Name: 學會20+單詞，用英語談論個性與性格。 (Learn 20+ words to talk about personality & character in English)
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It's a beautiful day in the neighbourhood.

I'm going to teach you something today that's I think kind of interesting, and I would like

to know your opinion; if you agree or disagree with this theory.

There's been many studies done on what we call "birth order".

So, "birth order" means if you were born first, second, or third.

We also call it, like, the middle-baby syndrome.

But if you're... if you're the middle kid, you have disadvantages; there's TV shows about

There's been so many things, so much research done about this, and I'm just going to share

this with you, and you can learn some vocabulary, and you can learn something about yourself,

and if you are a parent you can maybe learn something about your children.

And the first thing I want to teach you is few slang words in regard to parenting.

So, one of them is called a "mama's boy".

"Mama's boy" is a boy who always depends on their mother.

So, a mama's boy will never really become fully independent.

His mother will always do his laundry; cook his dinner, and lunch, and breakfast; and

So, you don't actually want to produce a mama's boy and you don't actually want to be a mama's

boy because, in the future, it will cause problems in relationships because no one can

ever replace your mother and... oh, so the trauma begins.

So, "mama's boy" are boys who depend too much on their mothers.

Okay, the other one is a new sensation called "helicopter parenting".

So, in our society, because it has become more dangerous, parents now have to actually

When I was a child, I got to go to school by myself-yay-and cross the road, and I survived.

But, again, our society is getting more dangerous, depending on where you live.

Now parents must walk the kids to school and pick them up.

So, this obviously would interfere with having a job and properly maybe a life.

So, "helicopter parenting" means that the parents watch the children too much.

Before it was called being "overprotective".

So, if you have an overprotective mother or father, they're always watching what you're

doing, they're always worried, and it's really annoying because you want your freedom.

So, helicopter parenting is just being overprotective about your children.

Of course, it's your natural instinct to protect your children, but sometimes it gets too much.

Another example of this is for children's birthday parties.

When I was a child, I would go to my friend's birthday party by myself, maybe my mother

and father would drop me off, and I would play for a couple of hours, eat some cake,

Now the parents actually go to the kids' birthday parties.

You're protecting your stomach from the cake.

So, this is parent... helicopter parenting.

So, let's start with the "first born"; your very first baby.

So, you are really excited for the very first baby but you are also very, very, very nervous

So, as a parent, the first baby you don't know what to do, of course; you've never done

So, you have very strict rules and everything is crazy.

So, what the effect of this is: The first born are always going to have the most strict

The baby grows up, then-doo-doo-doo-doo-surprise - you have another child.

So, what happens is with the birth of the second child, the first born is going to learn

The child is going to learn to nurture and love-hopefully-his or her baby brother or

So, they are taught to teach the child, and they are taught to love them.

So, you see little boys and little girls are very excited for their little baby brothers

Till they be born, they ask their Mom or Dad: "Mom, I want a baby brother for Christmas."

They also are very eager or they want to please others.

They want to please their mother and father; they want their parents to be happy, so this

When the new baby is born, they understand other people's needs, so they think: "Oh,

There's another person, and oh... oh, hey.

This little guy wants to use my toys, too.

So they learn to be more adaptive; they learn to share things, they learn to take care of

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