Name: 如何有效地溝通並獲得成果! (How to communicate effectively & GET RESULTS!)
Uploaded: 2021-01-14T08:15:10.000Z
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Are you a mother or a father, or a teacher
or someone?

I want to tell you something that's really,
really cool and amazing.

The way that we speak to students or the way
that you speak to children or even other people,

if you're a boss or you are a manager of someone
or of a company - it's very, very important

the way that you speak to people because if
you are very direct with people, they will

not respond to you, and they will close down,
they will lose their confidence, and they

And in a classroom, there is certain language
that you can use to help students motivate them...

To help motivate students, and there's also
certain language that you can use with children

or with employees to help motivate them
 or encourage them.

So, what I'm going to teach you today is English
phrases that you probably use, and maybe they're

not getting the results that you need in your
place of work, at home with children, or in

And the reason why is it's because how people
react to what you say.

If someone throws you negative energy, you're
not going to respond very well to them.

For example, if you're upset and someone says:
-"Just relax.

The worst thing you can do is tell someone
to relax, because it makes it worse.

So, I'm going to go through some harsh phrases
and how to make them softer to encourage people

So, as a teacher, I know that sometimes students
do not understand something.

Now, I know because of their faces; they have
a blank stare, or they look around, or they

You don't want to ask the teacher a question.

Maybe you will look stupid if you ask the
teacher a question.

So, teachers, instead of saying: "Do you have
any questions?" and waiting in silence, it

would be better to say: "I'm here to help.

It's the same thing if you are in a job, or
you are the manager of someone, or you are

Instead of saying: "Do you have any questions?"
you can be nice and say: "I'm here to help

"Approachable" means easier to talk to, because
you need to make sure that the people respect

you, and then you can have a good relationship,
whether it be in the classroom, at a job,

So, obviously there is a problem; maybe with
instructions, or language, or communication.

Instead of asking the person: "Why don't you
understand?" because they don't know why they

understand, you could say something like:
"Oh, hey.

Or: "Let me tell you again how to do it."

Again, you're taking the person and
 making them help you.

You don't want the person to feel stupid or
feel not good about themselves; you want to

encourage people in a classroom, you want
to encourage your children to learn.

As soon as you stop doing that, people shut
off; they don't want to learn from you, they

don't want to take guidance from you, especially
in a job.

You're supposed to be a leader if you're a
manager.

And if you don't do that properly, no one's
going to follow you.

Your team, it's not going to work too well.

I understand, as a parent, children are loud,
or in a classroom the classroom gets crazy;

You want to just scream: "Shut up!" or "Be
quiet!"

But if that doesn't work, another method you
could say is, especially to children: "Please

So, maybe your kids are running around the
house, screaming and yelling, or they're just

It's good to show excitement, but it's better
to say to them: "Please talk in a quieter

You don't have to stop talking, but just keep
the level down."

There's something I think from The Simpsons,
and they had a thing: "Inside voice and outside voice."

So, when you go outside, you have to speak
louder because there's more interference;

when you're inside, your voice should be quieter.

So, some people say: "Use your inside voice",
which means be a little quieter.

Do you know people that use their outside
voice all the time?

Don't yell at the phone; your Mom can hear
you.

This is a problem with children, with other
people who aren't children (adults) - a lot

But you don't want your child to go to school
and tell someone off or use bad words to children

So, you can say to your child: "Hey, hey,
hey.

Let's... let's please speak with respect to
other people.

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