what is possible.

  • Tom: You've got such a big mission in front of you, and it's really amazing, and you've

  • clearly got the willingness to put in all the hard work, but how do you think about

  • failure?

  • What do you teach your kids about failure?

  • Do you see it as a teaching mechanism, something to be afraid of?

  • How do you conceptualize of that in your life?

  • Gary: [00:33:00] Failures are our greatest teachers.

  • I don't think anybody that's ever endeavored to ever do anything didn't fail at some point

  • in some aspect of what they were trying to do.

  • We learn from it and we move forward.

  • Tom: How do you keep it so ... Your dad used to say that one of the things he'd gotten

  • good at and he wanted you to get good at was not letting the energy of a negative situation

  • or confrontation to carry you away.

  • [00:33:30] So how do people in that moment of failure, which is usually really embarrassing

  • ... And when you're failing, all the talk in the world, if you're caught up in the energy,

  • it sucks so much.

  • People just want to turn and run in the opposite direction.

  • So how did you learn not to get caught up in that energy?

  • Gary: We're people, and we feel how people feel.

  • Meaning, it hurts when people say bad things about us.

  • It doesn't feel good [00:34:00] when people don't believe in you.

  • My dad always told me, "If something ever doesn't go the way that you planned and you

  • find yourself in that situation, don't panic.

  • The most important thing you can do is stay calm.

  • Stay present."

  • And I've always sort of likened ... I can't remember which ... I think it was a Vietnam

  • war film or some other film that I was watching one time, and this sergeant stood right up

  • in the middle of this battle, and bullets are hitting branches and knocking trees down,

  • you [00:34:30] can hear them zipping by.

  • And he stands up, and he says, "Hey, go over there.

  • Move up.

  • You, you need to watch right over there."

  • The presence amidst all the chaos and destruction and calamity was what saved all of their lives.

  • And I think that presence of mind, and that being able to be calm, that you've laid a

  • plan out, that you've done what you've done that got you to this point ... If [00:35:00]

  • something comes up that you didn't expect of that you didn't know was going to come,

  • your plan's not bad.

  • It got you to where you are.

  • Right now, you have to deal with what's in front of you.

  • That doesn't mean run away.

  • Doesn't mean stop and don't do anything.

  • It means deal with it.

  • Deal with what's in front of you.

  • Move through it, move around it, move over it, move under it, but keep moving forward.

  • Rectify the situation.

  • Regroup and go.

  • Tom: I've got a somewhat ridiculous way of practicing this, 'cause I'm such a huge believer

  • that you have to learn how to do that, because [00:35:30] I think naturally, you're saying

  • we're people, right?

  • Naturally, I think people just kick over into the sympathetic nervous system fight or flight,

  • they freeze, blood is literally leaving their prefrontal cortex, they're not able to process

  • things.

  • Gary: Right.

  • Tom: So I started playing first-person shooter video games as a way to practice, 'cause on

  • the other end of that computer is a 14 year old who wants to say horrible things about

  • my mother.

  • Gary: Right.

  • Tom: And I've got to, in that moment, learn how to just literally [00:36:00] not get caught

  • up in the emotion.

  • Literally, not get caught up in the emotion.

  • Lower my heart rate, slow my breathing, find that calm in the center of that storm.

  • In that moment, you have to go the opposite way of what your body's telling you.

  • Gary: Right.

  • Tom: And you're learning to go the opposite way.

  • So whether it's everything's heightened, you're panicking ... Dude, I can't imagine testifying

  • before Congress.

  • I've worked pretty hard not to get pretty nervous.

  • That would freak me out.

  • So your body wants to amp up, right?

  • [00:36:30] And you've got to find a way to bring it back down.

  • Gary: Right.

  • Tom: So I'm looking at your son over there, and I'm thinking, what are you telling him

  • to do to practice that?

  • Is it, hey, life is going to present that, and in that moment, don't think of it as a

  • performance?

  • Or are there situations that you try to put him in where he can practice going the opposite

  • way of what his buddy wants?

  • How does he prepare now for what will happen tomorrow?

  • Gary: As you were talking, one of the things my mom [00:37:00] used to tell me also was,

  • "Run to the roar."

  • Tom: I love that.

  • Gary: "Run to the roar."

  • Tom: I love that that came from your mom.

  • That's something you'd expect from a father.

  • Gary: Yeah, no.

  • She was very ... She would sit me down and she would talk to me about this, and she would

  • say, "There's always going to be hard times.

  • You just have to have belief in that where you are is [00:37:30] where you're supposed

  • to be.

  • By moving forward, the strength of your faith will unleash the power of the creator in your

  • life."

  • I've seen that happen so many different times.

  • I keep going back to it.

  • When you see that happen, when you see a man go out and talk to a storm and the storm goes

  • away, you can't un-see that.

  • You can't un-know that.

  • Tom: What's something about [00:38:00] entrepreneurship that you want to teach people?

  • 'Cause, man, it's so clear hearing the way that you talk that there's so much entrepreneurial

  • thinking woven through the way that you see the world, the way that you approach things.

  • Gary: Absolutely.

  • Tom: What do you think people would benefit from learning or understanding about being

  • a real entrepreneur?

  • Gary: It's the most rewarding, hardest, [00:38:30] most beautiful, liberating journey you'll

  • ever go on.

  • I don't know of anything much more fulfilling than to see a possibility or an opportunity

  • when nobody else sees it, maybe, or see a piece of it that's already existent and say,

  • "Wow.

  • I could do that."

  • And then take that and breathe life into it through your hard work, your efforts, your

  • [00:39:00] passion.

  • And see it not only help you, but help other people.

  • There is nothing.

  • There is nothing I can think of that's more rewarding than that.

  • Every time somebody says to me, "When you came here on tour, I was thinking about killing

  • myself, and when I heard what you said, it changed my life."

  • Every bit of being day one, doing anything I was doing, that led me ultimately to impact

  • that person's life.

  • [00:39:30] Everything has been worth it.

  • The fact that there's kids in Germany that listen to my music and learn about Indian

  • people, everything has been worth it.

  • I guess that's the most beautiful thing, is that when you have the ability to do something

  • that maybe other people haven't ever identified as a tangible, and you can help people see

  • that, and then glean from it what it means to them, that's just the ultimate end result

  • for me.

  • Tom: What are a few tools [00:40:00] that you think will universally prepare people

  • to actually be an entrepreneur?

  • To not just talk about it, not just have the dream, like you're saying.

  • What are some tools that people need to cultivate?

  • Gary: Planning.

  • Planning, I think absolutely.

  • Your confidence.

  • Whatever you've got to do to really continue to build your confidence and continue to craft

  • the value that you bring to the table.

  • Tom: Where do you think confidence comes from?

  • Gary: I think confidence comes from [00:40:30] doing, trying, failing, correcting, and then

  • doing, trying, failing, correcting, doing, trying, failing ... Or, if it's not your own

  • journey, hopefully it's not, doing your work enough to look at what you're going to get

  • involved in or people around you and identifying where other people are having a hard time,

  • and correcting off of their mistakes.

  • You don't wish anybody bad and you don't want to see anybody fail, but if you can look at

  • that situation and say, "Wow, I know [00:41:00] that when I do X, I need to be prepared to

  • move right and take two steps forward.

  • Let me file that one."

  • So being aware.

  • Being aware of whatever it is that you're going to get into, or whatever is passionate

  • about you.

  • But I think that you really have to understand that if it's your dream, and that you're moving

  • forward to accomplish your dream, don't let anyone ever take that from you.

  • Don't let anyone kill your passion about what it is that you feel innately is what you're

  • supposed to do, what your journey is.

  • That's yours.

  • That's [00:41:30] almost been ordained to you, specifically, uniquely, that you may

  • be the one person that's able to move that forward.

  • Don't let anybody rob you of that.

  • And it's going to happen.

  • People are going to doubt you, people are going to ... As you had mentioned, there's

  • going to be people that just don't see it.

  • They just don't get it.

  • And it sucks.

  • It's hard to maintain that excitement.

  • I think the other thing right there in that window is absolutely [00:42:00] be about it

  • if you expect other people to be about it.

  • If you want people to be 100% excited, understand you got to be 150% excited about it.

  • Tom: Yeah.

  • Gary: Nobody is ever going to be more excited about what you're doing than you, so you better

  • be on fire about it.

  • If you walk in with your head down or you don't feel that this is something that you

  • really, at the core of your being, believe in; then you're not ready to walk in there

  • yet.

  • Don't go until you know it better than no one else.

  • That you know [00:42:30] it better than anybody else on this earth.

  • That's vital.

  • You have to know what you're doing.

  • You have to know every bit of it to the best of your ability, so that you can talk about

  • it.

  • Because the minute they see you flinch, the minute that they see you not know or you start

  • to make it up as you go, I think that's where people start to lose confidence.

  • Who you are, what you're about, what you're talking about.

  • You have to be able to walk in and I think that all comes with knowing your service,

  • your product, what it is that you're doing, your story better than anybody [00:43:00]

  • else could ever tell it, and being on fire about it.

  • You don't have to ... If it's really your passion, it's really that, it's just going

  • to come out of you.

  • But a lot of people maybe have to work on that skill more than other people, right?

  • And I think that get in the mirror, get your wife, get your uncle, get anybody that'll

  • let you listen, that'll let you talk to them and listen, and maybe he'll tell you, "Hey,

  • look, I didn't really believe that too much."

  • "Where did you stop believing me?

  • What did I not communicate enough?"

  • [00:43:30] And just go through the iterations.

  • Do the work.

  • Practice whatever it is that you've got that you want to communicate to folks.

  • Communication, I think back about what my dad said, and I said that earlier, "Be able

  • to speak.

  • Be able to know what you're trying to say."

  • And if you can communicate to people, if you can speak and talk about your idea, that's

  • the key to it all.

  • You've got to be able to express, and I think there's so many things people will find as

  • they begin that journey [00:44:00] that they didn't even know they had.

  • But you got to take one step, and I think that's where people fail, is they don't start.

  • Tom: Wow.

  • Yes.

  • That, I will agree with you on.

  • What would you say ... I love when people have kids, 'cause it really clarifies what

  • their beliefs are.

  • What would you say if your son came to you and said, "I just don't know how to start."

  • Gary: If my son came to me and said, "I don't know how to start," I would say to him, "Do

  • you really believe [00:44:30] in what it is that you're trying to start to do?"

  • Tom: Yes.

  • Gary: You got to start there; do you believe in it?

  • Do you know why you're doing it?

  • Does it have purpose and meaningfulness to you?

  • Because if he's saying he can't attach to it or he can't find the place to move forward,

  • to me, he hasn't found the thing yet.

  • I would encourage him to keep looking and searching for it.

  • Tom: Before I ask my last question, where can these guys find you online?

  • Gary: [00:45:00] They can find us online at litefoot, l-i-t-e-f-o-o-t.com.

  • And of course, all the social media, Facebook, Instagram.

  • My wife would kill me if I don't say Snapchat.

  • I do my best on Snapchat.

  • But yeah.

  • Twitter, everything.

  • So yeah.

  • YouTube, I'd be remiss if I didn't say YouTube, right?

  • Tom: Yes, true.

  • Gary: Youtube.com/litefoot.

  • Tom: I've rocked many of your YouTube videos.

  • Gary: Yes, sir.

  • Tom: [00:45:30] So what's the impact that you want to have on the world?

  • Gary: The impact that I want to have on the world would be for people to understand that

  • their life is not a mistake.

  • That their life isn't just because.

  • That they've been put here for a reason, that we're all here for a purpose.

  • None of us were put here to do nothing.

  • And I would never want to see anybody come here for the window of time that we're here,

  • [00:46:00] which ultimately is very short no matter how long we live, and not find that.

  • Because really, for me, life is contained within that.

  • Living is contained within that.

  • And through that, I would want them to understand that we're here to live, not survive.

  • I think too many people survive every single day, and not enough of us live.

  • And I wouldn't want [00:46:30] anybody to come here and do an 80 year bid and just survive.

  • We should all spend every second that we possibly can living.

  • Tom: Thank you so much for being on the show.

  • That was amazing.

  • Gary: Thank you.

  • Thank you.

  • Tom: Guys, you want to talk about somebody that has definitely lived their life?

  • In however much time this man ends up getting, every bit of it has been used wisely.

  • This is a story, an incredible story, of hard work, perseverance.

  • [00:47:00] He once said, "If you're going to ask somebody to do 10 push-ups, you better

  • do 50."

  • And that, I think, really sums up what he's learned, the incredible way that he's drawn

  • from his family, the lessons that he's learned, from hardship.

  • Seeing his mother in failure, only thinking about moving forward and reinventing herself,

  • and whether people were judging her or judging him, her encouragement was always to never

  • let anybody else define you and what you're capable of, and a story that we didn't even

  • get to.

  • When he goes back, he used to be a bus boy, he meets another kid [00:47:30] who's busboying

  • and sees him being mistreated by other people.

  • He goes up to him, gives him a $100 tip, and tells the kid, "Don't ever let anybody else

  • define you and give you your worth.

  • That's something you have to define for yourself."

  • And that is something that goes through everything that he puts out, all the content that he

  • creates, whether it's the raps, which go listen to, they're amazing, especially if you grew

  • up when I grew up.

  • It is amazing to hear the lyrical prowess, to hear the things that he's talking about,

  • to hear somebody that was political long before many people, if [00:48:00] anybody, was being

  • political.

  • It's really, really fascinating.

  • Hard work gets you an outcome.

  • This man's life is absolutely proof of that, and just to see how far he's gone, from rapping

  • about the reservation all the way to lobbying on Capitol Hill.

  • It is an absolutely breathtaking journey that I think you guys will learn a lot.

  • So, if you haven't already, be sure to subscribe.

  • And until next time, my friends, be legendary.

  • Take care.

  • Thank you so much.

  • Gary: Thank you.

  • Tom: That was really impressive.

  • Gary: Thank you.

  • Tom: That was impressive.

  • Gary: Thank you.

  • Tom: Thank [00:48:30] you guys so much for watching, and if you haven't already, be sure

  • to subscribe.

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  • All of that stuff helps us get even more amazing guests on the show and helps us continue to

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  • So thank you guys so much for being a part of the Impact Theory community.

Gary: Not everybody's work ethic is the same.

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