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  • Striking up conversation can often be an awkward, complicated moment.

    搭訕往往是一個尷尬、複雜的時刻。

  • So I want to look at the 4 Fs that will help you jump into your next conversation with a lot of confidence.

    是以,我想看看4個F,這將幫助你充滿信心地跳進你的下一次談話。

  • I'm Alex Lyon and I'm here to provide communication tips to help you increase your impact and lead your teams with more excellence.

    我是亞歷克斯-里昂,我在這裡提供溝通技巧,幫助你提高影響力,帶領你的團隊更加出色。

  • We're going to talk about how to have conversations. It's pretty difficult.

    我們要談的是如何進行對話。這是相當困難的。

  • A lot of times we feel awkward. But the four Fs will help you enter conversations with a lot more confidence than usual.

    很多時候我們都會覺得很尷尬。但這四個F會幫助你比平時更自信地進入對話。

  • Yes, you can talk about the weather. Check Yes, you can ask them about their job.

    是的,你可以談論天氣。可以。 是的,你可以問他們的工作。

  • Check. But these 4 Fs are something else that you can bring into those conversations.

    可以。但這4個F是你可以帶入這些對話的話題。

  • So let's jump right in. The first F is family.

    所以,讓我們直接跳進去。第一個F是家庭。

  • Ask them about their family.

    詢問他們的家庭情況。

  • Most adults that are already working have a family or maybe they're about to have a family.

    大多數已經工作的成年人都有一個家庭,或者他們即將有一個家庭。

  • Now this can be a sensitive topic but if you see a wedding ring, if they are already talking about their family, ask a follow-up.

    現在,這可能是一個敏感的話題,但如果你看到婚戒,如果他們已經在談論他們的家庭,問一個後續。

  • You'll often see people light up about that topic.

    你會經常看到人們對這個話題亮出。

  • Sometimes it's sensitive, though, and so you might go a little more round about way to get at the topic.

    不過有時候很敏感,所以你可能會用一種比較圓滑的方式來處理這個話題。

  • You could ask them where they're from, if they have a family in the area.

    你可以問他們從哪裡來,如果他們有家人在這個地區。

  • Something like that. And then you feel them out.

    類似的東西。然後你再把它們摸出來。

  • See if they're ready to go in that direction.

    看看他們是否準備好了往這個方向發展。

  • But a lot of times you will get people that are pretty excited.

    但很多時候,你會得到很興奮的人。

  • I'm a family man, personally, and I can't wait for people to ask me about it.

    我個人也是有家室的人,我迫不及待地想讓別人問我這個問題。

  • You can't shut me up and a lot of people are like that it's a really important topic to most people.

    你不能讓我閉嘴,很多人都是這樣,這對大多數人來說是一個非常重要的話題。

  • The second F is what to do for Fun. Hey what are you doing for fun?

    第二個F是什麼做的樂趣。嘿,你在做什麼好玩的事?

  • Do you have any hobbies? Do you like to play basketball? Sports?

    你有什麼愛好嗎?你喜歡打籃球嗎?喜歡運動嗎?

  • What do you do for relaxation, recreation? Just broach that topic.

    你是做什麼放鬆、娛樂的?只要提出這個話題。

  • If it's fun for them then they're going to want to talk about it.

    如果這對他們來說很有趣,那麼他們就會想要談論它。

  • It also opens up the possibility that you might have some over lapping areas of fun that you like to do.

    這也為你打開了可能性,你可能會有一些你喜歡做的過圈區域的樂趣。

  • I know many times in conversations they start talking about what they like and I didn't know you like that.

    我知道很多時候在談話中,他們開始談論他們喜歡的東西,我不知道你喜歡這樣。

  • I like that too. It's one of my favorite things to do.

    我也喜歡這樣這是我最喜歡做的事情之一。

  • I play play chess or I like to go camping.

    我下棋或者喜歡去露營。

  • That's one of those fun things so you see connections and then you get to know them in a deeper way than you did before.

    這就是那些有趣的事情之一,所以你看到了聯繫,然後你會以比以前更深的方式瞭解他們。

  • The third F is what fires them up.

    第三個F是讓他們火起來的。

  • Ask them about their passions. Ask them about the things that really get their heart thumping.

    問問他們的激情。問他們那些真正讓他們怦然心動的事情。

  • Usually, if you're asking about other things you'll see one of these things will pop out anyway.

    一般情況下,如果你問的是其他的事情,你會看到這些東西中無論如何都會有一個蹦出來。

  • If they're excited, follow up and ask them about that.

    如果他們很興奮,就追問他們。

  • You, sometimes you'll bring up the things that really fire you up and that will trigger them.

    你,有時候你會提起那些真正讓你火大的事情,會觸發它們。

  • However, you can get it there areas of passion, that's one of these things that can really open up a relationship and help you get to know people in a deeper way.

    然而,你可以在那裡得到它的激情領域,這是這些事情之一,可以真正打開一個關係,幫助你以更深的方式瞭解人們。

  • that's one of these things that can really open up a relationship and help you get to know people in a deeper way.

    這就是這些事情之一,可以真正打開一個關係,並幫助你得到更深的方式瞭解的人。

  • And the fourth F is Future plans.

    而第四個F是未來計劃。

  • Ask them about the coming weekend. Ask them about their coming vacation or what they might be doing this summer

    問他們關於即將到來的週末。問他們即將到來的假期,或者這個夏天他們可能會做什麼。

  • We'll get really excited about the future.

    我們會對未來感到非常興奮。

  • I don't know about you but I take a vacation that lasts a week but I'm excited for three months building up to that vacation.

    我不知道你的情況,但我的假期只持續了一週,但我卻興奮了三個月,為這個假期做準備。

  • And so asking about future plans, even life plans sometimes, can really lead to great opening in that conversation and build that connection even stronger.

    所以詢問未來的計劃,甚至有時是人生的計劃,真的可以在這種對話中獲得很好的開端,並建立起更強的聯繫。

  • So Communication Coach is here, this channel, is here to help people like you I call you rising leaders.

    所以溝通教練在這裡,這個頻道,就是為了幫助像你們這樣的人,我叫你們新晉領袖。

  • You're tuning hopefully to increase your communication skills and lead your teams with more excellence.

    你調希望提高自己的溝通能力,帶領團隊更加優秀。

  • And tip like this, today's tip about the 4 Fs is one way for you to connect with people more and to help build those relationships.

    而像這樣的提示,今天關於4 Fs的提示,就是讓你與人多聯繫,幫助建立這些關係的一種方式。

  • And that's a really key part to being a good leader.

    而這也是成為一個好上司的真正關鍵部分。

  • So if you're interested in ongoing content in this area and you haven't yet done so, I encourage you to subscribe, post a comment below about how you like to enter conversations and the topics that you enjoy talking about.

    是以,如果你對這方面的持續內容感興趣,而你還沒有這樣做,我鼓勵你訂閱,在下面發表評論,談談你喜歡如何進入對話,以及你喜歡談論的話題。

  • Answer somebody else's question or perhaps ask me one.

    回答別人的問題,或者問我一個問題。

  • I'm pretty good at responding to almost every single thing that people post.

    我很擅長回覆幾乎每一個人發的東西。

  • So thanks for tuning in. God bless.

    所以謝謝你的收聽。上帝保佑。

  • And I hope you get to use one of these four Fs in your very next conversation.

    我希望你在下一次談話中能用到這四個F中的一個。

Striking up conversation can often be an awkward, complicated moment.

搭訕往往是一個尷尬、複雜的時刻。

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